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This book just wasn’t my cup of tea. This book follows Stephanie after her first book The Maid. We follow her as she faces struggles trying to go to college while being a single mom. This was a tough read because it’s bleak and really shows what people face on a daily basis. Some of the authors thoughts and decisions rubbed me the wrong way but not my place to judge. My main issue with this book was it felt very rushed. I think this has an audience that will really need this but isn’t for me. I would like to thank NetGalley and the publishers for a chance to read this book for an honest review.
In her follow-up to Maid, Land describes just how frustrating navigating motherhood can be without the cultural capital afforded to those of different life circumstances. The constant tug of ambition and humility is relatable to all working parents.
It took me a while to actually review this book because I was looking for something good to say and I still can't really find it. I guess not every book is for everyone, but I found Land's second memoir whiny and selfish, and not in an "I know it's a memoir and it's about her" kind of way. I do thank Atria Books and NetGalley for the early access in exchange for my honest opinion. I just wished I'd liked it more. 2.5 stars
After "Maid" , this one seemed to fall a bit flat. It seemed like more of a whine-fest of the author thinking the world owes her everything since she was a single parent trying to go to college and raise a child. What I felt was focused on a bit too much in the book was her in college, and chasing guys, partying with guys, doing other things that I won't repeat here with guys (hey, good for her, but no need to brag so much in your book about it!), and VERY little mention or discussion of your child! Except to use them as an "excuse" as to why things were so hard for you. Sob, Sob. Sob. And then when you do talk about your child, you referred to them as "my kid". That's immature and annoying. You're the parent. Grow up and BE a parent.
I had a hard time with this one. I wanted more about Land's time in college and less about her relationships. I didn't always understand her choices which made it difficult for me to empathize. That being said, her writing is immersive and I'll be first in line for her next book.
I first learned about Stephanie Land from the Netflix show, and know how much shows are dramatized, I had to find the book. After reading "Maid", I knew I had to read this one as well. Such a great writer! I quite enjoyed this book.
Author Stephanie Land's previous book, "Maid", was her memoir of struggling as a single mother living below the poverty line. In this follow-up, "Class" , Land continues to share her story of fighting to access higher learning as a single mother living below the poverty line.
The beauty of memoirs is that they allow readers to access a life that is unlike their own lives. At their best, they make you more empathetic to the struggles of others and more aware of systemic injustices.
I most appreciated the parts of this book that addressed the struggles of poverty and education... student loans, child care, the high cost of copying essays to share with all of the author's peers in the classroom, etc etc.
In other sections, it was harder for me to sympathize. I had to keep reminding myself that poor people are allowed to make mistakes, too. They are allowed to pick abusive boyfriends just like rich people are. They are allowed to use birth control with a high failure rate just like middle class folks can. They are allowed to have unflattering opinions of their professors and friends and write about them in very public ways... I guess.
That being said, this author often comes across as an immature person who views herself as a near-constant victim of not only "the system", but also her family, boyfriends, friends, professors, judicial systems, etc. I *know* that this author has fought through circumstances I have never faced. And by her own account, she's come through those battles and is in a much better place now. I'm so glad for her. Just be aware that this book is not just a look at how hard it is for poor folks to get ahead via our higher education system. It also includes a significant side of relational drama.
My thanks to the author, publisher, and #NetGalley for an ARC of this book.
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Class, is the follow up to Stephanie Land’s 2019 memoir, Maid. The book picks up where the mother/ daughter duo last left us. Now residents in the state of Montana, Stephanie is a senior attending the University of Montana while her daughter begins kindergarten. But reality soon sets in for the single mother when she begins to face one obstacle after the next. Will she be able to achieve her goal of higher education, or will living below the poverty line stand in her way?
As someone who struggled greatly to finance college, I found Stephanie’s personal account to be the most accurate portrayal of the education system I have ever read. Learning how much harder things were for her as single mother made this book even more inspiring. She is the definition of true grit!
Not only was this my first five star read of 2024, but it is a book that will stay with me forever. I was sad to see and hear harsh criticism of Land as a person. While I did not always agree with her choices, I could easily see how someone in her situation would feel the need to make them. I applaud Land for not only beating the odds, but thriving in a world that was designed to keep her down.
I highly recommend everyone pick up a copy of this book. In fact, I wholeheartedly believe Class should be required reading for ALL high schoolers in the United States. It would give students a modern take on the education, legal, and financial systems we currently have in place.
Special thanks to Netgalley, Atria Books, and Stephanie Land for allowing me to read this book in exchange for my honest review.
Having really enjoyed Maid, I was happy to receive an ARC of Land's follow-up novel Class. The takeaway for me was that there was a real lack of growth. There's a lack of self-awareness and honestly, she comes across as manipulative. IF you cannot be there for her and help her, she will drop you. There wasn't any reciprocity. And there were a lot of bad decisions one after another after another. Also, there's still inherent privilege here that's not being acknowledged or discussed.
I appreciate NetGalley and the publisher providing me the ARC for review.
This is a book I was looking forward to, and I was so excited to receive an eARC of it earlier this month! It was, as was the first one, a relatively quick read - I devoured it during my morning and afternoon commute, and was done in two days.
After reading it, though, I made the terrible mistake of going online to see what other reviewers were thinking - naively believing that most of us would have interpreted it in a similar way. I was sorely disappointed, when instead of five-star reviews - which this one is, by the way - I found quite a lot of negative comments, complaining, mostly, about the “graphic” sex scenes and Land’s “bad decision-making” skills.
Let me just start with the first point : the sex scenes. Honestly ? You’ve probably seen worse in your latest favorite TV show. Land doesn’t write very detailed, graphic sex scenes, no matter what some reviewers seem to have read (did we get the same eARC ? Were pages missing in mine?).
Yes, this is a book destined for an adult audience. Yes, it will talk about things that matter in an adult woman’s life - including, but not limited to, her relationships with others. Just because it’s a woman writing about it doesn’t make it inherently vulgar or useless in a story.
Secondly, on the topic of “bad” decision-making… Who are you to judge ?
Land’s difficulties with the world of academia are real, and show us the barriers between poor citizens and higher education. Those that would judge her for trying to achieve something bigger than what she originally had - trying to get into the MFA program, for example - seem to have no comprehension of the intrinsic dilemma of higher education for low-income individuals : in order to try and grab our “chance at a better life” through a college or university diploma, we must make unsound financial decisions, like getting an insurmountable amount of student loans, or quitting a full-time job to try and get some classes part-time in a semester.
Yet, if we do not try our very best and aim to change our situation by getting a post-secondary degree, we are seen as lazy, unwilling to work for better living conditions, and, ultimately, deserving of our situation.
This book asks us : Who has the right to go to college? Who has the right to have dreams and hopes for the future? Who has the right to want things for themselves?
Unfortunately, it seems some readers’ answers to those questions are, “not you. Not the way you’re doing it. Not those choices.”.
Land’s memoir shows us the reality of what she had to go through to get to where she is now, in all its complicated details and heartbreaking turns. Yes, she may have made choices you personally don’t agree with, or that don’t seem to make sense to you, and it might make you uncomfortable - that’s the point of reading this book. Don’t let your discomfort prevent you from feeling empathy.
This is a beautiful book that I believe will be eye-opening for a lot of people, and I wish it just as much success as the first one. It deserves it.
Class is a follow-up to the book Maid. If you are a fan of true stories, this will be a great read for you. I enjoyed learning more about Stephanie as she struggled to support herself and her daughter while she went to school. I look forward to more books by Stephanie Land. Thank you to NetGalley, One Signal publishers/Atria for the ARC. I am leaving this review and is my own opinion. #class, #stephanieland, #onesignalpublishers, #atria, #netgalley
This books that Land writes are great. They allow you to see the world from a place where you may never have thought to look. When you read this memoir, you can't help but feel emotionally attached to the characters and the story.
A very interesting personal memoir about a single mother who goes back to college while juggling part-time gigs, government bureaucracy and societal shaming. She is a good writer and I was interested in her story and struggles. My favorite parts were her relationship with her daughter and her description of all of the obstacles and hurdles she dealt with while trying to get a college education to set her up for future success. I have not read her first book (but I own it and plan to read it). Other reviewers said they prefer her first book to this one but since there was a lot I liked in this one, I look forward to reading her first book "Maid."
Thank you to Netgalley and Atria Books for an ARC and I voluntarily left this review.
Stephanie Land’s memoir, Class - a follow up to her best selling debut ‘Maid’ is a tale of resilience, determination and navigating the exhausting and unfair barriers of the system , all in pursuit of higher education.
This is according to me a better and more well written book than Maid. The reader feels her frustration, anger at her circumstances and even her small joys to celebrate her tiniest of wins. The reader feels for her, with her as she balances the tight rope of being Single mom, a student with little support from friends or family or anyone for that matter and the strong willingness to attain higher education. The tenderness and love in her relationship with her six year old daughter is penned in the most heartfelt way. There is so much more the reader is left wanting to know which most probably with be the book after this one.
I flew through this book, it’s an absolute page turner and highly recommended. Hope to see the follow up to the Netflix show as well!
After reading Maid, I knew I needed to read the second memoir by Stephanie Land.
And I'm very conflicted on how I felt about it. I think I went in expecting it to be more like Maid, but this one felt more centered around the author's sexual encounters in college and continued poor decisions.
Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for the gifted copy.
This memoir, much like the one that preceeded it, was wonderful but painful to read. While I am not a single parent, many of my other circumstances and choices reflect those of the author, right down to the design of the Discover card I took out during my undergrad years. The account is relentless, and I can't think of a moment that I'd describe as truly hopeful, but I wouldn't go quite so far as to describe it as bleak. Despite the grim content, it was easy to fly through the compelling narrative in just a couple days, pausing only to explain to my partner why I was gasping or tearing up as I listened to the audiobook while going about daily tasks. Stylistically (and, at times, thematically) it reminds me of "Wild" by Cheryl Strayed, which is one of my all-time favorite memoirs.
I LOVED "maid" (before it was a TV show) and I continue to adore Stephanie Land's writing. "Class" is an expert follow up. I Thanks to netgalley for the ARC!
I really liked this book, it was different than anything else I've read which was a breath of fresh air. I will be recommending this to my friends, and auto buy this author!
3.5 Stars. This second memoir bridges the gap between the two voices in Maid: that of the young, struggling mother working as a maid, and the author herself years later. It focuses on her life and struggles while Land finished her BA in Montana. I found this valuable as a prompt to question all the structural and societal biases that require people to "perform" poverty in the right way in order to qualify for benefits or even just sympathy, and I really like Land's writing style. However, this felt more chronological narrative than memoir than Maid, and I wanted a little more depth. In this installment, there is a much stronger feel of a support network in the background - friends who take her daughter camping, or who she hikes with, or who provide babysitting - but they mostly stay in the shadows, and I'd like see more of those relationships; there is a little dissonance in her dissatisfaction with the reliability of her friends/network and all the small ways they show up in these background roles, and I think there is more there that would be very interesting to explore.
The true story of a single mother making things work with an unsupportive ex-husband. I liked it, but the magic of The Maid was somehow missing for me. Maybe she needed more distance from this part of her life to truly offer insight.