When I first heard about this sapphic period romance novel with a Taylor Swift song lyric for a title, I said "SIGN ME UP!"

This was a fun one. The concept isn't really that unrealistic. They decided to Parent Trap their parents before they got together, but then it became a way for them to be together under one roof without being suspicious.

As much as I enjoyed this one, there were some things that took me out of it. Some of the language used was too modern. And at one point Beth gives her mother a thumbs up, which wasn't a thing in the 1850s. Still, what's not to love about lesbians figuring out how to make out with big hoop skirts and corsets?

If you're a fan of the Apple TV+ show Dickinson, this book will be right up your alley.

And the epilogue perfectly sets up the second book, "You're the Problem, It's You."

A fun and cute historical romance

That said, while it was a pleasant read at the time, I found that it didn’t fully grab my attention. I could easily put it down and, by the time I picked it up again, I’d kind of forgotten about it—hence why this review is coming a little later than expected. It’s one of those books that’s nice while you’re reading it, but doesn’t necessarily linger with you afterward. I started this book back in June while on vacation , and forgot about it until recently and picked it back up again.

The characters were likable, and their chemistry was sweet, but overall, the plot didn’t feel particularly unique or gripping. It’s not a book that will leave you thinking about it, but it was a cute, fun read, but not one that completely hooked me.

This story was so sweet and beautiful, I absolutely loved it! The girls were so believable and likable and flawed but in a really human way. I enjoyed this sweet story so much, the setting and politics around it brought the drama without weighing it down and it went down like a warm cup of tea. Highly recommend.

The more I've thought about picking this book up at almost literally every single bookstore I've stepped foot in since it came out, the less appealing it is to me. (I know, shocker, I love sapphics in pretty dresses). I just think I'm concerned about how much of the story might end up having to do with the parents and I feel like the idea of the parents getting together and the daughters is... awkward?

This is a cute sapphic friends to lovers with a special twist. Thank you for the opportunity to eat and review.

Thank you so much to NetGalley for giving me the opportunity to read this book early!

I love the recent renaissance of regency and historical romances that center wlw love stories. I Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend is a sweet story where two very different young women find friendship in each other that blossoms into love.

Perfect for fans of Jane Austen and Bridgerton who wished there were more lesbians.

I love historical romance, I love queer romance, I looooove this book! This was a fun twist on the parent trap trope, and ended up being just a beautiful little lesbian romance that I literally just adored. Also, I love the nod to Swifties with that title ;)

One of the best LGBTQIA+ reads i've ever read! Forbidden love in a historical period is an amazing trope. Definitely gave me Bridgerton vibes. The ending was wonderful and the emotions felt so realistic, I was rooting for them the entire time. I highly recommend this one!

Queer FF historical romance?!?! YES PLEASE!!!!! LOVING THIS VICTORIAN-ERA GOODNESS!!!!! Such a gorgeous story and cute feel to the characters.

DON’T WANT YOU LIKE A BEST FRIEND by Emma R, Alban is a delightful queer historical romance!

It’s Beth’s first season, and it has to be her last if she is to have a home at the end of it. When her abusive father died, any security she and her mother had, died with him. It is imperative that Beth find a match. At her first event, she meets the bright and brash Gwen, who takes her under her wing. As the title suggests, Beth and Gwen become more than friends, and they desperately plot and scheme to find a way to stay together despite society’s restrictions.

Alban manages to keep the tone light, despite the focus on very serious, very real struggles women faced in Victorian society. Both Gwen and Beth are vividly created characters, young women anyone would want to know in the modern day. I also loved the cast of characters surrounding Gwen - her charming and supportive father, her cousins who would playfully banter and help her scheme, and the female couple who helped raise her when her mother died.

I did find some weakness in the plot, but by and large was just having too much fun with the story to really care. I just wanted to enjoy Beth and Gwen finding their HEA - I wasn’t too concerned with how they made it there.

I love this cover and really wanted to like this book but the plot didn't grab me unfortunately. Same with the sequel.

i found myself genuinely bored while reading this. i should’ve dnf’ed it. the ending…step-sisters?? i’d understand step-sisters in a dark romance but this is contemporary…i don’t know. i was really looking forward to this one. and it took me soooo long to finish.

i read this one ages ago but surprisingly i still remember it quite well since i liked it so much hihi.
don't want you like a best friend is a historical romance set in 1857 following two debutantes called beth and gwen who aren't really interested in finding themselves husband (as they should honestly cause ew) and try to set up their widowed parents, who seem to have a past neither of them is willing to disclose, together. as the two girls start falling in love, a viscount starts showing interest in beth, and beth and her mother can't dney that they need the wealth and security he'll offer them. but gwen can't let beth go, and no matter how well beth knows that marrying the viscount would be in her best interests, she can't help but catch feelings for gwen as well.
i read this after the release date (oops) so i ended up listening to the audiobook instead, and idk whether it was the difference in narrators or the writing itself but the two girls were so distinct from each other that i could literally tell whose chapter i was on from a single sentence. it was so well written in that aspect. i loved their relationship, and them setting up their parents was fun, though idk how to feel about them being step-sisters... the ending left me wanting to start the sequel right away, which... admittedly i still haven't done, but i'm still excited to! i don't really have much to say, but i'd recommend this to anyone looking for a fun little queer historical romance!
thank you to the publisher avon and netgalley for a free e-arc in exchange for an honest review.

DNF @ 10%

I am a big fan of historical romance, but so far this is reading like a YA novel. The characters feel very young, especially with the book starting with Beth worrying over a blemish. I think I generally like my historicals a little less rom-comy, so this one wasn’t for me.

If you are a fan of contemporary romance and want to try a historical romance with a similar tone, this might be for you!

Thank you NetGalley and Avon for this ARC!

- I really struggled with this one! I love sapphic historical romance, but there were parts of this book that really didn’t fit!
- I loved the idea of the Parent Trap references, but the execution felt off. Having the girls also trying to get their parent’s together does make sense as a way to get around societal constraints, having the main couple in the story also trying to become step sisters just did not work for me.
- I can love a historical with modern sensibilities, this one felt like it stepped too far away from the genre. This may work for people who haven’t read many historicals!
- I struggled with the pacing at the beginning. I wasn’t as hooked as I’d like to be, and I put this down for a bit before getting an audio to help push through!
- I did love seeing how both the girl’s relationships with their parents developed so much. Those dynamics felt like one of the stronger parts of this book, and it was wrapped up so well!

This book was very enjoyable! There were times when it felt very YA. Even though the key characters were all.in their twenties, a lot do how they acted and the conversations they had felt more like teens than adults.

I liked the dynamic between the main couple as well as the side relationships. The story dragged a little in the middle but otherwise has good flow and pacing. I'm definitely looking forward to the next book in the series.

Content Warnings: Binge Drinking (including vomiting); References to spousal abuse, alcoholism, and death during childbirth

For the sex averse, there is one semi-graphic sex scene that is well telegraphed and skippable.

Alban's book is a fun romance with big Parent Trap vibes. Chapters switch between focusing on Beth, who seeks a husband to ensure financial security for herself and her mother after her father left them with no inheritance, and Gwen, who does not really care about a husband either way due to the security her father provides. The two of them become friends at various social events; when they learn their parents once had a romantic relationship, they develop a plan to rekindle their love and get married. Along the way, they fall in love with each other, too.

I liked Beth and Gwen well enough, and I appreciated the relationship building over a series of months than immediately falling in love. I also thought that their struggles over identity, the role of marriage, and the status of women were done well overall. The various social gatherings were all unique enough to be interesting without feeling out of place.

All that said, I think opinions on this will be split because of its categorization as a "historical romance." While it takes place in the late 1850s in England, it is more a soft version of historical fiction, in the same way one would distinguish soft sci-fi and hard sci-fi or low fantasy and high fantasy. If you want historically accurate speech, references, and so forth, then this book is not for you. If you want Victorian vibes and fashion, though, this is fine.

Additionally, I think many reviewers are overemphasizing the fact that Beth and Gwen remain romantically involved once they become legally stepsisters. They don't become stepsisters until the Epilogue of the book. For the rest of the book, they consistently treat each other as friends, then lovers, and their romantic relationship is in place before their parents become married. It's clear that they've adopted "stepsisters" as one of likely a life time of screens/justifications to hide their identities as lesbians.

This was such a cute read! I can’t wait for book two. The slow burn romance really got me. The fact they were trying to set up their parents lol

Emma Alban's debut novel has just enough history to add taste without distracting from the plot. The romance is swoony, and the side characters are engaging on their own merits. Setting, character, and pacing all come together to create a memorable read. I'll be watching for more of her books.

While it’s not the story’s fault but I have a really hard time getting into regency romances, I was really hoping this one would help me break into them but unfortunately it did not do that. I found the plot a little weak and confusing? I didn’t feel attached to their relationship, there was no real swoonworthy parts & I feel like that’s the whole point of Regency love stories. I don’t love the insta love trope either. I want pining!!!