I thought a book by an Instagram star would be…more interesting. This was a trudge to get through; therefore, I skimmed quite a bit of it. I can see how it would resonate with some people, but the whole existential thing didn’t work for me. It was way too much abstract philosophy that read like a research paper about philosophers.

However, the breaks between chapters was much more like the author's Instagram account and they resonated much more. Also, as we get further into the book, there is more actionable information.

"It's On Me" by Sara Kuburic is a refreshing and empowering guide to self-discovery and personal growth that offers readers practical tools and insights for living a more fulfilling and authentic life. Kuburic, known for her compassionate and relatable approach to mental health and well-being, delivers a thoughtful and thought-provoking narrative that empowers readers to take ownership of their lives and embrace their true selves.

One of the most compelling aspects of "It's On Me" is Kuburic's empathetic and non-judgmental approach to self-improvement. Drawing upon her background in psychology and her own experiences, she guides readers through a journey of self-discovery, helping them identify their values, strengths, and passions. Her writing is warm, engaging, and filled with compassion, creating a safe space for readers to explore their innermost thoughts and feelings.

Kuburic's writing style is accessible and relatable, with practical advice and exercises that readers can easily incorporate into their daily lives. From mindfulness practices to boundary-setting techniques, she offers a wealth of tools and strategies for navigating life's challenges with grace and resilience. Her insights are grounded in both research and real-world experience, making them relevant and applicable to readers' everyday experiences.

Moreover, "It's On Me" is not just a self-help book—it's also a celebration of authenticity, vulnerability, and self-compassion. Kuburic encourages readers to embrace their imperfections and embrace their unique journey towards self-discovery and growth. Through personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, she reminds readers that it's okay to struggle, to make mistakes, and to ask for help along the way.

The book is also notable for its emphasis on holistic well-being and self-care. Kuburic explores the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit, offering practical advice for cultivating balance and harmony in all areas of life. Whether readers are struggling with stress, anxiety, or low self-esteem, they will find valuable insights and support in "It's On Me."

In conclusion, "It's On Me" by Sara Kuburic is a must-read for anyone seeking to live a more authentic, meaningful, and fulfilling life. With its compassionate guidance, practical advice, and empowering message of self-acceptance and self-compassion, it's a book that has the power to transform lives. Kuburic's wisdom and empathy shine through on every page, making "It's On Me" an invaluable resource for anyone on the journey towards self-discovery and personal growth.

“It's On Me” by Sara Kuburic provides eye-opening, millennial antidotes aimed at discovering oneself, either for the first time or again after the unintentional loss of self. Those familiar with her Instagram feed will take joy in this in-depth expansion into Kubruric’s existential style, with a specified focus on self-responsibility, a lesson we could all benefit from. It took me a minute to get fully invested into “It's On Me”, but once I did I was able to glean a lot from the knowledge provided.

Thank you to The Dial Press Team at Penguin Random House and Netgalley for my ebook copy. I have since also purchased a hardback copy and the audiobook, narrated by Sara Kuburic herself.

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It's On Me: Accept Hard Truths, Discover Your Self, and Change Your Life by Sara Kuburic is a guide to finding our most authentic and meaningful self. It had a lot of useful information, and I thought it was well-written. Here's a couple of sections that I highlighted: "If I let myself really understand another person, I might have to change by that understanding. And we all fear change. So as I say, it is not an easy thing to permit oneself to understand an individual, to enter thoroughly and completely and empathetically into his frame of reference." Also, "if we allow the expectations and validations of other people to guide our actions, we allow them to mold who we become." Thanks to NetGalley for the free digital review copy. All opinions are my own.

There were a few good takeaways from this book, but ultimately it felt a bit repetitive to me and it ended up dragging. I’ll stick to the author’s one-liners.

I received an ARC from NetGalley. This is my honest review.

I received an ARC of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

I found this book very helpful. It was also written in a better style than a lot of books of this genre.

Thank you NetGalley for this ARC, in exchange for an honest review!

This was one of the first serious self-help books that I’ve ever read; the ones I’ve read in the past incorporated humor to make the content easily digestible. This book, on the other hand, was very philosophically heavy. I really liked that aspect since I graduated with a major in Psychology and minor in Philosophy a few years ago, but I know it may not be for everyone. Overall, I did enjoy it and feel that I got a lot of helpful information out of it. Some parts were a bit repetitive, but that’s common in the self-help genre. I would definitely recommend this book!

What a great read! The last few years have been a stressful blur. I don't know many people who haven't felt lost and trying to find themselves. This is a great guidebook for self-discovery! I like how the book is especially perfect for the millennial age. It's the first time I've heard of the term "self-loss."
The book has a great blend of psychology, research, and personal stories by Dr. Kubrick and her patients. It was exactly what I needed to read this year. Especially the last quarter of the year.
I highly recommend this book! Thank you to the publishers and NetGalley for the opportunity to read it!

💝This felt like an all inclusive healing my inner child and reparenting guidebook for an ACODF. It compliments my learning and practice of MSC. I could have used this wisdom decades earlier but it was published to compliment my healing, reparenting, spiritual training journeys I am traveling on/through. There were suggested assignments and activities throughout this Memoir/Self-Help Guide but having a workbook or website for daily reflection would be quite beneficial IMO. This was a first for Dr. Kuburic, it was well presented and gave me many AhHa and YEPPERS-THAT IS #DATRUTH moments. This will be A Book Club Choice for years to come. 💝
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Lately I’ve been really trying to take my mental health into my own hands and focus on figuring out ways to, not only cope with my mental issues, but to thrive through them. It’s On Me was a book that I wish I had read sooner. It focuses on guiding you through taking charge and responsibility for your life choices. It focuses on the concept of Loss of Self, which was something I hadn’t really considered in depth before. I have a feeling that many of the tools covered in It’s On Me will be tools that I put to work while I continue focusing on my mental health. I would highly recommend this one to anyone struggling!

This one took me a long time to get through. Overall I did have some good takeaways but it was hard to follow at times with the psychology terminology.

I didn’t quite know what to expect when I began this book, but what I found was interesting insight and guidance toward finding one’s true self. While I am not an existentialist like the author, I still related to a good bit of the book, and I think her advice is solid. Her section on emotions is one I will want to return to time and time again; she explains truths about emotions that are hard to remember when feeling them.

Thanks @netgalley for the ARC! I’m not sure if this book was immensely well-written in general or just written in exactly the way I needed to hear it right now, but likely both. So many deep hard truths in this book that aren’t new or unique but are spoken with compassion and understanding and honesty in a way that makes them deeply accessible. I’m already planning my reread of this one.

If you have been on the road of self-discovery and growth for quite some time now, this book might be just the one for you. If you have noticed that more than half of the books that promise to talk about it do nothing and deliver nothing, then this one is a nice example of a book that has some transformative potential.
There is guidance, there is encouragement, there is validation, and love.

A coming-of-age guide for those of us who might be past "coming of age." Easy to digest, written in an accessible, enjoyable style, full of helpful research-backed guidance. 4 Stars.

I wish this book had existed for my 20-35 year old self and hope that many in that age group find tis book in their hands. She offers a lot of wisdom in being true to ones' self and the venture of getting to the place of who self really is and how self wants to live. Some great advice within these pages. Young ladies, take heed, never change yourself to fit or make someone like or love you, and being alone means you are in good company! She often personalizes a concept thus making it more relatable. She has had quite an interesting life! The book is easy to read and understand and should be done slowly so you can ponder the content. Not a read this today kind of book. This book would be a great gift for a graduate!
I was provided an advanced reader copy of this book and was under no obligation to provide a review. The opinions expert are my own. Many thanks to the author, publisher and NetGalley for the opportunity to read this book.

Fans of the self help book will enjoy this one for the different look at the concept of self and finding one self. There's a heavy dose of philosophy as well as psychology. Thanks to netgalley for the ARC. This isn't my genre so I flipped through it, periodically stopping to read for advice,

This book was dead-on. Every chapter, the descriptions, and the next steps or actions. The author is a therapist for millennials, and as a millennial who could really use a therapist, I was immediately pulled into the writing style, the thought, the focus, the whole book.

As the author described things such as setting boundaries, and how people react to certain scenarios, I was able to 100% identify which of the scenarios was me and how I perceive or react to situations.

I have since began to follow the author on Instagram and look forward to her release date and more content she will post online.

Sara Kubric, Ph.D., an existential psychologist, answers the question of how to find your Self. The book is easy to read and breaks down complex philosophical ideas that are blended into existential psychology. She breaks down the philosophy of what it means to exist and how your brain delves into the issues. Kubric also shares the story of her own self journey showing readers they are not alone and that they can find their Self.
The actions and strategies to find yourself dosen't really include anything new; the strategies and exercises are typical for psychological well-being. The difference is that these are framed in the concept of finding out who you are.
This is a great book for people who aren’t well-versed in Psychology and are eager to find the Self they have lost in this busy, demanding world.

I am always up for a self-help book. Self-analysis is something I enjoy. This book can get a little out there for some but for me, it was an enjoyable read that left me thinking.