Thank you to Netgalley and Penguin Group Publsihing for an ARC of this fantastic novel!

In this quirky, somewhat dark comedy (of sorts), Roper takes us along Andrew's journey from self-inflicted and deprecating introvert to a more open-hearted and carpe diem-version of himself through loss, the possibility of love and reflection. Having read "Eleanor Oliphant" and thoroughly enjoyed it, but also having fallen prey to other publicist's ploy of likening one novel to another best-seller, I can genuinely recommend this to fans of Eleanor Oliphant. The British humor, the somewhat-macabre lot in life of the MC, and the style of the novel seem to align (to me at least), but Roper's take remains refreshing and unique (if.not tied up a bit neatly for some readers' taste).

Having no major complaints, I would recommend this novel for fans of British fiction seeking a respite from the usual fare and those seeking an uplifting, if not interesting, perspective from an individual who likely dwells among us-- silent but mindful, careful yet daring of mind, and soulful.

4 of 5 stars! Well done Mr. Roper!

I really appreciated the dry and dark humor in this book. The author did a good job breathing life into this somewhat lonesome character and although the story was sometimes a tiny bit predictable it was quite enjoyable as Andrew evolved.

Interesting read of an introvert learning to come out of his shell and embrace life. I enjoyed the dark humor, though I do know that it is not for everyone. I received a copy from NetGalley and the publisher and this is my honest opinion.

This book reminded me of Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine with a little A Man Called Ove. Andrew, he main character, is in his early 40s, lives alone, has no friends, and loves his model trains and Ella Fitzgerald records. While he doesn’t hate his life, he isn’t honest about it with his coworkers. A new person comes into in his life and opens his heart to real human connection for the first time in years. This book is character-driven and I can’t imagine anyone not rooting for Andrew.

This is a fast, funny, but also poignant read for those that enjoyed Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine. Like Eleanor, Andrew is a little odd. His job concerns dealing with the aftermath of people who die alone, without families or friends. He has an estranged sister and his only real social network is a group of online train enthusiasts. A misunderstanding-turned-lie during his interview years ago has led Andrews co-workers to believe that Andrew is happily married with two beautiful children. When a new employee arrives and Andrew finds himself falling for her, he must navigate a way to set his life to rights. This novel is by turns quirky, endearing, but also heavy. The more we learn about Andrew and his past, the more sympathy we feel for him and his predicament. Although this didn't engage me as much as Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine, I am still happy to have gotten to know Andrew. I would recommend this to fans of Fredrik Backman, Maria Semple, and Elizabeth Berg.

If you are looking for an uplifting story, this isn’t it. It is a good story but sad on so many levels.

Andrew has a make believe family that was accidentally created during an interview for work for his current job. During those years, he has never corrected that mistaken impression/deduction.
Andrew works for the department of public health.. His job is to find next of kin and assets to pay for the recent dearly departed’s funeral.

Along comes a new hire that must shadow him. She is married. She befriends him and begins to pull him out of his self-imposed isolation. Co-workers can be friends despite being different genders.

In the end, Andrew does have hope that his life can change for what he feels is the better.

This book brought back overwhelming sadness. I have attended funerals as the Casualty Officer where no one but the funeral home and the military burial squad have attended. This book makes you think and that is not a bad thing.

I received an e-copy of the book via Netgalley and am not required to leave a positive review.

Happy Pub Day to How Not to Die Alone by Richard Roper and Happy Back from the Brink of Death Day to my basil plant!


I read this heartbreaking, sweet, and funny novel on Saturday and really liked it. Dark humor at its best...

As for my basil plant...we shall see!

How Not to Die Alone is a gem of a book. I will admit that the first 20% or so of the book was very slow for me. But once Peggy entered the story, it picked up and I flew through the book.

This is a multi-layered story that is revealed in different ways at different times throughout the book. I found Andrew relatable and likable. If you have not read much English authors, you might find the writing style a bit of a struggle but the story is worth it.

I will be watching to see if Roper writes more because I am a fan. This book will be one of my favorites of 2019.

This book reminds me a lot of A Man Called Ove, my unabashed favorite book on 2018. How Not to Die Alone has a slow start as the reader is introduced to the main character and his backstory but he grows on you quickly, fast becoming an unforgettable main character. The story is unique and one I think most people can relate to- what if you had the life you'd always dreamed of instead of the one you actually have? I really loved seeing the book progress to its climax and conclusion. While it was not a gripping page turner, it was a book that will stay with me for a very long time, teaching me and reminding me of the importance of actually living each day. I predict this quietly beautiful novel is going to be at the top of a lot of lists this year.

As far as content cautions, the book deals heavily with death, depression, and the nature of truth. There is also some conversational coarse language consistent with the culture it's set in but that does not detract from the story.

I received an advance copy of this book from Penguin Books and Netgalley however all opinions are my own.

The blinds on Andrew's cloistered, weird life are thrown wide open when his new co-worker, Peggy, is assigned to shadow him. In between learning of Andrew's odd, small life, his dysfunctional upbringing, and his sibling relationship, details of the lonely deaths he is assigned to investigate are smattered through the story.  Andrew is thoughtful of and, at times, compassionate toward his cases whose passing is unnoticed by humankind, but it isn't until Peggy enters and his sister, Sally, leaves his life that he begins to worry about dying alone.

Richard Roper addresses family relationships, loneliness and love in his debut novel, How Not to Die Alone. I am not sure I got what I expected when I chose to read this novel, but I did get a good book. It is the sort of book that slowly stirs one’s emotions. Interestingly the story is told in a third-person narrative, and surprisingly, it fit well with the story layout. Mr. Roper's descriptive writing is lovely and evocative.

The book is likened to Eleanor Oliphant is Perfectly Fine, and in terms of the plot premise, it is a little too similar to the previously published book. However, aside from the premise, How Not to Die Alone—from past tragedies to resolution—are unique and original. I did find How Not to Die Alone has less quirk than 'Eleanor', but it is more poignant. It has its moments of humor sprinkled through the rather sad story. Between Andrew’s lonely existence and his sad job (investigating homes of he dead for signs of living relatives/friends), How Not to Die Alone is a comedy noir.

“There was nobody for him to share the story with. No one to help him laugh his way through it. Loneliness, however, was ever vigilant, always there to slow-clap his every stumble.”

Andrew’s odd story is slowly revealed, and the disturbing findings on the job, his bizarre co-workers, and his delightful new apprentice add some interesting spice to it. The stiff, quarterly phone calls from his sister create a bit of dread in terms of Andrew’s mental health or what might have happened in their collective past. The tension mounts as Andrew’s obsession with his hobby and his aversion to the song Blue Moon is revisited again and again.

There is a moment of transgression that some might call marital cheating, but it is more a response to a highly emotional moment and an acknowledgement that Peggy and Andrew are unhappy with their {respective} status quo. That relatively chaste transgression is a fulcrum in both their lives.

I loved Andrew’s thoughtfulness when it came to his job. It showed him to be a sensitive soul, and it really made him a likable character. Peggy is a breath of fresh air; she has no end of personal issues, but she cheerily approaches work with aplomb. The secondary characters are a motely crew; between Cameron the bizarre, uninspiring department leader and Meredith and Keith the slacker co-workers, Andrew and Peggy could be in the sitcom—The Office. In his youth, Andrew’s sister, Sally bullied him, and in her absence, her husband, Gabe, continues the effort to make Andrew miserable. Beyond these secondary characters, each death Peggy and/or Andrew investigate presents a dismal tertiary character who becomes another lesson in dying alone. While Peggy’s family serves to remind Andrew of what he is missing in life.

How Not to Die Alone is definitely a rally cry for getting offline and connecting with people, for forgiving family members’ imperfections, and for creating a reason to hope.

Thank you to NetGalley for the advance copy in exchange for my honest opinion on this book.

This book is about a lonely, man, battling demons of his own while working in a job helping those who died alone. Andrew goes on quite the personal growth journey in this story which has a happy ending.

Andrew is a well developed character and one you want to have come out on top. The story is well developed and believable. A strong story about doing the right thing.

After a tiny white lie spirals into Andrew inventing a wife and two kids, he’s confronted with the choice of whether to reveal the truth and possibly finally have the relationship he’s been imagining all this time, or get rejected, fired, and still be alone.

This was such a quirky, funny story. I didn’t love the infidelity aspects... whether or not Andrews wife was real, both he and Peggy believed the other was married. I thought the train hobby and the forum buddies was really cute and loved the resolution at the end. The author really delved into the topic of loneliness and I appreciated how he brought that full circle at the conclusion.

Andrew works a thankless and sad job. His job is to find the family or friends of people who die alone. Then at the end of the day he goes home alone to his apartment. His coworkers think that at the end of the day he goes home to his own family, but that is a lie that has gotten way out of control. When a new employee named Peggy starts at the company, everything Andrew thought he knew about life and love changes.

This book started out a little slow for me, but by the middle I was loving it and by the end I was absolutely in love with it. When you think you know how the story is going to proceed, the author throws in a curveball. I just really, really loved this book. I could feel myself empathizing with Andrew and just wanted to root for everything to work out for him. I would definitely recommend this book!
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How Not to Die Alone- 3.75/5⭐️
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This book presented an amazing message. The main character, Andrew, is in charge of going to homes once someone has been found dead and the initial signs show that they didn’t have a next of kin. His job is to search the house for anything that would allow him to contact someone that might about cared about them and for any valuables that may allow them to help pay for the funeral.
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Andrew decides to attend the funerals so that they would at least have someone attend their funeral. While it might not be noticeable at first glance, Andrew is as lonely as the people he tries to help. If you were to ask his coworkers about him they’d say he was happily married with kids. This was not even close to the truth. Only when Andrew gets a new coworker does he begin to question what he wants in life.
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This book highlights what loneliness can do someone. It highlights just how powerful grief can be. This book talks about grief and depression in a way that can be relatable and shows that we never know just how the person next to you might be struggling. It feels weird rating this book but I did feel like it was super slow at the beginning. It wasn’t until I got to the half way point that I felt myself truly pulled in.
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Trigger warnings: Death and Depression
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Thank you to @Netgalley and @putnambooks for review copy. It will be available May 28.

**Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher, G.P. Putnam's Sons for an advance copy of this book in exchange for my unbiased feedback.**

This book was a little slow starting for me, but after about 50 or so pages, I got sucked right in.

Andrew's job is a little... different. He works for a government agency entering the homes of deceased people who lived and died alone. His job is to searches for any sign of next of kin or funds to pay for a funeral. A dark task (to say the least), but someone has to do it?

For the last 20 years, Andrew has also lived alone but, due to an unfortunate misunderstanding during his interview, all of his co-workers think he is married with two children. Once he meets Peggy, his new trainee, he starts to reflect (more than he would normally like) on the direction his life is headed and how he got to the particular place he is in.

This book is darkly funny and thoughtful without being heavy. Even though the subject matter is a bit heartbreaking, Roper does an excellent job providing hope and humor to even things out.

I absolutely loved this book.

4.5 Stars!!! This is an excellent, funny, sad, and thought-provoking work of uplit that examines themes of loneliness, grief and isolation. If you’re a fan of novels like “Eleanor Oliphant is Completet Fine,” then I definitely think this would be right up your alley. It’s also slightly reminiscent of self-discovery fiction from Nick Hornby and Mike Gayle from years and years ago with the misfit male hero trying to fit in and find their place in the world. I’m not sure what I expected going into this, but it definitely wasn’t something as laugh out loud humorous, touching and sentimental as this was.

The premise of this is painfully shy, socially awkward (in the most apologetically British of ways) Andrew accidentally lying about his background during a job interview to make a connection to his prospective boss. However, you can only keep a lie going for so long, especially if your job is one that constantly slaps you with life lessons on how not to die alone.

I loved this book and highly recommend it to fans of contemporary British fiction, It was slightly more sentimental than I expected and I could tell from the pacing and plot organization in parts that it was a debut because at times the timelines were a bit jumpy. But then again, this book was so well-executed that I think the parts that were not to my taste were intentional to produce some sort of jarring effect and they do succeed in that. I often found myself immersed in Andrew’s life and struggles on the one hand but yelling at him to do something on the other. Overall, it’s a really fantastic debut and it’s really well-written!

How Not to Die Alone really surprised me. The description caught my attention and the book lived up to the expectations it promised. But the surprising part was how much it made me think! Dealing with people who have died alone is a very complex situation. Thankfully Andrew was just the character for the job. His life had been pretty complex also. Peggy and her no nonsense attitude were just what Andrew needed. I fell in love with both Andrew and Peggy. This book was intense and serious but also beautiful and loving. A perfect combination.

Although I did enjoy this book it seem to flatline. Parts that should of made my heart race with anticipation kinda just cause a slight flutter. It was a very sweet and endearing book and made you think about what those who die alone feel like before it happens but it just didnt live up to my expectations of what I thought it could and should of been. The author was well written and the story was enjoyable just not my cup of tea.

Working for a council office in the U. K. can be a bit harrowing when the job entails investigating the deaths of those with no known relatives. (After doing some research, I am assuming that the council office in an area of England is a local government entity. I am not sure if it is like a county government in the U.S. but I am assuming that it a close comparison.) Andrew is that person who works for the Council office and does the investigations, no matter how how sad or gruesome the death scene may be. He is a man with hidden life experiences that he refuses to face. He leads a solitary life whose only entertainment comes from Ella Fitzgerald tunes and miniature train sets. His office has three quirky workers until the stabilizing new hire, Peggy, comes into the picture. Peggy becomes a friend and Andrew begins to change his life. This book has so many facets, emotions and nuances that make up the story. It was a different kind of story, but one that kept me hooked until the end. I give this well-written book four solid stars for being quirky, engaging and fulfilling until the end.

Thanks to Penguin Group Putnam for allowing me to read and review this book.

How Not to Die Alone has the perfect mix of dry wit and humor, alongside poignant reflection on how fragile life can be and the importance of keeping important relationships close. As the title suggests, much of this book centers on death, and drying alone. What could have been a very depressing story is kept in check through the writer's wit and character's dialogue, as well as the joy of watching the main character form new relationships.

I feel obligated to say that if you don't enjoy a bit of dark humor, you may not enjoy this book nearly as much as I did. I love a dry quip, and this book is full of them. There were also points when I was just not sure how the story was possibly going to be resolved, but in the end, Roper managed to tie up pretty much all of the loose ends.