This book just wasn’t for me. I couldn’t even get through the 3rd chapter. The writing style felt waaaay too disjointed and couldn’t keep me interested. I think this would be a good read for those who don’t mind beginnings that move at a slower pace.

I was excited to get this free e-arc after seeing social media ads for the book. Sadly, however, this book is a DNF. I read through about a third of the book, but I just could not get into it. The book moved a snail's pace, which isn't always bad, but in this case there was not enough interesting detail to keep readers engaged. At 1/3 of the way I was just getting some sort of idea what the main problem to be solved might be, and even those hints weren't enough to make me care.

Thank you to the publishers and Netgalley for the free e-arc. Sorry it wasn't the book for me.

When you’re asking yourself what do I read after binging Bridgerton books and shows…. LOOK NO FURTHER!

This is the perfect regency with feminism and wit. I literally plan to read this one again and again.

The largest compliment I can give is letting you know I got this copy for free but I am purchasing a paperback to make notes in and cherish forever.

Thank you netgalley for this free copy in exchange for my honest review

This one took me a minute to get into but, by about halfway, I was fully invested and wanted to know more. I really liked the mc, Petra. She's feisty and head-strong in a way that isn't much appreciated in society. The beginning starts with a huge cast of characters. It seemed like every other line was introducing someone else (and gossip about them) and I was worried I would never keep them all straight. Luckily, you need to know only a few of them to still flow easily with the story.

And the last line, SHOCKING! I will definitely be looking for book 2!

A huge thank you to the author and publisher for providing an e-ARC via Netgalley. This does not affect my opinion regarding the book.

Lady Petra Forsyth is the daughter of an Earl living in Regency England. After tragically losing the love of her life, she has declared herself a spinster. This does not sit well with some people, such as her detestable Uncle who believes it is unnatural. She believes she does not need to give up her freedom and wealth without finding true love. One of Lady Petra’s friends dies suddenly, but her old servant is sure he saw the friend just the other day in London. This sparks Lady Petra’s curiosity, and she starts to investigate. Lady Petra soon finds out that there are other missing women amongst the ton. Where have they gone and why?

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord is full of a lot of interesting characters. I liked Lady Petra’s headstrong ways and inquisitive nature. Her childhood friend, Duncan, is a perfect foil for her. I was confused about his place in society though as he was born on the wrong side of the blanket. It didn’t seem to matter as much in this Regency world as it did in the real Regency world. I loved his grandmother, the Duchess, and wish she would have been in the book more. Street urchin Teddy and her lady’s maid, Annie, were also great characters.

I was intrigued by the mystery and was dismayed when my audiobook copy from NetGalley stopped working at 27% into the book. I had to purchase it from Amazon.com as I wanted to see where the mystery went and how it would end. The mystery had a satisfying end and the overall book ended on a cliffhanger. This is the first book in the Lady Petra Inquires series. I will be reading the next book in the series.

The storyline was feminist and had a lot of modern thinking about the place of women in society that would not have been prevalent in Regency England. It reminded me of Enola Holmes in this sense.

ACT LIKE A LADY THINK LIKE A LORD
Celeste Connally

Give me all the Bridgerton vibes but kill someone and make it a mystery. Sounds like my kind of book and the plot for Celeste Connally’s ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A LORD.

Petra is making her own way and proclaims on her soulmate’s deathbed that she will never marry again. She will not marry for wealth or status or anything but true love. This is quite a statement and it’s met with a range of responses.

Soon she finds herself drawn to the mystery of a close friend’s death. One that she cannot ignore. What she unravels is more than just the mystery of one person’s death. She uncovers a tradition that is far scarier than she ever thought and runs deeper than she ever imagined.

I had trouble articulating a picture that would make sense while reading. I tried to imagine the clothing and the extraordinary balls they attended, and I tried hard to imagine Petra existing within her world. At times the material was successful in creating the right atmosphere but for the most part, the incongruities got me and took a bit out of my enjoyment with the book.

The cool thing is this is fiction, and we can be whoever and whatever we want to be in the fictitious worlds that we build when we read. It doesn’t always have to make sense; it doesn’t have to exist within our current reality. It can exist within its own.

If you’re a Regency romance lover looking to explore the dynamics and parameters of a mystery, I think this is a great choice for you.

I gave ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A LORD three stars, and thought it was ok but was maybe asking for too much from the reader.

Thanks to Netgalley, St. Martin's Press, Minotaur Books, and Macmillan Audio for the advanced copies!

ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A LORD…⭐️⭐️⭐️

As a reader who leans more towards character driven stories over heavy plot, this was an engaging stel into more plot-driven writing. I did struggle a bit at first, as the introduction felt stilted and needed to be smoother. However, the mystery kept me intrigued, and even with the slow start, I was hooked once things got going. The institutionalization of women by their husbands was truly horrifying and shows the brutality directed towards women in patriarchal society, even if the author took some liberties.
I did have trouble grasping Lady Petra's character at first, but I liked her headstrong, independent attitude. And for the romance - I LOVE a best friends to lovers story almost as much as an enemies to lovers, and this felt like a nice blend of the two. But I would have liked more out of the romance side.

I love regency era mysteries, but struggled with the pacing of this one. I really liked the main character Petra taking a stand against marrying after the loss of her love. The talk of balls and all the different characters in society that Petra interacted with but the mystery took quite a while.

Important things you need to know about the book:

Pace: The pace of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord varies throughout the book. It starts slow (which allows the author to explain backstories and build up the world), goes to medium towards the middle of the book, and then amps up to fast.

Series: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord is the first book in the Lady Petra Inquires series.

Trigger/Content Warning: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord has trigger and content warnings. If any of these triggers you, I suggest not reading the book. They are:

Forced Institutionalization (graphic, off and on page)
Confinement (graphic, off and on page)
Emotional Abuse (moderate, on page)
Mental Illness (minor to moderate, on and off page)
Misogyny (moderate to graphic, on and off page)
Gaslighting (moderate and graphic, on and off page)
Death (moderate, off page)
Domestic Abuse (minor, off page)
Homophobia (moderate, on page)
Physical Abuse (minor, off page)
Kidnapping (moderate, on page)
Murder (minor, on page)
Sexual Content: There is sexual content in Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord. It is not graphic, and the author doesn’t linger on it.

Language: There is mild swearing in Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord. There is also offensive language used in Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord. But, the offensive language is appropriate for the era. The book takes place in Regency England, where women were property and homosexual relationships were illegal.

Setting: Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord is set entirely in London, England.

Tropes: Sworn Off Relationships, Friends to Lovers, Love/Hate Relationship, Reunion Romance

Age Range: I recommend Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord to anyone over 21.

Plot Synopsis (as spoiler-free as I can get):

After the death of her fiance, Lady Petra Forsyth declared to Society that she would never remarry. Five years later, she has kept her word. But, when her former best friend, Duncan, returns to London, Petra starts feeling things she hasn’t felt in years. But she doesn’t get time to explore her feelings when she finds out that a friend had passed away from melancholia a few weeks before. Not believing what she heard, Petra starts looking into her death. What she uncovers shocks her to the core. Her friends are being sent to a private asylum by their husbands and left there under the care of a cruel doctor. The more she investigates, the more she uncovers. But Petra is also in danger. Her independent actions and headstrong ways have her in the sights of the doctor. Can Petra find a way to free her friends and keep herself out of the asylum? Or will she end up locked in there?

Main Characters

Lady Petra Forsyth: I liked her. Her character was a breath of fresh air in the Regency romance genre. She didn’t even bother trying to fit into the mold that Regency women were forced to conform to. She was opinionated and headstrong. She was also scandalous because she intended to stay single. I loved it! Once she realized something nefarious was going on, she decided to see her investigation through to the end.

My review:

I enjoyed reading Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord. Mysteries and Regency romances are my two favorite genres to read. So, when I realized that this book combined the two, I was thrilled. I was hooked once I started reading this book and got a grasp of Lady Petra’s character. Lady Petra was very unconventional for the era, and as I said above, she was a breath of fresh air.

The main storyline of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord follows Petra as she investigates the “death” of a friend and, ultimately, the forced institutionalization of her friends by their husbands. The author did take some liberties with how accepting the ton was and with a few historical events surrounding Prinny. None of those bothered me, and the author did include an explanation in the author’s note. I liked how the mystery unfolded and how Petra solved it.

The romance angle was very subtle at first. Petra was very angry with Duncan for various reasons, mainly because they argued shortly after her fiance’s funeral, and he left. But the more Duncan showed up, the more Petra noticed him. As the book went on, her feelings grew, and she realized they were there all along. But the author was wise in keeping all the lovey-dovey stuff until the end of the book. That way, the focus was on Petra and what she looked into.

The mystery angle was well written. I liked that the author did lay all of her cards out at the beginning of the book. We knew who the bad guy was and about the husbands forcing their wives into asylums. But the author only connects the two in the middle of the book, and then it was a race to find the asylum, free the women, and figure out why the bad guy did what he did. I was delighted with how the author wrapped up this storyline. What happened after the paper printed the girls’ names was very fitting.

The end of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord was interesting. The author wrapped up the romance and the mystery angles in ways I enjoyed. But there was an exciting twist that raised my eyebrows. The author cleverly wrote this twist into a cliffhanger. While I was irritated with the cliffhanger, I loved the twist. It got me wanting to read book 2.

Many thanks to St. Martin’s Press, Minotaur Books, NetGalley, and Celeste Connally for allowing me to read and review this ARC of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord. All opinions stated in this review are mine.

As much as I love a good historical mystery, this one took me a bit to get into. While I get the writer is trying to make the characters fit into a certain time period, some of the male characters were just too much for me. I'll most likely still want to read the next one as I did enjoy Lady Petra as a character and will hope that there's less misogynistic BS.

Thank you NetGalley and St Martins press for the ARC!

Act Like A lady, Think Like A Lord by Celeste Connally is the first mystery in the Lady Petra Inquires series. I am very excited about the series! Lady Petra Forsyth’s fiancé died a few weeks before their wedding. She decides that she will never remarry which causes quite a stir. She also notices that a longtime friend has died of “melancholia” while being looked after by a questionable physician. She feels the need to dig deeper into what happened to her friend.

This was such a fascinating read! I stayed up late to find out what happened and was not disappointed. The story moves along quickly with twists and turns that lead to a fascinating ending. I enjoyed meeting such a variety interesting character such as shop keepers, a delightful street urchin, a dog trainer, members of the ton and household servants who seem to know all.

Act Like A Lady Think Like A Lord is a great story set in Regency London with a wonderful mystery, fascinating characters and an interesting plot. I recommend Act Like A Lady Think Like A Lord by Celeste Connally.

I was given a complimentary copy and not required to write a review.

thanks to NetGalley for the eARC

⭐️=1 | 😘=3 | 🤬=2.5 | ⚔️=5 | 16/17+

summary: she’s a ✨spinster by choice✨ (unlike the other girls!!!!) and has a murder to solve

thoughts: one would not expect a cozy-looking Regnecy era mystery to be this thematically disheveled. the stakes transition from “awwww shucks i can’t ride horses like the boys ☹️” to “women are locked in asylums and forced to endure terrifying and demeaning ‘treatments’ to cure nonexistent illnesses invented by the men in the highly patriarchal nineteenth century medical field” with little to no warning. babe. one of these things is not like the other!! these are not the same!! jumping from obnoxious, borderline contrived Lessons in Chemistry -esque feminism to revealing genuinely horrific elements of history as if they belong in the same story is not a reading experience conducive to, like, enjoyment or just general non-confusion?? we went from barely a 2 in violence to a solid 5 in the last 20% of the book. it had sooooo many problems with establishing a consistent tone and ended up getting incredibly dark roughly 85% of the way through, which is fine if you initially construct a darker vibe, but this just possessed an irritatingly faux girlboss energy (i.e. “any form of structured undergarment was invented by the patriarchy to oppress women,” which is categorically false information and (in my humble opinion) was used to manipulate actual views of the period to serve an annoying early 2010s feminist perspective; that’s different from just making a mistake with historical accuracy). anyway. this had issues. in addition. it was boring.

also the title is so weird to me? like what is this trying to imply?? attempting and failing not to overanalyze it 😗

content note(s): in the last 20%: descriptions of terrible stuff done to women in nineteenth century asylums. really disturbing.

I'm a sucker for a Regency romance. I'm a sucker for a mystery. So a Regency-era romantic mystery should be right up my alley. And mostly, this one was. The one thing that gave me pause when reading the description, and with current historical romances in general, is when 21st century sensibilities crop up in a 19th century setting. It's a fine line for me - I don't need a documentary, but I also don't want to feel like characters have time-traveled from 2023 to 1815. Lady Petra came dangerously close to becoming that type character for me here, but didn't quite cross the line.
I often say that the first book in a series is rarely the best of the series - a lot of time is spent setting up the characters, the background, basically the world-building for the series is happening in that first book. And again, there was a lot of time spent on that in the early chapters of this book. Perhaps too many characters were mentioned early on, at times when they were mentioned again later I had trouble remembering why they'd been mentioned previously. But at some point the world-building faded to the background and the mystery and romance moved to the forefront and the book became much more engaging. The mystery, which is very much rooted in some horrific practices from the 18th and 19th century (and frankly, also the 20th) - wasn't too much of a surprise to me as a reader, but still it was compelling. The romance takes a while to heat up, but it does show up near the end (though the attraction is there all along). And then we have quite the cliffhanger at the end. I'll definitely give book two a go - hoping that things will get going more quickly now that the world-building aspect has been established.
Thanks to Netgalley and St. Martin's Press for providing copies for an unbiased review.

***3.5 stars***(rounding up)

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord is an interesting book. There are several twists and turns that can keep the reader engaged and eager to find out how they all fit together.

Petra is an intriguing young woman. She grew up in a home where she was given leeway and didn't act like a lady should in some circumstances. I would say that she is a free spirit, something that was frowned upon during the Regency Era. She is also intelligent and curious. When the women of the ton start disappearing, including her best friend who died unexpectedly, she is determined to find answers.

The plot is intriguing. While the book didn't conform to the time period. I read the story ignoring the time period errors, this helped me to enjoy the book and appreciate the plot and characters.

The book contains sexual innuendo, crass views of women, and closed-door intimacy.

Source: I received a complimentary copy of the book. All thoughts and opinions expressed are my own.

In an era when women who showed any trace of independence were immediately punished for their actions, Lady Petra Forsyth refuses to bow to convention. The man she loved and meant to spend her life....and fortune....with has died and she refuses to contemplate life with another man. She has the wealth and the title, but will 1815 London allow such as Lady Petra to thrive? When she discovers women who have been confined to asylums for her behavior, she will take on society to free them. But will her actions go too far? Let's hope not. Lady Petra is the perfect character to helm a new series set in an era where conventions were ripe for change.

Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for a honest review.

I thought this was a cute historical mystery and romance featuring a plucky female protagonist, Lady Petra Forsyth. The feminist themes were a bit clunky in their execution but did not significantly detract from one's enjoyment of the book.

This book got off to a bit of a slow start, but I really ended up enjoying it. I was expecting something fluffier than it ended up being and was very pleasantly surprised by how serious and intriguing the mystery was.

Petra is a wonderful character! I loved her ability in a time that judged women harshly for their choices to live her life on her own terms. Not at all caring what society thought. The other characters were well written, and the building romance was nicely laid out.

Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord is an entertaining read that I highly recommend. I'm looking forward to what Lady Petra gets up to next. With that twist, at the end, things should be interesting.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are my own.

This book made me very happy to be born in the 20th century, and to appreciate more than ever how hard-won women's rights were. There is romance in this book but it is not the focus of the book. This is the first book of a series.

The main character is Lady Petra Forsyth. Petra is unusual for a woman of that time in several ways. She is independently wealthy, manages her funds herself, and will retain her money even if she marries. Since the man she was engaged to marry died in a fall, she has decided to remain single. This displeases her uncle, who thinks women should marry and be ruled by their husbands, and should definitely not have control of their finances. Worse, her formerly supportive father seems to be siding with him.

The first inkling of trouble comes when Petra is told that her friend Gwen has died. She learns differently when an emaciated and frightened Gwen finds her and asks for her help. She had escaped from Fairwinds, a sanitarium that her husband had sent her to.

It seems that a lot of men of the ton who now find their wives inconvenient have been sending them to Fairwinds to be 'reeducated', or even to disappear. Then the worst happens: Petra wakes up one day in Fairwinds, an inmate unable to leave, unable to contact anyone on the outside.

I received an e-ARC from the publisher St. St. Martin's Press/Minotaur Books via NetGalley, and voluntarily read and reviewed this book.

*I received a free ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review*

DNF @ 20%

Unfortunately, I had a very hard time getting into this book. Combined with the fact that I couldn’t get behind any of the characters, I decided to cut my losses with this one.

I debated on this book for a while before deciding that the title was too good to pass up. I had to know if the book would be as clever as the title.

I'm so glad I decided to read Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Lord as it is a perfectly delightful read.

The Regency period isn't one I usually like reading, but I found this book to be a lot of fun. If you like Bridgerton and Sanditon, then you will want to get this book.

Lady Petra is an interesting character. She reminded me of Nellie Bly and I kept recalling details from The Mad Girls of New York by Maya Rodale. Like Bly, Lady Petra uncovers what happens to women who become burdens to their husbands, fathers, uncles, and brothers just because the woman shows independence or strong wills or "hysteria" or a nervous condition, or just about any reason the man can think of to have her committed.

Actually, all of the characters are well-written and really make the story enjoyable. I know they are just fictional characters but I found myself really worrying about the women and feeling emotional about what was happening to them. It is probably because what they were experiencing was a reality during this period of time and I think I was angry on their behalf.

I read this book pretty quickly because I just didn't want to put it down. I'm looking forward to book 2 in the series.

My review will be published at Girl Who Reads on Sunday - https://www.girl-who-reads.com/2023/11/2-fun-mysteries-to-entertain-you.html