Author Darwent leaves tantalizing hints and clues to exactly what went wrong in Clare's life before she moved to Edinburgh to attend University and reinvent herself. Appearing awkward, shy and friendless, there seethes under Clare's skin a desire to hurt and cause pain to others. New friends, Tabitha, Ava, Imogen and Samuel recognized the hidden side of Clare and set about recruiting her for their new business venture; entrapping married men and making them suffer as they lose their wives, houses, jobs and families. But the business isn't always neat and tidy and when a plan goes off the rails and Clare is physically assaulted she decides it is time to move on from the group and try to be a better person. However, someone in the group knows what she did as a young girl and is using that knowledge to keep Clare from leaving. A psychologically based tale of human need and revenge with just enough "bread crumbs" to lead the reader from Clare's bizarre childhood to her seemingly normal adult life. A tale to keep the pages turning.

I was so confused on what was going on for like half the book. It started to pick up for me around the 60% mark. Everything started clicking. Connections were being made and the twist got me. The ending was not what I was expecting.

Be careful what you wish for!

Are you lonely, away at university, feeling unmoored? In need of friends? Maybe some excitement? Maybe you want to be in the “in crowd”?

Ha!

Again, be careful what you wish for.

Clare finds herself just there…alone, lonely, feeling unliked and “weird”, cast off from her university peers until one day fate delivers the change.

Tabitha, the wealthy queen bee comes in to a bar with her underling, Imogene. An unlikely friendship follows.

Clare finds herself in the mix with Tabitha and her wealthy cohort: Imogene, Samuel and Ava. She longs to shed her former self, become someone new.

Again…and again…be careful what you wish for.

Clare has some dark secrets herself and as the group embarks on a risky side business entrapping wealthy man with their own marital infidelities, the game Clare finds herself playing suddenly changes.

Dark. Atmospheric. Disorienting. And twisty. Readers will find familiarity here with works like The Heathers and A Secret History, where what we wish for collides with everything we are desperate to hide.

4⭐️

Wow! Definitely was not expecting this book to be a big thrill! It was suspenseful and definitely had a good amount of drama in it to keep you guessing how the ending was going to be. Excellent writing and cool cover!

Thank you NetGalley, Heather Darwent and Random House Publishing Group for the ARC of The Things We Do to Our Friends. This is my personal review.
I was looking forward to reading this book. I like a good suspenseful book to put a mixture on my reading list. I read this and just could not find much suspense as I read.
The book was a bumpy read and I read it but did not enjoy reading it. I found Clare annoying, and I did not really care what happened to her in the story. I finished the book and almost immediately forgot almost everything in the book.

This is a very Disturbing dark novel that never seem to get off the ground. I keep waiting for something to happen, and it never did. The whole novel just felt way too long, I did not like the characters. Not one of my favorites

Thank you to #NetGalley for providing me with an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review.

This book read so slowly, that I thought I was almost finished I was only a quarter of the way in! It left me with a lot of questions, and this was a very difficult read for me. I rarely give up on reading a book. I kept waiting for the real meat of the story to come out. There were pacing issues, and the first part felt a bit like pulling teeth.

Clare is a university student in Scotland studying Art and some people at school find her weird but she is able to fool people and make friends. We find out early in the book that she has a very dark secret in her past but for some reason, I was still not interested. I feel the author had a good plot, but the writing just dragged on and on.
It’s a dark academia thriller! I didn’t care for or about any of the characters and I felt as if they fell flat.

I was so excited for this book. The cover is stunning, and the synopsis was enticing. Maybe I'm just not a dark academia person, but this story fell flat for me. I found the main character to be annoying, and I couldn't relate or connect with any of the other girls. As I kept reading, it seemed like the plot wasn't developing deeply enough to make this book phenomenal. Everything felt very surface level, and when I finally got to the end, I was like, "Really? All of that for this?" It reminded me a bit of The Maidens, which I also despised and had a very similiar reaction to.

This is a very dark, twisted book about dark, twisted friends. I had a hard time getting in to it.
The writing is good, but the characters are all so damaged and unlikeable. The story doesn’t really start until about half way, which is a long time to not know what is going on.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an ARC. When I read the premise and saw the comp was The Secret History, I was immediately intrigued and the book did not disappoint.

The MC is a girl, Clare, who had something dark happen when she was younger in France, and her parents wanted nothing to do with her so she ends up living with her granny. A bit later she moves to Edinburg for college to reinvent herself. She falls in with this group that calls themselves "The Shivers," led by a girl name Tabitha, the type of girl that everyone loves but also secretly kind of hates. Tabitha has convinced Clare and the others to begin working on a project together, but the more they work on the project, the more dark things become.

I really enjoyed this book and honestly couldn't put it down. The story is going to stay with me a long time. The writing was gorgeous and I'm convinced this is going to be such a hit. I can't wait to read the author's next book!

Thank you to NetGalley and Random House for the DRC!

Vivid, brutal, and chilling. Clare's trying to get a fresh start at uni in Edinburgh after a troubled upbringing in France, when she falls into the schemes by a group of students she's named The Shiver: Samuel, who calls in favors to get their business off the ground; Imogen, who's intelligent but too willing to go along with plans if it means being included; Ava, organized and manipulative to keep the wheels turning; and then Tabitha, a kind of manic pixie nightmare girl whose eyes for vengeance are too big for everyone else's stomachs. The four of them rope Clare into their business--of luring rich men to commit acts of infidelity and provide the proof to their wives who are looking for an exit plan.

Told in a clear, compelling voice from a compulsively readable narrator, I was entranced by the fictions these characters created throughout the story. The story gradually leads the reader down increasingly worrisome acts of subterfuge, almost daring the reader to get off the train before it goes off the rails. Clare is a sympathetic protagonist, but one who challenges the reader's capacity for empathy in ways that are subtle and thought-provoking. I was really interested in the frame of the story; Clare is recounting these events in the retrospective, when she's married to some wealthy, nondescript man she feels she's on the verge of leaving. However, the details of this frame are too vague to contain the explosive story of the schemes themselves. It makes sense to keep things vague to maintain the intrigue of the ending, but this was one place where I wanted more detail.

I can imagine teaching this book in the context of teaching a full class on college literature--books about the university experience. While not everyone going to college gets involved in a series of scandals that are just on the edge of international in scope, the book does examine the sensitive period where one is not quite a fully-fledged adult, vulnerable and impressionable, and violently shaped by external forces.

Thank you to Random House Publishing Group- Ballantine, Bantam, to Net Galley, and to author Heather Darwent for this ARC of The Things We Do To Our Friends.

This story grabbed me from the start and kept me enthralled to the end. There is childhood sadism and abuse, young-adult class-envy and identity crises, toxic and codependent friendships, and psychological drama of sociopathy.

I had difficulty reading the more graphic parts of the novel but could understand it as a tool to understand our enigmatic main character. Clare is relatable in part, in her desire to make herself anew, and better, in her new academic world.
She is otherwise quite different from most - and unable to tolerate the mundane in people or in life.
She finds what she seeks in her group of new sinister friends.

Their unorthodox and privileged life is both a fantasy and a nightmare, but Clare finds success in it. The unfurling of at just what cost provides creeping tension to the very end of the book.

Four stars. One star subtracted just because of my personal discomfort with torture scenes.

I felt like I was on edge the entire time I was reading this book. You are immediately pulled into the mystery of Clare's past and the glittering circle of friends that she covets joining. Events get more and more disturbing the deeper you go into the story, but it's like a gruesome scene you just can't look away from. Trying to puzzle out the relationships within the group, and Clare's secret, kept me turning those pages to the end of this disquieting yet satisfying thriller.

Thank you to NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group Ballantine for access to this arc.

This was a first time read of mine for this author, but won’t be my last time. I love the way she developed the main character. The book gives little pretty liars vibes/dark tendencies with in the group of friends the main character falls in with. The story just gives you enough about Clare’s past till the middle of book, that mystery keep me reading more and more.

This book was very interesting! It really puts into perspective the struggle of how far someone will go to feel like they are "normal" and that they fit in. I found some parts of the book to be repetitive and a bit mundane - but that being said, I was definitely intrigued to keep on reading. The opening of the book also immediately grasped my attention. I also was satisfied with the ending and felt like it fit the story well!

Clare travels from the small town of Hull to Edinborough to attend college. She is in a new place, living with new people - it is a chance for a fresh start. This is her first step in her adult life. She gets a job in a bar and waits on some fellow students. The group of four invites her to do things with them. Clare meets their leader, the very charismatic Tabitha. As the group bonds, Tabitha begins taking them in a new direction that will lead to the discovery of their true selves.

Heather Darwent captures and perfectly describes the fun of the first year at university. The excitement of a new place to explore and the chance to make new friends, leaving the mistakes of your past behind. She explores the formation of new friendships and the loyalty of friends. When your friends expect you to join them in an activity, do you? How does a charismatic leader shape the group? Eventually, Clare finds herself wanting to leave the group but she will find it hard to let this group go. Can she move forward independently?

These characters remind you of a type of Gossip Girls group, Entitled, and self-absorbed, they expect things to always turn out their way. When they don't, it is stunning. Will they try again or will they move on to their next adventure? One of these friends is a psychopath. The author describes the dispassionate way that a psychopath uses people and discards them much as you would paper when you were finished with it. It is truly chilling to see life through their emotionless eyes. The ending is surprising, one I never saw coming. This is the debut book for this author and she is off to a fantastic start.

The Things We Do to Our Friends is an atmospheric dark academia tale. Think of all the dark academia books you've read, and unfortunately, this just does not hold up. I wanted a lot more from this book. I wish there were more layers and more meaning/insight. Ultimately, The Things We Do to Our Friends just left me wanting more.

I don't think I like this book. I don't know. There are very few times where I have not been able to figure out how I feel about a book, but here we are. It was confusing and a lot of the scenes made me uncomfortable, disgusting, etc. but that doesn't mean it was bad. It was a good story, I suppose, or else I wouldn't have kept reading, but I feel no real connection to the story, to the character, anything.

This is such a complex, twisted, and dark debut! I honestly think I'm still reeling from the way it all happened. I think this is great for anyone who loves a slow burn lead-up, who loves twisted, sinister, and complicated characters, and who likes an ending that will leave them feeling a little disturbed. Because just you think things can't get any worse or people can't do anything more horrible...something still happens, even at the end.

I'll start by saying that the first half of this book was difficult for me to get through. I kept coming back and reading it in pieces. The friend dynamic in this novel is very complex and dark. It's also not something I fully understand, so it felt frustrating to read almost. But I think that the way things layer on each other and how the friendship builds is vital to the later half of the book, so I'm happy that I did push through because it ended up being worth it. I genuinely believe that a slow build-up is worth it as long as the book's latter half is good, which this book had. I will say that once things start happening, they don't stop. It only gets worse and more twisted. I felt so much anxiety during the build-up in the later half, and that's always a good sign things are going right with the writing.

I also think this author does really well with this slow build-up. Her writing style is very much meant to build on itself. I think that it's fascinating that Darwent both says things quite simply, yet there's so much underneath what the characters are saying, their gestures, and the overall writing. It's a lot to unpack, and I think many readers will find that appealing and satisfying. I know that now that I've finished it, I would find many things I missed in those earlier parts if I were to go back and reread it. I seriously felt like I was getting sucker punched in those last chapters while learning everything, wondering how I missed those pieces earlier. I love it when things are hidden clearly and openly between pages, and the ending reveals everything.

I also keep asking myself, is it possible to be surprised but not shocked by a book's ending? Part of me felt like I saw the end coming, and the other part was incredibly puzzled by it all. It's like I knew things were bad, I knew who these characters were and what they were capable of, I knew how dark and twisted things were becoming, and yet I get to the ending, and I'm just wholly perplexed and, honestly, put off by it in a lot of ways?! I also liked that you don't get the reveal of that prologue/first chapter/Clare's past until the end. Reading that tied it up so, so well, and I think it left me feeling more satisfied than if it had been revealed earlier.

Overall, this was a slow burn with a very satisfying ending. I liked how complex and intriguing all of the characters were. It made me think about how morally gray people can be, how we all have this side to us that no one else knows unless we tell them or show them, and how far we're willing to go to be accepted or to keep those we love around us. It left me reeling and feeling a bit disturbed but in a good way (if there can be a good way to be disturbed). I think the entirety of this was unique, and I'm looking forward to what the author comes up with next. I'm all for dark storylines with twisted, unreliable characters, and I think their writing style fits that perfectly!

And thank you, Netgalley and Ballantine, Bantam, for the chance to read this early for a review!

The Things We Do to Our Friends by Heather Darwent was a very dark story. I felt no connection with any of the players. Clare's obsession with Tabitha and her crew flows through out the story. In order to not spoil the story, I won't go too much in depth.
In my opinion, the story ended with an open ended story line. I wanted to know more about Clare and her life after but didnt get that. The writer brings in Clare's husband in the end but we know nothing about him or how he meets her. Over all, I did not like this story. I was led on a crazy wild ride but still I don't feel as if I understood the story.