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I admit that going into "Winnie and Nelson: Portrait of a Marriage" by Jonny Steinberg, that I really didn't know a lot about this larger than life couple. Sadly another one of those very American situations where we are seemingly given a storybook glossy version of events.
Steinberg book spans a lifetime and provides a very in depth look at the various events that took place before, during and after apartheid, everything surrounding and gives so much context to how things became what they became. It is more than disturbing at times. Difficult situations make for difficult decisions and choices. While it could be easy to vilify persons involved for their actions, Steinberg manages to let us still retain some sympathetic feelings for certain people (I'm trying to not spoil anything).
I learned a lot, and will probably do a deeper dive. Definitely a testament to just not knowing what is really happening behind the scenes in peoples lives. This was an eye opening important read and I'd definitely recommend it.

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Nelson was quite a bit older than Winnie. He was married with children already when they started dating – and she was also dating someone else at the time. Their romantic escapades with others did not stop after they got married, either.

They had two children together, both girls. The couple only really lived together for a few years before Nelson first went into hiding… then, eventually, prison. He ultimately remained in state custody for 27 years, which did curtail his philandering (but not Winnie’s).

During that time, not only did Winnie have other men around… she often had volatile relationships with thugs and informers, including some that were (eventually) half her age. In fact, after a few years of being banished to another part of the country from where she had been living with Nelson, she seemed to encourage and orchestrate violence as a means to resist apartheid. She was an advocate of armed struggle. Nelson had once believed in this, too, but his aims softened over time. She believed that he did not see things accurately while he was being taken care of in jail.

The state was always keeping an eye on her, though, which muddles the story. She led a “team” of young men who enacted a lot of threats and actual violence in the late 80s. But, a few of them were actually plants/informers. So, when the group kidnapped four young men from a nearby home, and eventually killed one, there was some difference in opinion on whether to hold Winnie accountable. Since some of the men involved were informers… did Winnie order these actions, or was she framed by the state?

She and Nelson did divorce after his release, as they had grown too far apart. Initially, he used his considerable reputation to fund her legal defense and appoint her to high positions. But they truly saw things differently, and did not stay together. Nelson eventually did remarry, to a former first lady from a neighboring African country whose first husband had passed away.

This story was full of conflict, and really made my head spin at times! The public persona of Nelson Mandela – at least here, so far away in another continent – is one of patience, of sacrificing so many years for the good of his people. The children’s version of the story I remembered was akin to those of our own Civil Rights leaders here, like Martin Luther King, Jr. So firstly, it shocked me to learn that his last name – as carried around in Johannesburg by Winnie and her “team” of gangsters – was more often associated with violence during the 1980s.

And then, it shocked me again to find that many black people in South Africa today identify more with Winnie! Because there is still much poverty, some find that not enough has changed since the supposed end of apartheid – basically feeling that it ended in name only. So they see Nelson as just a puppet, a symbol, and notsomuch an actual change-maker.

This one was definitely challenging. But, as I said, there is also a lot of action. If you’re interested in world history or politics, or haven’t studied South Africa much, it’s a eye-opening read.

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I went into this book blindly and only having a basic understanding of who Nelson Mandela was as a leader in South Africa. I knew nothing about his second wife, Winnie and her activism. Author Jonny Steinberg did a phenomenal job of painting a picture of a power couple who ultimately took different directions in life. I felt like I learned a lot without necessarily feeling like I was learning---which is the best type, imo! At just over 570 pages, this book is a beast but also very easy to get lost in reading.

Thank you Knopf for giving me access to this arc.

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Interesting read. I learned some new information about both Winnie and Nelson and got clarity on other aspects. I most enjoyed reading about Winnie. The author helped me to understand both sides of who she was.

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