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I thought this was a very well written book, and well researched. My sister is transgender, and I admit, I really hoped to get more out of this book than I did. Unfortunately, it was not the book for me, and it was not exactly what I expected. That said, I think it is an important topic, and it was sensitively approached.

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Interesting, informative read. It describes well the struggles both kids and parents must face in todays world.
I did enjoy it in a way and found it useful.

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A completely fascinating and important piece of work. Travers handles the topic exceptionally. Will be telling everyone to read.

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Knowing nothing about "the Trans generation" and what it might be like growing up different in the current times, I wanted to read this to understand more and it certainly delivered. The book is educational and at times haunting, but I wouldn't say it is an "easy read". The stories are at times heart breaking and the book definitely makes you think about the fight these young people have to be accepted as how they choose/need to live. The fact that some identify as "other" from a very young age indeed, makes you think about how we gender our children - the whole pink/blue thing.

Given how important school is in setting up a child to earn a good living, it is a difficult time to be fighting for your identity. The bullying and appalling behaviour by adults and children in these stories will make you angry. And I think that is a good thing - maybe if more people tried to understand why these young people need to be helped and protected (however that is manifest) the world would be more sympathetic. I can't pretend to be enlightened after reading one book, but it has given me plenty to think about in the future when I see stories of trans people in the media.

I was given a free copy of this book by Netgalley in return for an honest review.

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This is without a doubt the biggest load of horse shit I've ever read, and this includes the entire trans movement because that's exactly what it is: a passing fancy for parents not to raise their kids properly and to bitch about society in general. I mean, girls who wholeheartedly believe they should be in male bodies? Bull. What if I were to punch a girl who wants to be a boy? I'd be put to the stake in this fickle and fragile world where you practically need to restrain yourself from thinking too loud in fear of offending some poofer because he, she, or it believes free speech excludes them at being present to hear an argument and to automatically take up an issue with it. Bisexuality and gay I can understand, but all this nonsense about gender designation etc.?

I rate it one star because someone had to design the cover for this book if they still wanted to keep their job.

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This book expertly navigates the trans conversation through a lens that we don't see often- the eyes of children and adolescents who identify as trans, nonbinary, or have gone through a gender transition. I live in Western Pennsylvania so most of the time this conversation is shut down a reference to religion or children not being old enough to think for themselves. This book was a refreshing change of pace.

The children and parents interviewed for the book have different opinions and perspectives. Some of the children had loving, supportive family members during their transitions, while others faced intense humiliation and shame.

Each person has had a unique journey and there are not a lot of neat, black and white answers to the questions society is asking. Should we have gendered bathrooms or non-gendered? Can someone identify as trans and nonbinary? How should schools respond to children and adolescents who are going through a transition?

Ann does a phenomenal job covering many different issues that children and teens who are trans deal with. Highly recommend this book if you are interested in doing more research on this topic.

I received a copy of "The Trans Generation" from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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I got an ARC of this book.

I expected this to be more lighthearted, feel good, memoir-ish. Instead it was very much a sociological and feminist view of transitioning for people under 18. It was academic and at times inaccessible for a great deal of the people that would want to read this book. I had difficulties focusing as it went so far beyond the kids into theory land that the kids felt more like props than real people. This felt especially true when it was mentioned that a kid may or may not be alive anymore, but Travers went on to say that the child may have just changed their email address despite the sentences before explaining in graphic detail the history of cutting and how deep the last cut was. This feeling of disassociation from the children and parents only continued from that point. Considering two thirds of the description is about the children, I would expect at least a third of this book to be about them. Instead I felt like the children really didn't have a voice, only select quotes were used and at times it was difficult to tell that someone besides Travers was speaking (which may have been just a formatting issue with my copy of the book). 

I started my social transition young. I started T at 15. I am binary. I should have been able to connect with the kids. I have been through so many of the same experiences from sexual assault to dropping out of high school because of bullying. I had parents that ranged in their support and I had a step-parent that seemed to be from hell that came around with time. This book sound have been able to be something I could sink my teeth into, my issue is this was not about the kids or even really the parents. It was about one person trying to make sense of the nonsense that these families face using inaccessible gender theories. I recognized so many of the citations because they are theorists that I used in my thesis in college where I was studying gender theories. Someone without that background may find very little help in this book. I read multiple sections out loud to my grandmother, also an avid reader but with only an elementary school education, she accused me of making up words to justify not focusing on the book. My grandmother has been one of my biggest allies in my transition down to being at my bedside after surgery (though she did deny me that cheeseburger I wanted after top surgery. I did get my revenge on her years later by denying her a cheeseburger after a surgery!).

If you are looking for a VERY academic look at social and medical transitions that borders on saying that binaries are bad, then this is perfect. Travers never does cross the line to erase binaries and in the conclusion is able to pull everything back with a single line about making sure that people who are binary are not lost in all the efforts to create something better than what currently is. Her being able to push for better while still allowing for binary is impressive and very rare. Many theorists, especially those who understand gender-queer identities, go as far to say that we need to get rid of the binary which is something that would be disastrous for people that are binary like many to most cis people and a great deal of trans people too. I am all for all genders being respected and given space. I will be one of the first ones fighting for a trans kid no matter if they are binary or not. The issue I always find is there are two groups the binary trans people who judge people for not being "trans enough" (i.e. being binary enough or passing in the "correct" way) or the gender queer people who judge others for not being "trans enough" (i.e. being binary at all or passing "too much"). Travers was able to be that middle ground in a way that call for all people to have support no matter their gender or how well they passed. 

Travers did do something that is not often done. Parents and children were both given a voice. It gave a unique perspective to the needs and desires of both. It isn't often that the parents and the kids speak together. It allowed a deeper look into the relationships and what really is needed for trans kids beyond what they know they need. However this was stunted by the disassociation with the kids and the often inaccessible language. Many parents who could benefit for this book will find themselves even more lost than they were before. Speaking of just the mothers in this book, there would have been many that wouldn't have been able to gain much from it. 

So while I did enjoy the point that this book made and the many comparisons of the US and Canada, it is not a book I would blanket recommend to people. I would save this for my friends and colleagues that enjoyed books with, as my grandmother would say, "made up words" in it. This is not a casual book to read before bed. This is a book you will want a notebook for. One that will lead you down a path of academic research further into the gender world. It is not by far a bad book, but it is one that requires a higher read level than is accessible for most of the people who need to be able to access it. To follow suite with how this book was written, here are some quotes to sum up my main issue:
“If I do not speak in a language that can be understood there is little chance for a dialogue.” 
― bell hooks

“There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.” 
― bell hooks, Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center

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I received a free review copy of this book from Netgalley.
Librarian: I won't be recommending this for my library to purchase. It's just too technical. However, I will be recommending it as a resource for other people in my field who want to learn about this issue.
Reader: Interesting, though as I said it's highly technical. I mean obviously, it's an academic title, so if you're interested in this issue from that perspective, then this is a good title. If you're interested in a more personable approach, this may not be the book for you. There are other books that are better for casual reading, but if you want one that's more research heavy, than this is a good choice.

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The Trans Generation is an excellent resource for anyone looking to educated themselves about the trans community. It is written by a trans person, with a lot of research done, interviewing many people and families. It provides clear examples of the obstacles faced by trans people, especially children. It is not meant to be a fun or easy read, but rather informational.

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As a parent of a trans young adult who is just beginning to face the hurdles that life in America as a trans person currently means, this book was so important for me to read. While I considered our family to be supportive and loving, I realized there is so much more we can do. My child has continually told me how lucky she is to be the white child of a middle class family, especially one with good health care coverage, and after reading this book, my heart breaks for those children who come out amidst fighting cultural and economic battles as well. The book is a challenge to read, often so full of data that it feels more like a textbook than a book. But, the effort is worth it to help support our children and being armed with facts and information is essential to changing the discriminatory paradigms in the US right now. I do wish that the narratives of real individuals had been “more”—longer, more detailed and more of them. These personal stories will be how we connect, support and hopefully make change in our society. Reading this book is important!

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Thorough, thoughtful, accessible, and compassionate book about trans youth. This is highly readable and highly relevant.

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This was a pretty strong read for someone who wants to develop a better understanding of the complexities of the trans community. It's a very intersectional look at issues of gender and race, while it also looks at the struggles that trans youth face. My only complaint with this book was that it often felt disorganized. In the beginning half of the book, for example, it switched from the struggles of trans teens and their own words to a more critical look at race with no transition. I imagine that would be hard for a lot of readers because it was so jarring; the tone shifted almost immediately and that's very unexpected within one text.

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The Trans Generation is one of those books that I found fascinating, but hard to read - which is a shame, because there is some great information in it, along with some valuable insights and wonderful observations.

Early reviewers called it passionate, smart, sensitive, compassionate, pragmatic, heartfelt, and honest, none of which I can disagree with. It is the "pleasure to read" accolades where I struggle. In choosing such a clinical style, presenting so much in what reads like case notes from a counseling session, Ann Travers makes it hard to connect with these kids and really identify with them. Their stories generate sympathy, and trigger some very dark emotions (and, in my case, memories), but at a distance. I struggled through it because those journeys are important to me, but I am not so sure the casual reader would stick with it.

What I found most fascinating about it was the dual focus on the lives and experiences of the children, and the barriers they face in society. Ann comes down hard on a largely broken system that does not know how to support these kids, and which often has no interest in doing so. We are exposed to a culture of racism and sexism, of homophobia and transphobia, that put these kids at a disadvantage from day one. All of that is important because, as the book argues, trans kids do not exist in a vacuum, and neither do their struggles. One issue feeds another, compounds another, and leads back into a cycle of barriers - which are dress-codes and bathrooms as often as they are rules and legislation.

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This is an important and very insightful book about trans children, their parents and the struggles they have to face. The kids and teenagers from various backgrounds and who choose various labels for themselves show the diversity of their generation and share their experiences.
I feel like I learned a lot about this topic and it was very interesting to read about the parents' struggles and how they try to adapt or help their children.
It was quite upsetting sometimes (which isn't really unexpected but still hard) and I sometimes found the language a bit too complicated so it was a bit of a slow read but that's probably just because I'm not reading Nonfiction very often.

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There are times when I want to read a title purely because I know little about the subject it talks about. This is one of those times. I am interested in learning about the LGBTQIA+ identity in general, and felt that June was the perfect time to educate myself further, as it is LGBT Pride Month.

"The Trans Generation" highlights the obstacles that Trans youth have to overcome in life and the prejudice they face from the rest of the population. It is incredibly shocking and saddening the amount they face at such a young age, with problems such as a parent supporting you, school bathrooms, and the like. It is a shame that the progress that was made has been rolled back under the Trump government. To have made such progress just to have it snatched away is heartbreaking.

This book identifies that we still have a long way to go until the Trans youth feel they can be themselves without fear. I truly hope we can move forward in a timely manner, it is horrifying the bullying these young people are enduring just for being themselves. One last think to mention, I appreciated the effort made by Ann Travers to ensure that each individual remained anonymous, but that enough information was given so they could be analysed in terms of their other vulnerabilities.

Many thanks to NYU Press for an ARC. I was not required to post a review and all thoughts and opinions expressed are my own.

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I’ve picked this book because I feel that there is a fair share of LBG books but the ‘T’ – transgender is perhaps less known among people outside the LBGT community.

The Trans Generation is a very informative and educational book about challenges and hardship that transgender and gender-noncomforming children face. The writing style of the book is quite unusual and rather academic. The book consists mostly of excerpts from interviews conducted by the author with the transgender kids and their parents over a 5 year period. Some of the children are as young as 4 and so it is quite astonishing to see how strongly a 4 year old can feel about their gender self-determination. It is also quite sad to learn how some schools still have such a conservative and old-fashioned approach, refusing to recognise any gender preferences if they differ from the child’s birth certificate.

Before reading this book I did not quite appreciate the extend our society is predicated on a binary sex system with no room for deviations. It has only been in recent years that some progress has been done seen this area, such as bathrooms with gender neutral signs which are becoming increasingly popular. I believe that books like Travers’ The Trans Generation are contributing to making the life of trans kids better and slightly easier by promoting greater gender openness.

I personally have a very limited experience with transgender people and I found this book deeply insightful. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who would like to better understand trans people and their journey.

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An informative and thought provoking book about what life is really like for transgender/genderqueer children or teens and their families. The author interviewed approximately 20 children and/or their parents across the USA and Canada, and taking their first hand experiences as a basis discusses a variety of issues including schools, sports, safe spaces in public buildings, supportive healthcare and the importance of parental and familial support for these particularly vulnerable young people and also looks at what the future may bring, given the changing and less tolerant political climate, particularly in the USA.
Some of the first hand experiences recounted here are tragic and heart breaking, but there are also many moments of strength and positivity. Despite the use of these accounts, the writing style and tone of the book is quite academic, which is a shame, as I think it has a lot to offer in terms of educating the population as a whole. I did like the inclusion of a comprehensive list of resources at the end of the book, including books suitable for both children and teens, as well as their parents, teachers etc and also websites, films and other resources.

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4* A book that won't fail to touch hearts and minds.

I'm an LGBT ally and found this book immensely touching. There are sad parts to it, heartwarming parts, reality that differs so much from kid to kid, parent/carer to parent/carer, district to district, school to school, country to country and more.

It's a book that I'm glad I read, and that I think would be useful to have on hand at schools, whatever the country. I hope that the author catches up with these kids and their parents in years to come, and that I get to find out how their lives have fared. I had a lot of positivity and warmth by the end of this book, that outweighed the sadness at one loss of life, and it's made me see how much I've been fortunate enough to take for granted in my life.

ARC courtesy of NetGalley and NYU Press, for my reading pleasure.

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This is a very thorough book that does an excellent job of accounting for the diversity of trans youth's experiences, especially those who are members of other vulnerable populations. I only wish more quotations from the kids themselves were included!

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This is a very informative book which enlightens you about the transgender community. It provides detailed facts about the way a person who identifies with being transgendered may feel growing up and as adults. It has examples from many different people and offers encouragement for those who may be struggling with living with the wrongly assigned gender roles as assigned to them by the culture of our society. I would recommend this book to those who can keep an open mind and not be judgmental towards others who identify differently in society than they may.

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