This book was good. A little more sad than I was expecting based on the cute cartoon cover, but it was good. Alison and Adam were sweet, and I love how Sam played such a role in their relationship, even after he is gone. I’m usually not super into downer contemporary romances, but I somewhat enjoyed this one. If you like emotional stories, you’ll enjoy!

I loved this book so much, it was so creative in the plot, the author was so eloquent when she touched on the physical and mental health issues, the grief and guilt. I loved how REAL Alison felt through her thoughts, and how she built her confidence up to stand up to her family and what she wanted. I felt like I was watching a holiday rom-com that left me teary eyed - fun fact, there are hockey, F1, hallmark rom-com references, what else could you ask for?!

Post mastectomy and BRCA1 carrier Alison is in a rut. She’s had a a life saving surgery and is contemplating another, but can’t let go of the guilt that she survived, while others haven’t or have had to go through treatment. On top of that, her ex world traveler boyfriend Sam; just passed away tragically - and his whole family thinks that she was his girlfriend, and he was settling down with her.

Guilted into helping the grieving family, Alison agrees to help pack up and fix Sam’s apartment for his parents with Sam’s elusive best friend Adam, who she met at the funeral for the first time.

In grappling with their grief, their own internal demons and feelings of how they left things with Sam, Alison and Adam form a bond - that may or may not be the best for all parties…

Special thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an advanced copy of this book!
All thoughts and opinions are my own.

i am not the target audience because i found some pop culture references too cringy for me as gen z, or i did not understand some references completely, BUT! i can see millennials absolutely loving this.

what i really liked about this book was that heavy topics mentioned, and their impact, throughout the book, i.e. cancer and death, was softened by the humor, making it easier to read and digest. i also really liked all the quirks of the main characters – alison mullally and adam berg – and their family and friends.

but definitely one of my favorite things in the entire book was the banter between alison and adam. they were hot and cold, and overall just cuteness overload.

it was nice and informative seeing representation of carriers and survivors of the BRCA-1 gene and double-mastectomies. not only that, it was refreshing seeing how normalized and expressed talking about, or experiencing intense, extreme emotions (such as survivor's guilt, grief, self-acceptance, etc.) were in this book. no one was ever shamed for feeling what they felt.

what could need some more work was the pacing of the book. some things felt like extremely fast paced but then it all slowed down and i had to push myself forward.

overall, this book felt like watching a romcom. it had all the classic themes seen in romcoms, with the cliché grumpy-sunshine main characters, the "scandal" that separates them, and the public proclamations of love. a promising debut for the author.

I thought Four Weekends and a Funeral was a promising debut. When I read the blurb of this book, I was immediately intrigued! I thought Ellie Palmer did a great job of setting up the plot and moral dilemma of the story. I felt that the main characters were adequately developed. Although I found Alison's "life" philosophy frustrating, I thought Palmer showed the reasoning behind it flawlessly. It was cool to see a book with BRCA representation. I did find Alison and Adam's relationship a little lacking. I felt that Palmer did too much explaining instead of showing. There were multiple scenes where Alison describes the tension between her and Adam. I wanted to feel it instead of being told it. Overall, I enjoyed this book and will be keeping my eye out for Palmer's next book. Thank you to G.P. Putnam's Sons for the ARC.

3 1/2 stars- I was excited to read this book after reading the description because I thought it was an original and unique plot! I enjoyed the banter between Allison and Adam. There were some good one liners and comedic moments in this book. I liked reading about the emotional development of Allison post surgery and trying to find herself and what she wants for her future. At times for me the book felt a little slow pacing and I feel like it could've been stronger if the book was a little shorter. I would definitely read another book by Ellie Palmer and I'm wondering if Chelsea/Mara will get books in the future.

Grateful to have an advanced reader copy via NetGalley and Penguin group publishers.

Any time I’m able to read a book before it hits shelves, it’s a blessing. This one fell flat. A girl is roped into playing current partner to her now deceased ex. While not a perfect match, she doesn’t have any time of emotion for her ex partner (6 weeks prior) passing away. Made it hard to relate and connect with the main character who comes across emotionless.

The relationship developing between Sarah and her now deceased ex best friend is a slow burn. Not much buildup, nothing to make you root for them.

The best written part of this box was the story of our main character upending her life due to the BrCA gene and having a double mastectomy.

We get our happy ending but overall the book fell flat to me.

Four Weekends and a Funeral by Ellie Palmer is one of the best rom com books I’ve read in a long time. It’s a debut, which makes it all the more impressive.

I feel in love with Adam and Alison, and Palmer created palpable chemistry between them.

The author wasn’t afraid to take on tough topics (grief, cancer and BRCA1, to name a few)—but the book was still humorous and lighthearted.

Finally, as Midwesterner, I liked that the book was set in Minnesota.

Read if you like:
🩵 Grumpy/sunshine
🩵 Forced proximity
🩵 Hallmark Christmas movies

Thanks to Penguin Putnam Group and NetGalley for an eARC in exchange for an honest review! Don’t miss Four Weekends and a Funeral when it’s released on 8/6/24!

Very cute. I love the representation of a best cancer survivor and a the aftermath of a mastectomy.

I love that they both got therapy to deal with their feelings.

The only thing I didn't like is I feel like this book could have been shorter, there seemed to be a bit of filler and Russell apparently does everything and is creepy

This book grabbed my attention from the very start. Easy to follow along characters and the writing left you feeling engaged throughout the book.

Thank you to NetGalley for an ARC of Four Weekends and a Funeral. As Alison decides what life is like as a BRAC1 carrier and her decisions, she wrestles with the person she thinks she should be and the person she truly is. A self-professed "people pleaser", Ali works to find the person she needs to please the most is herself. Hallmark movies, Christmas trains, and a strong core of friends help add humor and depth to the story as Adam & Alison navigate grief, survivors' guilt, and identity. An enjoyable read and offers insight to the decision making process of those with the BRAC1 gene.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publishers for this charming, inspiring, and heartwarming book! It's my new favorite! The book premise hooked me as soon as I read the description. The main character Alison attends a funeral of a recent ex-boyfriend. They hadn't dated too long before he broke up with her. It wasn't a difficult breakup and they ended up on friendly terms. When she arrives to the funeral she discovers he didn't tell anyone besides his sister that they had broken up so his family and friends believe they were still a couple when he passed away. The sister asks her to go along with it for the day to give his family more peace of mind that he passed away happy and in love. However, based on this lie things become more complicated quickly when Alison is thrown together with her ex's best friend Adam to help pack up the ex's home.
This book was not only a lovely romance to read but it was so much more complex and deep than I expected in the best way. Adam is fearful of risking change with his life plans in terms of his career and home. And Alison is actually the opposite and she is constantly pushing herself to be someone she's not because she feels she should be living a bolder life after a double-mastectomy because she is a BRCA 1 carrier and she feels she somewhat cheated cancer.
Together they process grief, fear of failure, fear of contentment, and the complexities of life in general while falling in love.
I can't recommend this book enough! It was motivational but in a different way than most books normally are. It does challenge you to go after what you love but also to embrace your true passions and be happy with your life as is because the purpose of going out of your comfort zone and being brave to find happiness means happiness is the goal so if you are already happy in certain areas and ways, you should embrace it and enjoy your life however it makes you happy.

Thank you to the publisher for an ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Four Weekends and a Funeral is a witty, warm hug of a book that could thaw even the North Shore Grump’s icy demeanor. Ellie Palmer’s debut sparkles with heart and humor as main character Alison explores her life post-double-mastectomy.

With a charming cast of characters (Alison’s friends Chelsea and Mara had me cackling) and a cozy Minnesota backdrop (Duluth! St. Paul! Pizza Lucé and the height of their bathroom ceilings!), Palmer creates a cozy environment that feels like an inside joke you love being a part of. I finished each chapter wishing that it was just a little longer. That I could giddy giggle at just one more case of Alison and Adam’s arms brushing too close or their eyes locking for too long.

I fell in love with Adam and Alison, but even more so, I fell in love with Alison finding herself. Discovering that her life is worthy, with or without roughing it in the woods. Though consider this my formal request for a bonus epilogue of Adamson (they deserve a celebrity couple name) going Christmas tree chopping in the woods. Adam would hate it. Ali would love it.
There is opportunity for Hallmark jokes galore. Just think about it, Palmer.

And while Four Weekends follows challenging topics, this is not a story of loss any more than it’s a story of love, hope, and picking ourselves back up when we’ve been knocked down. Palmer’s debut reminds readers that even in times of struggle, there are bright spots that are worth finding.

Song Vibe: “Feels Like” by Gracie Abrams

Four Weekends and a Funeral was such a fun and heartwarming read to start the new year with!
Allison goes to her ex boyfriend's funeral, only to find out that everyone thinks otherwise! Out of kindness, she decides to help pack her ex's condo with his grumpy best friend, Adam. Calamity ensues, along with undeniable chemistry between the two characters.

If you love Grumpy/Sunshine and forced proximity tropes, this book is for you!

Thank you to Netgalley for the E-Arc of this book, in exchange for an honest review!

Thank you so much to the publisher for an advanced copy of this book. Ellie Palmer weaves together a delightful, creative story that flips the fake dating trope on its head. Imagine knowing your ex-boyfriend's best friend hates you. Oh, and he hadn't told anyone you'd broken up when he died, so you have to put on a brave face and pretend you were still together. Then, you have to pack up his apartment with the best friend. Makes for some great mishaps. While this was truly a fun romcom, I have to say I also really loved the deep friendships on display and the main character's exploration of what it means to have the BRCA gene. Palmer explores love, death, BRCA, and friendship so thoughtfully.

Although this story didn't completely work overall from my perspective as a fan of contemporary romance, it may be other's readers jam.

With her debut, FOUR WEEKENDS AND A FUNERAL, Ellie Palmer quickly became an auto-buy author for me. Her voice is sharp and insightful, and her characters pop off the page almost immediately. Alison is such a fun, relatable protagonist, and her relationship with Adam is equal parts swoony and realistic. I loved their grumpy-sunshine dynamic, which meant plenty of movie-like banter, and the way they fit in with the cast of quirky, hilarious characters had me hoping for a second book set in the same world. I'll be recommending Ellie Palmer to fans of Emily Henry and Mhairi McFarlane, and I'm already excited to see what she has in store next.

Thank you to Penguin Group Putnam for the ARC. This book was written for the 90s girlies, the ones who binge Hallmark movies, and the suckers for rom coms. I loved Alison and Adam SO MUCH. They gave me butterflies and made me blush throughout the book. I just know this is going to be all over booktok and everyone should be excited for its release date (August 6th 2024). Sure to be a favorite.

Trigger warning: Cancer & Mastectomy talk.

i rarely read romances and usually when i do i’m let down, but this was such a sweet, cute rom com!! you see the early 90s rom com influences, but it wasn’t too over the top, and the modern day references between Ali and her friends were so funny and relatable. the grumpy-sunshine dynamic between the two main characters was done really well, i found myself relating to both of them! especially Ali trying to force herself to love nature when she hates being outside lolol

the main character is a BRCA-1 carrier and we see her struggle with guilt, and the emotional strain a double mastectomy can have on a woman. ellie palmer’s passion about educating people more on this subject really comes though in the book!

yes it had all the cheesiness that comes with a romance, but it was earnest and written very well which balanced that out!

I was lucky enough to snag an eARC om NetGalley. While I’m not usually one for enemies to lovers, the premise was too good to pass on.

Alison is struggling through her BRCA discovery, having had a mastectomy and reconstruction. She gets trapped into the role of “still girlfriend” at her ex’s funeral, and agrees to pack up the ex’s condo so his grief-stricken mother doesn’t have to.

Enter the ex’s childhood friend, Adam. Stoic and kind of grumpy (who doesn’t love Christmas music?), he has his really warm moments that made me love him. Also, any hero willing to fix a faucet can live rent-free in my brain.

I loved this much more than I expected. It’s smart and witty and warm.

Great debut novel! The story line and the characters were engaging. I finished the book in less than 24 hours - I couldn't put it down. I will be looking for more books from Ellie Palmer! Thank you to PENGUIN GROUP Putnam for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.