Thank you to both MacMillan Audio and St Martin's Press for review copies of this engaging memoir. Soundtrack of Silence is a charming love story that is grounded in many touch points for people like me who love music, hear a song and link it to specific memories, who make playlists that are more than favorite songs but playlists with a theme/milestone in mind. Soundtrack of Silence is also an excellent read for those seeking a disability awareness memoir as it focuses on hearing loss and experiences of individuals who are deaf. I loved the focus on remembering music as a way to remember important moments, of parts of self and relationships, and simply the chance to be a part of understanding the journey of hearing loss and Matt Hay's story.

The audiobook is narrated by the author himself, which is important for more fully embracing the book as well as reminding us that inclusion in audiobook narration matters too. I appreciated the chance to listen to parts of this memoir as well as read the review ebook.

Soundtrack of Silence is a phenomenal memoir about love, hope and the ways that music affects all of us. Matt Hay’s personal story of hearing loss and the love of his life and the music that tied all of it together is funny, heartfelt and makes you appreciate your life and all that you have.

I requested this for two reasons -
1) music is connected to the majority of my memories, and is of vital importance to me
2) I have lost more of my hearing than I ever imagined I would and need hearing aids


However, I didn’t enjoy my time reading this one; this was for a number of reasons, which I won’t list.




Thank you to St. Martin’s Press and NetGalley for the DRC

Soundtrack of Silence by Matt Hay is one of those nonfiction reads that you can't help still thinking about hours after you have put it down. This Memoir made me really grateful for the senses I have and how they function, I will be recommending this book for the nonfiction shelves at the bookstore I work at.

An inspiring memoir of a young man who discovered he was going completely deaf just at the moment he’d fallen in love for the first time.

Thank you St. Martin’s Press and Netgalley for sending me a digital ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review! I enjoyed reading this book. It was so inspiring. If you like inspiring stories, I would recommend this book.

This was an informative and inspiring memoir of Matt Hay. He shares his spiral down from hearing to deafness and his related efforts to remember his favorite songs before it’s too late. It is a story of living life intentionally and trying to maximize each day. Matt endures surgery to try to restore some hearing and is met with challenges related to the surgery. It is a memoir that will appeal to anyone struggling with untreatable medical conditions and their loved ones. Thanks to NetGalley and St. Martin’s Press for the ARC. This is my honest review.

This book is so inspiring. I loved every word and felt it was such a good book for me in this moment in time. This man has been through so much, and I love his focus and determination. As soon as I finished it, I had to go and listen to music that held a special place in my life. The love story of he and his wife was also one to marvel at, and I would love to see this turned into a movie. Bravo, and I will be recommending this book to everyone.

"Soundtrack of Silence" by Matt Hay is a poignant and resonant exploration of the power of music to heal and connect. Hay's novel delves into the life of a talented musician, navigating loss, love, and the pursuit of one's passion. The narrative is both lyrical and deeply emotional, capturing the transformative nature of music in the face of adversity. Hay's prose is evocative, immersing readers in the protagonist's journey of self-discovery. "Soundtrack of Silence" is a beautifully crafted ode to the universal language of music, offering a moving and immersive experience that lingers in the heart long after the final note.

Soundtrack of Silence by Matt Hay was a truly amazing memoir.
It had me in tears and laughing all at the same time.
I loved the humor Matt showed throughout this book. I thought he did a great job detailing his story.
Soundtrack of Silence is a testament to resilience, offering hope and love poignantly articulated through Hay’s journey.
Thank you for writing such a unique and inspiring story.

Thank You NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for your generosity and gifting me a copy of this amazing eARC!

Soundtrack of Silence is a memoir of a man who lost his hearing as a young person and how he persevered. His story is peppered with songs, artists, and lyrics that make up the soundtrack of his life. Many times, I stopped reading to listen to a song that I didn't know well. This inclusion made my two loves, music and reading, come to life.

Thank you so much to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for an advanced copy of this book for review.

Soundtrack of Silence is an odyssey of one man’s life. We accompany a young man as he navigates hearing challenges, eventual deafness and all of the other hurdles that love and life offer. It’s a surprisingly funny, heartbreaking, and music filled journey.

**Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for an electronic ARC and the opportunity to review this book.

Soundtrack of Silence is a memoir about persevering despite overwhelming personal issues. Matt Hay does an excellent job of telling his story, using music to describe his life.

Matt always had issues hearing, but never realized the extent to which what was happening to him was not normal. He ended up losing his hearing due to a rare genetic disorder- noncancerous tumors that blocked the nerves that transmitted sound to his brain. Knowing his fate, Matt set forth a mission to catalog and remember the music that was so important to his life.

Soundtrack of Silence was about his illness, but mainly how he dealt with it, fell in love, and made a life. The author used good analogies to describe what was happening to him, like having access to three crayons instead of a whole 64 count box. Though he was sometimes depressed, Matt's positive attitude and the love of his wife and family helped to see him through.

Soundtrack of Silence is an excellent read, as it reminds readers how a good outlook on life can help you in even the most trying of times. I would definitely recommend this memoir to other readers.

Disclaimer: I was given an Advanced Reader's Copy by NetGalley and the publisher. The decision to read and review this book was entirely my own.

Rating - 5/5 stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Date Read - October 21, 2023
Publication Date - January 9, 2024

*I received an E-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review* - Thank you @stmartinspress and @netgalley!

First things first... this book is amazing. I will be reading it multiple times. I want to get the paperback. I will be recommending this book to everyone I know. Please read it.

Okay, now that's off my chest, onto the rest of my review. Soundtrack of Silence is like nothing I have read before, in the best way possible. It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me feel. All of the best books make you feel something 💛

On a personal note, my mom is hearing impaired and so many things that Matt Hay spoke about in his book echoed things my mom has been describing my whole life. The catch? My mom thought it was just her. I can't wait to get a copy of this book for her to read and so she can see that it was never just her. I also loved reading about Matt's children and how they live with a hearing impaired parent. It made me take a step back and remind myself about my mom's perspective as well.

Soundtrack of Silence hit home the truth that nothing is ever guaranteed. That 1% chance is still a 1% chance that can, and sometimes does, happen. You can choose to pretend that chance doesn't exist. You can choose to constantly fear that chance. Or you can make the most out of every moment and choose to live.

Please read this book.

Get excited to read Soundtrack of Silence by Matt Hay, coming to all major retailers January 9, 2024! 🎉

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As someone with a genetic condition impacting my hearing, I REALLY wanted to like this book. I’ve had hearing loss since birth and like the author, I have a profound love of music and so the premise of this book resonated with me. Unfortunately I felt disappointed by many facets of this book. I won’t detail them here, but one thing I’ll point out to those who might see this: while the author used the phrase “hearing impaired” A LOT, it’s an outdated term and many people with hearing loss prefer the term hard of hearing. Additionally, deafness is a spectrum, whereas the author expressed deafness as a complete loss of sound, and anyone with some hearing as “hearing impaired.” I do worry that this is misleading to those who might read this book and I urge anyone who does read it and who wants to know more, to do research elsewhere to gain a better and more representative understanding.

Thank you Netgalley for an advance copy of Soundtrack of Silence, by Matt Hay.

Matt Hay memoir is a mixed tape of his life with progressive genetic hearing loss. "Step by Step," he shares his reflections and reminds readers to "Don't Stop Believing" in human resilience and determination.

HIs use of song lyrics (and not song titles as I have played with in this review) is a poignant way to tap into readers' own memories of events that pair with songs in their own soundtrack of life.

For readers who love inspirational stories this one is for you.

Matt Hay didn't realize that his hearing was different from everyone else's until he was finally diagnosed with hearing loss in young adulthood. Due to NF2, a rare genetic disease, he would eventually lose all hearing. Without knowing when that would happen, Matt decided to commit to memory some of his favorite songs that brought up his favorite memories, so that even when he lost his hearing he'd be able to hear the music in his mind. So that's where the title comes from - but this book is less about the music and more about one man's story of falling in love and losing his hearing al at the same time.... about the challenges he faces with his wife and alone..... about the surgeries that help in some ways but bring on new difficulties as well... and about a man trying to not just survive, but also trying be the partners that women he loves deserves.

You’d think that just when you’re going off to college, and you find out that you will at some point be completely deaf because of tumors caused by a genetic condition known as NF2 would be difficult enough, but what Matt Hay goes through is far more harrowing than *just* total hearing loss.

In this memoir we learn that Matt had been compensating for his hearing his entire life but didn’t fully realize that by tricking the school nurse administering the hearing test each year, that’s what he was doing. Until he tries to go to West Point, and he can’t fool the person who conducts the hearing test for a career in the military, and he finds out the truth that his hearing has been diminishing year after year and will continue to do so until he has no hearing at all.

He manages to get through college and meets Nora. She’s a medical student who has a father with a disability. Matt goes through a lot of unimaginably horrific things, but falling in love with someone who understands what he’s going through way better than most is at least a saving grace.

As the title suggests, there is a lot about the music he committed to memory before going deaf, and this is a theme throughout. The endless operations are difficult to read about and the details of certain aspects of what he went through were often over my head, but this is intriguing, and the writing is good.

NetGalley provided an advance copy of this memoir, which RELEASES JANUARY 9, 2024.

Synopsis (from Netgalley, the provider of the book for me to review.)
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As a child, Matt Hay didn’t know his hearing wasn’t the way everyone else processed sound—and like a lot of kids who do workarounds to fit in, even the school nurse didn’t catch his condition at the annual hearing and vision checks. But as a prospective college student who couldn’t pass the entrance requirements for West Point, Hay’s condition, generated by a tumour, was unavoidable: his hearing was going, and fast.

The Soundtrack of Silence was his determined compensation for his condition: a typical Midwestern kid growing up in the 1980s, whose life events were pegged to pop music, Hay planned to commit his favourite songs to memory, a mental playbook not only of the bands he loved but a way to tap his most resonant memories. And the track he needed to cement most clearly? The one he and his new girlfriend Nora—the love of his life—listened to in the car on their first date.

Made vivid with references to instantly recognizable songs—from The Eagles to Elton John, Bob Marley to Bing Crosby, U2 to Peter Frampton—Soundtrack of Silence asks readers to run the soundtrack of their own lives through their minds. And, like much of the music it invokes, it’s, in the end, a happy story: Hay does marry the girl of his dreams, complex and cutting-edge surgeries allow him via implant and linked external devices to partially hear, and he’s able to share lullaby time with his and Nora’s children.

I am one of those rare people who likes silence – I do enjoy 80s songs (the soundtrack of my high school days) when they show up in movies and TV shows, but I cannot drive with the radio on as traffic is crazy… as are insurance rates. I had not been to a concert in 30+ years until my sister took me to hear both Adele and Taylor Swift this summer … Taylor’s was like sitting beside an airplane engine with 65000 screaming, crying crazy young Americans and Adele’s was like being in a really big living room with your new best friend. I think that it will be another 30 years before I go to another concert.

I loved Matt’s story as I can understand why he wanted to commit those songs to memory - and I am darn glad that he was able to have surgery and make music a part of his life again as it was so important to him. (My brother is a 70’s music addict --- the stereo is on 24-7 in his home, and he drives all over North America to go to hear groups I have never heard of and his kids inherited his love of music as well, so I can see and understand what Matt was doing!) I am kind of glad, though, that it kept him out of West Point but that is the pacifist in me speaking … um, writing.

An excellent book that I loved every page of. Highly recommended.

I was drawn to this topic due to a close personal connection with someone with an acoustic neuroma that required multiple surgeries to get under control (similar to yet different from Hay's case). Hays delightfully weaves music from the time period in and out of his very personal story filled with moving descriptions of his challenging surgeries and recoveries, the pressure these put on his relationships, marriage, identity, ego, etc. Hays shows amazing fortitude, sticking to recovery with the goal of running a marathon, participating in a triathlon, being there for his family. He manages to live every day to the fullest, despite his enormous auditory challenges. I appreciate Hays bringing his story forward, as it provided me with a better understanding of and sympathy for the hearing impaired/deaf.

The only reason I read this book, was because I liked the title (a very nice playlist of verses of songs was mentioned throughout the book). I really want that playlist! So, basically, Matt is losing his hearing, and before he loses it completely, he wants to remember certain songs.

He was diagnosed with a rare condition called NF2 which caused tumors in his brain that affected his hearing loss and balance issues. He did have hearing aids, which helped, but it was never perfect. Later, he did a get an Auditory Brainstem Implant (ABI) when he lost his hearing for good. It has helped him hear better, but again, it will never be perfect.

I will mention, and tell you, that this is much more about Matt’s story than music.

He had a lot of up and downs in regard to surgeries. It was nice that he wasn’t alone in this, as he had the support and help from his family and from his girlfriend and her family (whom he eventually married). She put her career and schooling on hold.

He persevered and ended up running in a marathon and participated in an Ironman competition. He got married and they have three kids. Would the kids be prone to NF2? That was something else they had to consider. Thankfully, the answer was no after a lot of research.

At a few points in the book, I wanted to cry in tears of happiness for him.

I really enjoyed his honesty about everything he has gone through and am looking forward to reading more about him in the future.

I can kind of relate to him as I have a rare vocal cord condition called Abductor Spasmodic Dysphonia and when I was first diagnosed in 2006, I thought eventually, I may end up not being able to speak. I was terrified and thought, well, I can learn sign language or use a computer to speak for me. Fortunately, that never happened as the treatments of speech therapy and Botox injections have helped me tremendously. Most of the time, when I speak, you can’t even notice that I have ABSD. Unfortunately, many other people with the same condition, have barely any voice at all.