Sometimes I’ll get a book that I know I’m going to like a lot and I’m reluctant to read it because then it will have been read. I got my e-arc quite some time ago and was resistant to reading it for weeks. And then I finally opened it yesterday and read with brief breaks for sleep and food. I knew I would love it, I’m so glad I finally read it, and now I’m jealous of everyone who gets to read it for the first time.

The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen open in London with two lovers meeting for a tryst. They know each other as London and Kent. When Kent announces he has to go home, London reacts badly. They part, never expecting to see each other again.

London is Gareth Inglis. Shortly after the incident at the bar, he finds out his neglectful father has died. He has inherited a baronet title, a house on Romney Marsh (in Kent), money, and a sister who didn’t know he existed. He discovers that his father was even more selfish than he knew, but also that they share a fascination with the plants and insects of the marsh.

The plot really gets rolling when Sir Gareth discovers that his former lover is Joss Doomsday, the head of a smuggling family/gang. After a very unpromising start, the two build a lovely relationship. The work through misunderstandings and the class division between them. The threat of exposure is real, but they also find that there are people in their lives who accept them. There is drama and high stakes aplenty with disgruntled family members, treason, and greed.

I found myself looking up maps and images of Romney Marsh and the beetles Gareth found so fascinating. I started dreaming about I definitely want this one on my physical shelf because the cover is gorgeous.

CW: homophobia, misogyny, assault, murder, physical abuse by parent to child, emotional abuse and neglect by parent, attempted murder of child, torture, threat of rape, threat of hanging, death of parents and family in past.

I received this as an advance reader copy from Sourcebooks Casablanca and NetGalley. My opinions are my own, freely and honestly given.

I really enjoyed this one! I'm normally not a fan of noble/commoner relationships, but Gareth didn't feel like an uppity royal, so it didn't bother me. I found him to be adorable, and Joss was an excellent contrast to him. And I loved the smuggling plot! Having a smuggler as an MC was refreshing, and I loved getting the differing views of upper-class and lower-class men. It was nice to see characters talk through their issues and not just argue and ghost each other. I'd recommend this!

Thanks to Netgalley for providing a free copy in exchange for an honest review!

The thing about K.J. Charles is: I'm going to read her books, and I'm going to love them.

THE SECRET LIVES OF COUNTRY GENTLEMEN, a romping adventure with a baronet and clans of smugglers, was no exception. Charles writes such a stellar story -- this one is particularly engaging, funny, swoony, and tender, and the characters and the conflict had me captivated from the first page. I absolutely loved it.

A big thanks to NetGalley and Sourcebooks Casablanca for the e-ARC in exchange for my honest, unbiased review.

The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen was my first KJ Charles novel. I didn't know what to expect, and the opening from so abrupt that I initially thought The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen would be porn. But I was wrong. This novel is so much more than an exploration of sexuality. The sex is rather explicit, but I did not find it exploitive. At its heart, The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen is a love story between people from completely different social classes, set in early 19th century England.

The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen reveals the fictional lives of men engaged in smuggling during the Napoleonic war with England, where the smuggling of gold guineas, while a way to get rich, was actually treason. The characters in The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen are interesting and well-developed, except for Henry and Lionel, who are really cliches. The plot is complex and interesting, with some behavior audacious.

I enjoyed this novel very much and will look for more KJ Charles novels. Thank you to the author and publisher for providing this ARC, in exchange for my honest review. Thank you also to NetGalley for suggesting this novel.

Gareth is the son of a Baron. When his mother died, he was sent to his uncle’s home where he was bullied by his cousin and ignored by his uncle. He was also gay and, as London, met a man he called Kent at the Regency equivalent of a gay bar. When his father passed, Gareth went to Romney Marsh to collect his inheritance. There he met Joss, a free trader, and also the man he had known as Kent. To tell a potential reader more would lead to spoilers and isn’t necessary. The many plots are fascinating. They include smuggling, theft, murder, kidnapping and the relationship and growth of the two men. Thanks to Net Galley and Sourceboooks for an ARC for an honest review.

I loved that Joss and Gareth learn to work together as a team and support one another. The personal growth is really endearing. And I learned a lot about Kent!

It started off as an information dump and then transitioned into shoddy English. Just not my cup of tea. I didn't feel particularly connected to or interested in the characters. Stopped at 5%

Thank you to NetGalley and SourceBooks for the ARC.

Admittedly, the opening of The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen was a turnoff for me. I would have been okay with it starting with Gareth and Joss having a parting of ways before reconnecting on the marsh in Kent, but this just feels so awkward and deeply uncomfortable. Thankfully it improves from there, with Gareth quickly in between a rock and a hard place, or more accurately, his former paramour and pleasing his half sister by supporting her current paramour. Why? Because Joss is a smuggler who leads the family business with a chokehold in the area. As Gareth and Joss reconnect, Charles does a great job of showing growth (not that kind, you that have dirty minds!) as individuals. Their romance gives Gareth the courage to start standing up for himself and Joss to step back from all his responsibilities and start paying more attention to the people around him. The secondary story revolves around missing gold guineas, that pulls in the rival smuggling gang and Gareth’s not so beloved relatives. This tends to get a bit dizzying to me; with Joss and fellow smuggling head Nate going back and forth with their crews, trying to keep them in line and hold them accountable. While their relationship isn’t a publicly accepted thing in England in their time, and they are discreet about it, any controversy regarding it is minimal in their community and with their families, which allows the focus to be in a more enjoyable place in relatively lighthearted romance.

I always really enjoy KJ Charles, but this exceeded my expectations. I picked this up intending to read just a chapter or two and literally could not put it down until I had finished. The suspense and romance plots work very well together, and were equally entrancing. The side characters were wonderfully crafted, and the setting felt so real I wanted to visit.

I really enjoyed this! There was more mystery/tension than I was expecting, and the climax was a bit scarier than I was ready for, but if anything that just raised the stakes for the book overall. It was really good and I was fully rooting for their relationship.

Minor spoilers ahead: I felt really bad for Luke, and also the end had me forgetting that they couldn't really get married 🥲🥲🥲

I definitely want to read more by this author! Thank you to Sourcebooks Casablanca and Netgalley for the chance to read and review this ARC.

I loved this book. It has heart, is poignant, and gave me all the feels. I really appreciated the way the story incorporates Joss' identity as a biracial Black man, but doesn't make it a hurdle that the romance has to surmount. Gareth's understanding of himself, and his honesty, was really refreshing to read in a Regency romance. And also, it is has been far too long since there was a landed gentry (not an Duke, Marquess, or Earl)/smuggler romance. Absolute joy

KJ Charles has done it again - made me fall in love with an entire new cast of characters! Gareth got to me as the neglected and outcast son who desperately wants to be loved and wanted. Meanwhile Joss is shouldering the weight of his entire family and their smuggling operation, which leaves him little time for finding pleasure or happiness. Together these two strangers find something special in each other... and then lose it. Their entire relationship arc had me reading so fast because it is impeccably written! There's something about how KJ Charles writes conflict that gets me, like I hate to see the characters fight but at the same time it all felt warranted with both sides having legit reasons to be angry. All that to say, for people who enjoy the enemies to lovers trope, this book has it AND some delightful twists. There is so much going on in this book: family drama, class differences, debates over smuggling, fish out of water, scandals, and more. It definitely kept me on my toes and kept me wondering how things would turn out for the characters. I loved the historical setting and the geographical setting. Is it weird that I now want to visit a marsh and watched videos of diving beetles? I was absolutely captivated by this story and can't wait to read more in the series!

Thanks NetGalley!

What an amazing read!

I loved this book and it had everything i was looking for. It pulled me right out of my reading slump. It felt like home.

It has swoon worthy love, adventure, mystery and more, i mean come on what else do you need haha

Such a pretty cover and such an amazing story.

I’m so happy that i was able to read this. And if you are interested as well do not hesitate and read it as soon as it’s out!

My thanks to NetGalley for the arc, especially since this was one of my most anticipated books of the year! And let me just say, right off the bat, it did not disappoint. I knew going in there was going to be some insightful discussion of class dynamics, as this is the third title by KJ Charles I've read, and she has demonstrated in the past that you can write about rich people sympathetically while also calling out their privilege! The romance was lovely, and made sense for the characters--I really appreciated the character growth both Gareth and Joss experience, as it happened naturally and was mutually beneficial. The mystery was engaging instead of an afterthought, and the side characters (while not as prominent) felt like real human beings. Add in some incredibly witty dialogue, fun facts about local flora and fauna, and you've got a wonderful historical romance on your hands.

The Secret Lives of Country Gentlemen was basically a little slice of heaven. My enemies to lovers greed was quenched by this lovers to vague dislike to lovers again story, I got my steam wants met - All of which makes for a very happy reader.

Gareth Inglis & Josiah Doomsday are anonymous lovers who have a bit of a bitter break-up thanks mostly to Gareth’s past trauma.Then they unexpectedly meet again when Gareth—now a baronet after the death of his father—moves to his family home & into the life his estranged dad left behind. Unbeknownst to him, his former lover is the leader of a smuggling family within his new community & Gareth has gotten himself involved in a bit of a mess.

I just adored how sweet the relationship between Gareth & Joss is. They both want & need certain things from each other & it’s lovely how they make their relationship into a refuge—or maybe just embrace it as one. There are some lovely speeches & a symbolic gesture with pieces of grass *weeping* & it was all what I wanted.

There’s plenty of family drama & thrills in this one too & Charles captures this life & these characters so vividly. Can’t wait to return for more books—this was a good one!

Thank you to SOURCEBOOKS Casablanca & NetGalley for allowing me to read and review this digital ARC

In so many ways KJ Charles is the only one who could blend beetles, smugglers, and trampling around marshes with a romantic story and get it perfect. Gareth and Joss are so wonderful together. You can't help but root for these two from the very beginning of the book. The relationship between these two continues to grow and strengthen as the book continues and that ending sets up a sweet HEA.

I'm a long-time KJ Charles fan and enjoyed this outing very much. It's nice to leave London and great estates for a Regency, the smugglers' world of Romney Marsh was delightfully fleshed out, and of course the romance was great. I don't think the mystery/thriller element was quite as successful as in her Will Darling books, but I will certainly be recommending this one wholeheartedly. Is the next one about Sophy?

I was thrilled to get an advance review copy of KJ Charles’s latest historical romance.
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I loved it and read it in a day, which will surprise no one. Smuggling and entomology on nineteenth-century Romney Marsh, honestly do you need to know more?
Except perhaps that Josiah Doomsday is the best name invented since Dickens was churning ‘em out.

I have read and enjoyed a few KJ Charles books, but this is far and away my favorite. It had many of the same elements I enjoyed in her other books, such as intrigue, tension, and suspense, in addition to weightier topics such as class, race, and sexual orientation. The book also made me think a great deal about ethics and doing the wrong thing for the right reasons.

However, the romance was what really set this book apart for me. Garett and Joss are wonderful characters, both very flawed, but incredibly likable. I loved that instead of learning “the lesson” in the end, as is so common in most books, both characters did their best to learn and grow throughout the story. It made it feel much more real and satisfying. Additionally, the secondary characters were also delightful. Well, except for the bad guys of course.

I loved this story and these characters and I am so excited about the next book in the series! I can’t wait to read it!

Absolutely delicious! The plot revolves around smugglers and family. The two main characters are poles apart on the issue of smuggling but find they have a lot in common when it comes to family problems. The absolutely sweetest romance blooms, withers, then has the potential to bloom again. I loved all the local dialect from the Marshmen. So expressive!