Book blurb…

A fascinating exploration of the intricacies of how we remember, why we forget, and what we can do to protect our memories, from the Harvard-trained neuroscientist and bestselling author of Still Alice.

Have you ever felt a crushing wave of panic when you can’t for the life of you remember the name of that actor in the movie you saw last week, or you walk into a room only to forget why you went there in the first place? If you’re over forty, you’re probably not laughing. You might even be worried that these lapses in memory could be an early sign of Alzheimer’s or dementia. In reality, for the vast majority of us, these examples of forgetting are completely normal. Why? Because while memory is amazing, it is far from perfect. Our brains aren’t designed to remember every name we hear, plan we make, or day we experience. Just because your memory sometimes fails doesn’t mean it’s broken or succumbing to disease. Forgetting is actually part of being human.

In Remember, neuroscientist and acclaimed novelist Lisa Genova delves into how memories are made and how we retrieve them. You’ll learn whether forgotten memories are temporarily inaccessible or erased forever and why some memories are built to exist for only a few seconds (like a passcode) while others can last a lifetime (your wedding day). You’ll come to appreciate the clear distinction between normal forgetting (where you parked your car) and forgetting due to Alzheimer’s (that you own a car). And you’ll see how memory is profoundly impacted by meaning, emotion, sleep, stress, and context. Once you understand the language of memory and how it functions, its incredible strengths and maddening weaknesses, its natural vulnerabilities and potential superpowers, you can both vastly improve your ability to remember and feel less rattled when you inevitably forget. You can set educated expectations for your memory, and in doing so, create a better relationship with it. You don’t have to fear it anymore. And that can be life-changing.

My thoughts…

This is non-fiction but from a favourite fiction author. Non fiction is not my first choice, but I really enjoyed learning about memory from an expert.

There are a number of reasons we remember, or forget, and they are not only outlined in this book, but Lisa educates readers. I learned some techniques that I am using in my every day life. I felt as if this content is a compilation of face to face lectures, as there are a number of exercises that were difficult to decipher on the Kindle version. It was a Netgally copy, so this may have been corrected in the official release. Or maybe some things are best presented face to face.

All that said, I enjoyed this book. A lot to be learned from this well-known neuroscientist! (Who writes awesome fiction!)

I highly recommended this book to anyone who worries when they forget someone's name, or where they parked the car in a multi-level carpark. Thoughts automatically go to dementia, and worry can set in, but what if it's OK to forget some things, and that's actually how our brains are designed to work? That's one of the things Lisa Genova reassures us about in Remember.

Lisa Genova gives us the information in this book in a very readable way, so even though it's non fiction, it is told with a storytellers touch. This is a book that could be read in one sitting, but more than likely you will read a bit, and then spend a bit of time thinking about what you have read and what it means to you or someone you know.

I have found myself talking about this book to everyone, it's just that kind of book.

Thank you to NetGalley and Simon & Schuster for the opportunity to read a review copy of this title.

Remember by neuroscientist and popular novelist Lisa Genova is a fascinating look at our memories and how our brain is designed. About the things we forget; why we forget and how we can learn to concentrate on those things that are important enough to remember. I’m sure I’m like many who are worried about Alzheimers/dementia as soon as we realise we can’t remember something we think we should. I know with it in my family history, I’m worried for myself and the future. But Ms Genova explains how we can help ourselves with memory.

I’ve enjoyed the way the author gives the reader comparisons and little anecdotes to explain her points – it’s very interesting and readable. Not bogged down in facts. The tips on how to keep our brain and memories sharp, learning to pay more attention than we probably do, and helping ourselves with note-taking – I’ve always done that and I’m glad to have it confirmed that it’s beneficial. I’ve read a digital ARC of this book and I will be buying myself a copy so I can browse and flick back and forth when I need to remind myself of something 😊

Remember is another impressive book to add to Lisa Genova’s collection and although this one is nonfiction, its benefits are huge. I love the way the author shares her vast knowledge with us! Highly recommended.

With thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my digital ARC to read in exchange for an honest review.

Thanks to Netgalley for a copy of this book for an honest review.

Having a professional interest in aging and memory, I found this book fascinating. It is easy to understand and written in such a way that it would be easy to implement the techniques described.

Remember is a non-fiction book by best-selling American author, Lisa Genova. As a renowned neuroscientist and acclaimed author, Genova is eminently qualified to write on a subject of universal interest: memory. And while her expertise is apparent on every page, this is no dense tome filled with impenetrable professional language; Genova makes it accessible to all, using simple terms, examples and humour.

Because “most of us aren’t familiar with our memory’s owner’s manual” she explains:
• The different types of memory we all have
• How memories are formed; where they are stored; how they are retrieved.
• What conditions are necessary for fleeting memories to become permanent
• The difference between forgetting and not remembering
• The importance of context and cues
• What improves retention and retrieval of memories
• Why we forget, and when that is desirable
• That there is a clear difference between forgetting due to normal aging and forgetting due to Alzheimer’s.
• The effect of stress, and of insufficient sleep, on memory


Genova describes experiments and tests that prove (or disprove) techniques and long-held beliefs; we now know that “with every recall, our memories for what happened can shrink, expand, and morph in all kinds of interesting and often inaccurate ways, deviating significantly from the original unspoken memory first created in our brains”

She illustrates just how unreliable eye-witness accounts can be, and asks, tongue firmly in cheek “Since it’s quite easy to manipulate episodic memory with language and misleading questions, we wouldn’t want to rely on it to determine important matters such as courtroom verdicts and prison sentencing, right?”

Most useful of all, though, she gives practical tips, strategies and insights on how to remember better, tips for study and for everyday life. She also gives us the best things we can do to avoid Alzheimer’s.

She reassures us that “Most of what we forget is not a failure of character, a symptom of disease, or even a reasonable cause for fear” and “Effective remembering often requires forgetting. And just because memory sometimes fails doesn’t mean it’s in any way broken” because “An intelligent memory system not only remembers information but also actively forgets whatever is no longer useful.”

She tells us: “Writing down what you need to remember later is not a sign of weakness or cause for shame at any age. It’s just good sense” and urges us “You don’t have to be a memory martyr. You are not more likely to experience fewer TOTs (tip of the tongue), resolve future TOTs faster, better remember where you put your keys, remember to take your heart medication tonight, or prevent Alzheimer’s if you can retrieve Tony Soprano’s name without Google.”

“Memory, especially for what happened last year or what you intend to do later today, is notoriously incomplete, inaccurate, confabulated, and fallible, its performance often better if externalized, outsourced to Google or your calendar.” This is an absolutely fascinating read!
This unbiased review is from an uncorrected proof copy provided by NetGalley and Simon & Schuster Australia.