How Lulu Lost Her Mind is funny and sweet! You totally will fall in love with the dysfunctional dynamic between Lou Ann and her mom, Patty. Lulu is the "Love Guru" and Patty is suffering from Alzheimer's, living in an assisted facility. Soon Lou Ann is called and told her mom is being asked to leave for....inappropriate behavior. Now Lou Ann finds herself, Patty and Lindsay Patty's new nurse on their way to Sutton Hall. In Louisiana where Patty grew up, and now wants to visit before she dies. Lou Ann soon finds this adventure is going to be a lot more adventurous than she ever thought. Read How Lou Ann Lost Her Mind to see just what the adventure holds.

I received a free e-ARC of this book from Netgalley.

Would you put your current life on hold to move to the other side of the country with your mother who has dementia? Lulu gives in so quickly that we might think there was something she wanted to escape in her current locale, but really, she's just a daughter who always lost out to the many men in her mother's life and wants to recapture some of that lost time with her before it's too late. Then her mother asks her for a big favor that Lulu must consider. A quiet story about relationships and how complex they are below the surface.

A well written relationship novel by Rachel Gibson. I have enjoyed the previous books I have read by Gibson and this one was a bit of a departure from the typical romance. Overall, this was a good read. Thank you netgalley for this arc in exchange for my honest opinion.

A story of forgiveness, acceptance, and love between a daughter and her mother living with Alzheimer's disease. At times funny, but also realistic of what families experience.

Very good women's fiction title! I really enjoyed the mother/daughter storyline of Lulu and Patricia. Highly recommended author for fans of other writers such as Susan Mallery and Jodi Thomas!

How Lulu Lost her Mind was a good quick read that explored the cracked relationship between a mother and a daughter. Often times there were things that happened in the story the left me wanting more storyline. Over all it was a good read. I rec’d an ARC from the publisher and NetGalley and this is my honest review.

I have never read anything by this author prior to this book but I found it interesting since the topic hit home for me. It was a bitter sweet story since Lou Ann’s mother has Alzheimer’s And she has exhausted all her options on elder care. Forced to uproot her life and career as Lulu the love guru, she has to take her mother in and care for her. She hires a nurse and the three of the journey back to the family homestead in Louisiana. Her mom, Patricia, is a real character and there are many amusing stories to offset the devastating illness. Lou Ann tries to make the most of the time she has left. Some romantic elements are thrown but this is so much more than chick lit. Nicely done! #HowLuluLostHerMind #RachelCarson #NetGalley

Sometimes you have to laugh to keep from crying. I certainly know a bit about how Lou Ann Hunter feels because my own father had dementia, although thankfully, unlike Lou Ann's mother, Patricia, he didn't have a "passionate nature" to contend with. And, unlike the daughter in this book, I was not the primary caregiver.
Lou Ann is well-known across the country as Lulu the Love Guru because she has built an extremely good living giving relationship advice to women. She is about to set out on a tour, giving workshops, when she is notified by her mother's memory care facility that Patricia is no longer welcome there. Lou Ann tries to get a new place set up, but on short notice, that's not happening. Much to her dismay, for the first time ever, she has to cancel her schedule.
Over the next few weeks, Lou Ann realizes that whether she wants it or not, she is becoming a full-time caregiver. Patricia keeps saying she wants to "go home," which in this case is Sutton Hall, down South. So, Lou Ann makes it happen, not realizing just how much work the old house needs. Lou Ann turns most of her work over to her staff and tries to make every day special for her mother, along with some help from a live-in nurse and the local handyman.
Gibson's well-written book makes you want to chuckle at some of the things Patricia says and does, but deep down there is a sadness that anyone who has had a family member will feel.

Perfect for book clubs, women's literature lovers and those wanting a heart warming story! Great addition to general fiction collection.

Such a great read! How Lulu Lost Her Mind lived up all of my expectations (and then some)! This novel centers around Lou Ann who is now the guardian of her mother, Patricia, who has Alzheimer’s and has recently gotten kicked out of her third nursing home facility! Lou Ann is trying to manage her successful career all while uprooting her life to appease her mother’s wishes to move back to her childhood home —a falling apart plantation in Louisiana! Through laughter, tears, and shear determination Lou Ann and Patricia find their little village of people to help them get by!

I usually shy away from novels involving Alzheimer’s because I lost my grandmother to it almost 2 years ago, but my gut told me this was a must read for me! After reading the first chapter, I knew I was going to not only relate this book, but I knew I was going to love every page! How Lulu Lost Her Mind is a complete 5 star novel that I can’t recommend enough! I’ve been a huge fan of Rachel Gibson for years and I am already looking forward to her next novel!

Rachel Gibson is a gifted author, that being said I don't know what was going on here. Lou Ann is a self made woman, a love Guru. Her mother suffering from dementia married five times gets kicked out of a facility when she hops in bed with a comatose patient and brings him out of his coma....with an erection! So Lulu cancels her tour and takes her mother back to her childhood home a plantation where we meet Simon....I don't know what to say about this book other then, its been a while since Ms. Gibson came out with a new book like three years and this left me wanting more, more for Lulu and Simon. I am sorry, I thought this book would hit it out of the park! I looked up this book on the authors website and there is no mention of this book coming out.

I have read everything by Rachel Gibson so I was very excited to see that I could preview her new book (thank you Net galley and publishers).

This book definitely hit close to home as I just lost my grandmother two years ago to dementia and I noticed many things similar to this story line. I enjoyed the inner weaving of the three female protagonist stories and the plot really moved at a good speed. I do wish the relationship with Simon was a bit more developed although I did enjoy the ending. Overall I finished this book in a day and a half because I felt like I could connect with the characters. I will definitely recommend this book to friends especially those dealing with parents or grandparents with Alzheimer's. I give this book 4 out of 5 stars.

A sweet and funny story about a woman dealing with her mother's mental decline due to Alzheimer's. I found it touching and funny, though in parts a bit disjointed. Things I thought would be big reveals fell flat. But the interactions for the three lead women and the themes of helping an aging parent while preparing yourself as best you can to lose them was touchingly handled. Overall, a good read.

The setting: "Lou Ann Hunter’s mother, Patricia, has always had a passionate nature, which explains why she’s been married and divorced five times and spooned enough male patients to be ousted from three elderly care facilities. She also has Alzheimer’s, which is why she wants to spend her remaining months or years surrounded by memories at her family’s decrepit old plantation in Louisiana with her only daughter." [Much on family history and secrets in the crumbling mansion.]

And I'm wondering--is there a new niche for Instagram related books since the last book I read had a similar theme to this type of social networking. [Lou Ann is Lulu the Love Guru; a single 38-year old.]

The mother/daughter thing. Been there, done that.

Yes there were some laughs. And many poignant moments that resonated because I felt same with my mom.

BUT.

A big disconnect for me is always when I know the trajectory [here, male interest] from the start .

Sometimes entertaining. Often repetitive [an Alzheimer's angle? though I think not--necessarily]. And basically just tiresome and predictable.

I am in the very distinct minority on this one. Just do not feel the love.

Maybe 2,5 but cannot round up.

Wonderful book!! It hit very close to home with elderly parent and all the complications that brings. I was so sad when then book was finished. Interesting story, captivating characters. So glad I had the chance to read it early!!

This is the first book I read by Rachel Gibson. I think she is a fantastic author! She captured the love and frustration in caring for a parent in failing health.

I have been through a similar situation as in this book and I was my shaking head up and down in agreement so many times. She brought humor to a difficult topic. I think most daughters will identify with Lou Ann and want to be friends with her. I know I do.

I am from the area that the story takes place and so often movies and books get us wrong. Ms. Gibson gets it and created characters true to life. Some things were a bit embellished, but not by much.

I was drawn into the book immediately. The author created a world of people that I care about and my heart broke and soared for them. Parts of the story hit me so hard and definitely was glad to have tissues handy.

I absolutely recommend this book very highly! I wish I could give it more than 5 stars! I want to give a huge thank you to NetGalley.com and Gallery Books for giving me the pleasure of reading this touching story. My review is my own opinion not influenced by receiving the Advance Reader Copy.

I’ve known Ms. Gibson for her contemporary romances. That’s not my favorite genre, but I always liked her books. Now she’s written women’s fiction with some romantic elements, and I love this book and the direction her writing is going in.

Lou Ann’s mother has dementia, so Lou Ann puts her business as Lulu the Love Guru to be partially managed by her staff and guest bloggers so she can be there for her mother in what could be the last months or years of her life. Her mother, who flirts with all men regardless of their age, marital status, and whether they’re gay or straight, has been kicked out of her assisted living facility yet again. So Lou Ann finds a homecare nurse and fulfills her mother’s dream of returning to the estate where she grew up. Lou Ann is not remotely excited about moving to humid, bug- and alligator-infested Louisiana.

When she meets Simon, who has been taking care of the estate, it’s irritation at first sight. Fortunately, money is no object for Lou Ann, so she hires him to fix up the old home that is falling apart. Over time, his southern charm starts to melt her defenses, which have been powerful since she learned the man she was going to marry had cheated throughout their entire relationship.

This is a beautiful story of mothers and daughters and helping others and learning to ask for help yourself. Thanks so much to NetGalley for the opportunity to review this book, which RELEASES MAY 19, 2020.

Lulu has built a successful business doling out relationship advice as Lulu the Love Guru. When her mother Patricia is forced out of another nursing home due to her “passionate nature,” Lulu decides to put her business on hold to work on the most important relationship in her life...her relationship with her mother. This was a quick and enjoyable read. Patty was a great character and I enjoyed how Gibson portrayed her relationship with Lulu. I know Gibson as a romance writer and there was a love interest in the story, but that was only a small part of the book (Gibson wove the romance element into the story perfectly). An enjoyable, touching story.

How Lulu Lost Her Mind portrays an excellent in-depth picture of a daughter’s love for a mother with dementia. The main character remains dedicated to her mother. Why? Because she loves her! Far from perfect, her mother has had five husbands, worked many different jobs in several different locations, and has just been dismissed from a third assisted-living facility! Her daughter has finally found job security and feels in control of her life. Even so, she does everything in her power to make her mother’s last memories as happy and content as possible. Along with a young nurse companion, they return to the rarely visited family home where their lives follow reconstruction along with the century-old house. The hunky construction workers help with restoration of the home, providing love, laughter, and understanding of the complex situations. As one life moves toward its end, another life grows towards its beginning. The main character is in the middle. Her growth is perhaps the most poignant as she deals with the emotional highs and lows of living with a loved one with dementia, trying to maintain a prosperous job she created, uncovering old family secrets in an effort to keep her mother’s memories active, and exploring the multi-layered types of love. This novel gives varied avenues for discussions of the decisions, compromises, sacrifices, and choices different generations who recognize and demonstrate true love face as they value the happiness and needs of those loved.

After being mom's caregiver for the past 2 yrs she passed away 6 months ago. I almost quit reading this story of a woman leaving her life behind to do the same. Reliving the progression of dementia and shocking aftermath of a simple UTI wasn't something I wanted to do. I skipped some here and there and at about 65% became involved with the characters
They had a great caregiver which I didn't have but so much of the story became about love and understanding when it's difficult. Very true to life in the daughter's self doubt, sorry and hurt.
Thank you netgalley and the publisher for this arc