This was eminently readable but I was left unsatisfied and with a lot of questions about the underlying premise. It could have used another thorough edit.

Thank you Netgalley & publisher for this e-arc of How to End a Love Story by Yulin Kuang.

This is a romance novel. 3.5* so far.

Synopsis:
"How to End a Love Story" by Yulin Kuang follows the lives of Helen Zhang and Grant Shepard, whose paths intersected tragically thirteen years ago. Helen, now a successful author, immerses herself in her career, securing a role in the TV adaptation of her novels. She relocates to LA for a fresh start, hoping to leave her past behind. Grant, also striving to move on, works as a screenwriter across the country and unexpectedly finds himself working on Helen's show. As they collaborate, old feelings resurface, challenging their attempts to bury the past. Secrets emerge, forcing them to confront unresolved emotions and family tensions. Despite realizing their relationship was never meant to be, they find solace in each other's company, discovering that embracing the present may be the key to finding peace with their pasts.

I had a hard time hooking into this and have only gotten about 1/4 in. I am a mood reader. The writig is good, but I am not feeling it yet. When I finish I will leave an updated review.

Five enthusiastic stars. I rarely reread, and I've read this one twice and I'm sure that won't be it. The premise alone is so bold, there was zero chance I could resist this book. I love a little bit of edge/darkness/bite/sarcasm in romances, and this one has it in spades. The pining, the spice, the emotional damage, the humor, the mama drama, the third act conflict that wasn't really stupid and frustrating, the thigh......

IT'S ALL JUST SO GOOD.

Best Grant line:
“'You don’t have to be completely healed to be everything I want. To be mine. I love every part of you, you silly, infuriating woman. I love the parts of you I haven’t even met yet.'”

Best Helen line:
"She thinks of the infinitely different love stories they could have lived instead—and she decides she’ll write them all. She’ll fracture this feeling into a million shards of glass reflecting back the same, unbelievable love story so she can capture it for the days when she needs to read it back to herself and to him—when they’re sad, or tired, or annoyed, or hurting. Or happy, she reminds herself."

Annoying rant warning: If I read one more review lamenting how unlikeable Helen is, I may lose it. (You are allowed your opinions, I'm being dramatic.) I will even give you this one- I can see how some might see her as unlikeable or unempathetic. But seriously- enough with the "unrelatable" noise- if we never read anything that we couldn't relate to, we would never learn. Our worldviews would never expand. There is probably a significant group of humans who read this and DO totally relate to Helen (raises hand) and how her brain operates. If you can't relate to that, cool- fine, BUT why is relatability a requirement for enjoyment? Consider that delving into someone else's mind as its own reward, because there are just so so many ways to have a brain. You don't have to relate, but be use more care when using it as a reason for disliking a book.

ANYWAY /endrant loved this book will defend it to the ends of the earth.

I liked the premise and beginning of the novel, but it just didn't work for me. At first, I really liked the two main characters, Helen and Grant. They come together in the writer's room after a complicated history. Helen has written a popular YA series and is part of the writer's room turning it into a television show. Grant is a television writer and high school classmate of Helen. When Helen and Grant were high school seniors, Helen's younger sister Michelle died by suicide by walking in front of a speeding car. That car happened to be driven by Grant. He has lived with the guilt from being the driver for the past 13 years. Helen and her family have long blamed Grant for what happened to Michelle.

Helen learns early on that Grant is part of the writer's room. She's concerned it will present a major problem for her and devastate her parents once they find out. She asks him to leave, but he stays on. They find themselves undeniably attracted to one another and start a physical relationship. There are a number of spicy scenes. Helen knows the relationship can't go anywhere and puts strict parameters on it, but they both fall in love anyway. However, Helen can't admit her feelings for Grant.

I liked how layered the story is. We learn about Helen's complex relationships with her parents, her mother in particular, and how grief has ravaged their family. Kuang also well illustrates the disconnect between her (1st generation American) and her parents (who emigrated from China) having grown up in completely different cultures. Though I understand the disconnection between them, Helen's immature behavior could be quite maddening.

I liked Helen and Grant at first, but I found both of them so frustrating towards the end. Grant seems like an emotionally manipulative loose cannon and Helen is completely shut off emotionally, or at least she constantly asserts that she is. I didn't really want them to be together. Their relationship felt unhealthy. I like when characters have flaws, but they just did not jive with me.

Thank you NetGalley and the publisher for providing this ebook. All thoughts are my own.

While this novel deals with some harsh themes around suicide and the grief of those left behind, it is ultimately about resilience and forgiveness. There were spots at which the divergent plot points -- grief/blame, making a TV show, romance, self-discovery got unwieldy and threatened to tangle or explode completely, but every time Kuang was able to pull them back in and weave the narrative back together. A strong debut novel.

*3.5 stars*

Grief. Grief is a bastard. It can truly destroy a person. And grief was eating my girl Helen aliveee. She was smack dab in the middle of struggle city with no way out. Her poor heart was so closed up… seemingly non-functional as a result of generational trauma, the traumatic loss of her younger sister, and intentional isolation.

And then Grant fucking Shepard waltzes back into her life. Handsome, popular, former high school homecoming king, and the person behind the wheel when Helen’s sister tragically died by suicide. The last thing Helen wants is to work side by side with this man. And even less of an interest is how kind, considerate, and “human” he is. And she certainly could never fall for this man, right?

This was an impressive debut, writing wise. I really enjoyed the writing style and the epistolary parts. I liked Helen and Grant, but didn’t love them. And I didn’t really connect with any of the side characters. All in all, I think there was just too much going on in this book. I’ll definitely be on the lookout for the author’s next release though.

I wasn't a huge fan of this one! I was really excited to read it considering Emily Henry gave her thumbs-up on the front cover. But it read like a script instead of a story. I had a hard time connecting with the characters, no emotions were felt. I had. really high expectations considering this is the screenwriter for EmHen's screen adaptation, but was really let down. this is rated 2.75 stars.

Thank you to NetGalley and Blackstone Publishing for sending me this book!

If you want a spicy romance that will also have you feeling emotional, this book is for you!

I will say, please check your content warnings before picking this up, because it does deal with some trauma that plays into how the two MC meet and their dynamic in the beginning. This mutual trauma is also discussed on page. So please, please keep that in mind.

Yulin's writing is so beautiful and it made me so excited to see what Yulin did with Beach Read's adaptation. In addition to the writing, what I loved was the MC's journey to ultimately deal with her trauma and her journey of self-love. Her love story is tied to this journey and just know that there are some bumps along the way -- I'm trying not to spoil anything! Lol. As a fellow TV writer, Yulin perfectly captures the dynamic of a writers room and I really appreciated how she navigated that alongside their love story.

This romance is definitely emo, so if you're only into reading rom-coms, this won't be for you. These two characters deal with grief, regret, and anxiety, so again, check your content warnings.

I loved this book and can't wait to see what Yulin does next!

Thanks to NetGalley for an arc of this book in exchange for my honest opinion.

Wow. When I first heard Yulin was writing a BOOK I knew I had to get me hands on it. I’ve been eagerly anticipating this book ever since, and now that I have read it I can absolutely say it lives up to all of the hype.

I went in somewhat blind, pretty much trusting the author to write a story I’d want to read. I wasn’t expecting the angsty plot line of “boy drives car. Girl TW <spoiler>jumps in front of car to end her life.</spoiler> Girl’s sister is left to cope with the loss and the compounded expectations of her parents in the absence of a second child. Girl grows up and ends up working with the boy and through a vulnerable workplace setting falls in love with the boy who she has always said unalived her sister.”

That is some angsty plot, and under other circumstances I think it could have deterred me. But Yulin expertly weaves tension and resentment and yearning and hope all together to make a downright addictive story.

I sacrificed sleep for this book, and it was worth every second I bargained away.

So why 4.5 ⭐️? There were just a few minor plot points that could have been filled out better, I think. Particularly: that Helen says she has been seeing a therapist for years, but her negative self dialogue and low self-worth are entirely unhealthy and unchallenged beliefs for her. I can’t imagine a therapist wouldn’t have clocked those issues and tried to address them.

Those little details aside, I am smitten with this book. I ship Helen and Grant hard, I learned unite a lot about perspectives on grief and grieving, and the tv production details were handled excellently—not too weedy, but not too sparse, either. This is an easy addition to my best reads of the year list. If you aren’t planning to read it, I’m telling you: change your plans.

Bravo to Kuang for tackling such heavy trauma and grief while also crafting a satisfying romance. The third person, present-tense narration creates a unique tone that might not be for everyone, but feels very distinct.

I really enjoyed this book! I am excited to see what comes next from Yulin Kuang. I thought there was a lot of vulnerability portrayed in her writing and the themes of loss, grief, and mental health were handled beautifully. My only critique is about the pacing of the book. At first, I found that I could not connect with the main characters at all, and I felt I didn't know anything about them. Once I got to the point where I felt like I was really invested in the characters and their outcomes, it became rushed and then it was done. I wish there was more of the middle part. Overall, I highly recommend this book, especially if you like a little bit of spice ;)

Thank you Avon and Harper Voyager and NetGalley for this ARC!

The pacing is perfect, and the set up—the back and forth between their POVs, especially when they’re sharing a scene—helps keep both the pacing and tension relevant to the scenes and overall story. I haven’t read many books that can do this well, so I was happy when this one didn’t disappoint.

A beautiful, tender, moving and sexy debut. The love story is fantastic, but this book is so much more than just a romance. I loved the way the author wove in the themes of grief, being the child of immigrant parents and anxiety into the story. I was also impressed by how seamlessly the author shifted between the two points of view within the same chapter with no headings. I was never confused as to whose POV it was.

A great debut from a new autobuy romance author! I loved the premise and deep themes of the book combined with the emotional romance. I was so invested in the characters and their relationship! Definitely recommend.

I loved the pacing and emotional depth of this book. It is a wonderful option for the romance lover looking for something a little deeper, for readers who enjoy Emily Henry and Abby Jiminez, while still getting a nice helping of spice. It was so interesting to have it set in the television/screenwriting world and see a peek into the industry. I will absolutely be recommending this title.

I loved parts of this book, and I was also a little lost on some of it. The beginning was really good, but pieces of Helen and Grant felt like an add-on to me, rather than fully developed complex characters. Grant’s panic attacks make sense, and I feel like it was trying to illustrate the lack of true connection in his life, in a way that made him similar to Helen. They just felt not quite right for some reason, maybe that they were kind of touch and go in regards to how they came up. The beginning of Grant and Helen’s situationship didn't make sense to me either, and his weird obsession with her playing a game or feeling in control? It didn’t really add up in regards to the rest of her personality, to me, and I don’t quite understand where that perspective of his was coming from. The complexity of Helen’s relationship with her parents made sense, and was an area of the story I felt was fully realized. Overall, I enjoyed it being a rom-com feeling book with some substance, with the darker storyline of Helen’s sister.

Grant Shepard and Helen Zhang have a history going back to high school - and it's not a happy one. When they meet again in a TV writer's room over a decade later, Helen is horrified and angry. But as the two start working together and getting to know one another as adults, they begin to heal their pasts and recognize that there's something deeper and more real between them. This is perfect for fans of Emily Henry. Kuang's dialogue sparkles and the chemistry between her characters is electric on the page. Lots of spice and realistic emotional stakes make this a standout in many ways - Kuang is an author to watch for sure.

Book TWs: suicide, anxiety, grief

I feel like I need to give a disclaimer first, because it’s a very important thing to note. This is NOT a light, fun romcom, despite the cover. It’s a love story that deals with a lot of tragedy, loss, and heavier issues like suicide and anxiety.

It was a really beautiful love story though—marred by a lot of trauma, grief, and complex familial relationships that are so emblematic of the Asian experience (particularly on the immigrant front). It’s really such a complex story—and I think just mentioning the enemies-to-lovers trope downplays the kind of depth the relationship takes on. There’s a lot of finding your path out/struggling with your sense of worth featured here too, and tidbits of Asian culture that I personally loved. It’s messy, complicated, and also so tender—you get so swept up in Yulin’s prose; she describes the little glances and glimpses in their actions, and her screenwriter background really shines through in that.

I do think this is better comped to books like Alone With You In the Ether & Cleopatra and Frankenstein (except with an HEA), more litfic & women’s fic than romance. For a debut, this was stunning. I cannot wait to read Yulin’s future work—and see what other love stories she has in store.

Thank you Avon and Harper Voyager and NetGalley for this ARC!

What an incredible debut novel! A beautiful story about grief, love, self-discovery, and being awkward, this book really tugged at my heartstrings. Helen, a bestselling author, comes to discover that her high school classmate, Grant, will be in the writer’s room for the TV adaptation of her book. Their history is deeper than high school- both inexplicably bound by Helen’s younger sister’s death 13 years before. How can they stay apart when they are so connected?

Kuang’s writing is magnificent. I was drawn in by the characters & Kuang’s ability to write realistic, meaningful dialogue. However, I quickly became enamored with the poignant yet inspiring story that she had to tell. She is able to wind love and loss so brilliantly in this story! I’m not joking when I say that I laughed, I cried, and I was moved. If you like a complex romance with incredibly likable characters, you need to pick up this book right now! Seriously, it’s out, so read it. I can’t wait to see what else Kuang thinks up.

Thanks, again, Avon and Harper Voyager and NetGalley for this ARC!

TW: suicide, family death, lasting impact of dysfunctional upbringing


How to end a love story by Yulin Kuang is an enemies to lovers and sad girl romance. A heartbreaking beautiful debut. The book deals with heavy themes such as grief, mentla health and trauma. The emotions and realness. It was a heartbreaking situation that tied Helen and Grant together. The complex family relationships were incredibly heartbreaking and real. . Helen's relationship with her parents felt incredibly real (for lack of a better word). Her interactions with them, and resulting decisions regarding her relationship with Grant made sense to me, considering the amount of trauma Helen was processing. Her feelings toward Michelle, her younger sister, were so raw and honest.