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3.5๐ŸŒŸ

โ•Trigger warning! This story focuses heavily on domestic violence and is spoken about briefly in this reviewโ•

An impactful, hard hitting story about the suffering of domestic violence victims during the hard trials of the Covid19 pandemic.

This story was a tough read and detailed the lives of 4 women who were stuck with abusive husbands in a time they couldnโ€™t escape. The story starts off very abrupt and continues to be very intense throughout. Even though there is a lot of humour involved in the story, it only works as a way to take your mind away from the awful stories these women had to go through.

I did enjoy this read but for me it was a little bit far fetched at times. I also found that it would be really intense at times but then die down and become quite slow to read. However the last 100 pages of the book picked up and the story flew by. The tension I felt when they were going through with their plans and whether they were going to succeed.

Overall, this story was quite good and focuses on such an important subject that isnโ€™t spoken about enough.

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โ€œMarry in haste, repent at leisureโ€ so they say. Sally escaped early from her abusive father, by marrying Jim โ€“ who turned out to be just as abusive. โ€œOut of the frying pan into the fireโ€ is another saying, doubly appropriate in this case because, twenty-odd years later, she killed him by bashing him on the head with a skillet. It was self-defence, but she panics. If the police suspect intent, and years of abuse give her a motive, sheโ€™ll be imprisoned and that will destroy her children. Fortunately, itโ€™s the early days of lockdown, so she and Jim are alone in the house and no one can visit. She, therefore determines to dispose of the body and quickly learns (Google knows everything) how to desiccate the body to slow down decomposition, wraps it up in tarpaulin and leaves it in the kitchen while she tries to work out how to bury him without being discovered.
By coincidence, Sally discovers that a near neighbour, Ruth, has also just accidentally killed her husband in self-defence, and has the same problem. And then she comes across Samira, who has just killed her husband to save her daughter Leila from being carted off to Pakistan and into an arranged marriage. To top it all off, Sallyโ€™s old friend Janey, from whom she has been estranged because of Jimโ€™s coercive behaviour, kills her own husband after he develops violently abusive behaviour brought on by a new baby and a lockdown house. Together the four plan and execute a fantastic plan, to dispose of all the bodies, while maintaining an appearance of total innocence.
This is obviously a murder story, but it isnโ€™t a mystery story โ€“ we know whodunit! It isnโ€™t a procedural or a PI but it is a thriller, in the sense that they have to dispose of the bodies without making anyone suspect that murder has taken place, i.e. it must appear as if the disappearances are โ€˜naturalโ€™ and not suspicious. Most of the story is concerned with the planning and execution of what is basically a scam, which means itโ€™s really a caper story. Such stories are always comedic at some level, and here we have a dark comedy. There are some holes in the plot, not least the necessary coincidence of four murderers in a small area in a short time frame meeting up with each other, but also because the whole operation is rather too overt. However, the jeopardy sections are good, the characters are quite well drawn, and the comedic touches are noticeable but not plastered on (which would have ruined the mood).
In addition to the main plot, there is a subtext around violent, abusive, coercive behaviour (usually by a man) and the reluctance, timorousness, self-condemnation, shame, displayed by the victim (usually a woman). This is clear within the text but never pushed. However, in an extensive postscript, the author (who has expertise in this area) lays out an excellent analysis of the subject. My dilemma is whether to give this 4 stars, which is accurate for the story, or to add something for the essay at the end, which is a solid piece of academic writing. Iโ€™ve decided to make it 4.5 which will round to 5, of course.
I would like to thank NetGalley, the publishers and the author for providing me with a draft proof copy for the purpose of this review.

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My, but this book is good. It treads in so many places where angels would fear to, tripping across difficult and heart-breaking issues with just the right weight of feet. As balancing acts go, the book, together with the explanations at beginning and end, is perfect.
In a moment of anger driven by fear, intensified by lockdown, Sally kills her violent husband with a skillet. Her first reaction, quite normally in my view, is to eat copious amounts of cake and ice cream, for the rather logical reason she wonโ€™t be able to have them in prison. But prison isnโ€™t somewhere she wants to go, for the sake of her adult children, so she needs to find both a way to dispose of her husbandโ€™s body โ€“ and a plausible story about how he disappeared.
However Sally is not the only new widow. First she comes across Ruth, then notices Samira and her daughter Leila have the same rather strange items in their shopping trolley as she had just a few days before. And later on the exhausted mother of a new baby joins them.
I love books about unlikely friendships and this is perhaps the most unlikely of all. But itโ€™s so much more than that. Itโ€™s perfectly tensioned, emotionally gripping and has definite moments of humour. Quite brilliant in fact. Read it.

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A book on domestic violence during Covid.
Sally is in a abusive relationship until one day she hits him over the head with a skillet and kills him.
She befriends three other ladies in the same situation and they all start to plan on where to bury their husbands.
The story is full of humour through a bad subject well told and I love the nosy neighbour
The visit to the caves and going into them I felt unnecessary and could have been left out then it would have been a 5*
Thanks to the publisher and Netgalley for the ARC and I give my honest review

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For many of us throughout lockdown, COVID-19 was the most dangerous thing on our minds. But for many women across the UK, a bigger threat lurked inside their own home: their husbands.

Amid the 2020 COVID-19 lockdown, housewife Sally is 23 years deep into an abusive marriage with her childhood sweetheart Jim. On the outside, they look like the picture-perfect couple, but unbeknown to most people in her life, Jim has been physically, emotionally and mentally abusing her.

The Best Way to Bury Your Husband follows Sallyโ€™s journey from the moment she realises Jim is likely to kill her She decides to take matters into her own handsโ€ฆ by killing him. In her antics of covering up the impulsive murder, she discovers and recruits the help of three other local women โ€“ Samira, Ruth and Janey โ€“ who are all in similar situations.

While the four women are all victims of domestic abuse in their own right, the novel doesnโ€™t let this define them. In fact, despite the circumstances of their meeting, their camaraderie and companionship shines throughout. In the grand scheme of their far-fetched plan, the wivesโ€™ victimised identities are brief and fleeting, allowing for them to grow as individual selves over the course of the novel. Working together, the women hope to successfully free themselves โ€“ financially, physically, and mentally โ€“ from their abusive marriages and cover up their husbandsโ€™ deaths. The novel is full of tender moments of self-reflection and grief, interwoven with dark humour to lighten the mood. From persistent family calls to nosy neighbours, many hurdles and obstacles lie between them and their freedom.

The novel initially follows a multiple-POV narration, allowing for a wide range of personalities to shine. Protagonist Sally is fierce, unapologetic, and sympathetic to her fellow โ€˜murder clubโ€™ members. In the face of grief and mourning, Sally finds the simple joys in life by creating a โ€˜Be Happy Listโ€™ to complete. It serves as a gentle reminder to the reader that despite their impulsive acts of violence, these women are victims too. Each wife comes from a different background, thus offering their own unique perspective on life in the UK. For example, Samira is a Muslim woman who killed her husband Yafir to save her eldest daughter being forced into an arranged marriage. Casale raises brilliant awareness for this issue while remaining respectful to all different cultures and experiences.

Subtly interweaving both heartfelt and darkly humorous moments to take off the edge, the fundamental message behind The Best Way to Bury Your Husband is to raise awareness for those in need, and to not be afraid or ashamed to ask for help. All in all, the novel reads as a message for women everywhere, including those suffering, that they are not alone.

Issues like self-isolating and social distancing are, for many of us, a distant memory. By introducing a backdrop of the COVID-19 pandemic, the novel remains realistic and harrowing, despite the far-fetched, borderline farcical, plan to cover up four deaths. The suburban town setting, still impacted with the COVID-19 pandemic, calls to a past which still lingers in our present.

With four dead husbands and a far-fetched plan to cover them up, The Best Way to Bury Your Husband is a fictional novel riddled with dark comedy and heartfelt moments. Thank you Penguin for sending this book for review consideration.

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A good book highlighting the serious nature of partner violence, coercion and control, bringing a group of women together with very different backgrounds but all victims. I found it a tad unrealistic, however that said, the author acknowledges this herself in the foreword. It was still a very readable book.

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3.5/5

Thank you Viking Books/ Netgalley for a copy of the eARC in exchange for an honest review.

Set in lockdown, Sally kills her abusive husband with a cast iron skillet. After debating ting what to do with the body, she comes across a few other women in a similar situation. Together they come up with a plan to dispose of the bodies and get away with murder.

I really struggled with what to rate this one.

This book started off really strong. I am not tiring of these dark humour, witty thriller books! I thought the writing was good and I loved every single character.

Itโ€™s honestly such a page turner. Itโ€™s a fun read but it obviously has some serious and important undertones to the story.

On the other hand, I could just not get past how unrealistic it is. A group of women killing their partners hours apart from each other and then happening upon one another - Iโ€™m not buying it!

I totally understand why the book is set in covid times but for me personally, I do not enjoy reading about lockdown times! I also guessed the endingโ€ฆ ๐Ÿ˜‚

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The Best Way to Bury Y0ur Husband is a 5-star read in more ways than one.

First, it's a hard hitting and emotional insight into the daily experience of domestic abuse and violence, and its impact on families. The author describes, in a foreword, why she has written this book: both to shed light on this issue and to relieve, through humour, some of the painful emotions of working with domestic abuse victims.

The foreward is very moving and, as you read the novel, unforgettable. The story might be far-fetched, but the underlying issues and experiences are all too real. I couldn't for a moment stop thinking about this as I read, adding a poignancy to even the funniest scenes. And as the story progresses, it offers real insight into some of those questions often raised about domestic abuse, such as how women can find themselves in such a situation and how difficult it is to extricate themselves from it.

Which brings me to the second reason for it being a 5-star read. It's a beautifully written book and a perfectly executed farce, describing the ups and downs of a group of women trying to get rid of the evidence... Wonderfully plotted. It's set during a Covid lockdown, bringing that period forcefully back to mind.

Thirdly, it's a 5-star read for being a wonderful portrait of women's resilience and strength of character, and of the power of female solidarity. I would never want to walk in these women's shoes but I am in awe of their courage!

Last but not least, it's genuinely funny! The dialogue is hilarious at times. It also does what really good humour does; it has scenes that are perfectly balanced between humour and pathos (such as when Sally is trying to be sufficiently supportive of her daughter while attempting to conceal a body...)

All and all, there's a lot to love about The Best Way to Bury Your Husband, from the title to the final page. And I really loved it. It's already amazing for someone to spend their professional life trying to help domestic abuse victims. To then use that experience to write a brilliant book is just fantastic. I'd give it extra stars if I could. I will definitely keep it on my 'read again' shelf.

My thanks to the author, published and NetGalley for the ARC.

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Thank you to the author, publishers Viking and NetGalley UK for access to this as an advance readerโ€™s ebook. This is an honest and voluntary review.

These four new friends bond over their unusual shared problem. Each of their abusive husbands is dead, and they need to figure out how to dispose of the bodies.

Told with warmth and humour this book is still an importantly frank and uncompromising look at domestic abuse. Set during lockdown itโ€™s the most effective use of the pandemic as a plot device that I have read. Highlighting the horror that lockdown was for people in abusive relationships who were required by law to stay behind the closed doors that his their abusers, and in a time of high stress that only worsened their situation.

The author does an excellent job of presenting four different experiences of abuse, and showing the common factors. The different, but related reasons the survivors felt like they had to stay. The impact on the children, and on the women themselves. The plotting and characters make this a gripping story while the all too realistic situations the main characters live through make it a difficult but essential read.

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๐—ง๐—›๐—˜ ๐—•๐—˜๐—ฆ๐—ง ๐—ช๐—”๐—ฌ ๐—ง๐—ข ๐—•๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—ฌ ๐—ฌ๐—ข๐—จ๐—ฅ ๐—›๐—จ๐—ฆ๐—•๐—”๐—ก๐——
โ€”๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ถ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฒ | ๐Ÿฏ.๐Ÿณ๐Ÿฑ๐ŸŒŸ

โ€˜๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ถ๐˜ง๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ, ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ง ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด, ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ดย โ€“ย ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜บ: ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฉ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฏ. โ€œ๐˜Š๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜จ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜บ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ.โ€โ€™

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜โ€™๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—น๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ:
โœจContemporary thriller
โœจSet during Lockdown
โœจExploration of domestic violence
โœจFeminist themes

๐—ฆ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐—ป๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜€:
Written as a black-comedy response to the escalation of male violence against women and girls during the COVID-19 lockdown, this book follows four women as they experience domestic violence that proves fatalโ€ฆ for their husbands.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐˜€:
This is a book full of ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ต๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ and ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ that women can easily recognise themselves in. Although the subject matter is ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€, the tone is ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ and the suspense is ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด. Itโ€™s a ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น read without being too ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐˜†.

Thereโ€™s a strong sense of ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ and ๐˜‚๐—ป๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜ in this novel between the women who find themselves in an unfortunate predicament. This support felt like it extended to the reader, whether thatโ€™s to readers who want to help women escape volatile relationships, or to readers who are in unhealthy relationships.

I could easily tell this was ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป because all the women were killing men in their own homes instead of the other way around. But also, I can tell itโ€™s fiction because itโ€™s not very realistic statistically. I think Iโ€™d have preferred it to be more ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ.

โ€˜๐˜๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ. ๐˜”๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ค๐˜ญ๐˜ข๐˜ช๐˜ฎ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฎ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ด, ๐˜ฃ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต. ๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฎ ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ ๐˜ด๐˜ฎ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ง๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜บ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ต.โ€™

I adored the way this book began and I adored the way it ended. ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜„๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ด๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜€๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐˜†๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜†๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†.

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This has everything a good book should have in my opinion! Humour, great characters and warmly written as it deals with vulnerable issues. A great read- I look forward to more from the author!

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โ€œAt the end of the day, itโ€™s about whether youโ€™re alone or you have love. The type of love doesnโ€™t really matter.โ€

Sally has a BIG problem, in the shape of her husbandโ€™s body on the kitchen floor and no idea how to get rid of him. Set during lockdown, this dark comedy finds Sally facing multiple obstacles but with the help of four unexpected friends, can she find her happy ending?

My first ever ARC that I received on NetGalley and I am so glad I chose to request this book. A strong 4.5* for me.

The cover caught my attention firstly, but I loved the initial idea of a book set during lockdown. After completing my MA during lockdown, I have so many thoughts about what it was like for people, how it changed them.

While I am glad I read this book and would recommend it, 100%, it took me a long time to get through purely because of the subject matter of domestic violence, it is very upsetting at times and I can understand the authors need to write a book like this, as she says in her author notes โ€œThis novel is an attempt to use humour to cut through peopleโ€™s reluctance to engage.โ€ Which I think she does successfully.

The humour, the tension, the heartfelt connections really made this book for me. As much as at the time of reading, (especially the tense parts), it was a painful experience, with my heart beating far too fast.

I rooted for these women. I wasnโ€™t even through Chapter One and already I was like, โ€˜yes girl. Do what you need to do.โ€™ Sally, Ruth, Samira, Janey and even Edwina were all great diverse characters and I enjoyed reading the various cultural perspectives. I felt I was introduced to something I hadnโ€™t considered before and I always applaud a book that can do that.

I think it is difficult to take such a serious issue and make it a heartwarming tale of friendship and second chances but Alexia Casale does it so well and really does deserve a lot of praise for โ€˜The Best Way to Bury Your Husbandโ€™.

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Itโ€™s a well know fact that relationships came under strain during COVID. Increased forced contact with partners meant that there was a recorded increase in reported domestic abuse. Refuge the domestic abuse charity recorded an increase in calls of 61% during the summer lockdown. 72% of those callers were women. This book whilst a work of fiction represents some of those women; a new mother whoโ€™s partner couldnโ€™t accept her prioritising their baby, a woman undermined for many years by a controlling and aggressive partner and a woman whose daughterโ€™s were controlled by the male members of the family with the threat of deportation and arranged marriage hanging over them. A heavy topic, but thereโ€™s tenderness, camaraderie and humour in this story too. Yes, thereโ€™s murder and the chopping up of bodies but itโ€™s in no way gratuitous. Whether you think the actions of this group of women is justified or not, this book should certainly make you think. Ideally it will also be read by those who need to hear the message depicted. There is a way out, there is life after abuse and youโ€™re not alone.

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Ok - so this book is a trigger warning for anyone who has or is experiencing domestic violence.

Itโ€™s definitely a journey through peoples lives and is descriptive in places. Itโ€™s a thought provoking story about friendship and what you would do in that situation. I loved the characters and how the story developed. One character very much surprised me!

Working within the professional industry I would have liked the story to have developed a line regarding male violence. I found the authors note at the beginning to be very off putting and biased towards domestic violence as a whole - and to not acknowledge males experience violence in relationships too made me frustrated. Thatโ€™s just my own feelings. I know she did a lot of research for this book and it resulted in well rounded book! I would definitely read more from this author.

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With the popularity of female murderer books at the moment โ€“ several of which Iโ€™ve read โ€“ Iโ€™m surprised that my husband hasnโ€™t started to get nervous.

But seriously, this book brings something new in the form of Domestic Violence. According to the stats in the authorโ€™s note: โ€œon average a woman is killed by a man every three days in the UK; in the vast majority of cases that man is a current or former partnerโ€ And in America โ€œโ€ฆthere are around 16-17,000 domestic homicides per yearโ€ฆ [and] one in two female murder victims is killed by a domestic partnerโ€ฆโ€ This book brings together the reality of living with Male Violence against Women and Girls (MVAWG), set against the backdrop of Covid Lockdowns when โ€œ67% of victims told Womenโ€™s Aid that the abuse they were suffering had escalatedโ€.

This book centres on Sally, Ruth, Samira and Leila and the very, very tired new Mum. I saw her identity a coming and wasnโ€™t surprised. Edwina the rule-abiding (busy body) neighbour also features heavily I enjoyed her story arc, going from near-hated neighbour to a supportive, wry friend. I saw her part in the story unfolding ahead of it happening as well.

Most of the book is narrated from Sallyโ€™s point of view, with bits from the other ladies as we discover how their home lives unfold for them to find themselves in the position of having to dispatch the dead body of their abusive husbands.

The writing was full of dark humour and made me laugh, but it was the story of friendship; of people who come from different backgrounds, but who are united by the trauma of an abusive partner that really drew me in and made me love this story.

With thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.

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This book is beautifully written and written with full understanding of domestic violence and the issues it creates within wider circles. Our main character, Sally has been in an abusive marriage for many years and raised 2 children during that time. She believes she has sheltered them from the abuse she has received but we learn throughout the book that her children were affected by the abuse. Her husband's abusive behaviour has affected all of her relationships and limited her enjoyment of life but you also get the sense that she mostly regrets the restrictions she placed on herself, the way she made herself smaller to try to limit the abuse. This is very well conveyed in this book.
Don't get the impression that this book is full of misery, its not. It full of hope, humour and love. The author herself acknowledges that the events in this book are far fetched, if not impossible but this doesn't spoil the book in any way.
In the U.K. a woman is killed by a man (usually one she has had a relationship with) every 3 days. Domestic violence is happening to women (and a few men) every day. I have no problems routing for the women in this book and feel no sadness about what they did. In fact, it would be nice if these situations turned out this way more often. Our streets would look prettier.
If you are looking for a book with adventure, humour, compassion, love, forgiveness, fear, fun and friendship (sisters are doing it for themselves) then this book is a great read and within its slight ridiculousness it contains an important message.
Thank you net galley and the publishers of this book for letting me read it in advance of publication.

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Sally has been a long suffering wife for many years. During lockdown tbings take a turn for the worse. She snaps. What follows is the repercussions of suddenly snapping.

In a very small community Sally finds several women like herself and these too snapped. This leads to the problem of disposal. It nust do wonders for cat litter sales.

This is an amuding book but as it is a story of years of siffering it seems to be at odds. The likelihood of several victims finding each other is also stretching things but one can only apaud thr author's efforts to increase awareness of sucj a large, unseen problem.

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"Even if we get caught and this is it, then it's joy and friendship we wouldn't have had if we'd called the police at the start, and that makes it a git. No matter what, I'll always see it that way."

Well damn, this was a darkly delightful little story that was full of surprises. Somehow both a searing commentary on domestic abuse and femicide, an indulgent foray into female revenge and rage and a witty comedy all rolled into one with a very pretty bow on top.

It was strange and uncomfortable, with characters that I both loved and felt unsure about at the same time who created a beautiful sense of sisterhood forged in impossible circumstances- each taking their turns telling the story and giving us their insight into the odd events taking place and the different struggles theyโ€™ve faced whether itโ€™s from patriarchal, societal or traditional oppression. Their voices were fabulous, witty and dry with a habit of noticing little details that really help set an immersive scene and really let us into their feelings. At times their narration did slow down a little - and my one main concern with this story was the switch between multiple perspectives to one, I think it was a great idea, setting the scene and the different players before zeroing in on one key person but I was already invested in the whole group but for some reason it just worked and it didnโ€™t feel as jarring as I expected it to, I was still following and the flow didnโ€™t break at all.

Their entire journey was chaotic - these arenโ€™t seasoned killers, so they find themselves in ridiculous, storybook situations with only each other to find a way out. Itโ€™s larger than life, cinematic storytelling but with plenty of emotional moments to bring you back down to earth and make the striking point that this may feel impossible and unrealistic, that four average women in one town could have killed their husbands - but thatโ€™s nowhere near the number of wives killed by their husbands all the time.

A story of bloody revenge and retribution crossed with a fabulously dry ensemble humour and a lot of heart with a powerful message at its core.

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I loved that book- am I allowed to say that when 4 women try to bury the husband's they dispatched? A story of women helping each other being strong, ingenious and courageous.

Sally is in an abusive marriage and during one assault by her husband she grabs the cast iron skillet and hits her husband with it. He is dead.. The dilemma, do you call the police, do you try and get away with it? It is lockdown after all and you might get away with it.

Through coincidences, she meets Ruth, Salima and a very tired older new mother who have all dispatched their abusive husbands.

Edwina the nosey neighbour who checks that everyone is adhering to the COVID rules makes things difficult.

I totally got why the men died and you root for every single woman to not get caught.

The book made me laugh and at times when I felt I really shouldnโ€™t laugh, but also cry. Well done, Alexia, what a fabulous book

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The title to this intrigued me because even as a woman who has not yet married this may be useful, but what I read in this book was more than just a fun and quirky mystery novel where you are actively rooting for the murders who are actually the real victims of the tale.

We open onto a woman trapped in the house, alone during Lockdown, with her abusive husband and she just snaps, finally defending herself and in the process killing her abuser. From there we are taken on a whirlwind leading to the formation of the Lockdown Ladies' Burial Club and a story about a group of women who are able to escape their abusive husbands and finally be happy. I loved all the platonic female friendships and it was the highlight of the entire story. Honestly the hijinks of these women were hilarious at times and the dry humor Alexia Casale injected into the narrative was perfect.

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