"This House of Grief" by Helen Garner is a deeply sorrowful book, as suggested by the title. In 2005, on Father's Day in Winchelsea, Australia, Robert Farquharson drove his car into a dam, escaping but leaving his three young sons to drown. Separated from their mother, Cindy Gambino, he was returning the children when he reportedly lost control of the vehicle due to a coughing fit.
Garner, a freelance journalist, closely follows the trial in the Supreme Court of Victoria, taking notes on the testimonies and courtroom dynamics. The central questions are whether Farquharson intentionally harmed his children or if it was a tragic accident. The evidence is scrutinized: tire tracks, the children’s seatbelts, and Farquharson's behavior after the crash. Garner even investigates whether a car door can be opened underwater, adding a personal touch to the narrative. Garner depicts the search for truth as both a dramatic performance and a serious legal process.
The book is a heartbreaking exploration of a shattered family. Garner raises many questions about such tragedies. Her insightful observations and occasional humor make the narrative engaging. I highly recommend it!

I didn’t realize this was a true story at first or the depth of the crime.
You follow the trial of an Australian father who murdered his 3 children and tried to end his own life in the same tragedy but survived.
This was extremely thought provoking as well as incredibly sad.
The author did an amazing job writing this book.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for granting me free access to the advanced digital copy of this book.

Thank you to Net Galley and the publisher for this arc. This was such a a sad and tragic case. The author did a great job of informing the reader about this senseless crime.

A well written true crime novel. In 2005, Robert Farquharson drove his car into a dam, leading to the deaths of his three young sons. He stated that he had passed out after a coughing fit and was unable to rescue the children, but there was reason to believe that his accident was intentional, as a way to get back at his ex-wife. Author Helen Garner immediately became interested in the case, and attended every step of the court proceedings. In This House of Grief, she meticulously describes the case and the way she felt as an observer.

This is such a sad case, as you would expect. Farquharson was deemed guilty, but I still can't help feeling just the tiniest bit sorry for him (and for everyone else involved). This book gives an in depth look into the realities of a criminal trial, which could wind up boring the reader, but the well written and emotional narrative the author provides prevents that outcome. A must read for true crime fans.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Thank you to netgalley and the publisher for the ARC.
This was a great and well researched crime thriller. Plenty of detail and information. Great job by the author, you can tell they were really interested in the case and took their time putting this book together.

I had not heard of this case before. This book was interesting and well written. I found myself looking forward to reading more of it every night.

A whirlwind of emotions, Garner takes us into the depths of what it is to be human, to be a parent, and to be drowning in varied grievances. A legal drama but so very much more than that. Broken families, broken systems, and broken people all pushed to the brink and suffering tumultuous tragedies. As the court room drama unfolds and the story swiftly progresses, changing dynamics, twisting and turning, the reader can't help but to try to stay afloat. A loving, doting father grieving the loss of his marriage and children, is that the true narrative? Or did pain and anger push a hurting dad to the brink, did he want to hurt his ex so much he took the very things she loved away? Where does the truth lie? Is it drowning too, stuck in the depths where the light doesn't reach?

I DNF'ed at 25%. It started to get so repetitive and drawn out that even the tragic story itself couldn't keep me focused.

This one is heartbreaking. In the event that you’re not familiar with the case, much like I was not, I won’t give any details away. I am trying to read more true crime this year and this was well written and definitely made me want to read more. It feels sad rating a tragic and heartbreaking incident, but the rating is based on the authors ability to tell the story without bias and while not emotional, not emotionless either. Thanks to Penguin Randomhouse for sending a review copy my way. This House of Grief is available now.

Thank you Netgalley and the publisher for gifting me an advanced reader copy of this novel in exchange for my honest review and opinion.

Ver intriguing, well written, detailed characters. I was drawn in from the beginning; would recommend to others.

What a fantastic but haunting book, I’m an avid reader of true crime so this had me hooked.

It was so sad to read but absolutely gripping, it would make a good tv documentary .

"This House of Grief" is a written account of a true crime. On 4th September, 2015, as Robert Farquharson, a divorced father of three boys, was taking the children back to their mother after a Father's Day visit, his car veered off the road and plunged into a dam. The three kids died, while their father survived. He was accused of murdering the children. Robert claimed to have blacked out from a coughing fit at the wheel--a cough syncope, a super rare phenomenon--causing the car to go into the water. We got to follow Garner into the courtroom, observe the trial through her eyes, and listen to her thoughts and feelings.

I found the case very intriguing, but this ebook version of mine has pretty poor formatting and editing which's rather a turn-off. Anyway, thank you to NetGalley and Penguin for an ARC of this book.

My thanks to NetGalley and Penguin/Random House for an advanced copy of this book. My opinions are my own. This book caught my attention because it was so closely like a case in Upstate South Carolina in the 1990’s that I knew about from living in there.
Helen Garner is a recognized Australian journalist who wrote of her observations of a trial for a father whose 3 young sons died in a horrible accident. Robert Farquharson was taking his sons back to his estranged wife after a Father’s Day outing with them. He lost control of the car and crashed into a dam. Although Robert escaped, his sons did not. This House of Grief details the two trials that followed.
Garner observes the trial, the families, the lawyers and judges, the witnesses, everyone in the courtrooms as she details this sad story. She develops a relationship with some of the relatives. She talks to people in the local coffee shops and bars. Her highly developed observational skills make this book interesting; her writing skills make it very readable.
I enjoyed this book. 4 stars

Wow. This book held back no punches. This House of Grief is a true crime story of the case of Robert Farquharson, who claims to have blacked out during a coughing fit and his car with himself and three children went into the water and he was the only one to walk away.. The court case that followed the questionable accident and the evidence given was great.

This book could have been slightly shorter I did find somethings repetitive but with that said it was a Birds Eye view of the court case so there probably was a lot of repetitiveness. The story itself was difficult at times but it was interesting going along with the court procedures.

The House of Grief is a nonfiction true crime book about the case of Robert Farquharson, who drove his car into a pond in Winchelsea (Australia) with his three children in it. He escaped while his children perished. Garner was interested in the case and diligently follows the seven week trial that occurred in 2005, including the appeal and the ultimate decision.

Farquharson claims he blacked out from a coughing fit at the wheel causing his car to go into the water. Garner deftly weaves courtroom drama, including witness accounts and testimony with the events of the night of the accident, all in great detail. She paints a portrait of a man in deep despair, having recently separated from his wife and now the reason for the loss of their children. This is in contrast to the prosecution’s portrayal of Farquharson as an angry, vengeful man, out to inflict the worst pain imaginable on his wife.

This was obviously a difficult read due to the nature of the crime, but I was captivated. I appreciated Garner’s sensitive analyses and attempt to have an honest and unbiased look into the case.

Garner gives us a bird’s eye view into a horrific crime committed in Australia in 2005. Writing a true account of the trial and its outcome for Robert Farquharson, a father accused of drowning his three sons by veering off the road and plunging into a dam. While he claims he’s innocent and completely heart broken, his actions say something completely different. Could he possibly have done it on purpose? Not necessarily the most enjoyable read due to subject matter, but definitely one true crime buffs will like to contemplate. Thank you to Pantheon and NetGalley for an ARC of this book.

I'm a true crime avid reader but struggling to finish this book. Some parts of it are repetitive, badly written and difficult to read. Not recommended.

There is quite an industry for courtroom thrillers and dramas.

This one however is one with a difference - it is based on a real-life Courtroom drama. Australian divorcé Robert Farquharson claimed to have a blackout after a coughing fit whilst driving - and his car fell down a steep incline into the water, killing his free sons. From his former marriage. Yet he survived.

The journalist writer does stress at the very beginning that there is always an element of subjectiveness wherever an assessment has to be made: innocent or guilty, alongside the responsibility imposed on the juries to get it right. Most murderers plead innocent, or may be in denial about what they did! Meanwhile the job of the defense is to pick holes in the evidence in such a way that itay seem almost impossible to decide which version of events is a true one. Luckily in Australia there is currently no death penalty.

This is more a character study of all the players on the case, and cut-and-dried conclusions play no part in what this book has to offer. This is not a thriller either, and the nit-picking of the possible logistics can make this read pretty tedious and heavy-going at times.

Just like real life. Recently, a high-profile court case in the British system was just like this, making it frustratingly very difficult to decide if in fact the défendent had donr it at all. Again, no easy answers.

No doubt, one for real lawyers, and armchair lawyers, this one