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Gina Dalfonzo’s book focuses on the underexplored friendship between Dorothy L. Sayers and C.S. Lewis. I’ve read a biography about the Inklings before, but this was the first time I’ve ready anything about Sayers. Although not a comprehensive biography of either author, this book gives a brief look at both authors’ lives and shows their interesting friendship. Dorothy and Jack is also in conversation with Aimee Byrd’s Why Can’t We Be Friends, as it critiques Christian culture that views friendship between men and women as dangerous. Dalfonzo uses this book to show the relationship between Sayers and Lewis as an example of healthy Christian friendship. This was a quick and enjoyable read, and it was great to learn more about the relationship between these two passionate and intellectual writers.
*Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with a copy in exchange for an honest review
I´ll be honest: I just took this book because I like C.S. Lewis and because the question about the friendship between Dorothy and Him... it was real, obviously, it was possible, but was it healthy? Have you ever had a real good friend who was just interested in you because of you, because of your mind, your thoughts and not because he had or wanted to develop deeper feelings for you (romantic ones to be specific?) There is a lot of different opinion about this topic and not everyone agrees in this issue. It was truly interesting to read about C.S. Lewis´s friendships, everything around books, words, ideas, and sharing dreams it is so interesting and inspiring to me. I love letters, I had a pen pal relationship with friends for years and the sensation of getting a tangible letter in my mailbox it is trilling and I get over-excited about it. I wish I could have a friend like that now (girl or boy it doesn´t matter, just one that loves God, His Word and wants to respect and know also my family, husband, and 2 children). I believe God created every one of us differently so we could learn from each other. Not every relationship is going to be as close as theirs, but I´m sure you are going to be very inspired and longing for closeness as you read this book. I won´t spoil you the book, but I just think Dorothy was way beyond her years and she was a free mind kind of rebel girl, I believe she shook Lewis world, and he gave her stability too, let me know what you think if you read it. I wish I could have a writting club like them... sights. I wish my children have deep relationships to grow, dream, learn, fly and leave a legacy.
Goodreads review
As some reviewers have said, this book was a bit slow to get going, perhaps I had this perception as the first part consisted of short bios of Lewis and Sayers. Although I must admit the parallels of their lives were pretty interesting, I have read several bios of each and knew most of the biographical information. Where this book really shines is in its explanation of what each gave to the other. I loved how each appreciated, admired and even emulated the other. Yet they were secure in who they were and in what they aspired to write. This friendship between a intelligent man and an equally intelligent woman was refreshing in this age of sexual suspicion. My only complaint is that I would have loved to have had even more of their letters to read.
I don't normally read biographies. Histories I find interesting, but am not drawn to the biographies of people, no matter how important. But I love the writings of both of these people and knew a little about the Inklings and wondered about the friendship between this married woman and bachelor.
This book talks a lot about their writings and about mutual friends. We learn what made Sayers and Lewis the people they became and how each one influenced the other in life and work. Amazingly, the friendship grew through correspondence and they actually had very little face to face time with each other.
I certainly learned things about their writings that I had not known in the past, but mainly I was drawn into the deep respect and friendship they had for one another. A true love of friends!
It is no spoiler that in the end they both died. But I felt such a profound sense of loss when Dorothy died! I could feel Jack's (Lewis) grief as I read. And shortly after Dorothy's death, his own wife of four years died. He died 3 years later. I was in tears at the loss of these two that I had never felt before.
It is possible for readers to idolize favorite authors. In this book we learn that they were people just like us - they had many things that influenced their lives. We begin to understand why they made choices that they made and how those things would show forth in their writings.
I can't recommend this book enough to people. If for no other reason than to show the world that it is possible for men and women to be true friends with one another no matter what the movie "When Harry Met Sally" might try to tell you!
Reading Dorothy and Jack made these two amazing writers come to life for me. 4.5 stars.
There are not many books about great friendships between a man and a woman. They are either shallow or end in romance. This book truly stand out and so do the lives of the two well-known and well-loved literary giants: C. S. Lewis and Dorothy L. Sayers.
I approached the book with a mix of excitement and hesitancy. But, I need not have worried. While I didn't love the beginning, I absolutely LOVED the ending. (I may have even shed a tear or two.)
I had just read Strong Poison, Gaudy Night, and Are Women Human? Astute and Witty Essays on the Role of Women in Society by D. L. Sayers - brilliant detective novels and a fantastic essay on feminism.
I am also currently reading The Horse and His Boy, An Experiment in Criticism, and Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis - a most wonderful fairy tale, a life-changing work of literary criticism, and a compelling apologetic work.
So, I knew some of their work but I didn't know them.
Reading Dorothy and Jack made these two amazing writers come to life for me. I have not read any other biographies about Lewis or Sayers yet, but this book showed a very personal side of them. I knew a little bit about their letters though. That is why I appreciate this biography all the more. Because Dalfonzo does a great job putting their letters and their friendship in a context and she does this in such a beautiful way that now Lewis and Sayers feel like friends to me. Friends I never met, but who I have begun to love dearly and yes, when the book ended and so did their lives, I was not yet ready to say goodbye.
I simply loved this book. It hooks you in and doesn't let you go. Dalfonzo does an incredible job of bringing forth the unique and lifelong friendship between Sayers and Lewis! It is refreshing to read about how men and women can simply be friends, with no hint of more, and yet profoundly impact the other's life. For fans of Sayers or Lewis (or both!) this book gets beneath the veneer of what you think you know and brings both authors to life.
Friends, I loved this book! I had no idea what to expect when I joined the Dorothy and Jack launch team, but taking this journey through the friendship between these great minds was a real treat.
Ms. Dalfonzo's book is short, but critical examination of the oft overlooked friendship between Dorothy Sayers and C.S. Lewis. The question of their mutual impact on one another is explored throughout the book, in addition to other critical questions that apply to our lives as believers in Christ. If you are interested in learning more about two of the most prolific authors of the last century, this is a book I would heartily recommend to you.
Thank you so much to the author and publisher for the free review copy! I’m so thrilled to join in the launch team to celebrate this wonderful book. It’s a snappy, informative, and engaging read about two of my favorite authors.
I love C.S. Lewis’ Narnia series and Dorothy L. Sayers’ Lord Peter mysteries but I had absolutely no idea they were friends. This book shines a light on that powerful friendship while also examining general themes about friendship, writing, art, and creativity. The biography aspect to this book was very fascinating and I admit I was rather shocked by certain revelations as I knew very little about these authors and their lives. (Petition for Dalfonzo to write full length biographies for both!) It gave me a new appreciation for their work. (And maybe I need to read Dante now? That really is high praise!)
I also loved how the author connected the themes of Dorothy and Jack’s relationship with modern issues. The author’s insights are profound and thought-provoking. I was especially affected by Dorothy and Jack’s discussion about creativity and the purpose behind their writing. These are timeless themes and we could all learn a little from their example. I’m very glad it has become my latest 5 star read of 2020 and I highly recommend it.
When I was in Uni I went through a Sayers phase. I read everything: her essays, her biographies... I was determined to find in her all of the strong questions I had that railed against the rather tame view of women from my sheltered minister's kid upbringing. She was smart. She was assertive and yet she flashed her faith in such a spirited and natural way. She was acerbic and railed and debated and questioned.
I, of course, fell for Peter and Harriet ( mostly Harriet) and my love deepened.
Lewis, on the other hand, always existed as someone not unlike the many, many guest speakers my mom hosted for Sunday lunch at our house after a long morning at my dad's church. I knew of him and his teachings but I felt disconnected.
But Sayers.... Sayers meeting Lewis bridged my two worlds: the world of the university woman in classes and libraries forging a faith outside of expectation and tradition of a minister's household and the philosophy and teachings quoted often and splashed across my father's home and church office libraries.
I tucked Dorothy Sayers into my pocket as an honourary Inkling. Someone who could speak for me but bridge the world that my dad and his guest speakers inhabited.
In Dorothy and Jack, that world is reconciled. With Dalfonzo's easy and accessible tone ( not ever once detracting from her remarkable intelligence and deep research), we are pulled into the spher eof two minds who battled the greatest questions of faith and theology.
Herein, Dorothy and Jack draws a welcoming line between gender questions and rooted in history and biography allows us to see how their magnificent minds complimented each other, challenged each other and uplifted each other.
Their discourse is an inspiration in an age of immediate cancel culture and a propensity to nose-dive quickly into argument.
Their balance is at the center of this moving and informative tale.
With humour and warmth, Dalfonzo invites us to tea with two of the greatest minds of the 20th Century (and beyond). Not shying from their faults but happy to spotlight their strengths, this marriage of consciousness and deep understanding is a balm in the midst of a world too eager to sever any tentative divides before they can flourish from sometimes dissonant to altogether enriching.
Also, OMG with the research! my mind reels at the depth and care taken here.
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I devoured this book in a single afternoon. I've been a fan of C. S. Lewis since the first time my parents read The Chronicles of Narnia to me as a child, but I haven't ever read any of Sayers' work. Despite that deficit in my reading background, this exploration of the deep friendship between Dorothy and Jack was a pleasure to read. I very much appreciated the way Dalfonzo celebrates platonic male-female friendships, particularly when it's possible that, given the current cultural climate, those friendships might be even harder to forge and maintain than they were in the middle of the 20th century. Although Dalfonzo clearly loves her subjects, she doesn't hesitate to point out their flaws and foibles, which not only gives a clearer picture of their true personalities, it also lends credence to her praise of their strengths and virtues. Dorothy and Jack's friendship seems to have been a true case of iron sharpening iron, of a man and woman treating each other as siblings in Christ, and we should all hope to be so blessed.
*Many thanks to the author and publisher for providing an eARC of this book. This is my honest review*
It’s almost hard to review this book as a work by an author, and not for the history it tells. Gina Dalfonzo does such an amazing job of presenting the friendship between CS Lewis and Dorothy L. Sayers without intruding in the relationship too much. It’s as if Dalfonzo has brought out a box of the letters between these two literary giants and is sharing each one with you in the order they were written, while also providing context of what would have been going when these letters were written.
The book is brilliantly written, using the correspondence between Dorothy and Jack as an outline. And I love that Dalfonzo chooses to refer to them both by their names because it humanizes them. You feel like these are two regular human beings who happen to be fantastic writers but also warm friends. Which is exactly who they were, so it feels right.
Both Dorothy and Jack feel like complete people here. They aren’t *just* Christian apologists or *just* fiction writers or *just* academics or *just* any other role in their personal lives you wish to focus on. Everything is mentioned here, from family to friendships to professional relationships to matters of faith. It’s a biography of two remarkable people, as well as an examination of their friendship. After reading this, I feel like I’ve been a fly-on-the-wall witnessing an honest and beautiful friendship and I feel all the more enriched for it.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who is a fan of Dorothy L. Sayers or CS Lewis (or both!), or if you wonder if men and women can simply be platonic friends (short answer: it can definitely be done), or if you just enjoy good biographical nonfiction. For me, this was a palate cleanser and a boost out of the reading slump I’ve been in.