"We speak the way we speak because we think the way we think, because we want what we want, because we believe what we believe."

This quote probably sums up the gist of the whole book. We fall into bitterness because we believe that life owes us better than we have been given, because we feel that we have not been treated right. This kind of a belief system leads to bitterness, Instead, we should look at what God is calling us too. He is calling us to something greater. He is calling us to pursue him and not to settle for what the world is giving.

Steve starts the book by talking about bitter lament and bitter tears and how those things are good. They allow us to grieve the wrong in our lives, but they must never give way to bitter hearts.

"People whose hearts are softened by God's covenant love for them are quick to find ways to show loyal, sacrificial, compassionate love for others."

The last few chapters of the book are taken from the book of Ruth, a case study on Naomia and how she came back to Bethlehem a bitter woman and how the Lord worked in her heart causing her to change from a bitter woman to a matchmaker to a grandma.

I really appreciated this book, I read it at a time I really needed it.

I received this book from Baker Books via NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are my own.

Overcoming Bitterness was exactly what I was looking for when I picked up this book. It had good pointers in it on how to help overcome bitterness. I enjoyed the examination of the story of Ruth. I liked how the book was written and found it very easy to read. I can see myself rereading this and reading it more slowly next time.

All in all, Overcoming Bitterness was a great read and one that I recommend.

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