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I'm struggling to find the right words, but I loved ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฐ๐ข๐๐ก (Pub 06.18) so much. It's a beautifully authentic story about parenting, marriage, aging parents, family, newly adult children and love. Thank you to for the early copy.
I found the story to be equally compelling and introspective. At 54, Rachel (Rocky) is 5 years older than me and it was impossible not to relate to her as a mom, a wife, a daughter and a woman. At 240 pages you could easily gobble it up in a day, but I found Newman's writing so transcendent that I just wanted to savor it. She simultaneously had me laughing out loud and wiping away tears- all within a single sentence. Positively lovely.
"๐ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐ง๐ช๐ง๐ต๐บ-๐ง๐ฐ๐ถ๐ณ ๐บ๐ฆ๐ข๐ณ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ฅ, ๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ต๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ, ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ, ๐ต๐ฉ๐ข๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฌ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ฑ๐ช๐ค๐ฌ. ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ฏ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ. ๐๐ตโ๐ด ๐ซ๐ถ๐ด๐ต ๐ฆ๐ท๐ฆ๐ณ๐บ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ, ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ช๐ฎ๐ฆ. ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐. ๐๐ถ๐ต ๐ช๐ต ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ต๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ด๐ต๐ฐ๐ฏ๐ฆ! ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐!"
I just realized that the title ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฐ๐ข๐๐ก does double duty. Not just the sandwich generation, but the role sandwiches play in the family's yearly trip to Cape Cod. Clever.

I enjoyed this book. It was not deep but covered a week in the life of a vacationing family. The mother is peri-menopausal and I think that most menopausal women will relate well to this story. It is told day by day in what I can only liken to vignettes. I found myself not only laughing in agreement with the author but also crying at the absurdity of life. This book covers pre-marital sex, miscarriages, elderly parental loss, abortion and gay children. Thank you to Harper Publishers and NetGalley for the digital ARC this review is my own.

Sandwich by Catherine Newman is a beautiful story about family. Rachel is caught between her two adult children and her parents still alive. Each year her family vacations to the same home on Cape Cod with flashbacks to the previous summer trips.
Sandwich is a quick read, but donโt mistake it for a light read. The story covers heavy topics of love, grief, family, and growing old.
I loved the story and immediately felt like I was included in the family. I laughed and cried as Rachel told her story.
I love Catherine Newmanโs writing. Iโm always amazed as to how she packs so much emotion into her stories. She made me nostalgic for this family and my family at the same time. Nostalgic for the times that have passed and that are yet to come. Iโd absolutely recommend Sandwich to anyone looking for something a bit heavier to read that also still feels like vacation. I canโt wait to read what Catherine writes next.
Thank you to NetGalley and Harper Books for an advanced copy in exchange for my honest opinion.

I am grateful for having the opportunity to read this ARC.
The story follows Rocky (Rachel) as she enjoys her annual family vacation on Cape Cod, specifically Sandwich, Massachusetts. She is reminiscing the past summers and enjoying the people her children have grown in to and imagining who they will be.
As a mom of young children I felt truly seen in this story. The thoughts Rocky remembers from those early years of motherhood ring through so clearly.
The story is shared in a stream of conscious feeling narration which I know isnโt for everyone but it felt more personal that way. Overall it was a very well done book.

I finished SANDWICH over the weekend and my oh my is it a *perfect* nostalgic story for me.
Set in an unnamed Cape Cod town where a family spends a week at the same beach house each summer, the story spans one of those weeks with flashbacks to previous summers.
For 18ish summers of my life, my family spent the first week (two if we were lucky!) of August at the same beach house in Wellfleet, Cape Cod. The house wasnโt fancy or special except in location and memories made. Weโd anticipate those weeks with great fervor and when theyโd come upon us, theyโd pass at the speed of light - filled with sandy toes, outdoor showers, ice cream cones, pond swims, and fried seafood.
SANDWICH bundles up all my nostalgia into a compelling family story. The setting is brought to life in a way only a true Cape Cod lover can pull off. Newmanโs writing is impossibly warm and funny and relatable; the way she writes a family makes me want to BE in her family. It is no surprise she writes often for @cupofjo, a site defined by the same qualities.
All in all: I loved SANDWICH. I may read it again with my toes in the sand and New England breeze in my hair in a few short months ๐ฅฐ
If you love Cape Cod or family dynamics or WE ALL WANT IMPOSSIBLE THINGS or Cup of Jo, this is for you ๐ซถ

I loved this book so much. I laughed, I cried, I saw what the future might look like. Catherine Newman writes about the complications of being a woman, a mother, and a wife with lightness and depth itโs magical. If you havenโt read We All Want Impossible Things - read that first until Sandwich comes out!
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC!

Coming in at a tight 240 pages, SANDWICH is a week-in-the-life glimpse of a family vacation on Cape Cod, centered on menopausal mom Rocky, as she is "sandwiched" between her two almost adult children and her aging parents. She reminisces about past vacations with the children as the current vacation reveals family secrets and surprises. Some of the things Rocky says and thinks really resonated with me, as someone of the same age and in a similar place in life. Newman's writing style is very conversational and the plot moves quickly.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher HarperCollins for an eARC in exchange for an honest review.

When I heard Sandwich described as a story about a family on a summer vacation that they go on every year to the same location in the same rental house, and I was instantly interested - this is something that my family does, and I was looking forward to seeing a similar experience on the page in all of its messy, memorable, sometimes crazy and dramatic family vacation entirety. While I really enjoyed the writing style and structure, I ultimately found it really difficult to connect to the characters and couldnโt help a constant feeling that I was just the wrong audience for this story.
This book follows main character Rocky, a 54-year-old woman โsandwichedโ between caring for her new adult children and aging parents during their annual family vacation to Cape Cod. Each chapter details a day, following Rocky, her husband Nick, and her two children Jamie and Maya during their vacation week. Over the course of the trip, relationships are tested, secrets are revealed, and a little drama ensues, but at the end of the day, family is family.
Iโve really struggled with my feelings about this book, because although there were definitely some nuggets of humor and enjoyment, I simply could not relate at all to Rocky or her family dynamics. Rocky is a perimenopausal mom, which we come to learn early in the story and are reminded of often as the author waxes poetic about menopause in all of its forms every couple pages. While the menopause jokes probably landed well with readers in the same stage of life, they got to the point of being obnoxious to this slightly younger reader who doesnโt yet have children. Rockyโs adult children (in their early 20s) were also a little disappointingly difficult for this reader to relate to in the way that they were incredibly open with their parents about their sex lives, to the point that Rocky and her daughter Maya go skinny-dipping together. I completely understand that every family is different, and to each their own with no judgment whatsoever, but that piece just felt unrealistic to me personally. The characters overall felt more like caricatures to me in the way that all of their emotions seemed a little exaggerated and how far removed they felt from the family that I am accustomed to.
The writing style was snappy and entertaining, and Iโd be interested in reading more of Newmanโs work that had a little broader appeal! I also enjoyed the concept of dividing the story into chapters with each chapter being a full day, but at the same time, the structure almost made it feel like vignettes rather than one cohesive story. Each day brought new drama or secrets revealed, but once the day was over some of those โbig secretsโ were never really revisited.
All in all, while I enjoyed my reading experience well enough, I was left at the end wanting more. I wanted more depth in characters, more dimension to the story and more relatability (and less menopause). I think my experience with it ultimately came down to me not being part of the somewhat narrow target audience of perimenopausal mothers, and thatโs ok! There are also trigger warnings for miscarriage and abortion for readers to take note of. Reader know thyself.
Thank you so much to NetGalley, the author and the publisher for an ARC in exchange for an honest review!

Loved this book! So laugh-out-loud funny one moment and poignant the next, with many truthful observations about aging and raising children. Thanks, NetGalley, for the ARC.

3.5โญ๏ธ I loved this authorโs last book so was excited for this one. While I enjoyed it and there was some great banter, not much happened. It was more a slice of one close familyโs life โ their annual vacation โ and their occasional sandwich preferences. All through the lens of menopausal mother of adult kids. I look forward to this authorโs next one and hope it has a little more oomph.

The writing in this book, wow. It makes you feel like youโre there, hearing and seeing it all. It sometimes makes you ache. This book makes you think, especially if youโre in that sandwich part of life.
Thanks to NetGalley for this arc in exchange for my honest opinion.

This book is about so much more than a family vacation. I laughed and cried and read a lot of relatable lines. Rocky is a 54 year old mother of 2 adult children who is now an empty nester with her husband Nick. She is also dealing with menopause and all the fun that that entails. She and her family have been visiting the same house on the cape for many years. Rocky is dealing with all kinds of emotions and trying to keep it all together and failing miserably. It was an unputdownable book for me.
Thank you Netgalley and Harper books for the digital ARC.

I couldn't stop reading this and fell in love with every single character. Rocky's voice is so real, so honest. Like Rocky, dreading the end of the vacation, I dreaded the last page.

I greatly enjoyed this book, in large part because I, like Rocky, am at that "sandwich" point of life (with an 80-something parent and 20-something kids). This novel also transported me back to the yearly family OBX vacations we took over 10 years, in all their messy and memorable glory. But I don't think you have to be in the menopausal mom or beachgoer demographic to appreciate this well-written inter-generational novel, which is by turns both moving and funny. 4 stars for me, with many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the ARC.

Wow I loved this book! My first book my Catherine Newman and it wonโt be my last. Now I want to go back and read her debut! This is such a lovely book filled with emotion and humor. It touches on phases in the life of a family. I found it so touching and profound at times. I loved the banter of the family in this book and thought they were charming and sharp.
Thank you to NetGalley and Harper for the gifted eARC in exchange for my feedback!

It's official - Catherine Newman is an auto-buy author for me, going forward. I loved her debut novel, We All Want Impossible Things. Her new novel, Sandwich, delivers more of the same heart, humor, and wisdom touched with a swirl of darkness. I loved everything this novel had to say about motherhood, marriage, empty nests, our love for our children, the passing of time, what we don't know about our aging parents, the importance of tradition, the power of nostalgia, and the hard truths of living an open-hearted life. I found myself highlighting (in my Kindle) so many passages that I want to remember and reflect on later.
This particular family's culture really came to life for me. Their conversations were so witty and warm and incisive. They don't really beat around the bush, even though there certainly are some secrets being kept. I can't wait to see what Newman writes and publishes next!
Thank you so much to NetGalley and Harper for the gifted eARC in exchange for my honest feedback. I'm excited for the rest of the world to get their hands on this book next month!

I highlighted so many passages of this novel and loved it so much! This is a great slice-of-life novel which is both gentle and complex with some fantastic moments of wisdom and humor. Catherine Newman perfectly tackles marriage, menopause, and adult children with acerbic wit. Rockyโs children are on the precipice of big changes as young adults and both of her parents are aging and fragile. Newman pairs the bitter sweetness of these family dynamics with some pretty big secrets for an unputdownable read. Full 5 stars.
Thank you to Harper Collins and NetGalley for the Advanced Reader Copy in exchange for my honest review.

What I've come to expect from Catherine Newman, in the best way: laughter and tears and characters so deeply human you forget they're made up.
Like We All Want Impossible Things, this slim little novel punches well above its emotional weight. I read it in one sitting, but it's lingering with me far longer. It's a perfect beach read, but a deceptively deep one! I think fans of Hello, Beautiful by Ann Napolitano and The Paper Palace by Miranda Cowley Heller will really enjoy it.
Thanks to NetGalley and Harper for an ARC in exchange for my honest feedback.

Catherine Newman's new novel, Sandwich, chronicles a week-long Cape Cod vacation of parents Rocky and Nick, their three newly adult children, one girlfriend, their cat, Chicken, and, for a few days, Rocky''s elderly parents. The book sets the pace for a fast read with its irreverent one-liners and comical misadventures, like Rocky's hilarious and horrid mind-body meltdowns. It also touches on some very deep topics, like repressed trauma and grief, the emotional toll of long-held secrets and letting go of loved ones, young and old. The cast of characters show us that, as flawed humans, our relationships with those we love may be deep, but they're never perfect. We all misstep sometime, and love can be expressed in different ways. For some of us, it's being the one who makes the sandwiches.

At once hilarious and heartbreaking! I absolutely loved this character-driven tale of a familyโs vacation week at a Cape Cod cottage. Protagonist Rocky, a purveyor of sandwiches and other sustenance, is herself โsandwichedโ between her mostly grown children and her aging parents, as she faces the wonders of her own body advancing in years. Rocky and her whole tribe are vividly drawn, imperfect and relatable. As I devoured this book in a single day, I laughed. Frequently. I guffawed at many of Newmanโs oh, so realistic and insightful depictions of menopause and of family dynamics. I cried. Several times. And I promised myself I will reread Newmanโs novel in very short order after it is published on June 18, 2024.
Highly recommended! Especially to โwomen of a certain ageโ and those who love them. Extra credit to the publisher for the just right cover.
Many thanks to NetGalley and to Harper for the privilege of a complimentary ARC. Opinions are my own.