I really wanted to love this book. Fantastical setting! Royal politics! Queer romance! But I couldn't get past the writing, it reminded me of fan-fiction. The story is there, but I felt like it needed another pass with editing. That said, I would still recommend this to people looking for a Fantasy with LGBTQ+ main characters, just wasn't a hit with me!

I loved this book so much. . . and stayed up way past my bedtime to finish it! Prince Velasin vin Aaro of Ralia, a country of strict standards and social acceptability has been betrothed to the princess of Tithenai to strengthen the political alliance between the two kingdoms, After being painfully and dramatically outed as gay by his bitter boyfriend who hoped to ruin the engagement, the foreign envoy suggests an unexpected solution - marry the Thithenai prince instead! While such unions are anathema in Ralia, they are commonplace in Tithenai. Bewildered, traumatized, and practically disowned, Vel agrees and sets off to a completely unknown place without a friend to call his own. Prince Caethari Aeduria had no idea the arriving royal was set to marry him, rather than his sister, until he was greeting the new prince at his own front door.

Cae and Vel have a whole set of troubles standing between happily ever after, including: PTSD, totally different backgrounds, miscommunications, harsh rumors, and a vengeful ex. Not to mention whatever person or faction is attempting to kill them or frame them for treason. Love doesn't come easy, but friendship and respect is earned. Their relationship grows in a realistically organic fashion rather than the insta-love or enemies to lovers tropes that could have been so easily relied on. The world building is beautiful without being overwhelming and the descriptions never slow the pace of the story. I really enjoyed the learning differing political systems between the two kingdoms and understanding why those differences exist. The whodunit part of the plot had me second guessing myself constantly. I cannot wait to read another book by this author!

TW: suicide ideation, non-penetrative rape, emotional and verbal abuse.

Recommended for fans of Taylor Rylan, Mercedes Lackey, and F. T. Lukens

*I received a free eARC from the publisher via NetGalley. This review is my own opinion and is given without recompense.*

First, thank you to the publishers and NetGalley for an advanced copy of "A Strange and Stubborn Endurance" in exchange for a fair and honest review!

Okay, I loved the premise, I loved the world building, and I loved the main characters! The world felt full and developed, the main characters were likeable enough, and I was invested enough to keep reading. There were some moments, though, that took me out of the story. It was enough where I debated on keeping reading or not-- ultimately, though, because of the broader novel itself, I kept going.

It's worth a read, and in general an enjoyable one!!

4/5

This book was really interesting! I was intrigued by the storyline and that's what initially drew me to this title. I also really love the cover artwork.

“You must be patient with me, dear Cae, as I learn to inhabit myself.” // “For you, anything.”

The standalone fantasy novel A STRANGE AND STUBBORN ENDURANCE is a delicious tangle of mystery, romance, and healing. I was completely swept up in the story of Velasin and Caethari, two men thrust into a diplomatic marriage who fall in love as they scramble to address the violent fallout from their new alliance. Velasin comes from Ralia, where gender roles are rigid and homophobia is rampant; this book does a beautiful job of showing what it’s like for him to adapt to Caethari’s more progressive Tithena, unraveling the knots of his internalized homophobia and experiencing the joys of loving his husband openly. Velasin is raped by a former partner very early on in the story, and soon after considers killing himself; much of the book is dedicated to his healing from this trauma. It’s heavy, and felt almost sensationalized in some parts, but overall it’s a powerful and transformative narrative. Definitely mind the content warnings and take care of yourself while reading, though. I adored the slow burn romance, by turns tender and sexy, and how Caethari’s consideration and affection was a salve for Velasin’s wounds. They also have a very sweet “why are we like this” energy as they figure out the shape of their relationship. The surrounding plot is a bit light and I kept having the urge to yell at these boys to be even slightly suspicious of the people around them, but honestly the politics are just background for the romance, right? There’s just a smidge of magic, which I wanted to see more of (magical puberty blockers! very cool!). I did really enjoy how the cultural differences between Ralia and Tithena are explored, and how those played into the political intrigue. An excellent book for fans of WINTER’S ORBIT, A MARVELLOUS LIGHT, and A TASTE OF GOLD AND IRON. The audiobook is narrated by James Fouhey and Vikas Adam and their performances are fantastic. Thanks to Tor Books and Macmillan Audio for the review copies!

Content warnings: sexual assault/rape, suicidal ideation, attempted suicide, self-harm, beating, branding, kidnapping, murder, animal death, homophobia/transphobia, misogyny, parental abandonment

This is a rather odd book - definitely not bad but a slightly unimpressive.

Vel and Cae are both well developed and unique characters. Even if the book did not delegate first person narration to one of them and third person narration to the other, the readers would have been able to tell the two protagonists apart quite easily. Their relationship was also well developed, they made a good pair.

Here's the thing though, this book is quite long and because it's long, it becomes slightly repetitive. Although nothing happens twice, a pattern in the plot progression becomes clear. The final twist is quite predictable but somehow kind of makes one of the characters behave unlike themself in order to make sense.

The worldbuilding is very thorough: the world is interesting and quite novel. Magic is present within the world but is largely ignored unless convenient for the characters. The Ralia vs Tithena debate kind of lacked complexity: one is Bad :( , the other is Good :). It would have been nice to see a more complex approach.

Overall, an interesting but rather longwinded book. Also, be aware that the book handles topics of rape, self harm and suicidal ideation in graphic detail on page.

-This was better than I expected and I enjoyed every single second of it
-Loved the exploration
-The political intrigue was great
-Some of the plot/things going on we’re not flushed out well
-Be mindful of triggers

As much as I wanted to love this, I am giving it a 3/5. The worldbuilding itself was incredibly well planned and detailed, but the main characters were where it fell flat for me. I did not know much about either of them other than they wanted each other. Their personalities were devoid of anything unique other than that one fact. Many side characters were absolutely wonderful, though. I also applaud the reaction, recovery, and healing journey that took place following the rape scene in the beginning of the book.

I’ve been trying to think about why this book didn’t quite work for me when I LOVED Winter’s Orbit (basically the same book but with spaceships instead of magic) and I think it boiled down to AS&SE taking itself too seriously. I’m pretty sure that I (and other readers who intentionally picked up a fantasy romance about an arranged diplomatic marriage between two men) don’t need so many didactic interludes where the protagonist from a Less Enlightened Land gets the More Enlightened Ways of His New Land explained to him, you know? But I may just be a grump, so jf that doesn’t sound too bad to you, give the book a shout. I also really didn’t like that the POV alternated between 1st person for one protagonist and 3rd for the other.

Warnings, because I’ve heard that some readers were nastily surprised by the darker tone of this book: there’s a rape scene right at the beginning of the book and a whole bunch of suicidal ideation following, including a failed suicide attempt.

Thank you NetGalley for the eARC. This book was so fun. I really enjoyed it. This book kept me interested and i enjoyed the book and this genre

I have been searching all year for a fantasy romance that I would love and here it is! I loved the two leads in this story and thought it was such a compelling choice to have one be written in first person while the other in third. I also really enjoy a story of healing in my romance, which we definitely get to explore with one of our leads (there are content warnings and the harm caused to one of our characters is graphically on page). I also just found the plot to be fun. I figured out the "answer" to the mystery pretty early on but still had a fun time and even didn't mind the reveal. The background political mystery plot felt like a campy way to natural incorporate tension that allowed for our leads to develop chemistry and get to know each other. Something I also loved is that all tension between them had nothing to do with the miscommunication trope so although we were constantly wondering who was going to betray our characters, they were not paranoid about each other. I also adored the main friendship we are introduced to in the first part. At first I was nervous because there was a power imbalance but the more I learned about how they met and how much they meant to each other and how they are transitioning to new roles in this new kingdom I just loved it so much. Basically I had a blast and felt things, which is what I want from a fantasy romance so if the content warnings are not a deal breaker for you I highly recommend.

I LOVED this book, but it's a tough one to recommend. The explicit on page rape is jarring (which I get, that's a horrific thing to go through), but as someone who has been sexually assaulted, I was unprepared for just how explicit the rape would be. Luckily, I was able to read past that to the beautiful story that came after since it's been quite a few years for me. I'll honestly be reluctant to recommend this one to people because you never know who has gone through something like that and how fresh it might be for them. Nonetheless, I enjoyed this book and the care that was taken with trauma following the rape. The romance was sweet and just the right kind of slow burn for this kind of story.

Velasin vin Aaro is a closeted gay man in an extremely homophobic society. When a former lover assaults him in front of a diplomat, Velasin is sent to marry Caethari Aeduria instead of the princess he was expecting. A rather flimsy mystery of who opposes their union drives the plot. Content warnings for rape and attempted suicide are needed, and these events are used for character development That's where the novel lost me - the scenes are graphic and referenced often, and are the basis for character relationships. The mystery plot is rather vapid, even grading on the curve of romance mysteries, and the heroes solve the mystery by literally walking in on the plotters having a "here's to evil" meeting.

I loved this book! A Strange and Stubborn Endurance is a long book, but definitely worth it. The writing was excellent and so was the story and the characters. I really enjoyed this one and I know a lot of other people will too!

Foz Meadows writes a beautiful love story and pairs it with an engaging plot that had me flipping through the pages as fast as I could.
Velasin and Caethari are complete opposite yet fit together like pieces in a puzzle, and their relationship grows achingly sweet throughout as they learn more about each other. I especially appreciated experiencing it from both POVs as it made small milestones stand out even further.

Plotwise, A Strange and Stubborn Endurance is interesting and mysterious in a way that plays off the romance very well, especially as it is all about that romance. The foreshadowing is subtle which meant the ending took me by surprise, though the pieces fell into place in retrospect.

Overall a fantastic romance book that I flew threw.

There's a lot to enjoy about this book! The worldbuilding is intricate and feels lived-in, and the primary characters are quite appealing. The plot, however, feels oddly stuck between a fantasy romance and a political fantasy, with the result that the pacing is uneven and bounces somewhat awkwardly between lulls and action. Most of the side characters feel under-developed -- which, again, would suit a fantasy romance just fine but undercuts (and makes pretty predictable) the political plotline. (It doesn't help that several functionary characters have names that are very similar, with just the same consonants arranged in slightly different orders). Overall, I enjoyed the read and the romance, but the book felt a little underbaked.

A Strange and Stubborn Endurance (Tor, 2022) is marketed as a historical fantasy novel, but its subtle and humane sweetness set it aside from most examples of the genre. Though it offers political intrigues and battles, it is also a compassionate exploration of a man’s recovery from assault and homophobia with the help of his new husband.

The man in question, Velasin vin Aaro, exhibits little purpose in life when we first meet him at his father’s estate. The third son of a nobleman, he’s an insecure dilettante who is forced to conduct his affairs with other men in secrecy, due to the restrictive religious beliefs of his native country. When he’s promised to a noblewoman from the neighboring country of Tithena in order to cement a new alliance, Velasin feels like he has no choice but to go along with his father’s wishes. However, when a former lover forces himself onto Velasin and the two men are discovered undressed, his preferences are revealed. Rather than dissolving the alliance, the envoy from Tithena suggests marriage to the prospective bride’s brother instead, to everyone’s surprise.

Velasin, shaken from the assault and forsaken by his father, takes his dear servant Markel and a few possessions and sets off to a country he barely knows, where his husband, Caethari, awaits him. From there on the story alternates between the two perspectives. Caethari, a well-adjusted warrior with a good understanding of boundaries, is ready to welcome his new husband, but someone else isn’t—and is trying to break up the impending union with covert attacks and attempted assassinations from various people. Even more disturbing, this conspiracy claims to be acting under the directive of the Wild Knife—Caethari’s fighting name.

Caethari and Velasin will need to work together as partners to survive—and perhaps grow into their roles as husbands in the process.

Y'all, I finished this book back in July and haven't been able to stop thinking about it since. It is hands down one of my top three favorite books of 2022 and as of right now it is tied with A Lady for a Duke as my favorite of the year. The thing is I haven't been able to write a review for it. How do I describe what I loved about this book without spoilers and with adequate words to portray my feelings?

Honestly, I haven't figured it out beyond saying I loved it! And go read it now!

This book, y’all. It made my heart full. It made me laugh. It made me cry. It even made me gasp out loud. And it was beautifully and delightfully queer. And the slow burn romance! Totally swoon worthy! Someone please tell me there’s going to be a sequel or companion novel or something because I need more! More of this world and more of these characters!

That being said there are some heavy topics in this book and the TW/CWs (see below) should definitely be paid attention to. I will say that these topics were treated with the kindness and respect they deserved without sugarcoating them. I can only applaud Foz Meadows for her treatment of them.

Well. That's it. That’s the review. Go read it and come talk to me about it in the comments!

TW/CW: sexual assault/rape (on page), suicidal thoughts, attempted suicide/self harm, homophobia, PTSD/trauma, violence, injury/injury detail, blood, murder, animal death (horse).*

*There are probably more but these are the major ones that I remember.

ARC provided by the publisher via Netgalley.

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A STRANGE AND STUBBORN ENDURANCE IS A STUNNING ROMANTIC FANTASY THAT DELIVERS A KNOCKOUT EMOTIONAL PUNCH ALONG WITH SOME OF THE BEST QUEERNORMATIVE WORLDBUILDING I’VE EVER SEEN.

When A Strange and Stubborn Endurance was suggested to me, I thought I’d be picking up a fantasy romance, but it quickly became clear that as important and gorgeous as the romance was, the larger story carried equal weight, so I’m calling it a romantic fantasy. We get dark themes right away, including an on-page sexual assault and subsequent self-harm, and the author weaves these awful moments and their aftermath into the narrative with painful poignancy. The assault occurs on the eve of the intended union between two kingdoms, and the subsequent twist on this arranged marriage plot is unexpected and deeply thought-provoking.

Cover of A Strange and Stubborn EnduranceWe move with Velasin and his new fiancé Caethari from a homophobic, patriarchal society into one of openness and tolerance, with trans and nonbinary characters playing prominent roles. It’s emotional whiplash Velasin isn’t ready for, especially with his assault and his father’s reaction to the discovery of his homosexuality fresh on his mind. I was blown away by the care taken with the worldbuilding in terms of gender and identity. There’s a third gender in Tithena with its own neopronouns (thei/thir) and talk of magical transitioning options for trans characters, one of whom we get to know fairly well. There’s also a great disabled side character, Markel, Velasin’s manservant/life partner, who’s mute, and the way the author shows other characters interacting with Markel and learning his sign language is perfect. Tithena is a very open and tolerant society with zero queerphobia, but that doesn’t mean it’s a paradise, as we soon find out.

Of the two main plots in the book, the romance and the fantasy/mystery plot, the romance is by far the stronger. A series of assassination attempts (some successful) and other strange happenings seem to come in rapid succession just as the plot needs them, and I became increasingly disinterested in that side of the plot, which is fairly traditional in its way. Questions of succession, inheritance, and court intrigue blended together in my mind with the seemingly endless series of attacks and attempts to solve them. It wasn’t that it was poorly done—it was fine, and fans of this sort of thing will enjoy it, but it was the romance that kept me reading because it was absolutely DIVINE.

Velasin comes to Tithena as a damaged person, surly and withdrawn and afraid to let anyone get close, for obvious reasons—a toxic sexual assaulting ex, not to mention the culture shock of living openly in a kingdom where he is married to another man instead of hiding his identity. Caetheri is patient and understanding, though his attraction to Velasin is undeniable, and they agree to live as married friends. But little by little, Meadows teases out tendrils of hope that they can become more than that, and this is what kept me flipping the pages, hungry for more.

I want to be clear: this is a slow burn, perhaps a little slower than I might have liked, but I’m impatient like that. For most readers, it will be the perfect burn, and it has brilliant emotional depth to it. The characters are fully realized, complex people with their own sets of problems and concerns that weigh on them and slow the progress of their relationship. The events of the plot help push them closer together, and as they work to overcome the very real challenges keeping them apart, we root for them harder and harder.

By the end of the book, though I wasn’t super invested in the political mystery plot, I was riveted by the main pairing. Caethari and Velasin are an iconic couple, one I will not soon forget. Meadows draws out every bit of the growing closeness between them, from forced proximity to accidental nakedness to peril, and I can honestly say that I cheered out loud when they finally (FINALLY!) got together. And after all that pining and waiting and almost-but-not-quite moments, the blessed act was both hot and tender, a perfect mix of emotional and physical intoxication.

Oh, and the prose! How could I forget such gorgeous, careful wordsmithing? Meadows writes like no other, a breathy mix of nineteenth century eloquence and the best that contemporary prose has to offer. I highlighted passage after passage, line after line, until I finally gave up and just let myself swim in the words, which carried the already breathtaking romance to new emotional heights.

You should read A Strange and Stubborn Endurance by Foz Meadows if you want a romantic fantasy with superb worldbuilding, depth of character, and prose, with a slow-building romance that culminates in a most satisfying physical and emotional conclusion. This is one of the best books I have read in the romantasy field, and it deserves a place on your bookshelf and in your heart.

I DNFed this book at a little over 50%, which I was sorry to do. The premise, a fantasy romance with an LGBTQ+ couple forced into a political marriage that turns into true love, was intriguing but the execution couldn't keep my interest. It read like a fleshed-out fanfiction entry, and I wasn't into the overly done writing style.

On the positive side, "A Strange and Stubborn Endurance" was fast-paced and had a diverse, inclusive cast of characters that included gay, trans, and disabled people. But that was about all I liked about it. Certain parts of the story didn't quite make sense. For example, a character's father was attacked and instead of rushing to his father's side, he took the time to get another character clothing first. Then a powerful political figure opened up and explained all of her strategies to the main character, Velasin, immediately after meeting him. Even if he did just marry into the family, that seemed unlikely to me. "Hi, I just met you, and have no reason to trust you, but here's all my thinking on who I'm choosing to be my heir."

In general, the world=building read like info dumps. Every new tradition and custom Velasin comes across is overly explained. We are told rather than shown Ralian and Titheni customs over and over again in a tiresome amount of dry detail. There's also magic in this world, but it felt rather pointless (at least in the first half of the book). A few weak spells are thrown around but the magical system isn't fully developed.

I finally had to quit reading when there was a punitive measure taken against a character that literally turned my stomach. Other people may enjoy this book, but it just wasn't for me.