Wonderful novel! I laughed and cried-a lot. I saw so much of myself in Maddie (Maame). So grateful for a digital arc of this beautiful book!

Maddie is a young woman living at home, taking care of her father, who has Parkinson’s disease. She has a caregiver to help during the day, when she goes to her job as a PA at a theater, but at night it’s up to her to provide care. Her mother lives in Ghana most of the time, and her brother travels around the world with musicians. Needless to say, Maddie has grown up quickly, learning to take care of the household and her father, but it comes at a cost. Maddie hasn’t been able to grow in other ways by living on her own or with flatmate or dating much. After Maddie’s mother comes back to London for a year, Maddie decides to move out and finds a place close to work with two flat mates, Jo and Cam. She’s enjoying her new life and finally dating a few men, when an event at home shatters Maddie’s existence. There is a reason why Maddie is called Maame, a word in Twi meaning Woman. She is a brave, young woman figuring out life one piece at a time. Overall, an enjoyable read.

5⭐️

<b> It’s an ordinary week within the most extraordinary circumstances because apparently—and this is what everyone fails to mention about the grieving process—I still have to live.</b>

Maddie is 25 and takes care of her father who has Parkinson’s. Maddie’s mother spends every other year in Ghana taking care of her family’s hostel, and Maddie’s brother, James, prefers to travel and live his own life. When Maddie’s mom returns to London, Maddie finally moves out of her father’s house and begins living her life for herself. She has flatmates and begins dating and trying new things, she has a new job as a publishing admin (after being fired from her previous admin job). When Maddie receives the worst news after a night out with her flatmates, she is left grappling with her newfound guilt and grief.

This book is funny and heartbreaking and I loved every minute of it. Maddie’s character is so lovable and relatable that you can’t help but love her and all her quirks. It was great to watch her character develop and to watch her become her own independent self. I grieved with her when she lost her father and had to figure out how to navigate life in his absence, and I cheered for her when she stood up for herself and started finding peace in her new normal. This is the best book I have read so far this year!

<b> “Accept that your life is different now because of this monumental, irreversible change and that it’s okay to feel guilty one day and indescribable happiness another. This is life now,” he says. “This is how you live.”</b>

I love a vibrant book! Maame isn’t just a coming of age story, it has culture, humor and heart. Maddie’s awkward character is vulnerable and enjoyable. It almost made me miss my twenties, almost!

I’ll miss hanging out with Maddie Maame! I hope we get to see more of her in the future.

** That amazing cover art fits the story, the character and the journey so well.

Good luck, Jessica George! And congrats on the Jenna pick.

Madeleine Wright is a twenty-five year old woman living at home in London; she is a daughter, a sister, a personal assistant, and a caretaker. She is many titles and yet does not know herself or who she is outside of her titles.

Maddie’s mother spends the majority of her time in Ghana, where Maddie’s parents lived until Maddie and her older brother, James, were born. James too is largely absent. It would not be far fetched to claim “abandonment,” especially as Maddie’s recent years have been spent caring for her father with advanced-stage Parkinson’s. Her days are scheduled by her father’s needs. His health is heavily dependent on Maddie’s ability to be with him and oversee his well-being.

Maddie eventually moves out of her father’s home during one of her mother’s stints back in London. What follows is Maddie learning to separate herself from who is expected to be, in order to determine who she wants to be as her own person.

I thought this novel was extremely well done in its portrayal of all sorts of friendships, dating scenarios, workplace scenarios, and generally growing up and away from familial expectations. Maddie’s experiences were viscerally familiar. Googling what’s normal in a situation. Internally through a social situation. Experimenting with dating and nightlife.

Most poignantly, this novel tackled depression, anxiety, and grief with nuance and grace. Those aspects of the book became my favorite, because of how relatable they were. Maddie stood off the page for me in those later moments, and I think it was because she was fully herself, feeling her emotions and allowing herself to react genuinely to the situation. I LOVED whenever Maddie stood up against her mother; it was a long time coming! Maddie’s acceptance of what their relationship could actually be was a beautiful moment. Her growth was evident.

Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin’s Press for an advanced digital copy of Maame in exchange for this honest review.

✨Book/Audiobook Review🎧📖

Thank you to @stmartinspress and @macmillan.audio and @netgalley for the eARC and ALC for Maame. I totally had a blonde moment and thought I had until February 7th for pub day on this one. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Nope, that was the archive date on Netgalley. Oops!

OK, so my main commentary on this book is that it is worth ALL the hype. It is so frickin’ good and I loved almost every minute. I went into this one completely blind, just knowing it was a popular ARC. Alllll the topics are covered and in such a fantastic voice. Everything from family roles, grief, racism, work dynamics, friendships and virginity/sexuality are all part of this incredible coming-of-age story. I loved Maddie AKA Maame so, so, so much and I love how her story wrapped up in the end.

I can’t believe this is Jessica George’s debut! Watch out for this author, she’s going places! Whatever she writes next, I will be at the front of the line to read ASAP!

P.S. This narrator, Heather Agyepong, is amazing and her accent is 👏🙌. I highly recommend going the audio route for this one. Those Ghanaian accents add to an already incredible story.

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All the stars!

A #ReadWithJenna book pick, Maame is a "late-coming-of-age" novel that sees Maddie Wright learn what it means to live, without the expectations of your family.

I just adored this debut, Jessica George writes with a startling authenticity. It made Maddie one of the most relatable central characters I have read in a long time. While she is a youngest child, she is also the only girl in her family and from a very young age was called Maame (woman), leading to expectations from family that ultimately translated to incredibly high expectations for herself. While not the same, I related to this as the oldest sibling who often tries to act out that role.

While Maddie is 25, she does not have the life experience most people do at that age because she has spent too much time caring for her father who suffers from Parkinson's. This is a perfect example of someone who had to grow up in one way - but never did in another. I found her concern about making friends, dating and over-googling hysterical and likely true to life.

George is an incredibly talented writer, she took a character-driven novel and gave it legs. I never once got bored, nor did the story ever drag. I am incredibly eager to pick up whatever she releases next.

This story was beautiful. Right from the beginning I was pulled in by the writing style, the raw truth and emotion in Maddie’s story. I enjoyed this coming of age story because Maddie’s a bit older than the teen version of these stories that I’ve read before, so I appreciated the writing of seeing these moments through an adult’s eyes but still for the first time.

There were some challenging topics brought up in this book such as sex, depression, and grief - all of which I thought were handled so sensitively as Jessica George navigated them through Maddie’s eyes. The insight into the culture was interesting as well, especially in the context of ‘Maame’ and the different views of the “woman” of the family. In addition, to the way Maddie was culturally expected to react to the above challenging situations.

Overall this was a wonderfully written book that was entirely relatable, and I really could have read Maddie’s story all day.

Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the ARC in exchange for an honest review. To be posted on my IG @manis.and.manuscripts this week!

This beautiful book contains a story about Maddie, known as Maame (woman – the nurturer) to her family, was immersive and beautifully complex. It is a charming, vividly drawn, and poignant coming-of-age tale about a 25 year old people pleaser starting out in London’s publishing world. Dealing with friendships vs. family secrets, racism in the workplace vs. expectations of a junior employee, racism in relationships – a toke or a trophy vs. being loved for oneself, familial obligations packed into biblical quotes vs. finding oneself as the only one trying to actually fulfill the obligations, and grief, the loss of a parent, but also for the need to alienate, to set boundaries - this story was simply wonderful.
It was fabulous to see Maddie finding her inner strength and learning to prioritize herself and her dreams, learn to speak up for herself, step by step.

Struggling with family responsibilities and a ho-hum job, Maddie moves out of the family home and strikes out on her own. Through pluses and minuses, she finds herself learning about life and love. Well written and recommended.

4.5 stars

I read most of this on my own, but the audiobook came in and I ended up listening to the last 30% of the book. As much as I was drawn into her story on its own merits, the audiobook really added to my experience.

This was an adult coming-of-age story with Maddie never really having a childhood. As a result, she is mature beyond her years, but so innocent in many other ways, especially with regard to dating, as well as her dreams of working in publishing. Maame means woman in Ghanian, which is fitting since she raised herself after her mother moved back to Ghana and her father was mostly absent, lost in his work, and her older brother hopped around his friends' homes.

This story covers many themes, and it does it well. These include racism, workplace discrimination, terminal illness, grief, depression and suicide, sexuality, difficulties with roommates, true friendship, familial and cultural expectations, forgiveness and acceptance, arranged marriages, and navigating the workplace to make your voice heard. The story moved me to tears more than once, and I cheered for her as she found her voice. As serious as many of these issues are, somehow the author found a good balance and even when I was crying for her, I never felt like the book was stifling. In the end, I felt like I had read a heartwarming story as Maddie comes into her own.

My short experience with the narrator, Heather Agyepong, was so positive that I will probably go back and listen to the whole thing.

I received an advance review copy for free from NetGalley, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

Maddie is young black woman of Ghanaian heritage, living in London and caretaking for her father who suffers from Parkinson’s. Her mother and brother are mostly absent. When her mother returns from one of her extended trips back home to Ghana, Maddie finally gets her chance to move out of the family home, stop being a caregiver and get to experience the challenges of roommates, lovers, friends, work challenges and figuring out who she is within and outside of her family. Maame, meaning ”woman”, is the name her mother calls her, a name that Maddie sees as a burden. A terrific read. Thanks to the author, publisher and NetGalley for a preview copy.

Maame is a solid debut novel, focusing on a 25-year-old Londoner of Ghanaian heritage, Maddie. She has been the main family member to help care for her ailing father, who is suffering from an advanced case of Parkinson’s. Her brother makes excuses. Her mother is out of the country, running a hotel in Ghana, more often than she’s in London. So it all falls on Maddie’s head (yes, there’s a health aide that comes to help out too). When her mother arrives in London and says she’s staying for a long time, Maddie takes the opportunity to move out and try to start her life. In a way, this is a delayed-coming-of-age novel.

I liked this book but didn’t love it. I did enjoy learning more about the Ghanaian culture and the Ghanaian diaspora in England (although I would have liked to learn more!). Maddie is pretty immature socially for someone in her mid-20s, someone who has a university degree, even though she’s mostly been a homebody, not completely by choice. She habitually consults Google for answers to questions about social situations, which I found odd (but perhaps someone younger wouldn’t think it odd). Examples: “How to be happy” and “What to do when you’ve been fired” and “How long do guys wait before asking a girl out on a date?” She really wants to fit in and lets her new flatmates drag her into situations that make her uncomfortable, in an effort to be more “normal.” There is a big deal made of the fact that she’s still a virgin at 25. A positive aspect was how the author treated mental health issues, panic attacks, grief and so on. And her treatment of the everyday subtle racism Maddie endures was another good part of the book.

Her mother was a mostly unlikeable character and we didn’t really get to know her dad at all, due to his advanced illness. I realize that in many (most?) cultures, it is expected that the daughter take care of the parents, but her brother was worthless and that really annoyed me, in addition to her mother being out of the picture. Maddie shows a lot of growth, both interpersonally and at work, over the course of the book, but it really only shows up in the later portions of the book. I think people in their 20s and 30s will relate to a lot of situations that arise in this story.

I bounced between the audiobook and the ebook for this title, which was very convenient. The audiobook was beautifully narrated by Heather Agyepong.

Thank you to Macmillan Audio and NetGalley for the opportunity to listen to an advance copy of this audiobook and to St. Martin’s Press and NetGalley for the opportunity to read an advance reader copy of this book. All opinions are my own.

Twenty-five-year old Maddie has always lived at home. Her older brother lived his own life elsewhere, while her mother flew back and forth yearly from Ghana where she ran a business. Her father has Parkinson’s disease, so Maddie must struggle to pay bills, take care of him, deal with discrimination at her job and hold down the fort. For years Maddie has had dreams of what it would be like to have her own place, to live her own life, and to finally have a boyfriend.

Years later, when her mother decides to return home to care for her ailing husband, Maddy finally has the chance to leave and become the woman of her dreams. What she finds is that life with roommates, a new job and a boyfriend is not what she had expected. Now faced with new struggles, including death, betrayal and depression, Maddie must figure out her place in this new world she’s entered and live up to her ancestral name.

Recommended for Adults.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for an honest review

WOW, Jessica George sure knows how to pack a book with great topics that women have to deal with:
• 𝘍𝘪𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘮𝘮𝘪𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘴 (𝘎𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘪𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘜𝘒)
• 𝘔𝘪𝘤𝘳𝘰𝘢𝘨𝘨𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴 𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘶𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘺
• 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦
• 𝘔𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘭 𝘏𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩
• 𝘕𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘨𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘥𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴
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Maddie is the type of friend you just want to nurture and look out for. I wanted to literally stick up for everyone who made her uncomfortable or spoke out of line.
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Maddie is “coming to age” (even though she’s in her 20’s) by living on her own after being her fathers caretaker for so long (Parkinson’s). She is experiencing life for the first time naively while having to google her way through situations. I won’t spoil some of her google searches.
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Jessica did an amazing job capturing the reality and severity of many topics while keeping it full of humor and lightness. This was such a raw and truthful experience of how hard it can be to navigate between two lives and two cultures while finding yourself. It is never too late to find yourself and love what you’ve survived.

"......... it's easy to conflare being well-liked with being well-loved. There's a misconception to be well-loved, the love has to come from multiple sources, when truthfully, one or two people can love you with the strength of ten."

Maame means woman or little mother in Twi. She received this nickname as a child. This nickname has been okay but she now feels the weight of it suffocating her and she has been going by Maddie.
The caretaker of her father she was forced to grow up fast. Her brother is busy with his life and doesn't have time for their father. Living in London she is the daughter of Ghanaian immigrant parents. Her mother who is frequently gone, living in Ghana helping her brother run a hostel. Her mother is usually gone for a year at a time or more and Maddie has had to be the responsible one, forced to be mature and raise herself. Their family is private, and she has no one to speak with about her cares and concerns. As her father's health deteriorates, he depends on her more and they become closer in a way they had not been when he was well.
She must suppress a lot including depression and anxiety. She feels like she is being held back socially as she has always put others needs ahead of her own.
Thrilled when her mother returns home she is ready to take charge and live her life including getting her own flat and starting to seriously date.
Maddie experiences many first and starts to come into her own.
The author handles grief, loss and racism in a way that will make you want to examine the way you handle these. This book vividly brings to life the culture and ideals of the mother land. Heartbreaking and healing this book is emotional and poignant. There are a lot of tough subjects that the author deals with in a respectful way.

Pub Date 31 Jan 2023
I was given a complimentary copy of this book.
All opinions expressed are my own.

Jessica George
St. Martin's Press
Pub Date 31 Jan 2023

Jessica George's Maame is a delightful, heart-tugging novel full of the pressures of tradition and a host of other family issues that will make readers laugh and cry.

This is a surprisingly quick read that had me alternating between tears and laughing out loud. The main character, Maddy, finally moves out of her parent's house in her mid-twenties, is searching to find who she is outside of what her family has always expected.

I can see why this book has quickly been selected for numerous book club selections for Feb.
If you love a good story about family, finding love, finding inner strength, and dealing with grief then this is certainly for you.

Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the dARC of this work in exchange for my honest review.

What a phenomenal debut. I went in a little blind with this one, so I wasn't sure what to expect but I loved it. Maddie was such a relatable character; her independent solitary nature really resonated with me; there were numerous times where I felt her thoughts mirrored my own and I was rooting for her to find her way and find happiness the entire time. The writing was impeccable - alternating between funny, heartbreaking and insightful and touched on so many universal issues - family drama, grief, job struggles, dating, friendships and mental health. It's a brilliant, unique coming-of-age story that I think everyone will be able to identify with. I highly recommend it and it will easily be one of my favorites of the year.

Thank you to NetGalley, St. Martin’s Press and Macmillan Audio for the advanced copies.

A story about a young woman trying to “find’ herself. Her life revolves around taking care of her father and going to work. She doesn’t really have a personal life between her father and work.
To top it all off, she isn’t happy in her work life nor her personal life.
As she is given the opportunity to strike out on her own, she has to learn how to navigate being on her own. She’s always been the responsible one, the people pleaser, the good person. In many ways, because of her upbringing, she is very immature in so many ways. She resorts to Google to answer the most mundane questions.
For me, this was a ok read.
Thank you to NetGalley, the publisher and author for the opportunity to read this book for my honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.

I just finished Maame yesterday and really enjoyed it. I’d describe it as a coming of age story for twenty five year old Maddie. She lives at home taking care of her dad who has Parkinson’s while her mom is living in Ghana. I really liked her sense of humor amidst some heavier topics. The book touches on race, depression, dealing with grief and the desire to find one’s true self. Jessica George does an excellent job of creating a character that’s true to life and Maddie’s journey is heartfelt.