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Buckle up Buttercup. This is a read that just might make you rather queasy. . . save your snacks for another read, is my advice.
In this book, Barbara Butcher shares it all - all the dead felt, experienced and goes over and over it until she knows how it happened. She's a puzzle-solver and goes at it with respectful enthusiasm, a duty of care she feels she owes to the people whose death she's investigating. There's raw language, crunchy everything, slippy slimy other things, and her absolute interest in the minutiae of all of it.
More a memoir than a non-fiction how to investigate, or explicate forensic technique, she includes personal challenges of addictions, work place problems in an era and environment women had not yet broken through traditional prejudices - she was one of the first women to work as a New York City Death Investigator as the title proclaims. Kudos to her. Inspiring, fierce, feisty and taking nothing from no one (and that's not always a smooth or successful move), the author took me straight through her career path. There are bodies right and left, but she tries to ensure every one didn't die unknown, or without meticulous attention to what questions the deaths present, and what answers, reasons or considerations could she provide to give peace, information or closure as everyone (loved ones and strangers) moves away from the dead and back to their day-to-day lives that demand constant examination.
Not a read to take lightly, but on the other hand this is something that is very out of the ordinary. Admirable to take the time to share her experiences in all aspects of her life - wide-ranging, and tough, hard to manage and she did it. She.did.it. Amazing. I'm positive she was breaking ground for others who are now able to work in places, doing tasks that 50 years ago would not have even been an option. Kudos, Barbara Butcher. Keep that Cape Swishing!
*A sincere thank you to Barbara Butcher, Simon & Schuster, and NetGalley for an ARC to read and review independently.*
A book about death, forensics, and mental health, “What the Dead Know” was an interesting and darkly humorous look at life as a New York City Death Investigator. The Memoir details the author’s experiences in her career with stories of specific cases that have stuck with her through time. Some are devastatingly sad and Butcher discusses them with grace while also going over the forensic specifications that she dealt with. She brings touches of humor when appropriate but never strays far from the guts of a story. Beyond her general day-to-day, the book also covers the aftermath of 9/11 and how Butcher reacted and assisted in the recovery of the dead. She also doesn’t shy away from decisions she has made that she wasn’t as proud of and her experience with alcoholism throughout her life.
This was an honest and deeply interesting perspective on life that I thoroughly enjoyed. I would recommend it to anyone who likes memoirs and nonfiction on the many aspects of the death industry.
This book answered so many questions I didn't realize that I had. "What is a death investigator?" "How does someone end up as a death investigator?" "What does that kind of work do to a person's psyche?"
Death investigators analyze the scenes of deaths (homocides, but also natural deaths and suicides) and determine the manner of death. I'm not sure how most people end up as death investigators, but for Barbara Butcher it was recovering from alcoholism through AA. The idea of seeing so many of the terrible things that happen to people can't have a great effect on your mental health, and Dr. Butcher confirms as much.
This book was a great balance of science and memoir. The author explains some of the horrific deaths she had to investigate while keeping it at least as light as you can make it. While there was a lot of sarcasm involved, it never came across as making fun of the victim, but as a way to cope with the trauma of being surrounded by death. She does a great job of tying all of the stories of her work to aspects of her personal life to give you a better idea of both her work and who she is as a person.
I've always been fascinated by death and even moreso by the people whose work surrounds death so I had a great time with this book and couldn't put it down. I would have read another 200 pages of just stories from her time as a death investigator.
If you're drawn to true crime and the macabre I definitely recommend this one!
Engaging and entertaining. A recommended purchase for collections where true crime and memoirs are popular.
Barbara Butcher gives an accurate portrayal of what it's like to work as an investigator with the New York City OCME's office in her memoir. I work in a profession that is adjacent to it and enjoyed the case study approach she took to the cases she worked. The book isn't for the faint of heart as she describes the bodies of the decedents she encounters during her job. She also gives an account of the work she did following the 9/11 attacks in NYC, in case that is triggering as well. I found her writing to be more of a narrative style that made it easy to follow. It was interesting the path that led her into the OCME's office, which wasn't the route many people tend to take.
This is perfect for true crime readers.
Thank you to Simon Books for a copy in exchange for review consideration.
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗞𝗻𝗼𝘄: 𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗿𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗡𝗲𝘄 𝗬𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝗖𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗗𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝗜𝗻𝘃𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗴𝗮𝘁𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝘆 𝗕𝗮𝗿𝗯𝗮𝗿𝗮 𝗕𝘂𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗲𝗿
Bony Jangles reminded me that I never posted my review of this riveting memoir! He considers himself an expert on death, but even he learned a thing or two from this book!
Barbara Butcher was only the second woman to ever hold the role of death investigator of Manhattan and the only one to last longer than three months. She writes about her own battle with alcohol and sobriety and how it brought her to her incredible career. She recounts many cases that she worked on with keen insight and compassion. As difficult as it was to read about some of them, I enjoyed learning about all of the investigative techniques Butcher used to solve them.
I highly recommend this for fans of forensic science, criminal investigations and true crime.
Thank you @netgalley and @simonandshusterfor the digital ARC!
I so tried to get into this story but it just didn't hold my attention. I'm sure it's a delightful novel but just not for me. It was too dry and uninteresting for me. . I'm sure others will enjoy it.
Working with dead bodies is scary to me but also morbidly fascinating. I don't think I could do it at all, even though I jump at the chance to listen to or read anyone's personal account of this type of career. I absolutely loved this book.
After reading the subtitle for this book, "Learning about life as a New York City death investigator," I knew I needed to read this book.
In Barbara Butcher's memoir, she shares her experiences as a death investigator in Manhattan. I'm always hesitant to go into memoirs like this because I wonder if the material will be too technical or the story too dry. That wasn't the case with What the Dead Know. It felt like an intriguing story to me and her dark humor sprinkled throughout was a nice touch.
The element I appreciated the most is the author's vulnerability. Not only does she share the gruesome encounters from her job (more on that in a bit), but she also shares the struggles she faced with alcohol addiction, depression, job loss, relationship struggles, etc. I appreciate that as it allowed me to understand her on a deeper level.
Ok, now for the gruesome details. To be honest, this is what attracted me to this book in the first place. Whew! She doesn't hold back! Specifically, her vivid descriptions of the smells she encountered. GAG. Beware of chapter 7... Aside from those descriptions, I found the information she shared to be incredibly interesting and even eye-opening.
This book is definitely worth the read, especially if you're into true crime and morbid subject matter. If you listen to the audiobook, it's narrated by the author herself, which is awesome.
Big true crime fan and love a behind the scenes. This one is a memoir of not only Barbara's life investigating death, but the struggles in her personal life while doing so.
The details were so interesting and all the manners of deaths she investigated. The how of the process. And the whys.
She was also very real about the emotional aspect of the job and how it can mess with your life and health - both physical and mental.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Simon & Schuster for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
Thank you for the opportunity to review this new novel.
Wow, this was a amazing read! I didn't know that a death investigator was even a career... albeit a very interesting one.
Barbara was honest about her life, all ups and downs, and I really appreciated it. The best parts of the book were you could follow a certain case but also about her co-worker. They seemed to have been special kinds of persons that could do their job.
I couldn't put it down and read it in one sitting. I cried during chapters about 9/11 and I especially cried in the end. What happened to her and how she tackled it. She must be such a strong person!
This is the best book I’ve read in a long time. I’m applauding at the end. An exciting, fast paced, hilarious, heartbreaking, hopeful story. Well done and thank you. This book will be featured on a future episode of Your Rainbow Reads podcast.
What the Dead Know by Barbara Butcher
Publisher Simon and Schuster
Release Date June 20, 2023
This was not at all what I expected. I realize as a doctor myself that crime scenes are not for the faint and. An sometimes cause the person viewing to have mental health issues that linger for quite some time. Butcher loved every part of it. So much so that she put herself out there to take on more cases as a Death investigator. She is blunt, graceful and honest to a fault. Her alcoholism played a huge part of her life prior to this lifeline handed to her. She talks eloquently about the effects of alcohol and also death. How each person she over saw was just as important as the next but there were some that haunts her still today. This is a memoir of her years and it may start to be all over the place but the author quickly finds her niche and puts her memories inside this book. Bad or good they have a certain place and this is where you the reader will find them.
5 stars
Thank you to NetGalley as well as the author and publisher for giving me the opportunity to read this book and give my unbiased and honest review.
This is a page turner of a book that is a combination of true crime, history of New York City and memoir. It is a fascinating look at life and death in NYC through the eyes of a woman who has virtually seen it all. Barbara Butcher takes you on a tour of NYC through the crimes she solves as well as the highs and lows of her own life. The reader gets a front row seat to the death investigations and some of the inner workings of they NYPD. Woven throughout the cases are tales of Butcher's own life. Her personal struggles with alcohol and depression among them. In every case and every example from her own life there are lessons to be learned. She imparts her wisdom in a way that is not preachy at all. She is humble and reflective through the entire book.
Butcher's writing is wonderful. This is not simply a cold play by play of death investigations. It is narrative storytelling at its best. This an amazing book that you will not want to put down, and will recommend to everyone!
WHAT THE DEAD KNOW offers a fascinating look into life as a New York City Death Investigator. This memoir by
Barbara Butcher recounts her time as a woman working in a unique and male-dominated industry. As expected with the subject matter, there are gritty and gruesome portions in this book that me be difficult for sensitive readers. Barbara writes in a way that preserves the dignity of the deceased while providing factual and straight-forward information about her career path. Barbara also weaves in her experience as a recovering alcoholic and how that ultimately led to her job as a death investigator.
What the Dead Know is a riveting memoir by a woman who investigated deaths while trying to hold together her own life.
I loved this book! Barbara Butcher is unflinchingly honest, telling her story with humor, grace, and a little snark. This is partly a personal tale of overcoming alcoholism and finding a new path in life, and partly a tour through New York City’s deaths—murder, suicide, and natural.
I was fascinated by the details of a death investigator’s job. Those CSI shows don’t even come close to the reality!
The emotional toll is something I often think about with this type of job. Butcher shows us how years of dealing with humanity at its worst can wreak havoc on a person’s health and personal life.
Both intimate and expansive, What the Dead Know is a must read for true crime fans.
*Thanks to Simon and Schuster for the free copy.*
“Once you know the smell of death, you can pick it out in a flower shop. Strangely sweet with a bitter undertone, like a strawberry milkshake made with garlic.” 🤢
“‘What is it like to work with the dead?’ I asked. ‘Peaceful’ was his deadpan answer.” 😯
“Dead men 𝘥𝘰 tell tales. You just have to listen.” 🙏🏻
Barbara Butcher lays herself bare in this fascinating look into what it’s like to be the voice for the dead in NYC. Are you an #IDAddict like me? If so you will love this book!
In What The Dead Know: Learning About Life as a New York City Death Investigator, she touches upon her own struggles with depression and alcoholism and how that shaped her to be ready for this type of job. She talks about ways to die and the characteristics of suicide. She was there for 9/11 and its aftermath. There are chapters on particular cases that stuck with her throughout her career and how, by the end, politics derailed it.
Dealing with death on a daily basis is not easy nor is it normal. But I commend her for showing up every day to help find justice for those taken too soon and often offering some semblance of closure to families in mourning. A superb read that I read in one sitting!
Thank you to Netgalley, Simon & Schuster, and the author for the free copy for review.
This memoir was a really quick read. I loved the stories that were focused on specific and interesting cases the best. I had not considered a death investigator with the coroner’s office but this book made me not only think about it but think it is a pretty cool career. This is definitely an area I hope to know more about in the future. I think I imagined the police were doing all of the pieces that she did and I wonder now if that is separated that way everywhere or not. I think Barbara did a great job in translating her work to word which is not a skill everyone has. Overall I did enjoy it, but I did wish for more vignettes about her work as that was the most interesting part for me.
I wasn't quite sure what to expect of this memoir, written by a New York City death investigator.
In truth, it's a bit all over the place, covering the gamut from author Barbara Butcher's alcoholism to individual cases she investigated over the years. I enjoyed it more when I read it as a series of vignettes, or a personal essay collection, than a traditional memoir (though I believe chronological order is followed throughout).
I appreciated Butcher's deep empathy for the dead, though I could have done without some of the heavy detail on decomposition. I broke down reading her recollections of 9/11.
Overall, I was struck by the toll this job had on Butcher, a job which she referred to as the best in the world. As she put it, "You can't see trauma and death and despair every single day without being adversely affected." No matter that she loved her job and (seemed like she) was good at it.
Partly personal memoir but also an interesting look at the life of a death investigator and some of the more memorable cases. Good detail and insight into the process of investigating and determining cause of death along with some funny stories.