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In "Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People," Lindsay C. Gibson offers a lifeline to those who have grown up in the shadow of emotionally immature parents. This book is not just a continuation of the conversation started in her previous work, "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents," but a practical guide to navigating the complex web of relationships affected by emotional immaturity.

Gibson's book is a beacon of hope for adult children of emotionally immature parents (ACEIPs), providing them with the tools to recognize and extricate themselves from the emotional traps that have ensnared them for so long. With a compassionate voice, Gibson acknowledges the invisible wounds that ACEIPs carry—wounds of anger, loneliness, betrayal, and abandonment. She then meticulously guides readers through the process of healing and self-discovery.

The strength of Gibson's work lies in its practicality. It is not merely a theoretical exploration of emotional immaturity but a hands-on manual filled with strategies to stand up for oneself. The book empowers readers to set healthy boundaries and transform their relationships, offering a path to a happier and more fulfilling life.

One of the most compelling aspects of the book is its exploration of the characteristics of emotionally immature people (EIPs). Gibson's insights into the volatile and unpredictable nature of EIPs are eye-opening, helping readers understand and predict the behaviors that have likely puzzled and hurt them for years.

"Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People" is a must-read for anyone struggling with the legacy of an emotionally immature upbringing. It's a book that doesn't just sympathize—it equips. It's a journey from vulnerability to strength, from confusion to clarity, and ultimately, from entanglement to freedom.

Gibson's work is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of self-help. With a rating of 4.47 out of 5 from over 400 readers, it's clear that this book has struck a chord with many who have found solace and empowerment in its pages.

Anything written by Lindsay Gibson is a must-read. I recommend this book to every one of my clients dealing with difficult family members.

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I really loved this authors previous work and was excited to get my hands on this. I am so excited to share this knowledge and encourage my clients to explore these works. Obviously not all the clients have issues with parents in general, so I believe that this book/workbook may help a wider audience in establishing boundaries and guiding through the uncomfortable feelings that will arise when someone tries to do so.

This is a great resource in a series to help those attempting to set boundaries and make positive changes in relationships. It can be used independently or with guidance from a therapist. It’s not deep reading (if you need to go deeper, you can look up the source material), but deep enough to take you to places you’d rather not go with just enough encouragement to prod you onward, past the resistance you’ll feel.

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I already recommend Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents to everyone I feel would benefit so I was excited to receive this follow up book. These books have been eye opening to me as I navigate a relationship with clear boundaries with family members and process old childhood traumas.

Book reviews are new to this site, and in the back to school tradition of September, I decided to kick things of with some nonfiction reviews.

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Goth

A follow up to Lol Tolhurst’s 2016 biography Cured, Goth is a more expansive look at the music and literary influences of the goth subculture. I really appreciates how this book also offers a window into how those looking for music outside the mainstream found it in a pre-internet world.

Perfect for music buffs, poets, and anyone interested in the goth sub-culture.

Goth will be released September 26th

The League of Lady Poisoners

Lisa Perrin’s volume is a beautifully illustrated compendium of woman who have welded poison throughout history. A highlight for me was how this book’s chapters are organized by the various motives of the titular lady poisoners, as it gives more context and nuance to their stories.

A great fall follow up to a summer of Barbenheimer, this book is perfect for true crime fans, feminists, and dark history enthusiasts.

The League of Lady Poisoners will be released September 19th.

The Anatomist’s Library

Colin Salter’s compilation of medical books spans six centuries and and is brimming with beautiful illustrations. I had no idea what to expect going into this book, and was happy to find some familiar names (da Vinci!) and again, all of the gorgeous images.

Perfect for art lovers, history buffs, and researching writers.

The Anatomist’s Library is available now.

Disentangling From Emotionally Immature People

The fourth book published by Lindsey C Gibson, this effort is designed to be a workbook used in conjunction with talk therapy. I really appreciated that Lindsey dedicates space to redefine the terms she uses despite this book being part of a series, and the thoughtful questions at the end of each chapter.

A helpful guide for anyone dealing with difficult people in their lives.

Disentangling From Emotionally Immature People is available now.

The Death Doula’s Guide to Living Fully and Dying Prepared

A death literacy advocate, Francesca Arnoldy’s thoughtful book is designed assist readers in not only preparing for end of life arrangements, but fostering self-awareness and compassion. I found her discussion points thought provoking and designed help readers live a balanced life while preparing for the inevitable.

Any reader can benefit from this book.

The Death Doula’s Guide to Living Fully and Dying Prepared is available now.

"Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People" has been a great introduction to Lindsay C. Gibson and her concept of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. The author gives relatable examples and practical strategies for setting boundaries with the Emotionally Immature People in your life. Not only has this been an eye-opening book for me as I start to understand my upbringing and how it impacts my life as an adult, but it has given me support and validation to my thoughts and emotions in order to find a way forward. Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

From the author of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents , this handbook offers essential, practical solutions to help you “disentangle” from emotionally immature people, stand up for your self , and transform your relationships. If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met or dismissed—and you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, and abandonment as a result. As an adult, you have fought hard to establish your own sense of self , and heal the invisible wounds caused by your upbringing. But what about other emotionally immature people (EIP) in your life? EIPs are often unpredictable, volatile, and difficult to handle. They tend to be me-first people, with little regard for others. They may not respect you as an individual—which can be isolating, hurtful, and lonely. As an adult child of an emotionally immature parent (ACEIP), you may be particularly vulnerable to EIPs. But you are not powerless! If you’re tired of being emotionally hijacked by EIPs, this handbook can help you avoid common traps, build confidence, and stand strong in your self . In this must-have guide, author Lindsay Gibson provides everyday solutions to help you manage relationships with  any  emotionally immature person. You’ll find practical insights and explorations into the most common challenges ACEIPs face, and practical guidance to help set boundaries and establish healthier relationships. You’ll also learn to handle difficult interactions with EIPs, understand their responses, and transform your relationships to build a happier life. It’s time to disentangle from EIPs! As an ACEIP, you have spent a lifetime compensating for others’ behavior and putting your needs last. With this handbook, you’ll find the information you need to understand how EIPs function, shift your own perspective regarding these relationships, and stand up for your self without guilt, shame, or fear.

This has been a godsend to me. I always feel guilty for standing up for myself or for trying to establish boundaries with people who have no respect for said boundaries. Thank you for this book.

I recently purchased "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents' but decided to read this title first. I got a lot of insight from this book and I will definitely be reading the previous mentioned book as well.

This book was so helpful for recognizing problematic patterns in relationships. I really loved that it was structured as a workbook with space for reflection with thoughtful prompts as well.

Nothing earth shattering, but generally helpful to go through the workbook-style exercises, especially for those not used to putting themselves first. Those who’ve done extensive work in this area might not find this helpful.

A very useful Workbook type of book for people that come from emotionally manipulative or immature families.

I took this book to heart, as an adult child of an emotionally immature parent. Infact, that book of Lindsay's is one that I greatly consider therapeutic in my own personal life along with now this one. For anyone who struggles with boundaries, for anyone who finds themselves amongst toxic or dysfunctional family members, friends or coworkers, I strongly recommend this book for your own well being.

I like the flow and inclusiveness of this book. This topic is one I have been working through actively in therapy and should be talked about more.
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This author's previous work really changed my life, but this one just felt like the exact same information as the previous three books in the series.

First off, I have read the other book by this author “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents”. And there is not one week that goes by that I don’t recommend this book, pull it off my shelve to quote, or use it for activities. I will buy this book for that as well. Highly recommend.

Favorite Quote: Integrity is meaningless when your highest good lies in your immediate advantage of the moment. Integrity can’t be sustained in a person who privileges their feelings over factual reality.

The fourth book in Gibson’s Emotionally Immature series, Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People, expands the discussion from parents to all emotionally immature people in your life. In previous books, Gibson outlined what emotionally immature parents acted like and how that may have affected you as a child. Then, she extrapolates by sharing common behaviors and thought patterns of adult children of emotionally immature parents. Now, Gibson helps you look at many of the types of emotionally immature people you may encounter and gives you reflections and exercises to help deal with those personalities more effectively.

From the first book, I was able to see how the discussion around EI parents could apply to any EI adult. This book, Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People, goes much deeper into the behaviors and reactions of EI people to equip you with ways of dealing with them. Ultimately, Disentangling from Emotionally Immature People is about setting boundaries and allowing you the space to reflect on how your boundaries are right for you, not the EI person. Anyone dealing with draining family members, friends, colleagues, or neighbors will greatly benefit from reading this - or any - of Dr Gibson’s books!

This book did an excellent job of identifying features of an emotionally immature person in a way that normalized and validate the experience of anyone who has been in relationship with emotionally immature individuals. I found myself wishing this book had been publish earlier! It would have saved me a lot of heartache and self invalidation. So read it! Take time to slow down and add this to your collection. It will be worth your time because it is liberating in a way that is factual and not perjorative!!

Gibson’s previous book “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” was very helpful to me personally and I have recommended it several times and received feedback that it was helpful to those I recommended it to also. If you want a refresher or just a little more of what that book provided, I think this is a great follow up but not necessary.

If you’ve read Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, by Dr. Lindsay Gibson, there isn’t a whole lot new to this book, BUT unlike the other books by this author on the topic, this book is set up like a workbook which is very new to Dr. Gibson’s books. This book is full of short, approachable sections highlighting a single trait or case study of an emotionally immature person. Though the idea is to recognize the EIP’s you’ve gravitated towards as a result of being raise by an EIP, many of the case studies do involve the parents. That being said, the case studies are so multifaceted and diverse that everyone can find helpful insights here. Each chapter ends with strategies and tips for navigating similar situations as well as som questions designed for further consideration about the EIPs you’re working to disentangle from. If you don’t necessarily have EIPs who baffle and bewilder you that you feel the need to disentangle from, you may not find this book as helpful.

I personally would recommend approaching this book with a separate journal so you can return to this book over and over and also, so you can consider multiple EIPs as you’re working through it.

I’d like to thank New Harbinger Publications and NetGalley for the advanced copy of this book in exchange for my honest feedback. All thoughts and opinions are my own.