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Guy's Girl is an intense, emotional, honest, and heartbreaking own voices novel from Emma Noyes.
It explores the lives of Ginny and Adrian, two twenty-somethings living and working in New York City. The connection between the two of them felt believable, and it was easy to see how they both fell for one another. However, Ginny's anxiety and eating disorders and Adrian's difficulty with love and being loved complicate things.
The story does not shy away from Ginny's struggles, The depiction was honest and shows how hard it is for her to feel her self worth and that she deserves to be loved and will be loved.
The dual POV was really nice so you truly get inside both Ginny and Adrian's heads. It took me a little bit to settle into reading this one as Emma has a unique writing style different than what I usually read, but as I read I genuinely cared about what happened to these characters.
This is a really interesting and emotional book. Ginny is someone who’s always had more guy friends. Now she has met Adrian and feels a connection with him. Adrian has issues because of his own mothers heartbreak. While Ginny has yet to deal with her disordered eating. the way Ginny and Adrian seem to find each other was interesting, but I really thought that the book was more about self discovery for both of them. I feel like eating disorders was handled very thoughtfully in this book, and I felt for Ginny and her journey. I like the Romance but I like the self discovery even more.
Don’t let this beautiful cover fool you, this was such a beautiful and heartbreaking debut, with all the emotions! I loved seeing the friendship and relationship between Ginny and Adrian grow. They each have their own traumas and loved how they are helping each other overcome them.
WHAT TO EXPECT
-an emotional love story
-mental health & anxiety
-eating disorder
-self discovery
-acceptance
-grief and loss of a loved one
I paired the book with the audio and loved this format!
*many thanks to Berkley, PRH Audio and Netgalley
This book was such an unexpected gem. It’s heavy and it’s vulnerable and it’s sometimes hard to read because it’s scary to look demons in the eye, but the characters feel so real, and the emotions are so poignant. At its heart, it’s a story about love—for others, for yourself. It’s not the kind of book you want to relate to, but I found myself thinking, “I’ve felt that. I’ve been there,” throughout; to be human is to struggle, and even if it looks different on the surface, we all share that universal truth. It’s beautiful and engaging, and I’m grateful to NetGalley and Berkley for the opportunity to read it.
Have you ever read a strange review?? Well, buckle up because here we go. Ha. Guy's Girl is all the things other reviewers have stated, raw, emotional, very well written. All the things that make a great novel. So what's the strange part, you ask? The answer... even though it's all those glowing adjectives, and more, I didn't enjoy reading this novel. Do I recommend other folks to read it?? Yep, but check the triggers.
So let's get into why it wasn't the book for me. One of the biggest issues I had was that I could not connect to the main character. Ginny struggles with an eating disorder, and while I can have compassion and empathy, I have no relatable experience. This disorder is the main focus of the novel. Oftentimes, I felt more like I was reading a memoir and less like a romance novel. In particular, the latter half of the book.
Also, this was a coming of age novel, and I don't generally do too well with those.
So anyway, that's its. A 5 star read that I didn't care for. It can happen, folks. Not every well written and great book is perfect for every reader. This was an example for me.
I received a complementary digital copy for review purposes. All opinions are my own.
This is such an amazing story and I applaud the author's courage in bringing her own experience to light to help others. Ginny and Adrian are an unlikely couple, but I really enjoyed getting to know them and seeing the growth they experienced throughout the book. Ginny's relationship with Finch hit a personal note and I was glad to see her finally acknowledge the toxicity. The awareness this novel brings to eating disorders is done with sensitivity and care and I think more light needs to be shed on the topic. I listened to the audiobook and I thought it was such a pleasurable way to enjoy this intriguing mix of family, friendship, and romance.
Guy’s Girl is a hard, intense read but very worth it. There are so many emotions that this book brought fourth. Eating disorders and not feeling good enough are huge topics and they were handled with the sensitivity and care they deserve. I suffer from anxiety and it’s clear that Emma Noyes understands and relates. Her ability to create these relationships that I truly cared about, made me stop and just appreciate the spectacular writing numerous times.
DNF-ed. Unfortunately, did not connect with this one. I found it hard to relate to the characters and the pace was not for me. Emma Noyes had been an author that I’ve tried before with her fantasy series and thought it was a good start - but this did not work out for me here.
This new adult romance was interesting. I like the idea of highlighting/normalizing eating disorders as there is far too much shame mixed in with those. I struggled with the book a little because I didn’t like any of the characters and usually with romance I want to like at least the two love interests. I think I could like Ginny in the future, but it is hard to like someone so caught in the quicksand of hating themselves and making all of the most self-destructive choices. Adrian also had potential but even if he had good intentions caused so much harm I just couldn’t like him. The writing was decent and the description of the mental health issues and eating disorders were amazing. But as a romance it just didn’t really work for me.
With a pink cover and a synopsis mentioning romance, I thought this would be a light romance. I couldn’t have guessed further from the truth. It’s a slightly different coming of age story. The main characters are just out of college and figuring out how to be an adult. Both Ginny and Adrian have life impairing issues that they must also learn to live with as they embark on the grown up world.
It has been forever since I was in that place in life, but the words and thoughts in this book had me connect with both Ginny and Adrian. While both of my parents are alive and I’ve not had an eating disorder, I have had those moments where I felt like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole. While the subject matter at times is tough, it was a rewarding read as it spoke to my heart. The characters were complex and their faults made them relatable.
It’s been a while since I read a romance that wasn’t a rom com and this was the perfect one to break out of that mold. It had substance and yet I still rooted for both Ginny and Adrian to come through on the other side and find a way to each other. And I’m not sure I’ve ever read about a character from Hungary and loved all the culture and exploring where Adrian came from.
This is a romance and friendship book that you can sink your teeth into.
Great story of love and personal growth.
I thought Ginny's journey was great. No recovery story is linear but I thought hers was really well done.
The cover is beautiful and it looks like a light romance. It is not. This one tackles eating disorders. It is real. It is raw. It is difficult to read at times because it is so realistic.
You feel Ginny’s struggles. Your heart breaks for her.
I did love the friendships. And her romance with Adrian, who was broken in his own way. I was rooting for them. Enjoyed their time with his grandparents. Watching them both work toward healing did my heart good after the emotional roller coaster ride this one took it on.
I felt Noyes handled a difficult, pertinent topic so well and helped me understand it more. Will be looking for more from this author!
Thanks to Netgalley and Berkley Publishing for allowing me to be a part of this blog tour and for an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
Ginny has always considered herself a "guy's girl", was closer to her brothers than her sister, and always had male best friends and roommates. This seemed to work perfectly fine until Adrian Silvas falls into her friendship circle. She falls hard and quick and gets hurt just as abruptly given Adrian isn't capable of love, or so he thinks. This book takes us through the ups and downs of struggling 20 somethings trying to find love, acceptance, friendship, and forgiveness.
It seems odd to me that in the synopsis of the book there's no mention of Ginny's biggest issue which isn't her inability to find love, but her inability to love HERSELF. Ginny has an eating disorder (well, multiple) and it should be noted that A LOT of this book focuses on that. I felt so terribly hurt for Ginny throughout most of this book and wondered how much more she could take. I identified with her in many places, as I'm sure many women who struggled with identity in their 20's will too. Everything for her was exponential due to her disease and it was heartbreaking to see. I left this book feeling like there would be no real happy ending for her but would love to be proven wrong. Overall I liked this very much, felt it was an accurate glance into the mind and heart of a woman struggling with eating disorders and negative self worth. I do wish it was a bit more evident in the back of the book description, however.
Thank you to Netgalley and Berkley for the opportunity to read in exchange for my honest review!
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Ginny is a lot of things. She's a Harvard graduate, she's a self-proclaimed "guy's girl", and she's suffering from disordered eating. So when she gets the opportunity to move to New York to be near her guy besties, she's hoping it's the fresh start she needs. The last thing on her mind is falling in love... but when the love-adverse Adrian comes into her life, the two enter into a tangled dance that puts both of their preconceived notions about love - and themselves - to the test.
This was an affecting, deeply emotional novel that's more coming-of-age than romance. Yes, there is romance, but it's more than just a love story. Ginny's disordered eating is at the forefront here, and makes this a very raw, impactful read. The author shares that she wrote this from her own experiences, and her insight adds a level of authenticity.
My main criticism here (and the reason this didn't get a higher rating) is that some of the characters felt underdeveloped. These are highly educated individuals, many of whom hold very high-powered, respectable careers, and yet they act very juvenile. I had a hard time reconciling who they were *supposed* to be, with their actions, behaviors, and the things they said. There was also a bit of a weird love triangle situation that felt wholly unnecessary. That said, readers are loving Guy's Girl, and it currently has a 4.33 on Goodreads. So definitely check it out! I look forward to reading more from Noyes in the future. ☺️
🎧 I read this by rotating between print and audio, and narrator Lori Prince does a great job with this large cast and perfect pacing! 5 star performance!👏🏻
This was a good read with some very personal and emotional story lines. Please heed any content warnings for this story, as the main character deals with some very sensitive subject matter (eating disorders). There were great friendship story lines and wonderful romantic relationships too.
Despite the serious subject matter, this story was still a beautiful love story and I do recommend if you are looking for something heart wrenching and beyond the typical romance sphere.
My heart broke several times while reading this book.
Ginny is good friends with 4 guys. All of them met at Harvard, and Ginny fell in love with Finch. However, Finch had a girlfriend back home, and would never commit to Ginny.
Now, the guys live in NYC, and Ginny visits them. She is one of the guys - a guy's girl, because none of them wants to be with her. However, Adrian is interested, but too afraid of being in love, after watching his mother's heartbreak.
Ginny develops an eating disorder, and becomes dangerously thin.
The novel explores the relationships of these friends, the complexity of being confident in yourself, eating disorders, love and what we may mistake for love.
I rooted for Ginny, railed at her misguided attempts at forcing love, and hoped for her to find happiness. I was very happy with the ending.
"Guy's Girl" by Emma Noyes is a powerful and deeply moving read that leaves a lasting impact. The story follows Ginny, a character whose struggles with eating disorders and the quest for love feel remarkably genuine. Noyes' writing is nothing short of stunning, offering a unique perspective that allows readers to step into the minds of Ginny and Adrian as they navigate their internal battles.
What sets this book apart is its ability to capture the raw and honest essence of Ginny's journey towards self-acceptance. It's not sugarcoated or romanticized; it's a heartfelt portrayal of the grueling and often lonely path to recovery. As someone who has experienced moments of isolation and despair, Ginny's story felt like a lifeline, a reminder that we are not alone in our struggles.
The love story between Ginny and Adrian is beautifully crafted, but it's equally important to recognize that the most profound love story in this book is the one Ginny has with herself. Her journey is a poignant reminder that self-love is a labor of love, and it's not always pretty, but it's worth every tear and every step forward.
While the book's content is weighty, appropriately reflecting its themes, it leaves readers with a sense of hope. It's a beautiful, impactful story, but there were moments when the pacing felt a bit slow, especially in the first half. However, this was necessary to lay the foundation for the compelling second half.
In the end, "Guy's Girl" is a book that resonates on a deeply personal level, making it a unique and valuable addition to any reader's collection. It is a testament to the author's talent and courage to share a story that, for many, will feel like their own soul living outside their body.
Thank you Berkley and Netgalley for the ARC!
This is a hard one for me to rate. It’s messy and complicated and flawed, but that’s what it’s supposed to be so the author accomplished the task. This book was heavy and hard to read at times, in that painful way of seeing someone hurt so completely. I can see the merit of the story but this one just wasn’t for me. I hope others connect with it and feel seen in all its raw and jagged edges!
After reading this book, the author's note, and her bio, I can easily see how much of herself Noyes put into this story. I cannot remember ever having read an adult book featuring a character with an eating disorder, but we all know many suffer beyond their teens. I greatly appreciate the author sharing this very personal story with us.
The synopsis alludes to this being a romance, but I felt this was mostly Ginny's story. She had been struggling for years with anxiety and anorexia. A huge chunk of the book focused on her mental health issues and her path to recovery. As someone who had struggled with bulimia in my teens and twenties, I definitely related to Ginny's hard fought path to recovery. It always amazes me how sympathetic people can be to drug addicts or alcoholics, but people with eating disorders, they tell "just eat". One doesn't need to drink alcohol or smoke or shoot up as part of basic life sustaining needs, but one does need to eat daily and face their demons in order to survive. But, I digress.
I appreciated Noyes honesty and candor when exploring Ginny's eating disorder. I felt her conflicted emotions, her anguish, her fears. And, oh! When she lamented about feeling unwanted and such, I felt that in my soul.
Other parts of this story involved Adrian, who I would call the love interest. The problem was Adrian was dealing with his own demons and kept people at arm's length. He also had some work to do on himself before he could truly embark on a meaningful relationship with Ginny. In the meantime, there was plenty of pining and even some shared affection. Adrian became a big supporter of Ginny's who encouraged her on her road to recovery.
I also found this to be an interesting look at life after college. The story begins with Ginny visiting her college friends about one year post graduation. Each had a different experience out in the real world. Some were thriving while others were miserable. It's an interesting period in a person's life, and I was glad Noyes explored it a bit.
I must admit, a big portion of this book was on the heavier side which was appropriate for the subject matter, but overall, I was left feeling hopeful for Ginny and Adrian.
Thank you to NetGalley and Berkley Publishing Group for providing the ARC.
I was pleasantly surprised by this. I expected it to be a hard read for someone like me who also suffered through and eating disorder. Ginny felt relateable to me, and despite the tension in this book, I think Noyes effectively set up characters so they've had a chance to breathe individually before coming together.
I loved her relationship with Adrian. I love how Noyes crafts it together so it flows seamlessly. It truly is an amazing read.