What a fun novel! After her ex-boyfriend passes away, Alison attends his funeral to find out that his family never knew they broke up! She spontaneously agrees to help clean out Sam's apartment with his friend Adam. As the weekends go by, Alison starts to see that Adam isn't as cold as he first appears. She also learns that she needs to accept herself for who she is. Will the spark turn to flames?

A great read and it had me thinking about the things I do because 'I'm supposed to' and re-evaluate my life!

Oh how I loved this! Loved, loved, loved. This is such a sweet story about loss, love and becoming who you really are. I will be recommending this to anyone who will listen.

This was such a wonderful debut! I love a good romcom, and this one immediately became one of my new favorites. Four Weekends and a Funeral follows Alison Mullaly, who arrives at her ex-boyfriend's funeral only to find out that no one knows they'd broken up. Determined to make things easier for his family, Alison plays the role of grief-stricken girlfriend and agrees to spend four weekends packing up her ex's apartment with his best friend, Adam. As Alison and Adam work together to finish the job, their awkward silences soon turn into an unexpected friendship...and maybe even something more. Can Alison finally become the person she's meant to be—and allow herself to fall for the person she's meant to be with?

I loved this book so much! I definitely see the comparisons to movies like When Harry Met Sally and While You Were Sleeping, and since those are two of my favorite romcoms of all time, it's no surprise that I enjoyed this story just as much. However, while Four Weekends and a Funeral captures the tone and comforting feeling of a classic romcom, it also certainly stands on its own, with a unique, fresh premise that hooked me instantly. Alison and Adam are both likable, endearing, and well-developed characters, and it's impossible not to root for them, both as individuals and as a couple. I especially appreciated Alison's whole journey. I had never read a book with a character who carries the BRCA 1 gene/has a preventative double mastectomy, and I thought the exploration of that storyline was so candid and touching. I also loved watching Alison come to the realization that she didn't need to apologize for being herself. She didn't need to feel guilty for wanting a quieter life, she didn't need to hide or downplay her interests and passions, she didn't need to push herself to be someone she wasn't—because she was already enough, just as she was. It was heartwarming to see her finally be content with who she was, and I found her personality so relatable!

This story was packed with emotion and depth, but it was also just a total joy to read—it truly embodied both the "rom" and the "com!" The chemistry and banter between Alison and Adam had me smiling nonstop at my screen. The trivia aspect of the story and all the pop culture references were so much fun to read about, too, and there were so many hilarious moments throughout the book. I also loved the side characters, from Alison's best friends, to her coworkers, to hers, Adam's, and Sam's respective families. They felt just as real and vivid as Alison and Adam did, and I enjoyed following Alison's different relationships with all of them, especially her friendship with Mara and Chelsea! I'm hoping those two each get their own books one day, too—I would love to see these characters again and read their stories. Either way, I am so excited to see what Ellie Palmer writes next, and would highly recommend Four Weekends and a Funeral! Thank you to NetGalley and Putnam Books for the ARC.

a brilliant book. i haven’t read anything like this ever in think? i was just thinking about how much i would love a while you were sleeping-esque romcom and this so delivered for me! while you were sleeping, when harry met sally, and four weddings and a funeral are all some of my most favorite romcoms ever and this beautiful magical book blended them all together so perfectly that i’m going to be thinking about it and craving more books just like it for years to come.

ali and adam were such likeable characters to me not only were they entertaining as heck but it was so easy to fall in love with them and feel for them. even during frustrating fights and miscommunications that would normally bug me i just felt bad and wanted to wrap tbem up. they were both just two hurting and scared a people trying to navigate a strange situation and i was rooting for them so hard from start to finish. luv luv luved them bad!!

while the plot as a whole was so perfectly unique, i’ve also never read a book that dealt with breast cancer survival/preventative mastectomies in such a close up way (or really at all to be honest) and it was so emotional and added so much depth and character to the book that i really enjoyed! there was certainly no shortage of emotions to be felt during this!

… while we’re on the topic of allll the emotions!!! despite this book dealing with such heavy topics like grief and surviving cancer and preventing cancer and losing parts of your body in the process, it was still genuinely so much fun!! i was literallt smiling so big for so much of the book!! the banter was bantering THE WHOLE! time!! and i love that!! i feel like sometimes in an “enemies” to lovers type book the playful banterness will start off really strong and then will be lost once the couple starts entering their lover era lol but i love when they can stay playful and carry the banter into their relationships!!

just adored so much of this: the banter! ali’s humor! and persistence to make adam like her!! adam’s thoughtfulness (like WOAH!!!!!!) the banter of course!! the tension!!!!!!!!!! the culture references (otrivia benson and marquizka hargitay!!! i was bursting out laughing as a mariska girl myself)!!!! and of course of course the girl gang!!! i LOVE A GIRL GANG!!!
overall just. such an amazing heartwarming entertaining love story!! a brilliant debut for ellie palmer! thank you so so much to NetGalley and putnam books for this arc!!!

Four Weekends and a Funeral is both a book about grief and survivor's guilt (in many forms) and a romance. As a book about grief, it's a five star read for me. Allison's struggle with what it means to "skip" cancer (in her mind) is really powerful. The author has a personal connection to this, but it's so relatable within the novel and even though it can be frustrating to watch Allison constantly sabotage her own happiness, it's clear that she's processing the path her life has taken as best she can. There's a lot of really great stuff in this portion of the novel, and it's written beautifully.

As for the romance plot, my biggest issue was the pacing. Tonally, it really does feel like an homage to 90s romantic comedies. Certainly the mmc references them directly near the end. However, it's not really a slow burn, as the romance turns steamy fairly early on. And the third act break up is more of a second act break up, and it takes a long time for that to resolve itself.

I think this book is best when read as a novel about grief with a romance subplot. On balance, I'd give it 4 stars. Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.

Alison’s ex-boyfriend is dead. And her drive to do what she thinks she should do gets her back into her relationship with him at his funeral where she meets his family and best friend, Adam. Alison and Adam work together over four weekends to help out their recently deceased friend’s family and… well, it’s a romance. You know how it goes. The plot was sweet, and the characters were lovable. The writing was a bit clunky at points which brings my rating down a bit. Content warning: BCRA, preventative surgery are major themes throughout.

What a great debut. I haven't read a romance before where the main character carries the BRCA 1 gene and has had a double mastectomy. (This is not a spoiler--it comes up very early in the book.) Alison's unresolved feelings about this have led her to embrace a more adventurous life, even if she kind of hates hiking. And Adam is definitely stuck before he meets Alison at her (ex-) boyfriend's funeral, where it quickly becomes clear that everyone thinks they were still dating. An unusual premise, for sure, but it leads to some classic rom-com disasters and some heartwarming moments.

Thanks to Netgalley, the publisher, and the author for the ARC to review. All opinions are my own.

FOUR WEEKENDS AND A FUNERAL is such a sweet, fun read! Alison was a great heroine, and I enjoyed hearing about her journey with BRCA. Adam was a loving, cinnamon roll grump of a hero and their chemistry was palpable. Even though it was closed door, I still loved all of the intimacy the characters shared and found myself wrapped up in their love story. The emotional arcs were perfect and the ending was so delightful. I loved seeing where the characters ended up together.

Four weekends and a funeral

Girl gets dumped. Ex-boyfriend tragically passes away. No one at the funeral knows he dumped her. Girl gets guilt-tripped into keeping the dumping a secret. Enter hot best friend of ex-boyfriend.

The synopsis of this book and the first several chapters had me concerned that the plot of this book was going to be a little uncomfortably predictable but I confidently confirm that this book was full of surprises! This author through her own experiences is able to portray a millennial woman with the BRCA gene with such vulnerable honesty. I think people often wish to see into the future but the BRCA Gene is the real-life application of seeing into the future and proves how difficult this information is to process.

I also want to note that I will always praise romance authors for creating complicated female lead characters with real depth. This genre is often plagued with pixie dream girls and while that is fun on occasion we need to support authors that incorporate the complicated reality of being a woman.

I am excited to read more from this author and home that she continues to write in this genre.

Thank you PENGUIN GROUP Putnam for this digital advance readers copy.

After Alison finds out she has the BRCA1 gene, she has surgery to avoid breast cancer. She feels she must take on a series of challenges and her new boyfriend Sam, an avid outdoor adventurer, is the perfect match for her quest. But he dumps her and six weeks later he dies in a climbing accident. When she attends his funeral, his sister asks her to play along with the ruse that she is still his girlfriend. She agrees. She is then paired with his good friend Adam to pack up and ready his townhouse for sale. Though Adam and Alison get off to a rough start, as they share secrets their romance blossoms. Palmer has written a sweet book about trying to be someone you aren’t and finding your best self. It was an enjoyable read with a few surprises. This a quite a nice surprise for a debut. I will look forward to future books from Ellie Palmer. I thank NetGalley and Putnam for the opportunity to read this ARC.

Alison attends her ex-boyfriend Sam's funeral not realizing he didn't tell anyone they broke up. Sam's sister asks Alison to play along for the day and she offers to pack up his apartment to his grieving mother. Sam's college friend Adam also offers to pack up the apartment. They will spend the next 4 weekends working on the apartment. At first Adam rarely talks to Alison and seems to not want her around but as they spend more time together, they slowly get to know each other and become friends and maybe more. I enjoyed this book because in addition to the possible love story between Alison and Sam, the book also tells about Alison's friendships and her passion for her work. Alison also had a double-mastectomy since she was a BRCA 1 carrier which is an important part of her story. I really enjoyed this book since Alison was such a well rounded character and her relationship with Sam was fun to read about.

I loved this story so much. It was so much more than just a sweet romance (but also the romance was so charming and heartwarming). Ali is such an endearing protagonist and I loved her journey just as much as her and Adam’s story. I also was so pleasantly surprised about the way Sam was developed as a character and his impact on everyone around him. I truly loved every character, from Ali’s trivia friends and coworkers to Adam and Sam’s families.

Hoping for spin offs of Mara and Chelsea because they were both so lovable and I need more of them in the future.

Thank you to Putnam Books and NetGalley for the ARC of this book!

I truly loved this one and for me the writing style was reminiscent of Abby Jimenez, who I love. I will definitely buy more books by this author in the future..

The book opens with Allison attending the funeral of a boyfriend she had recently broken up with. It turns out that the family is unaware that they had broken up and the sister asks her to pretend that they were still together to ease some pain for the parents. In the meantime, she meets his best friend and agrees to help clean out the ex boyfriends condo with him. Watching Adam and Ali's love story unfold was incredibly sweet. They are both struggling through choosing what they want in life and focusing on themselves instead of what other people want for them. Allison has just undergone a double mastectomy due to a BRCA mutation and that is also a huge part of her story and character. Overall, it was an incredibly sweet book that felt real and had a lot of depth in the characters. I would absolutely recommend it. Thankful to have gotten an early copy!

Ellie Palmer’s fresh, funny voice hooked me from the first page of FOUR WEEKENDS AND A FUNERAL.

At her ex’s funeral, Alison learns that none of his family members know they broke up. Feeling terrible for his family, she agrees to help pack up her ex’s condo to prepare it for sale. But her ex’s best friend, Adam, is also helping with the task. He’s a grump who wants nothing to do with her. Over the course of several weekends, though, a friendship forms, and soon their attraction and feelings for each other are too hard to ignore.

There are plenty of laugh-out-loud moments, but the characters’ journeys — Alison’s in particular since the story is told from her POV — are full of such tenderness, vulnerability, and depth. I fell in love with Alison and Adam, and I know readers will, too.

CW for some heavy topics: Alison has a BRCA diagnosis and has had a double mastectomy, both of which play a major role in the story. There’s also discussions of breast cancer, grief, ovarian cancer risk and a possible oophorectomy, and concerns about fertility issues.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.

this is such a unique, sweet, loving story. I’ve never read a retelling of “four weddings and a funeral” like this and I really liked it! Alison and Adam meet during a low point, both being charged with cleaning out the apartment of her ex/ his brother after he passes. I appreciated Alison’s determination to be kind and supportive to his family. And Adam is a surely, sweet grump who learns to open up and finds an unexpected friend and partner.
overall a very sweet, unique story.
thank you for the arc :)

Jessica Joyce said to read this book, so naturally, I immediately read this book.

Four Weekend and a Funeral was SUCH a pleasant surprise! The story follows Alison, who finds herself in quite the predicament after her ex boyfriend passed away and she agrees to clear out his apartment in an effort to help his family out. But, with just the twist we needed, she ends up having an apartment-packing partner - Adam, her ex’s emotionally distant (and obviously hot) bff.

I loved the characters in this story and really was rooting for them. Their emotional growth was really endearing, and honestly touched on topics that I’ve struggled with myself (am I “doing” enough with my life, am I grateful enough, etc.) I think the only thing I struggled with was some of the pacing (kind of a slow burn) but it was not enough to lessen my interest in the story. The banter was *excellent* and the female friendships/side characters were a great treat as well.

This does not come out until Aug 2024 (sad) BUT - add it to your TBR now!!!!

Big thank you to NetGalley & Putnam for an ARC of this book!

I loved this sweet novel about a woman who's stuck having to clean her ex's apartment with his best friend when he unexpectedly dies before his family knows that they've broken up. You have to suspend disbelief for many of the things in this story but it's also a sweet story to get swept up in and with all that's going on in the world, i always appreciate books that feel like a cozy blanket and a warm hug.

with gratitude to netgalley and G.P. Putnam's Sons for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review

This book is simply phenomenal! Ellie Palmer has a way with words and she sweeps you into Alison's world. Alison and Adam's romance is so gentle and real as they struggle to open up to each other. Palmer is a master with craft, making you swoon and ache throughout. A million stars! Please read now!

Thank you so much to NetGalley, Putnam and especially the author Ellie Palmer fo chance to read this debut novel. It’s a fun rom com and I enjoyed the main characters transformations along with their Freinds who are along for the ride,
The novel,is humorous while also dealing with tougher issues including health issues and loss of a friend. Recommend this book for a thoughtful enjoyable reading experience

I just finished reading “Four Weekends and a Funeral” and I can tell you right now that I’m going to immediately read anything else Ellie Palmer writes. This story follows Alison, a woman who shows up to her ex-boyfriend’s funeral to find that no one knows they broke up. Not wanting to upset the family more, she pretends that they were still dating when he died, but things quickly spiral out of control. She spends the next four weekends working closely together with her ex’s grumpy best friend to clean out her ex’s apartment, all the while keeping up the fake dating her dead boyfriend charade.

This story dealt a lot with loss and personal growth, but also had a heavy dose of humor. I actually laughed out loud quite a few times, which I don’t do often while reading books! The whole book was heartwarming and completely drew me in, but I especially loved the ending. It’s the sort of swoony ending that makes you want to cry happy tears because everything came together so nicely to lead to the characters’ happily ever after.

The author did such a good job writing the characters so I felt like I really knew them. The dialogue flowed easily, in a way where the interactions felt so natural, like I could really picture everything happening right as I read it. I loved this book and am so excited to watch Palmer’s career grow once this book comes out next August, because I’m certain other people will love it, too!