This was a refreshing look at 110 rules George Washington wrote for himself as a teenager about civility. The author updates those rules for the modern era while still presenting them in their original form as well. This allows for contemplation about what has changed since the reveloutionary period in terms of manners and decorum, and what has, or at least should, stay the same. With the recent hostility between groups and lack of manners among people in general, this book is relevant, and the impartial and apolitical stance it takes will help it reach a wide audience.

This is an interesting take from an account that was shared over 200 years ago, and still most of these rules apply today. For as long as we live on this earth, engage with people and things, there's got to be some common courtesy, being kind and civil and thoughtful of others...and we need it now more than ever.
Thanks Netgalley for the advanced electronic galley...very insightful read.

Civility is a interesting book. Some rules could not be applied today as the world has changed greatly. So one people have forgotten how to be civil or respectful.

People being rude seems to have gotten worse in recent years, but it is far from a new problem. The idea that self comes before others has been around for a long time, but it being accepted more and more as the norm. This shouldn’t be the case, and, as Steven Michael Selzer conveys in Civility, there are simple ways to combat it.

The book takes George Washington’s rules for being civil and updates them to match today’s problems. There are still some that will not apply today as they once did, but the underlying message of treating others with respect still applies. Showing each other respect would go a long way towards bettering relations with those around us.

I can see some people having a problem with a few of the rules, but that is mainly due to them thinking these are too strict. The book is definitely thought-provoking. There were a few that set me on edge at first, but then I realized that I was aggravated because I would have to set me aside.

Civility is easy to read and interesting, but not exactly what I had expected. Several times, the humor was wooden and seemed forced, like it was an afterthought. I know the book isn’t meant to be comedy, but it would have been better if the humor flowed better, or was left out. Even with that, I found plenty of things to think about.

I received a complimentary copy from the publisher through NetGalley. All opinions are my own.

** Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with the digital copy of this book in exchange for my honest review **

Después de 250 años, uno no pensaría que hay necesidad de volver a repasar estas "Reglas de civilidad y comportamiento decente en la compañía y la conversación.", pero lo son. No creo que este libro tenga una intención opresiva, sino mas bien un hacer ver a las personas, que es necesario mantener ciertos estándares de comportamiento, simplemente por respeto hacia los demás. Porque todos merecemos respeto, y todos tenemos que ser respetuosos. Esta muy bueno que vayan acompañados por una situación real, que haga posible ver lo "teórico" aplicado a una situación. En una época donde se demonizo a la presión social y esta se perdió, tal vez repasar este libro sea una forma mas amable, de que las personas retomen ciertos comportamientos respetuosos perdidos.

Ademas en mi caso, tiene un valor histórico el poder. estudiar de qué se tratan estas reglas, que abren una ventana al pensamiento de la época y al pensamiento del primer presidente estadounidense. Siendo alguien que disfruta la historia, y siendo extranjera, también le encontré valor e interés por ese lado.