Picking this up I didn't expect this to affect me in this manner. As a white woman I can be both the oppressed and the oppressor. Reading books like this one always aducates me on topics I wasn't actively reflecting, and I will continue making the effort.

A thoughtful, heartful, galvanizing collection of essays, letters, stories, and poems that serves as a personal and cultural guidebook to breaking down the patriarchy and white supremacy. Joseph's writing is detailed, poignant, confrontational, and tender. This is one you'll want to take your time with.

Thank you so much to Harper Perennial for the e-ARC via Netgalley in exchange for my review.

As someone who also does organizational consulting work for a gender violence prevention organization, the themes in Patriarchy Blues were familiar and resonant. I appreciated the author's honesty, introspection, and self-awareness - and his ability to reflect on his contribution to the problems associated with toxic masculinity while recognizing his role in helping to overcome and eradicate it. The layers of creativity add additional depth, nuance, and artistry here.

I received a digital galley of this book in exchange for an honest review and will recommend it to colleagues.

I've been following Fred Joseph on social media for quite a few years now and I always turn to him when something happens to get his take because no matter how hard I try, I can never put myself in a Black persons shoes. I can only keep learning, keep listening and actively trying to do better. This book is written in a set of essays, letters and poems. He credits a lot of his understanding of the world to how his mother raised him, stand up for Black women and break the cycle that Black men may unknowingly perpetuate.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an early read of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Expertly and artfully crafted, Fred T. Joseph has compiled a poignant collection of essays, poems, stories, letters, and musings, all reflecting upon the patriarchy and white supremacy within the United States. Joseph holds up a mirror to his readers and himself, as he encourages everyone to question their roles (whether consciously or subconsciously) in upholding the toxic masculinity and patriarchy that plagues society. <u>Patriarchy Blues</u> also examines the intricate weaving of patriarchy and white supremacy and how the two often support and uphold one another. Don't let the <u>Reflections on Manhood</u> mislead you. This is not a book written with just men in mind. An important read for anyone and everyone!

Thank you Netgalley and ​​Harper Perennial and Paperbacks, Harper Perennial for the copy of this book. I don’t read much nonfiction, but will always read a book by Frederick Joseph because I enjoy his thoughtful take on things. It took me some time to get into this book because at first I was thrown off by the format of essays, poems, and short reflections. I soon got used to it and found this book a treasure trove of insights. I especially like the stories about what he learned from his mother. If you want a thought-provoking book, this is perfect for you.