A heartfelt story about sisterhood and friendship. The 3 Frederick sisters couldn't be more different but family still pulls them together. Ginny has a handicap and is at a point in her life that she can't live alone, Bets is off in CA living the surfing dream so that leaves Maggie to pick up and take care of Ginny even when her own life is having difficulties. This story is mainly between Ginny and Maggie and how their once close relationship as younger girls has fallen to the wayside and now Maggie, who is the youngest is now caretaker for the middle sister Ginny while Bets is rarely around. Ginny's handicap/disability is written in a way that makes you like her even when she's being a bugger and Maggie keeps trying to hold everyone together without ever worrying about herself. It's a nice story, with some funny parts, about family, friendships and being there for the ones you love even when they don't want you to.

I requested this book because I am always intrigued by novels about sisters. Additionally, I liked all three of the comp books referenced in the publisher's description (Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine meets Early Morning Riser with a dash of Where’d You Go, Bernadette).

For me, The Frederick Sisters Are Living The Dream didn't soar to the heights of these three predecessors. But I can tell that this book will be a touching and engaging novel for many readers who are interested in exploring sensitive family issues such as responsibility, care-taking, and mid-life crises of reflection and realignment of priorities.

Thank you to NetGalley and Atria Books for the complimentary eARC in exchange for my honest feedback.

I got to 30% and gave up on this one. It was moving too slowly and didn’t catch my interest enough to continue. I’m sure this will be a favorite for some but isn’t the book for me.

dnf (n/a stars) -- i just couldn't bring myself to be interested in this unfortunately, i tried to start it a couple times but it just wasn't clicking :/

3,.5 stars. This was a cute, quirky story about family. Maggie is the oldest and is moving her middle sister, Ginny, closer to home due to a fall she has taken coupled with the developmental disabilities she has.
This book started off with a bang for me but throughout it I had a hard time staying engaged due to the longer portions delving into the past of these characters. It seemed to be a bit choppy at times but it comes together nicely at the end with a heartwarming ending..

Deciding to DNF this one. Maybe I will revisit, but it isn't keeping me hooked and I don't like the way that some characters interact with others. I also don't love the R word being in the book (I know that it was a scene set in the past and that was "acceptable" to say in those times, I just think that there could've been another way to describe Ginny, idk maybe that's just me.) I didn't really like any of the characters.

I do think that the author portrayed taking care of someone with different needs and how challenging that can be for someone who isn't licensed (a.k.a a family member) and the tough decisions that one must make, especially when other family members don't agree.

I guess I need someone to really hype this book up for me to finish? I just can't get into it (stopping at 51%)

This is a lovely, sometimes hard-to-read story about a woman trying to let go of her need to be needed while dealing with the guilt of being the primary caregiver for her special needs sister. It took me a little while to get into but it was very worth it. The narrator’s voice is honest and self-deprecating and she is a real woman with flaws that is just trying her best and sometimes getting it right and sometimes royally f**king it up.

I especially liked that this is a book about a middle-aged woman who is having a hard time letting go of being needed by people around her because I think that speaks to a reality of motherhood that sometimes isn’t addressed. You go from being intensely needed by your children for EVERYTHING and then they’re adults and you have to redefine that aspect of who you are. And, in this main character’s case, it’s doubly complicated by her separation from her husband of over 20 years and the fact that she feels she is responsible for her sister.

Just a really well-written book that I really enjoyed.

In her debut, Zusy explored family dynamics and the ups and downs of being a caregiver. As I read this book, I couldn’t help but think of my aunt who spent her life caring for two children with intellectual disabilities. In fact, Ginny reminded me a lot of my cousin Theresa. She could be difficult and constantly tried to work around my aunt’s rules, but I also have fond memories of her and the love my aunt shared with her.

The strength of this story was that Zusy was able to show me both sides so well. Ginny was a diabetic who almost died of sepsis but was quite unwilling to alter her diet. Maggie was on the brink of giving up, time and time again, but then she would reflect on her childhood memories of Ginny and how much joy Ginny brought to her life. I also thought the exploration of caring for an adult sibling was interesting, in that Maggie grew to recognize and respect her sister’s autonomy. I imagine that can be really challenging given the situation, but such an important thing to consider.

The beauty of this story was in all the relationships, but especially in recognizing that Ginny enriched the lives of all those around her. Through the laughter, the tears, and the frustrations experienced by everyone, it was easy to see how much they brought to each other lives, and I was happy to be a part of this journey.

Phew this was not for me. The writing was uncomfortable and the characters were cloying. I couldn’t keep track of all the quirks. The sisters seemed to not care about each other at all, bordering on abusive towards each other. Not very nice to read about.

I'm not really sure what I expected from The Frederick Sisters Are Living the Dream, but it certainly was not the completely charming, true-to-real-life heartwarmer that I just finished! When Maggie Frederick gets the dreaded call that her diabetic older sister Ginny, who also has intellectual disabilities, is hospitalized after eating too much jello, the reality that Ginny is no longer able to live independently. The decision to move Ginny close to Maggie, and to hire full-time home health care to assist her sister, is one that many of us have to make, and like most such situations is not easy on any level.

The synopsis sounds fairly serious, but there is a lot of love and humor portrayed on the pages. I enjoyed 'watching' the growth in the sisters' relationship, as well as the interactions with the oldest sister, an aging surf star who lives across the country. The situations that the women found themselves in were realistically written, as were the interactions between all the characters in the book. The humor is tasteful, funny without mocking or silliness, and not over-the-top goofy.

Anyone who has a relative who needs help living independently will recognize themselves between the pages of this novel, and those who do not find themselves in that circumstance will be able to relate to the family dynamics.

Maggie has her hands full and all of the emotions too. This was a very realistic story and situation. I found it hard to stop reading.
Many thanks to Atria Books and to NetGalley for providing me with a galley in exchange for my honest opinion.

Thank you NetGalley for the ARC.

I had to DNF this book. It just wasn't for me. The plot was cute, but for me, the story moved very slowly.

I don't think this was the book for me. I didn't connect with any of the characters and had to DNF less than halfway through. It was pegged as part Eleanor Oliphant (which I loved!), but I don't think I made it far enough to notice any similarities.

I think this would be a great book for the right reader.

I absolutely loved Elinor Oliphant, so when this book was compared to hers, I was excited to read it. Ultimately, I struggled a bit to get through this one. I am one of three sisters, and I could really relate to Maggie’s character, and her desire to make sure Ginny, a sister with disabilities, as well as everyone around her, is taken care of. The relationship dynamics between the sisters was very relatable and I love the true and raw portrayal of helping a loved one. Overall, the story dragged for me though. I struggled a bit with the writing style, and some parts felt more rushed, while others too long. While this debut was not my favorite, I am interested to see what Zusy writes next.


3.5 Stars

Thank you @netgalley and @atriabooks for the early copy

Four and a Half Stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭒
Frederick Sisters Are Living the Dream by Jeannie Zusy is a look at a woman who is a caretaker to her sister with intellectual disabilities. It’s emotional, funny, and a bit chaotic, but totally worthwhile reading.

Maggie is the youngest of three sisters and lives just outside of New York City with her two almost adult sons. Betsy is the oldest and is living the dream out in California, running a surfing school. Ginny is the middle child and she is diabetic and has intellectual disabilities and lives independently in Maryland where the family grew up.

When Maggie gets a call that her sister, Ginny is in the hospital, she doesn’t hesitate to drop everything and go help her. But, when she gets to Maryland, she realizes that Ginny needs more help than she expected. She decides to bring her to New York where she can live closer. But, Maggie has her own chaotic life. She’s separated from her husband and trying to date while raising two boys and keeping up with her freelance job.

Maggie is far from perfect and makes her own mistakes in her life, but her love for her sister is never in question. I liked how the book demonstrated both the highs and lows of being a caretaker. Ginny was my favorite character. She was always so frank, and her observations of the family were sometimes right on point.

The writing was a stream of consciousness from the main character, Maggie. We all find out how her actions affect others around her at the same time she does. I thought the middle was a bit slow, but it was also full of the frustrations and challenges of caring for an adult with intellectual disabilities and day-to-day family issues.

Overall this is a heartwarming story about the difficulties of being a caretaker, a mother, a wife, and a sister, and still trying to be her own person.
I highly recommend The Frederick Sisters are Living the Dream to anyone who enjoys heartwarming fiction. I received a complimentary copy of this book. The opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Okay story. I felt, though, it didn't deliver fully on the premise of dealing with a person with special needs;it became more of the caretakers story. It's as if the author tried to juggle too many storylines and none of them received full coverage.
I received an ARC from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

The premise to this novel sounded excellent, but I found the writing to be a bit too bland for my tastes.

This book made it very easy to empathize with the main characters pain and the struggle she faces while being responsible for her disabled sister. There were certain additions to the plot that made no sense to me but all in all a good read

This beautiful book blew me away. I went into it with little expectations, just hoping it was good. I was immediately drawn into the powerful story about sisters and the struggles of caregiving. While it's heavy and serious at times, it's also light in other moments with some fantastic humor. The characters and their interactions are realistic and I felt for all of them at different times. Being a caregiver myself, although not to this same degree, I feel the author truly captured the moments of frustration and despair as well as the moments of joy and love. My only problem with the book was I was left wanting more closure at the end. I highly recommend this one.

Perfect vacation read, a sweeping family epic of three sisters, all very different, learning to adult.  At times darkly funny, but also an honest look at supporting an adult with disabilities and health issues.  I loved the characters, human and animal, the relationships and the way many different issues were portrayed with love and honesty.   I also want to mention the caregivers and how wonderful they were.
Lovely, dysfunctional, sad, funny, and quirky.  Great debut!