Ruth handles this sensitive and crucial topic with skill and insight. The church has failed women in countless ways, harming both people made in his image and its witness throughout the world. This was an eye-opening must-read for all Christians

This book tackled some dark topics but was actually so refreshing to read in that it was not written from the perspective of shaming the abused individual. I'm finding it difficult to put into words how I feel after reading this book because while sexual abuse is not an easy topic to read about, Ruth Everhart really does a great job connecting prominent Bible figures to modern day issues we see happening in the church today. Her structuring of the book really helped a lot of things "click" for me while reading. I appreciated her insight and vulnerability sharing her story and I look forward to sharing this book with my own pastors and people I know in church leadership.

Thank you to NetGalley and InterVarsity Press for the opportunity to read a free e-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

"Throughout her book, Everhart extrapolates principles from her experiences, and from the way people in her life have responded rightly and wrongly to abuse. She writes about the ways victims are shamed when people question them about their abuse, as though it might be their fault or, quite simply, they’re crazy. And she combs through Scripture with theological acumen, questioning common interpretations of Biblical passages that we tend to refer to as stories of “infidelity” but should very likely be interpreted as rape."

More at https://collegevilleinstitute.org/bearings/the-church-in-complicity/.

#MeToo

This book hit all the soft, broken spots in my heart, not only for myself, but for the church in general. The church routinely ignores and belittles sexually assaulted men, women and children. The church needs to wake up and figure out that protecting the assaulter isn't ok, and protecting and believing the assaulted is what they need to be doing.

I love the hope, the peace and the validation Ruth gives to survivors in this book. I think it will bring healing, and hope to hearts that feel dry and desperate.

Ruth Everhart's book on sexual abuse and the church is an excellent, albeit difficult, read. She shares her personal experiences with abuse/assault, as well as other people's experiences with abuse within the context of the local church, in juxtaposition with stores from Scripture of abuse, assault, and sin. I was surprised about how common all this heartache is, not just in the present day, but also in the Bible.

If you read this book with your heart and not just your mind, it will change how you view the church and how you view Jesus's work and mission. All in a good way (in my opinion) but it will still be challenging. I read this book for a broader perspective on what Christians can do in an era of #MeToo. I encourage all Christians to read this book and to truly consider how we can better love those around us like Jesus did.

Everhart's writing was compelling, engaging, and very readable despite the challenging nature of this subject matter. I truly appreciated this book and the heart behind it.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this advanced reader's copy in exchange for an honest review.

It seems more MeToo stories are happening in churches more and more today. Author Ruth Everhart shares her heart and passion for helping those who have been hurt by the people in the church as well as her own traumatic story and how the Lord has used her to help others heal.
The MeToo Reckoning is a book that is needed today, not just for those who have been hurt by the church, but also for those want their eyes open to the injustice that is happening to people today.

I graciously received an advance e-copy for review. All opinions are my own.

As a survivor of sexual assault, this book was very difficult for me to read; however, the pain surrounding these issues is the very reason why it is so important to talk about them. Everhart’s writing is concise and theologically grounded. I was deeply drawn by her interpretation of scripture. I found her commentary of the story of David and Bathsheba to be particularly empowering. I plan to use her analysis to aid my preaching in the future.

Everhart takes an unflinching look at the way people, especially women and the most vulnerable, have suffered. She uses true stories and case studies to shed light on these issues.

The #MeToo Reckoning calls the church to accountability and offers hope for the future. At the end of each chapter, the author provides questions and ideas for how we as the church can move forward to offer hope and healing to the world. I highly recommend this book to all other clergy and to those who are interested in ministering to survivors.

Trigger Warning: Violence against women, violence against children, sexual assault

Note: I received a free copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

The #MeToo Reckoning
Facing the Church’s Complicity in Sexual Abuse and Misconduct

by Ruth Everhart

InterVarsity Press

IVP Books

Christian

Pub Date 14 Jan 2020

I am reviewing a copy of The #MeToo Reckoning through Intervarsity Press and Netgalley:

In this book we are reminded that victims of sexual assault are crying out for justice. And that their voices have been amplified by the #Metoo movement, which is passing through the culture like a freight train.

The phrase #Metoo as relating to the movement was coined in 2006 but it truly gained momentum in 2017 when allegations against prominent film producer Harvey Weinstein roared through the media prompting others to share their stories.

This book prompts the question where is the Church in all of this? And reminds us the #Metoo movement is not a women’s issue, but it is a human issue.

The author reminds us that it is important we not blame the victims of sexual assault, that they not, and that when someone is assaulted in the Church it needs to be taken seriously not swept under the rug.

We are reminded in this book that the concept of justice is a complex one.

I give The #Metoo Awakening five out of five stars.

We are a nation facing so many broken issues, this book hopefully can shed some light on ways to help fix one of them.

I was a little skeptical about reading this, as a victim like so many women I tend to stay away from these books because they either trigger me or trigger some depressive episode. This book actually did the opposite. I wanted to applaud the fact that she chose to take on such a subject and give some light on things such as "grooming"

Alot of people are not aware that there is such a thing as grooming done, that people choose their victims and fix it so they hurt them and then make them feel isolated.

I also liked at the end of the book there were resources to help those who have been abused.

This is a book that needs to be talked about for the resources provided alone, so people who are still afraid know that there are others fighting for them to be comfortable and safe to step out into the light.

This book needed to be written. I was triggered, not gonna lie...
What courage for the author to tackle such a sensitive topic, and shed light into the dark places.
In a time where the church and evangelical Christianity want to label the #MeToo movement as
a leftist sociopolitical stance, Ruth Everhart brings to the forefront of the conversation just how
complicit the church is in allowing our safest spaces to become a breeding ground for predators.
If this sounds like an indictment against the church, it's not. She loves the church, and she continues to
serve as a clergywoman. Her indictment is against predators, and against our habit as Christians to excuse and bury criminal behavior in our midst, under the guise of sloppy grace and with the motive of self-preservation. Ruth Everhart has taken up the mantle we should all take up as Christians - to care for those who have been victimized, and to protect the flock within the safest space we all love - our churches.

Ruth Everhart's The #MeToo Reckoning addresses the prevalence of sexual abuse in the church through a combination of her personal experience as a pastor and biblical analysis. As an active and faithful member of the church, she places the blame on corruption in the ranks, and challenges church goers to hold their clergy accountable for their actions.
This was a compelling read, and I think a very valuable account to share with the world. Because Ruth Everhart has been through so much and still holds her faith, she provides a valuable script or guide for Christians who've heard the rumors of abuse but have previously been unable to face them.

This was a book that I was not sure I wanted to read as I was a probation office, have read many works on spousal abuse, sexoffenders, and treatment options. I do no regret the day I decided to read it. Ruth uses narratives, biblical exegesis, and ends each chapter with: 1) the text asks us, and 2) My Hope.

Ruth structures the chapters such that she introduce a narrative followed by a Biblical passage fitting to the theme of the narraitive. Ruth' covering of different passages exigetical treasures helping us to gaze deeper into each text and movong us to take action in building churches that protect and stand alongside those who have been sexually abused.

This is an excellent book, with a very timely subject, that deserves to be read by members of the Church. I was moved in the reading of this book and believe it should be mandatory reading followed by discussion, and action by Church staff in a transparent way.