I haven’t read the original book that this workbook is based on, but I didn’t find that to be a problem at all. This workbook stands well on its own and offers a wealth of insight and practical tools for anyone in polyamorous or consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships.

What I appreciated most is its focus on attachment styles and how they show up in non-monogamous dynamics. It offers a thoughtful framework for understanding emotional responses, insecurities, and connection patterns, which can be incredibly helpful when navigating the complexities of multiple relationships.

The exercises and reflections throughout the workbook are accessible and designed to foster deeper self-awareness and healthier communication. Whether you're new to polyamory or more experienced, the tools provided are useful for building more secure, fulfilling, and respectful partnerships.

Overall, this is a valuable resource for anyone looking to strengthen their CNM relationships through emotional insight and intentional growth—no prior reading required.

I recieved an arc of this book in exchange for an honest review

I'm sure it's great. But it's not a book that lends itself to kindle reading. I should know better by now than to even request workbooks/cookbooks/etc. but that's no fault of this author.

Very helpful info and question prompts for all types of relationships. Attachment styles are fascinating, and most of these prompts can be used to unpack your own attachment styles and generational attachment trauma to better understand what you want/need from your primary romantic relationships, secondary romantic relationships, and even friendships,

A great addition to Polysecure! Honestly a great time to come out before the holidays as a nice little package set up. The workbook is amazing even if you’re even a little bit curious with poly life. The first chapter is so good for everyone to try, even if you aren’t interested in poly life. Would recommend if anyone is buying the book as a great resource.