A beautifully written book about family history and love.

Told through the viewpoint of Betty, a girl born blue, we learn of her family’s fairytale like history. The strength of this novel was the love between Betty and her aunt Nuha. The story is told as if Betty is speaking to her aunt, which sometimes left me a little confused and made for a slower paced book.

•”I’ve not come to harass the dead. But in spite of my skin and my density and a lifetime of being stared at, I’m still human.”

One of the best stories told was Betty’s friendship with a pen pal in grade school. The feeling of being an other was told with such honesty. The author also has a wonderful sense of humor woven throughout the book. Never missing an opportunity to make a joke.

•”Don’t ever forget the Eleventh Commandment: Make your own cash.”

I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys family epic’s. And books written in the second person. Maybe read the first page or so to confirm that you like the writing style.

I really wanted to love this book. The idea was super interesting and the topics that it explored were great. It just fell super flat to me. I had to force myself to finish it and ended up just skimming the end. The pov made it super hard to follow along and I could never tell if it was in the past or present. The writing style also just took me out of the book and was hard to follow along. I feel bad rating this book so low and I’m so upset it didn’t live up to what I expected. Don’t let this review stop you from reading it
though!

The synopsis of The Skin and Its Girl sounded like it would be right up my alley but it just didn't work or me. I actually tried reading the eGalley initially but DNF'ed it. After the book was released, I borrowed an audiobook from my library to give it another try and finished it but wish I had DNF'ed it. One of the major setbacks for me was the fact that I did not understand or like the POV. The Skin and Its Girl is told by a girl born with blue skin facing a big life decision talking to her great aunt who has passed way (Isabel Allende employed a similar narrative in her recent book Violeta which did not work for me either). It often did not make sense as the narrator would recount events during which she was not present including first-hand experiences of her great-aunt... It was confusing but in an effective way for me.

"The whole of human history grew out of our demolished origins: a story in a mess of fragments."


This is one of those books that I’m scared to write a review about, because nothing I can say can do justice to the incredible writing in The Skin and Its Girl. It also hits very, very close to home for me in a lot of ways, in coming from a mixed family and growing up feeling like an alien compared to everyone around you and losing a maternal figure who you looked up to throughout your childhood, so like, bear with me please.

The Skin and Its Girl touches on so many themes running through the life of one sprawling, messy immigrant family, so I don’t know that I can say definitively what it’s about. It deals with queerness, motherhood, mental health, family dynamics and secrets, love, grief, political unrest…it all comes together to paint such a rich, realistic portrayal of the life of its main characters. The story is told as a recounting of the main character Betty’s life, but also the life of the great aunt who raised her (there’s a lot of second-person here, which may not be everyone’s thing but I love it). Betty narrates the story at her aunt’s grave, and there are certainly plenty of heavy moments in the story, but it’s ultimately a story driven by hope and love and a relentless push toward a better future.

Sarah Cypher also does an incredible job with the writing here. She strikes a very delicate balance between thoughtful, intelligent prose and compulsively readable storytelling; there’s so much going on in the language of this book but it’s so easy to read for hours and not even feel the time passing. Not many writers pull that off as successfully as in this book.

I really have nothing bad to say about this one. Please give it a try if it even slightly piques your interest.

Thanks to the publisher for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!

A few weeks later, I can barely remember the plot, but I loved the writing. A girl is born with bright blue skin and lives life surprisingly normally given those conditions and I'm sure it's all a metaphor. I dunno. I like it.

Mood: You want a map in hand while ancient voices playing backseat driver help to find your destination in the world. You want a story that connects not only people but myths to both the past and present, creating an anchor in their shared experience. You want a character who may be different but is authentic to who they are, and the problem isn't this difference but how others react to her, You want women to be celebrated for their strength, resilience and wisdom. You want queer representation, grace with mental illness, and a story that recognizes conforming isn't the answer. You want a story that creates space for those who see themselves as different. You're looking for a book that stimulates the intellectual analyzing of complex histories and families, generations of trauma, and grants hope.

This book will meet this and so much more.

This was absolutely beautiful. A family saga with an amazing cast of female characters. The main character, Betty, is visiting her Auntie Nuha's graveside and we journey with her through her family history as she tries to decide if she should stay in the only home she's ever known or follow her heart to be with her beloved. The writing was incredible, there is magical realism, mythology and folklore, family secrets, coming of age, and great representation (mental illness, LGBTQ+, Arab identity). Go read it, The Skin and It's Girl is a contender for my best book of 2023.

Thank you so much to NetGalley and Balantine for the ARC.

- thank you to netgalley and the publisher for an arc to review!

- the story was alright. the writing style was engaging to me, describing things well in second person pov, which i thought the author did well at. the characters did lack a little, but it wasn’t much of a bother, as they were built up more as the story went on. overall, a solid book.

Upon first try, I thought I wouldn't be able to read and relate to this book. It took a bit of time for me to pick it back up and I ended up enjoying it. The different perspective took some time to get used to, but the overall story and beauty in the writing was worth trying again. Nothing hit home for me in a deep way, but I appreciated the bits that made it up instead of the story as a hole.

This is Cypher's debut novel, and I requested it because I had heard it hyped, and the premise interested me - a girl who is born blue and family secrets? Hell yes. What I found was so much more. This story is about the stories we tell to our families and to ourselves and how they shape us, how you can be shaped by your family, and how a young girl finds herself among all these other things. It's honest about mental health, queerness, and how you find yourself among all these things, and the prose is gorgeous as hell. It feels almost mythic-poetic at times, and is just incredibly well written, especially as it comes to its final reveals. Definitely pick this up, it's a hell of a debut and worth your time and then some.

If one debut should be on everyone's list this year, it's Sarah Cypher's searing and lush novel The Skin and Its Girl.

Like so many stories, The Skin and Its Girl begins with the birth of a baby girl––but unlike other stories, the baby is born with vibrant blue skin. The Rummani family's centuries-old soap factory in Palestine is destroyed that same day. The matriarch, Aunt Nuha, believes the baby embodies their legendary history.

Years later, Betty faces the difficult decision to either stay in the United States or follow her lover across the world, continuing the exile her family has met for centuries. Using Nuha's notebooks and her memories, Betty finds her answer in her aunt's life and struggles but finds much more than an answer.

Throughout the novel, the writing kept making me pause with awe. Lush and thoughtful, the writing alone makes The Skin and Its Girl an engaging and beautiful read for the reader who takes their time to soak up and piece together the narrative.

Cypher weaves themes of trust, loyalty, and heritage effortlessly into the multilayered tapestry of Betty's memories, musings, and stories. She also draws on Palestinian legends and stories to connect Betty's present to Nuha's past and their family's history. The best example of this complexity is the skin plot device used for Betty and Nuha, which is used in vastly different ways but parallel throughout the novel. I won't spoil it, but this theme builds to a grand reveal that connects every memory, assumption, and story told in The Skin and Its Girl. Cypher's exploration of these themes, with the added layer of legends and history, make this debut a complex but utterly enchanting read for anyone interested in character studies.

Oh, and the twist concerning Nuha! It was Completely unexpected and nicely connected Betty's memories, stories, and assumptions of Nuha without giving it away too early. I won't spoil it, but it really took the skin metaphor to another level, so kudos to Cypher for that clever turn of events.

My only gripe with The Skin and Its Girl is that the ending was rushed in order, and Betty's decision wasn't entirely fleshed out––nonetheless, it's a masterful debut.

Stellar writing, deeply nuanced characters, and a hint of magical realism culminate in a debut that should be top of everyone's TBR this year.

This ARC was provided by Ballantine and Netgalley in exchange for a fair and honest review. Follow @bergreadstoomuch on Instagram for more!

I am torn about my feelings when it comes to this novel. On its head, I think it's a great story and I enjoyed reading it - but there was something about the writing style that turned me off a little bit. Maybe it felt a bit disconnected? I'm going to sit with my thoughts a bit longer before and return to this review when I have a bit more time to think.

I loved the idea of The Skin and Its Girl (that it follows the difficulties of living an authentic queer life through a story about a girl born with blue skin). The execution left me a bit cold, though. There's a lot going on in the story and the novel can't quite decide if it wants to commit to magical realism. The experimental wording can also frequently feel overly complex and inaccessible. Altogether, this is a good idea imperfectly told.

Even though I enjoyed the premise of this story, its length and meandering structure was a drag at times.

Cypher's blue central character has a lot to tell and it is linked indelibly to her mother's history and thus family dysfunction. We are moved through this tale by an all-seeing narrator who is also our central character, who relays what is told to her as if she had been there. This made me unsure of just how to appreciate her voice.

Starting off with this STUNNING cover, so amazing, right?

This book was so beautifully written, but I’m going to be honest, it was really hard to follow.

The novel’s narrator is Betty, and in the story she’s visiting her aunt’s gravestone, and the narration is as if Betty is talking to her throughout most of the novel.

There’s time jumps, sometimes the story is told from the POV from the aunt and the aunt is telling other stories to Betty as a child, Betty’s mother’s mental illness plays a big part in certain areas, oh and also Betty has blue skin. And it’s not a metaphor, her skin is actually blue and while it plays a part in the story I’m not sure why the author chose that? And the over arching storyline is Betty is narrating as an adult now and she’s trying to figure out if she should move away with the woman she loves, but that gets lost it so many of the other things going on.

This story truly shines when we are in Betty’s childhood, and we are getting her story, and the aunt’s story. I was really into it early on, and then the story would trail off, then when it was back on track chronologically I was focused again. I think maybe the author was just trying to do too much for one novel

But the writing really is beautiful, so I’m looking forward to the author’s second novel.

Thank you @netgalley and @randomhouse for sending this book for review consideration. All opinions are my own.

The Skin and Its Girls is a poetic, lyrical novel about multiple generations in a Palestinian family. For me, it was a slow burn, and it took a few attempts to become immersed in the story. The theme of skin as an outer membrane that covers up our true, honest inner selves is beautifully woven through all the characters. Cypher uses myths and folklore to create a complex tale that slowly unfolds, revealing deep connections and revelations. Her use of imagery and sensory details is remarkable, and I found myself highlighting phrases on almost every page. I would need to reread the book to truly understand all of the layers in this story.

The story is told by Betty to her aunt Nuha in the second person. This point of view worked well for this book, but was challenging for me, as a reader. Additionally, there were many characters who jumped through different time periods, which was confusing at times.

My thanks to NetGalley for an Advanced Readers Copy of this book. All opinions are my own and not biased in any way.

An incredible debut. The writing here is phenomenal, with language that is really evocative of Arab storytelling and Orthodox liturgies. Fables and tales come back over and over throughout the novel, with little changes to complement the story.

This is a story of a girl that was born, died, and came back to life... but blue. The novel follows Betty throughout her life, tracing her relationships to the three most important women to her, but mostly to her great-aunt Nuha, a strong and willful and funny survivor of a woman. Betty sits at Nuha's grave, retelling Betty's life story, while trying to make the decision of whether to move with her beloved to a new country, or stay in the US.

There are just so many layers to this story, with topics of mental health, queerness, Arab identity in the US, post 9/11 sentiment, coming of age, secrets, fables all woven into the strands of Betty's reflections. It was beautiful and funny and heartbreaking. Arab-Americans especially should pick this one up, but really if you like character studies, this is for you.

DNF'd
Started strong but could not get into the writing. Could have also been my headspace but felt very repetitive and the blue skin wasn't really explored enough in the beginning as much as I'd have liked

I thought this would be magical realism/literary fiction but it was just literary fiction which is fine but literally our main character has blue skin. How is this not magical realism? Maybe i'm nitpicking here though. I expected more and did find myself a little bored. I think it was well written but the WAY it was written didn’t work for me, it felt very back and forth. I really liked the beginning though, it started off strong until I lost interest. I thought it would rip my heart out but it did nothing of the sort. Not a bad book at all but I just don’t think I was in the right mood for this unfortunately.

Thank you to Netgalley for an advanced copy of this book!

I highlighted this book on my Booktube channel. The video can be accessed here: https://youtu.be/1IG1Y0S4odo