Rating: 3.5

This was a sweet, easy read. I was excited by the premise of the story, as it's a different take than what one would normally see. Juno meets Heartstopper really does describe it well.

I did find parts of the story to be slow and my eyes skimmed some of the scenes. At first, I found Ben, our MC, to be irksome and immature (which, he's young, so can't terribly fault him for that). But there did seem to be a good amount of character development by the end.

Which, the ending was very sweet and definitely put a tear in my eye. It did seem a bit rushed, though. Nothing too bad, but something that I picked up on.

The blurb made me think the story would be completely different. It's frased as if the main character is trans or as if there was a science experience that made him get pregnant. It's not to say that this makes the book bad, but I wish it had been less misleading.
I did not like how Maxie, the pregnant teen, is never asked what she wants. She wanted to have an abortion and her parents did not let her. This anti-choice discourse was quite insensitive.
The Robotics team isn't nice at all. They just spend their time being angry and snapping at each other. It's not the ideal friend group for sure.
Roger was quite of a nice stepdad, he tried to help Ben whenever he needed.
Ben's mother had a right to be upset, but she also could've been more supportive of Ben's choices. She wasn't exactly considerate of his feelings. Trying to constantly make her son change his mind about keeping the baby was so irritating. In the end he ended up changing his mind, but it´s like the author doesn't understand that there's always some trauma with adoption and that for Ben, being around the couple who adopted his child (since they're close) and watching someone else raise the baby, this is going to be extremely traumatising.
I do think that this explores well how fathers don't get a lot to say when it comes to adoption, because when society thinks of someone raising a child, they think woman and not man, which dives deeper into the issues with sexism and double standards. of course the pregnant person should always be the one to choose what happens with their body, but since she decided to keep the pregnancy and leave the baby up for adoption she might as well let the father have the child.
This book does speak a lot about teen pregnancy and the struggles pregnant teens face, mainly with classes and gossip. However, I do not agree when the author states that a child ruins the teen's life. While they make life harder for sure, many teenagers keep their children and manage to go to school and even university, while keeping a job and raising the child. Just the whole discourse that a baby ruins your life if you're young felt so weird. People who have gone through pregnancy in their teens or their kids may read this and I sincerely think it would make them feel awful.
In the end, I just skimmed through a lot of it, because the story is written in a very insensitive manner. I wish it was as good as I hoped it would be, but it's just not.

TW:pregnancy, implied sexual content, adoption, anti-choice comments, discrimination, homophobia, sexism.

4.5 stars overall!

I really liked this book. Ben was a fun character to read - he definitely gave me Sheldon Cooper vibes a little bit (and I don't mean that in any kind of bad way.) And be feels different from a lot of the protagonists I usually read about.

This book is easy to read and will keep you turning the pages for sure. It was easy enough for me to guess halfway through what was going to happen, but I'm glad it got the ending it did.

For me, I just think the second half of the book felt a bit rushed. I wish there was more time spent getting to know Ben and Gio's relationship (though it's understandable why that didn't happen, as Ben gives his reasons in the books.) I wasn't sure how I'd feel about those two because of how they knew each other (no spoilers but it's one of my least favorite tropes) but this book does it so tactfully.

There were quite a few times where I found myself tearing up and ready to cry, especially towards the end. Anyone who reads this is in for one heck of a ride.

"Unexpecting" is the story of sixteen year old, freshly out of the closet, Ben, who gets his friend Maxie pregnant. It's a complicated but important story, one that isn't often told in books today, especially young adult, so I loved that Jen Bailey decided to tell it.

The depictions of Ben's stress and anxiety were wonderful, and so realistic. I had to keep pausing and reminding myself that I was only reading a story, because it really felt like I was going through all the same things Ben did.

I do wish there was more focus on Maxie and her life and relationships, but I understand that this was Ben's story. I'd love to see something about Maxie in the future from this author!

This book was well written and had a unique premise. However I felt like a lot of the relationships in the book between Ben and his friends were forced, and that caused some of the book to fall flat. We didn’t really get to see him interact with his supposed two best friends for a majority of the book, and his love interest was a minor character. For the first half of the book Ben barely communicates with the mother of the child he is so desperate to take care of, which made it really difficult for me to feel any sympathy for him. I also feel as if it was brushed past too quickly that Maxine didn’t even want to have the child in the first place, but her parents would not let her have an abortion. I don’t know if it was the authors intention, but the whole book felt a little too anti-choice for my liking. Everyone got an opinion except for Maxie, and I wish that had been better addressed. Ben was also so incredibly immature, which is typical for a 16 year old boy, but so frustrating when that boy is trying to fight for custody of his child.

In all this book was an interesting read. I appreciate what the author was trying to do, but I feel that some of the messages this book was trying to convey could use some refining.

I was able to read this ARC thanks to NetGalley!

I really liked this book, which is going to sound weird considering how many problems I had with the book. I did not like how none of the adults could see why this kid who grew up without his dad, with a revolving door of stepdads, would be so against giving his child up for adoption. Maxie’s parents were also cartoonishly mean about Ben & the pregnancy itself. They decided amongst themselves what was going to happen and wouldn’t let anyone have an opinion about it.

Now I did really find it really interesting to see a main character coming to terms with his sexuality while at the same time having that not be the main focus of the book. Also how the book ended brought me to tears in the best way.

Heartwarming story about an awkward but brave teen who fights for the family he wants even if that means he becomes a single dad at 16. He struggles with wanting this new life and not wanting to sacrifice everything about the life he has. While some may find this desire to hold on childish, I found it to be about bravery and hope and sacrifice. You don’t have to give everything up to be a parent, even a single parent, but it won’t be easy. His mother discouraged him saying he can’t go to MIT if he has a child, where I disagree with that. I respect the mother of the baby’s choice but don’t understand how she couldn’t see why he would want to keep the baby, and that’s coming from someone who doesn’t want children. Especially when you have the backstory of losing his dad and having so many step dads, it makes sense he would want to be the dad he didn’t have.

All in all, really liked this book.

Unexpected is a wonderful story about found family and biological family as it follows a gay teenage boy who gets his best friend pregnant. With the decision to keep the baby, everything changes quickly for Ben as we follow him navigate being a recently out teen and becoming a father.

This book is billed as Juno meets Heartstopper but in my opinion, that’s a bit of a misnomer. Promoting the book this way overemphasizes the role that romance plays in the novel, which does a disservice to the actual plot. While there is a queer romantic story line, it’s more of a subplot that happens in the background, while the real bulk of the story is taking place.

At its core, this is a story about a teenage boy who, two months after coming to terms with the fact that he’s gay, has to tell his family that he accidentally got someone pregnant. It follows his journey to figure out if he’s ready to be a father and what that means for his life, his relationships, and his future.

The true heart of this story revolves around family, friendship, growth, and learning that sometimes you need to do what’s best for someone else, even if that might not be what’s best for you.

Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin’s Press for the digital arc.

Unexpecting is a delightfully charming novel about family. Author Jen Bailey has created multiple characters with flaws but lots of heart. Young Ben wants to make sure he is really gay, so he has sex with his best female friend Maxie. Somehow she ends up pregnant, and then we meet the adults in these kids lives. They are not perfect either, but Bailey brings the tale along nicely and with several surprises. The ending may be a bit of a surprise, but not to me! It will warm your heart.
Thanks NetGalley for the ARC.

This was such a cute book. I read it with my daughter and we both enjoyed it so much. Please do yourself a favor and get yourself this book

Thank you to NetGalley, Wednesday Books, Austin Adams, and Jen Bailey for an eARC of Unexpecting in exchange for an honest review. 

The story follows Ben as he deals with the repercussions of getting his best friend pregnant at summer camp and wants to keep the baby. Throughout the story, Ben learns what it means to be a true friend, and a father.
I thought this novel was relatively enjoyable because it has realistic characters, a meaningful story to tell, and a quick-moving plot.

Although Ben does come around, in the beginning it is very hard to root for him because he doesn’t take into account his friend’s feelings about being pregnant.

I would recommend this book to anyone who enjoys queer YA and really likes getting into the main character’s mind and thoughts.

Overall, I’m rating this book 4/5 stars because it’s a queer YA book with a different plot than other queer YA books, and gives a great perspective on teen pregnancies.

This book has a really strong premise. These difficult topics need to be discussed.. however, it's hard to read a book with a good premise when you hate the characters. I know that Ben is young, but, come on. He was the worst. Mo was awful. The love story was just unnecessary. Gio ended up being annoying. Poor Maxie didn't get enough pages, and Ben didn't even realize how awful he was at the end..? Also, it was so predictable that I just wasn't interested in finishing it.

I think that Jen Bailey is a good writer. I didn't have any complaints about the style!

We love queer voices, teen pregnancy, and all the classic drama of being a teen in highschool. These characters brought me back to the anxiety of nothing is going your way and the constant fear of having too much on your plate that comes as a highschooler. However the issues here more were parent vs kid, and I thought that was hard to read. The parents of Maxie (pregnant friend) treated Ben (impregnator but gay friend) so horribly it was hard to read and I’m sure this is true for many people out there who end up in a teen pregnancy situation.
Some interpersonal relationships I would have liked to see develop, I hope there is a follow up novel in the works because there is SO much left hanging! I want to know more! Loved this book will definitely be recommending to my YA crowd. 4.25 stars!

I read this book in a day. Great representation, great characters. Funny, sad, frustrating, a real rollercoaster of emotions but it was hard not to stop once I got going. The only thing is I just wish it was longer!

First ten pages in and there was a plot twist and it kept going from there. I genuinely gasped out loud a few different times throughout the book and laughed at some points too. I couldn't anticipate what was coming next throughout the book and I think that made it even better. I think this is a highly recommended book especially if you want something a little quicker and not heavy.

Was excited to read because the premise is incredibly interesting, but that’s where the creativity ends, unfortunately.

Unexpecting is okay in all regards. It isn’t offensive, it isn’t mind-blowing - it’s lukewarm. I didn't connect to the characters, didn’t feel drawn into the story past the set-up.

Ben isn’t empathic because despite being in his head, you never understand his choices. He doesn’t come to natural conclusions on his own. It was painful to read the interaction between characters.

This wasn’t for me.

This book is sometimes annoying because of how much it relies on characters having miscommunications. The book also felt a bit boring.

It definitely has no qualities relating to Heartstopper (It’s also a bad marketing tactic to say that your product is the combination of two different things. Source: I’m a current college student double-majoring in business. Your product should be an original, comparing it to two other similar products raises or defines the expectations of the consumer and puts unnecessary pressure on the producer. It sets the book up for failure. Because the consumer assumes that they are gonna get the same feelings they got from the comparison products.)

Ben isn’t trying to understand the people around him and why they are upset. and everyone else around him does the same. No one puts themselves in other people's shoes. The problems in the book felt superficial and weren’t developed well, which affected the characters' personalities. So the character development wasn’t all there.

This book felt markedly anti-choice, though i don't think it meant to be. They name the fact that no one asks the pregnant teenager what she wants to do, but then they just... keep not actually asking and not seeming to see that as a problem? She deserved better.

Also there's a part where she is finally asked and the language is something along the lines of her being 4 months along so she wouldn't do something that terrible now. And second trimester abortions are not terrible! It really rubbed me the wrong way.

Every character is pretty flat, but i was still pulled along by the book and it made me want to know what was going to happen next. So that is worth something for sure!

What a charming read! I absolutely adored this take on parenting, growing up, and relationships. I loved seeing Ben and Gio’s relationship blossom, but I appreciated that it didn’t become the main focus of the book. There were so many facets of this story that lead to a beautiful ending (that I saw coming from the first hint that was dropped, and I was absolutely hoping that was the direction it was going). The only thing I wish was that there had been more discussion and growth with Maxie. She felt like an important part of the story and I still felt we ended the book with her never really having much of a voice, and the point about her possibly having feelings for Ben was brought up once by Gio, then tossed away and never mentioned again. You could barely even tell she and Ben were friends, or that she was yearning for the lost relationship between her, Mo, and Ben the same way Ben was. As a character I felt she needed a little more care and attention.

On the whole, I truly loved this book and it was a lovely perspective on unexpected, teenage pregnancy, and how to do the right thing as a parent.