Caitlin Myer doesn't hold back in Wiving, not even a little. The result is a sweeping, vivid memoir that makes you feel like you were there as she grew into the resilient woman she is today, the one who seeks out her fears to prove she can handle anything.

But the best memoirs aren't just about the author's experiences; they provide a framework to explore larger issues. Here, Wiving does not disappoint. Myer helped me to interrogate my own beliefs about marriage, independence, and healing.

This is an important book, and one I will think of for a long time to come. That said, if you are triggered by detailed descriptions of sexual violence, this book is not a good choice for you.

Because of the difficult subjects that Myer tackles, Wiving is not always an easy read. But is always stunning, incisive, and beautiful.

(I received an ARC of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.)