I cried with this one. Not often to books make me cry .. much less something labeled as 'young adult.' If you're looking for a tear jerker that also keeps you on your toes, this is one to read! Thanks netgalley.

May have cried while reading this. I absolutely enjoyed this story so much! I think there’s something to be said about a book that hits you in the gut and the feels. Those are the books that stick with you long after the last page is turned. This is one of those books. I highly recommend it to anyone.

I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher for an honest review. This book is well written and the characters are described well. This book is fast paced. It is a great young adult book. I adored Sam's character. This book will have you crying, you will need a box of tissue beside you. Would I recommend reading this book to anyone and everyone. Yes I would recommend it to anyone and everyone. This book is in stores for $18.99 (USD).

I was granted a copy of this book by Netgalley, in exchange for my honest opinion.

This book attached me right away with the cover, witch says a lot by itself, I was predicting tears, and it delivered.
The perspectives between past and present made it so realistic, me seeing all feeling it and suffering with Julie I cried in so many moments, and it’s been hard to find a book that manages that to me.
The realism of our main character grief it’s so relatable.
The development of her character throughout the book made me care for her more and more.
I only can say that it delivered what was proposed to, and my expectations. Definitely want to follow the author and see what we can have next.

I really enjoyed this story and the emotional journey our main character Julie went through. I was expecting a few more twists and turns as it seemed like the story was leading to a bit more of a reveal but I really enjoyed the characters and the various relationship dynamics throughout.

This one interested based on the cover alone and I am so glad it didn't disappoint. A wonderfully written story.

I think if I had read this novel when I was on the younger/middle end of the YA age spectrum, I would have enjoyed and connected with it more. However, reading it where I am now, it felt a little too simplistic and surface level despite exploring very heavy topics such as struggling through and overcoming grief and loss.

I appreciated that this book explores how everyone processes grief differently, including showing some of the messier ways. And while I didn’t agree with or like many of Julie’s decisions, actions and dialogue, I appreciated what the author was doing with her character. However, I will say that it felt like she rushed through the stages of grief far too quickly, given that she was already trying to erase him from her life only one week after his death.

The characters overall would have benefited from being more fleshed out in places and nuanced in others. I didn’t connect with or feel much attachment to Sam and Julie’s relationship, despite that being the entire premise of the book. And some of the side characters felt like they were placed there just to fulfill a plot point, without any subtly to their addition. Stronger characterization would have solidified and strengthened the emotions this book was looking to elicit from its readers, and I think it would’ve helped take the book over the edge from kind of sad to heartbreaking.

I also think the plot and pacing could have been tightened up. After awhile it started to feel a bit repetitive and dragging, like we weren’t delving into any new emotions or processing the grief from a different angle. I also feel like the magical realism element could have been explored much more; to characters themselves brought up questions about how the calls work without ever getting resolution. I didn’t need everything wrapped up neatly in a bow, but the Sam knowing the rules about the calls but having no clue about anything else that was going on was an odd choice.

Overall, I do still think this was a good debut that will be emotionally hard-hitting for the right person.

Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for the eARC in exchange for an honest review.

Do you want to cry today??

I say that in a good way because this book will make you cry but it will also make you feel better after.

Julie and Sam are high school sweethearts, they have PLANS y’all! Then, of course, life gets in the way of those when Sam suddenly dies.

Julie doesn’t handle it well to say the least but hopefully along the journey she’ll be able to let go and find peace.

Read it. Cry. Feel better. You’re welcome.

4/5 Stars

TW: death, death of a loved one, grief, racism

You've Reached Sam follows Julie as she learns to live with the loss of her boyfriend Sam, and the repercussions of her choices. Julie doesn't know how to say goodbye or how to grieve the absence in her life.

Until one day she finds Sam, and suddenly she doesn't need to say goodbye.

For a story that aims to be emotional and to carry us on this journey through the last goodbye, it completely failed in its intention. Whilst some readers seem to have found this to be liberating and emotionally impactful, I reached the end of the path without understanding the creative choices behind these words.

Regarding Julie, though she is not one of my favourite characters to read about, I completely disagree that she is annoying and a terrible person. We all make terrible choices while we're grieving and there is no right way to grieve. If I were her friend, there are some things I'd definitely call out (are we seriously going to complain about a gift?) but she is what this book needed in order to reach the climax.

We spend 200 pages avoiding the goodbyes and the ending was anticlimatic. As a Doctor Who fan, I know what the perfect goodbye looks like and this wasn't it. Maybe that was the author's intention but when you have the perfect moment to pull at the heartstrings and you underutilized it... I was left with so much disappointment.

This isn't a terrible book. It was not the book for me and I wish it had been better constructed and achieved with its choices.

This book….. I can’t find the words to describe this book. It made me cry, I cried just reading the first 5 chapters. I think I cried once I read the first page. The synopsis says it all.

Dustin Thao did an amazing job.

Full review to be posted soonish.

I would like to thank the publisher and netgalley for providing me a free copy in exchange for an honest review.

"You are my entire world, Julie. And one day, maybe I’ll only be a small piece of yours. I hope you keep that piece." -Sam Obayashi

Warning: Spoilers Ahead!

Henlo! I haven’t blogged in months, but I’m still alive! Harhar. Anyway, I really didn’t expect that writing my first book review of 2022 would make me cry. I finished this novel several months ago, so I had to peruse it and find a meaningful quote. Dude, Sam’s words broke my heart. Again.


For a bit of context, I started reading You’ve Reached Sam shortly after Lolo (Grandpa) Cris passed away (Ugh, this is so hard to write). Thus, Julie’s story of magically reconnecting with Sam after his death was very triggering—in a good way. Moreover, the plot was particularly…serendipitous? Like, Julie and Sam’s new conversations were on the phone, while the last talk I had with Lolo was also on mobile. Even though I know that he’s in Paradise, I yearn, almost every day, for another chance to talk to my grandpa. But for the most part, I’m thankful that he no longer has to endure any physical ailment.

I guess this is how grief works. It ebbs and flows depending on the level of love or attachment. The characters in this book exemplify that well. In one chapter, you think they’re okay and finally moving on, but then they suddenly become emotional on the next page or so. Sam had been an essential part of Julie and Mika’s friendship, and now that he was gone, they found themselves in a state of social imbalance, unable to interact without snapping, crying, or saying harsh things they didn’t mean.

I kinda resonated with that feeling of wanting to push others away, but only to the degree that my grief made me value my alone time more. Grieving with your family is indeed beneficial, but what if their faces are so similar to that of the departed because of simple genetics? It’s like a double-edged sword, right? It’s interesting how spending time with your loved ones can simultaneously cause pain and comfort.

The same principle applies to material objects. Julie had a box full of Sam’s signature items, like his denim jacket, CDs, and mixed tapes. Each object spoke volumes about her dead boyfriend, so she eventually got rid of them, hoping to accelerate the healing process. Now, I can’t help but reflect on how Lola (Grandma) Juliet gave me many of Lolo Cris’s things: his silver ring, Samsung laptop bag, collared t-shirts, and more. I love them, and I bet Lola also likes seeing me wear Lolo’s clothes. Not that I’m trying to be a shadow or phantom of my lolo. I just think that somehow, using his old belongings is a way to honor his memory or legacy. Hmm…I wonder what Julie would say about that if she were a real person?


Although I didn’t necessarily approve of how she managed her grief, I liked how she was always humble enough to recognize her mistakes and strive to do better. She was so in tune with her conscience or moral compass that she couldn’t keep her conversations with Sam a secret, especially to their mutual close friends. If I were in her shoes and could talk to Lolo on the phone, I probably wouldn’t be selfless and open up to others if it meant risking the miraculous connection.

Julie’s most remarkable quality was her ability to say goodbye. I loved the scene where all of her pending messages flooded into her phone when she finally let go of Sam. The word “goodbye” is simple, but when it comes to family, I suck at saying it. After all, it entails separation, which I’m not very good at. Hahaha. Julie used to be as clingy as me, holding on to Sam for almost 300 pages. Both of us were so invested in their flashbacks and wished that the Sam-and-Julie reel would never end. But then she realized that saying goodbye didn’t strictly mean turning her back and forgetting him. Instead, it meant moving on and enjoying life while thinking of Sam now and then. Rereading the book’s last few pages before writing this not-so-objective review was a bad idea. UwU

Ultimately, I loved reading You’ve Reached Sam because its melancholic yet hopeful narrative changed my perspective on grief for the better. I did say farewell to Lolo Cris last November. However, borrowing Sam’s parting words, my grandpa will forever be a small piece of my world. If you’re planning to pick up this debut novel, be sure to prepare a roll of tissue and find someone to hug.

Grief is something that I could not relate to well and some books are able to bring out that feeling in me. Maybe this is not the best book that could give me that, but the way this is just a debut release? It is very promising! The way the characters are written might be the best part of this book and I can’t wait to read more from Dustin Thao.

This was...fine. It was definitely a lot longer than it needed to be and got repetitive in the middle. I really think this could have been a more emotional and impactful book if there hadn't been so many flashbacks and so many phone calls. It got to the point where I was just waiting for it to end.

I wanted to like this book more than I did, so it ended up being pretty disappointing for me. It wasn't terrible, but it was just meh overall.

This really tugged at all of my emotions! I'm not usually for books in this genre, but I thought the characterization was well done and I couldn't put it down.

The writing was okay but the longer chapters were not for me. You also really have to hype yourself up and prepare to read this book because you know it's super sad so I think that the beginning should start with shorter more gripping chapters. The writing style wasn't my favorite but I am open to trying more books from this author in the future.

I really don’t know how to rate this book to be honest. It broke my heart and made me teary. And it’s also very quick and easy to read. I absolutely adored Sam as a character. He is so kind, sweet and precious. He deserved all the happiness in the world and my heart breaks for him. I fell in love with him right from the first page. On the other hand, the main character Julie was kind of bland and underdeveloped. However, her relationship with Sam was so beautiful and pure. Nothing significant happened in the book other than Julie and Sam’s phone calls and some flashback scenes. It’s a book about grief and loss and about Julie getting a second chance for saying good bye and coming in terms with Sam’s death. But I just wish there was more. Maybe I would have preferred to have an explanation about how the phone calls were possible. I would have also liked more character development. The plot felt very one dimensional to me.

I knew this book was going to wreck me. At its core, this story is about all the different shades of grief and love. The concept is so relatable. What would we all do if we could pick up the phone and call a deceased loved one? How would we cope knowing that would be the last time we could talk to them?

Julie’s grief felt so real. I wish I could hug her through the pages of my book. I would be sad alongside her. Then, I’d read a flashback of her and Sam’s relationship, which put me in my feels. I loved seeing their relationship-- until I remembered Sam was dead, and my heart was broken all over again.

As I mentioned earlier, I knew this book was going to wreck me. And it did. But it was worth it.

*Arc provided by Netgalley and Wednesday Books in exchange for an honest review."

"What would you do if you had a second chance at goodbye."

Julie Clarke is grieving the sudden death of her boyfriend Sam. She's completely detached from the from everything associated with Sam's death. Skipping his funeral, throwing out his things when she decides to call his voicemail to hear him one last time. To her shock though, Sam answers from the other side giving Julie a second chance to say how she feels and process her grief.

I cried so hard by the time I got to the end of this. Julia and Sam were so well developed and every call I was worried would be their last. I'm pretty sure anyone who's lost someone they loved wishes they'd have just one more interaction with them. It was nice to see Julie have that, but the struggle of if something is hurting more than helping was really clear. Having the story take place over months instead of a few days was nice because it felt like a realistic time frame to process certain things. Overall, really enjoyed this one.

Sweet, tender, and emotional, with a really compelling concept - this is an honest and heartfelt exploration of grief and loss - exploring the different ways they affect us. I appreciated getting to know Oliver and Mika, as well as some of the other characters - but was a bit disappointed at how one dimensional Sam was. I get that we were supposed to see a really one-sided part of the relationship, but he felt like a manic pixie dream boy, and an idealization of a first love, and not like an in-depth, fully realized character. I thought this would be a new favourite, but unfortunately it was. a bit of a letdown. The story moved too slowly, and was in fact a bit boring. I would read more from the author, but unfortunately this wasn’t for me!