How to say Babylon is a coming to age memoir unlike anything I’ve read before. I was transported into of world where colonialism led way to a radicalized culture. The poised way Sinclair expresses her pain and ultimately triumph will resonate with me for years to come.

This was a powerful memoir in which Sinclair recounts her childhood in Jamaica growing up in a strict Rastafarian household. she details the trials and abuse her family suffered at the hands of her father and her journey of breaking free.

This is a powerful memoir, and as a reader, I could clearly see Sinclair’s evolution and journey of becoming who she wants to be. I also loved seeing how Sinclair’s mother gains strength and courage to live her life and stand up to her husband. As a mom, I resonated with the sacrifices she made for her children.

Also, I had never heard of Rastafari before, so I learned a lot about this religion and it’s origin.

I highly recommend this memoir if you’re looking for an emotional memoir about complex family dynamics.

Thank you @tlcbooktours, @tlcdiversity, @netgalley, and @simonandschuster for the #gifted copies

"How to Say Babylon" by Safiya Sinclair is a mesmerizing collection of poetry that immerses readers into a world of rich language, vivid imagery, and emotional depth.

Sinclair's words possess a raw intensity that transports readers through landscapes both physical and emotional, invoking a sense of longing, nostalgia, and cultural exploration. The poems delve into themes of identity, history, and diaspora, drawing inspiration from various mythologies and histories, particularly those of the Caribbean.

Sinclair's mastery over language is evident as she weaves together intricate phrases and evocative metaphors that create a tapestry of emotions and stories. The poems in this collection resonate with a sense of urgency, reflecting on the complexities of heritage and the struggles of finding one's place in the world. Through her exploration of family, displacement, and heritage, Sinclair invites readers to reflect on their own sense of belonging and the cultural forces that shape their lives.

Sinclair's work is a testament to the beauty and resilience of the human spirit, making this collection a must-read for anyone seeking to explore the intersections of identity, history, and language.

Thank you to the publisher for this eARC. Wow, what a memoir. I had read Sinclair's poetry in "Cannibal," but the lyricality of that work is woven throughout this memoir brilliantly. I found it fascinating to refamiliarize myself with Rastafarian culture and the ways that the religion itself can be dismissive (to say the least) of women. I'm going to be teaching "The Glass Castle" this fall and this book situates so well in a category of memoirs I like to refer to as "angry fathers and their daughters." "Glass Castle," "Educated," and now this text offers a much more compelling glimpse into life under tyrannical rule within the family unit. The ramifications of the trauma that Sinclair endures echo through the text and there are several intense moments of foreboding, knowing that this story might not end particularly well. I wasn't super into the ending, but overall, a really fantastic book about the lineage of women.

This was a real triumph of a memoir and an incredibly interesting read. Safiya Sinclair very thoughtfully includes both a succinct and fascinating history of Rastafarianism and some measured and empathetic background of her own parents’ history, both of which make the book richer and more compelling.

Without spoilers, I will add that I think the honesty needed to accurately depict Sinclair’s parents is very courageous. It was, at times, difficult to read about these relationships, but this is a memoir about real, actual people who have complex ties with others and themselves. Other people don’t owe us an easy ending, and we don’t get to decide what we owe themselves.

I finished the memoir quickly and found a lot to love in the writing. Sinclair is a poet, so it’s impressive that her writing translates so well to a longer narrative. (One section in particular about cutting her dreadlocks felt like an entire poem within itself and was absolutely beautiful.) Sinclair vividly describes how writing saves her life; how it literally pours out of her to catch the overflow of human emotion in her, and I think this is what makes the memoir feel so effortlessly successful. The best writers always do seem to write because it seems unthinkable not to. An easy five stars.

How to Say Babylon – Safiya Sinclair
The author, a prize winning poet, recounts her experiences growing up in Jamaica in a Rastafarian community in this compelling memoir. Her domineering father, an briefly famous reggae musician, eaks out a living playing Bob Marley covers at local tourist hotels. He takes out his anger about his lack of success and the evils of the non-Rastafarian world, which he refers to collectively as “Babylon,” on his wife and 4 children dictating what they wear, with whom they can interact and where they may go, which is generally to school, work and home. In her beautiful, poetic prose, Sinclair pays tribute to the enduring love and strength of her mother, explores the dynamic of a family caught in a cycle of abuse and celebrates her success in finally breaking away.

What a powerful memoir. Beautiful, tragic and triumphant, Safiya tells the story of her Rastafari family. As someone who knew little about Rastafarian culture before this book, it was shocking in many ways, but the story itself holds a few universal truths; Hurt people hurt people and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

It is rare for a book to bring me to tears but there were moments in this story absolutely brought me to my knees. The imagery and feelings, so raw and real, I felt a powerful urge to protect this beautiful soul.

Ultimately, each generation represents an opportunity to break the cycle. The turning point in this story reminds me that not all hope is lost, but it requires grace, strength and selfless acts of love. Such a powerful reminder in today's angry world.

I was also struck by seeing Foreign (America) through Safiya's eyes, the pain she saw in what I would likely consider beautiful will have me thinking twice as I move through the relics of our past.

I was given an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. Thank you to Simon and Schuster for the opportunity.

Sinclair's life as a poet comes through in the writing of this memoir. The language is lyrical, if not painful in some places. Her sense of resiliency shines through in the end and to read her current biography does show others that she continues to push her life forward. When she found her voice as a poet, I expected the text to change to free verse. But that gave me an idea. I believe that the themes in this memoir are relevant to those in the YA area. Perhaps a YA version of How to Say Babylon could be written in free verse, thereby sharing the same story to a YA audience, while encouraging those readers to read poetry.

Growing up in Jamaica under the strict tenets of Rastafarianism instilled by her father and her mother who behaved meekly and let her father rule, Safiya Sinclair had a unique and, at times, heartbreaking childhood and early adulthood.

Themes of altruism and generosity toward her younger siblings abounded. Small glimmers of light like a scholarship or support from a mentor let Safiya's otherwise stringent and limited lifestyle expand beyond anything she ever imagined.

Told in lyrical prose that allows the reader to truly picture Jamaica, and which clearly showcases Sinclair's talent as an award-winning poet, How to Say Babylon will drag the reader through tough times, waiting for the ultimate goal of freedom.

Loved this memoir. Learned so much about the Rastafarian world. Whenever I get into a reading rutt, I pick a memoir to change things up. This one did the trick and more. I'm recommending it to all.

Absolutely captivating and written with such grace, How to Say Babylon is the Educated [by Tara Westover] of today. I devoured this book and found myself not wanting it to end. I hope Safiya Sinclair continues to share her story in such a powerful way.

Vibrant and haunting.
Thank you for the advanced copy of this book. This is a memoir of growing up in a Rastafarian household in Jamacia. The author shares her struggles and how she was able to work through her strict upbringing and the resulting trauma surrounding that upbringing. I found the book inspiring and loved the message of hope and perseverance.

Faith, fighting, and freedom. A heartbreaking but triumphant story of one woman’s childhood growing up in a Rastafarian family. Sinclair provides an in-depth and emotional look at her childhood governed by her father’s strict patriarchal views stimmed with isolation, violence, and control. She manages to find her own path to womanhood not without trials, tribulations, and self-doubt that ultimately leads her on a journey to self-discovery all while showcasing her immense talents. It’s this self-discovery and cultural shift that shapes her as a person and her poetry. But throughout all the tough and difficult scenes in her childhood, Sinclair fills the novel with gorgeous, detailed imagery of Jamaica that helps soften the harsh reality of her world. Infused with the language of a poet, How to Save Babylon is a must-read and will be available in October 2023. Thanks to Net Galley for the advanced reader copy.

What a powerful and beautiful read. Safiya shared stories of her struggles growing up a woman in Jamaica, a daughter of a Rastafarian, and her struggles with her culture and identity. The self-discovery is a powerful journey and the reflections evoked all the feels in me. I will pull excerpts for classroom use…a perfect exemplar for students to reflect and create descriptions of their own experiences.
It made me want to go back to the island for more of a historical visit.
I received this copy of the book from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

"There was nothing broken that the sea couldn't fix ."

Although this memoir was not my cup of tea , it is definitely an inspiring story .
This girl had everything holding her down but she rose above (like the sea) , gotta respect that .

I knew nothing about the rasta people and/or their religious beliefs so learning that was def interesting & worth a read .
I wanna say this was more a poetic memoir than just straight up memoir & maybe the poetic ness of it just didn't vibe with me but as i stated earlier u gotta respect the story.

Thank u #NetGalley for this very different & interesting Arc

A Book That Will Stay With Me For A Long Time

How to Say Babylon is a richly observed memoir of familial dysfunction centered on a young girl, the author, living in Jamaica under the rule of her authoritarian father.

This book is fascinating to read shedding light on the history of Jamaica and steeped in family drama.

The prose is dazzling - the author has a background in poetry, and Sinclair has a masterful understanding of foreshadowing.

Although the narrative is extremely compelling, there were a few flaws:
1) The father was painted in a one dimensional light. He must have done something positive or kind.
2) Sinclair didn't balance light and dark very well, especially covering the sections in her teen and early adult years.
3) The ending isn't strong enough and is unremarkable.

Overall, How to Say Babylon is a highly addictive book, a must-read if you enjoyed Educated or The Glass Castle.

*Thanks, NetGalley, for a free copy of this book in exchange for my fair and unbiased review.

I learned most of what I now know about Rastafarianism from this book. The author's descriptions of life in Jamaica, especially in her father's house, were upsetting and harsh. I appreciate her survival attitude, caring for her siblings, and getting out and making something of herself when the time was right. Safiya followed her dream and achieved it, despite the many obstacles that her situation and her father put in her way. Her father's descent into extremism, all while holding himself to a completely different and laxer standard, was a challenge. Kudos to the author for her success, and her compelling writing style.

Safiya's story is powerful and her writing is expansive. It feels unique and familiar at the same time. While her familial lived experienced is far from mine, I can still relate to the obstacles, barriers, and encounters she had. It's wild how similar the world can treat Black girls that have vastly different home lives and origin stories, but it makes me feel closer to her. This book was delightfully dense. It forced me to slow down and savor the words. I couldn't rush through this story. I am thankful that Safiya shared her world with me. She painted an intense picture that had me questioning how I interact with those around me, especially children. Her memoir is vivid, heart wrenching, and hopeful. I'm looking forward to reading her poetry and following her story moving forward. Thank you to Safiya Sinclair, Simon & Schuster, and NetGalley for the advanced reader's copy of this book.

5.0 stars

I received a complimentary Kindle book from 37 Ink NetGalley. The opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own. Thank you to Safiya Sinclair, 37 Ink, and NetGalley for the opportunity to read this book.

Three words: OH. MY. GOODNESS!!!

When I started this memoir, I knew nothing about the author other than the blurbs from NetGalley and Goodreads. This was not what I expected at all but in such a GOOD way! This writer is a poet and writes like a poet - beautifully, descriptive, gut-wrenching, and incredibly convicting.

This book was about a Rastafarian family in Jamaica with the eldest daughter (the author) as the main character. The father is a patriarchal tyrant who uses his faith to bully and subjugate his family. At times, it was horrifying and at times amazing. Yes, there is a strong resemblance to EDUCATED by Tara Westover. But, there is so much more in this book - it is about being Black in a former British colony, classism, Rastafarianism, tourism, and the strength of women.

HIGHLY recommend

How to Say Babylon is the memoir of a bright, strong young woman who came from a background full of challenges. Her father raised her in a strict sect of Rastafari. His goal of protecting her from the negative influences of the Western world created a challenging environment not only for her but also forher sister and mother. The patriarchal control over the family was very damaging. What I learned about Rastafari was fascinating.

Safiya Sinclair’s writing was poetic at times (she is a poet after all) however it does drag at times. The influence of education on her growth both mentally and physically can not be minimized. Her education gave her the strength to leave.

If you are interested in learning about Rastafari and enjoy reading about strong women this would be a pick for you.