This book is more about the characters and the journeys they are on (and how that reflects them getting together) than the actual romance to me. Unfortunately, it was the choice to focus on those aspects that did not work for me. The chemistry between the characters had not been properly built before adding in the additional layer of personal issues on each side, resulting in this books ultimate downfall. Additionally, Cassie's journey had a flavor of white savior to it at times (which could have been due to the nature of her story or the nature of her job to begin with). Overall, a cute cover and premise, but incorrectly marketed.

Chick lit isn't a genre I read often, but with everything else going on right now, I needed a little fluff. I was skeptical going in, because both Cassie and Jett grated on me in the first few chapters, but they definitely grew on me! Cassie especially.

The romance element was probably my list favourite aspect. I know that's probably a silly thing to gripe about in a romance novel, but it felt a bit too surface level and instalove for my liking. Cassie and Jett's individual stories dealt with some pretty serious and dark topics, and framing those topics within a cutesy "can they juggle their love too?" sort of story (especially when they've had all of two dates) fell flat for me.

With that said, I still had a lot of fun with this book! I thought the plot was really sweet and original, and even if I didn't *love* the romance, it did have some cute moments that I enjoyed. ⭐⭐⭐✨

I heard a lot of recommendations for this book, so I was grateful for a chance to read an early copy.

I wanted to enjoy this story. After all those glowing recommendations, I was excited to dig in. Unfortunately, at least with the ARC (advanced reader copy), there were several concerns. I felt I’d missed an earlier book in a (nonexistent) series because I was lost in the sea of people, from both the hero’s and the heroine’s POVs (points of view). I don’t mind a lot of characters, but we had both their first names and their last names, used independently in the same scene, so instead of say, seven characters, we had fourteen to track per POVC (point-of-view character).

I liked the heroine’s trick of speech in some of her fun phrases. I liked that she does a noble work, like the hero who is a firefighter. The author’s prose and descriptions, now and then, required highlighting. 😉 Unfortunately, there were also odd descriptions that didn’t fit. I liked that the hero has had a crush on the heroine since they were in high school together. That could have been a fun element, containing anticipation or adoration and then discovery when she figured it out.

The story doesn’t advance as the usual romance, which was unsatisfying. I don't need strict formula in the fiction I enjoy, but I like to find romantic moments that fit the romance's timing, don't feel contrived, and are earned. I found premature elements occurring too early. I also found several missed opportunities in terms of the romance’s advancement—elements I would recommend “milking” rather than grazing. I skimmed much rambling narrative and unfortunately gave up on this book at about 30 percent.

Readers who want something outside the usual may enjoy this story. I'd give it 2.5 stars. I wish the author and publisher all the best.

I received a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for my honest opinions.

The Dating Charade juxtaposes light humor and banter with the heavy issues of childhood neglect, abuse, and abandonment. I'm not sure it worked for me.

I liked both Cassie and Jett, and the humorous scenes of children's antics are really the best part of the book. Anyone who's spent some time responsible for the care and feeding of babies and young children will relate. No privacy, no boundaries, lots of mess.

Interesting premise, cute characters, great kid humor, tragedy, and a wee bit of romance. In the end though, for me at least, it just didn't click.

Although it's classified as Christian fiction/romance, I'd say it fits better in clean romance/fiction since there's no discernible faith theme (though characters attend church).

This is one of those books that wasn't necessarily bad, but I just didn't LOVE it like I thought I would.

The direction of the book went to one I wasn't expecting, and of course a lot of the issues could have been dealt with with communication,

I think it didn't help that at the beginning, I didn't connect with Cassie at all. I actually loved Jett and he's the reason I didn't rate this lower. It's not necessarily a bad book, I still enjoyed it, but there were some aspects that I just wasn't looking for in a book that was supposed to be (or I thought) light hearted and fun.

Cassie Everson is an expert at escaping bad first dates. And, after years of meeting, greeting, and running from the men who try to woo her, Cassie is almost ready to retire her hopes for a husband—and children—altogether. But fate has other plans, and Cassie’s online dating profile catches the eye of firefighter Jett Bentley. In Jett’s memory, Cassie Everson is the unreachable girl-of-legend from their high school days. Nervously, he messages her, setting off a chain of events that forces a reluctant Cassie back into the dating game.
This was a decent read. Both Cassie and Jett were very likable. However, the main story of the book shifts a bit once the children are introduced, which was ok. Just wasn’t really for me.
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The book started off wonderfully with the introduction of Cassie and her hunt for a boyfriend. Her online search with her friend's help was hilarious and I enjoyed reading about Cassie and Jett's attempts to get beyond a first date. However, the middle of the book dragged for me. Too much focus on the children in the story and it took away from the tension between Jett and Cassie. The end seemed rushed - I would have liked reading more about their relationship after they finally jumped through all the hurdles they faced. Maybe a sequel??

I did enjoy the overall story and would read another of Melissa's books.

A quick, fun read! The book cover itself is so mesmerizing to pick the read. Combination of chick lit and slow-burn romance overall an enjoyable one!

I could not get into this one at all! I couldn't connect with the characters and had no idea where the plot was even going. It just left me so confused and frustrated.

The Dating Charade is the debut novel by author Melissa Ferguson. From reading the synopsis, I expected a fun rom com book. Although there were aspects of a romantic comedy, there was so much more. I was totally pulling for main characters Cassie and Jett as they balance jobs, relationships, and some other curve balls thrown their way. I definitely felt like this story engaged me as the reader, tugged on my heartstrings, and had me rooting for the main characters. Her next novel, The Cul de Sac War releases in the fall and I can't wait!

I received a complimentary copy of this book from Net Galley. The opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.

This is a great fun read that is a must read. A sweet but jilted Cassie reunites with her past and it’s a great story of love, plans going not your way and life moving forward,

Cassie Everson works with at risk teens, yet remains single and wishing for her own family. A prior issue has left her unable to bear a child, so she posts in online dating as not interested in children. That seems to be the charade, because her heart is fully involved in the neglected home situation of Star and her two young siblings. Cassie finds herself as a foster parent to these three.
Fireman Jett Bentley has an addicted sister who drops her two preschoolers and one newborn in the lap of Jett. Although he’s not sure if he is up to parenting, he knows that his sister is not at all capable.
Cassie and Jett end up dating, but hiding these youth charges from one another. They have hushed phone calls with babysitters and end up ducking out on one another, repeatedly. Things come to a head when a long-lost relative comes into the picture.

A warm love story where children separate and unite. Cassie has just about given up on marriage. Then, she meets Jett, a fireman whose sister drops off her three children, twins age two and a six month old baby. There is an immediate spark between Cassie and Jett. Cassie takes responsibility for three girls who have been abandoned by their mother. These children are older. Jett likes little children and Cassie has a preference for older children. Is a compromise possible? Wonderful characters that will worm their way into your heart.

It was so refreshing to read a clean romance that had some depth to it. I loved the element of foster care and family throughout this book. I really connected with all the characters. I’m looking forward to more from this author.

This kind of book should be right up my alley, but sadly this one missed the mark a bit for me. I realized recently that the particular trope in this book really drives me nuts. I have borrowed the description of that trope from a friend, but that trope is “when two people perceive a situation differently and allow it to affect them without actually talking about it to clear it up”. That being said, I did find both of the main characters to be very likable and enjoyed parts of their individual narratives. But, in terms of their romance or love story, that’s where the things fell short for me as the book really revolved mostly around their individual lives more so than the story of their romance. I felt like I needed more of them together on dates and as a couple to watch them get to know each other and fall in love. That part was just kind of rushed and stilted for me. I think this one would work well for people who aren’t big into romance and/or are looking for romance low on the steam level as this one had none. 2.5 stars rounded up.

This was a cute fast read. Overall felt more like chick lit versus romance. The story really felt like it played up the backgrounds of Cassie and Jett more than their overall dating/romance, and I would have loved to see more chemistry overall.

Cassie and Jett find their way back to each other in this sweet contemporary romance novel. When life comes barreling in with unexpected ways, Cassie and Jett both (somewhat unrealistically) try to keep up a charade of being without any other commitments. What unfolds is the stuff of life and love.

Many thanks to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an unbiased review.

The premise of this story is really cute, but I don't think it was the type of contemporary romance that worked for me. I'm sure it will be perfect for lots of readers. I didn't enjoy the addition of sudden children, but I still think it was well written, cute, and a charming book.

A sweet, funny, and heartwarming story of two people who discover that no matter how hard we try to fix a situation on our own, it can only end in disaster... unless we give God the reins.
I really enjoyed the strong family-oriented theme of the book, as well as the beautiful threads of romance. In my opinion, though, it was the children who really took centre stage. They provided plenty of humour, as well as some adorable moments.

I'd recommend it to fans of Sweet Contemporary Romance, as well as anybody interested in books with an adoption theme.

(I received a complimentary copy of this book through Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are entirely my own.)

It kind of felt like this book had an identity crisis a couple chapters in. I was expecting a light and fluffy rom-com, (which it did start as, strangely enough) but what I got was a more serious story covering the wider scope of love, familial bonds and the foster care system with a dash of romance thrown in to lighten things up. I actually really enjoyed the book but the way that the cover and the blurb presents itself is misleading and so I think that a lot of people may find themselves disappointed when they grab this one, especially if like me they turn to lighter romances in between heavier reads to break things up.

With all that being said it was still a really enjoyable read and I found myself unable to put it down once I picked it up.