Logan and Rosemary used to be best friends until something happened. Now they both work as teachers at their local high school. They met Joe Delgado in 9th grade he was their mentor and surrogate father. Joe is dying of Pancreatic cancer and wants to die in Maine. He requests that both girls drive him there.

Logan is hilarious and broken. She had me laughing all throughout the book. This book is filled with so much heart and love. I laughed and bawled. Such good insights about love and life. Joe and Odie are my favorite characters. 😭

🌼 LGBTQia
🌺 Second chance Romance
🌸 Enemies to Lovers
💔 Cancer/Death

Here We Go Again was a special book for me. Thank you @netgalley for this ebook ARC.

By all accounts it should be a sad book, and it was certainly bittersweet, but mostly it was about love in its purest forms: childhood loves, mentor loves, found and chosen family, and long-term loves. It's a lovely cousin to The Guncle, if that touched your heart.

My two main comments are about neurodivergent representation and grief/loss, two of my favorite storytelling angles.

Blessedly, this book presented multiple sides of ADHD symptoms for different people, was honest about mental health and its sidecars, and let Logan and Rosie grow in their own lanes before together. So often we see neurodivergent queer characters parentify their relationship or cast aside their symptoms for the sake of love and this was a notably mature novel in that it accepts the symptoms and supports the person who has them without judgement.

I also love love love a beautiful novel about grief and living, and Alison Cochran nailed the complexity of dying and living with agency, joy, dignity care, owning your choices, and a tribe of found family members navigating it all together for the first time.

I wish I could read it for the first time again. But now, for a good cry and a great sunset. Thank you, @alisoncochrun from this queer kid who hid in her English teacher's room for lunch, too.

This was such a fun read! I read it in two days. I think it was a really unique and profound approach to the second-chance romance trope, and a road trip setting always keeps things interesting and moving along at a good pace. I could have done without the "Hayley fucking Kiyoko!" recurring joke, and each MC representing a different side of the ADHD-in-women-coin felt heavy handed at times, but the characters were well developed and, by the end, likeable. The descriptions of their time in ?Mississippi? with Joe's second chance (whose name I cannot remember now) were very dreamy and were one of the highlights of the book for me.

What an absolutely delightful read. In reading Logan and Rosemary's story, I reflected deeply about end of life care and our responsibility to those we love. In addition to laughing out loud with glee and pausing with reflection, I'm also endlessly grateful for Cochrun's exploration of the way that ADHD can manifest differently. The familiarity of Rosemary's experience with ADHD prompted me to finally get my ADHD diagnosed in my late 30s.

I'm smiling as I type and highly recommend this read!

Thank you to Atria Books | Simon & Schuster for sharing an ARC.

Thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for the ARC of this!

This was a fun, bittersweet, second-chance, road-trip romance. The story of two women helping their former teacher take one last road-trip didn't shy away from the realities of dying.

Well, no one writes messy realistic feelings like Alison Cochrun. Two high school frenemies set off on am ill-advised road trip with their beloved high school English teacher, whose dying wish is for them to take him to Bar Harbor, Maine, so he can die in peace on his own terms. It’s funny and sad, poignant and looks death, queer identify, and other topics straight-on. Would recommend!

This was so heartbreakingly beautiful! Definitely a tear jerker with a ton of heart! The romance was excellent but I loved the relationship between the two main characters and Joe so much! Please check CWs, but as always, Alison Cochrun writes some of the best emotional romances!

“Life is the prickly pear. It’s always going to be a combination of beauty and hurt, no matter how hard you try to protect yourself from the hard parts. There is no way to avoid pain.”

Wow! This it going to be one of my top reads of 2024, but warning do not read this one in public. This book is simply incredible and incredibly emotional! It was funny and witty, charming and insightful, and it had just enough steam and lust.

First, the character growth in this book is exceptional. Logan never takes anything seriously, and Rosemary takes everything too seriously. I can totally relate to Rosemary by the way! However, both are working to avoid the same things – hurt, love, loss and pain. Their approach is just different. I loved reading both their self-discovery and the way they helped each other to realize this, change and grow.

Then, you have the Joe, their teacher, mentor, friend and found family. His death trip is inspiring, and I hope to be this brave if faced with the same life path. He was committed to not only helping people but also making things right in his own life in the time he had left. He lived his last few months with no regrets. If only we could do that throughout our lives and not wait until the very end.

Lastly, and this is not a spoiler as we know Joe is dying, the end is perfection. I sat by my dad as he took his last few breaths. The final 2.5 weeks with him were hard. We laughed and cried and loved. The author admits in her notes she has not experienced first-hand death, but in my experience, she got it exactly right. I must admit there were ugly sobs at this part. If you love someone deeply, you hurt deeply when they die. It truly is an honor to be there for someone at the end. This book has all the feels and will stay with me for a lifetime.

Thank you to @atriabooks and @netgalley for the e-ARC in exchange for an honest review

Thank you Netgalley for the free arc in exchange for an honest review.

ALISON COCHRUN HOW DARE YOU MAKE ME LAUGH AND CRY SO MUCH IN ONE BOOK.

I knew I was in safe hands in regard to the romance from Cochrun's previous books and the comedy came on quick with the first two chapters being set in an Applebee's while our main characters are dumped and fired respectfully, but the heart and tears I did not expect. I knew Cochrun could handle heavier topics but I believe this book, while technically a romance, is so much more than just a romance. Many romance books handle heavier topics and have genuine plot in conjunction with the romance, but Here We Go Again truly felt like I was reading literary fiction with this beautiful story of a dying man's last wish. The details related to growing old as a queer man and celebrating the fact that they survived against all odds from homophobia to the AIDS epidemic to be able to grow old.

Besides the plot, I also did love our main characters Rosemary and Logan. They also are quite complex with many of their own issues that they must work out before they are able to have their happy ever after. I loved them together and all of their issues felt like real issues as opposed to some romances where it feels like any tension is completely arbitrary and does not actually matter. They are dealing with abandonment issues, substance use disorder, and accompanying their English teacher, who is like a parent to them, on a road trip he will 100% be dying on, just to name a few. They were messy and chaotic but so in love and helping each other heal. It was beautiful,

This book was great, and I cannot wait to see what Alison Cochrun puts out next,

Thanks to Atria Books for my copy of Here We Go Again by Alison Cochrun.

Two childhood friends turned high school enemies are now in their 30s and both teaching English in the small town they grew up in. When their beloved former English teacher and mentor shares that he only has a few months to live, Logan and Rosemary decide to fulfill his last wish of a cross-country road trip.

I found the characters very immature and while a cute premise it seems a little too fat fetched.

Thank you to Atria Books and NetGalley for an advanced e-copy of this book in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

I enjoyed the second half of this story far and above the beginning of it. Joe as a former teacher of two students is…crossing some lines in terms of interaction and what he asks of two female students. Sexuality notwithstanding (it felt like the things he said and did were only permissible because he was gay and they were lesbians) I kept feeling uncomfortable about the dependent relationship forced on these characters due to circumstance and a feeling of obligation. Logan is chaotic and purposefully mean to/pushes Rosemary’s buttons even though they’re on an important journey helping someone they both supposedly love and it would behoove her to at least act like an adult. She also constantly compares Rosemary’s facial expressions/the shape of her mouth to a cat’s butt….even when she eventually comes around to wanting to kiss her, and that felt gross.

(Also I was virtually begging for the “celebrity-first-name F-word celebrity-last-name” swearing convention to stop. The story literally needed perhaps two of these mentions to make a humorous impact and with a quick search in my digital copy, this gag happened 26 TIMES. It quickly became less funny and more exhausting.)

But the second half was full of beautiful portraits of love, acceptance, and what it means to know what you want towards the end of your life. The secondary characters the second half of the book introduced were some of my favorites of the entire story, and I did in fact ugly cry. In the end, Cochrun’s “The Charm Offensive” still gets my vote for favorite romance she’s written, but the second half of this story did redeem some of it’s off-balance start.

HERE WE GO AGAIN, Alison Cochrun’s latest, ended up winning (thank you @atriabooks for my copy!). I devoured it last night + woke up early to finish it — the true sign of a good book! Although I mentioned I was looking for a fluffy romance, this novel is admittedly not that.

Logan and Rosemary are childhood best friends turned enemies, a relationship made even more fraught by the fact that they teach at the same school. As the school year draws to a close, they’re both summoned by Joe, their beloved former teacher who has been battling cancer with a plea: he wants the two of them to team up to drive him across the country to Maine, where he wants to live out his final days. Although the idea seems ridiculous, they eventually agree to it. Tightly-wound Rosemary preps a detailed itinerary and packs her collection of heels, while impulsive Logan teams up with Joe to convince Rosemary to take detours that threaten her perfectly laid plans. As the trio journey the country, Rosemary and Logan unexpectedly find themselves falling for one another.

In case you couldn’t tell by the fact that I finished this in less than 24 hours, I really enjoyed this! It’s definitely not the lighthearted romance I was envisioning, it was a deeply felt look at grief, love, and forgiveness. While the themes are heavy, the book never feels sad, largely because the road trip set-up leads to some fun gags. And while this is a romance (and a sweet one at that!), the standout storyline of the novel is Joe. He’s far and away the most likable character and without spoiling anything, his entire character arc forms the true emotional core of the book.

I don’t think this one will top THE CHARM OFFENSIVE for me (what can I say? I love a Bachelor moment), but it’s a close second. The pop culture references verged on excessive and some of the conflict between the leads felt repetitive, but otherwise, a true standout. Put on some Van Morrison while reading (promise it’ll make sense!).

This was fine! I appreciate how Cochrun showcased how queerness and ADHD can look different depending on the person. I resented the hate Santa Fe got. I didn't feel a ton of chemistry between the main characters and overall I was more invested in the mystery relationship between two old dudes. Still cried.

i found parts of this to be really frustrating to read- the way the two main characters swear was irritating and brought me out of the story a lot. liked the characters and plot but the swearing was annoying

Alison Cochrun’s newest, Here We Go Again, is perfect for fans of The Guncle and Count Your Lucky Stars. The novel follows ex-childhood best friends, Rosemary Hale, and Logan Maletis, as they take their beloved former English teacher to Maine as his dying wish. Here We Go Again is full of humor, heart, Queer joy and coming to terms with changes and loss. As Joe’s condition worsens, and the road trip progresses, Logan and Rosemary are forced to lean on each other and revisit their past.

“Because life is a prickly pear,” she tries. “It’s always going to be beautiful and painful.”

As much as I enjoyed the romance between Rosemary and Logan, the part that I will remember most is the love Joe feels for them. Such a special bond 🥹😭 He doesn’t have children of his own and treats them like daughters. Joe uses his signature humor and sass during the road trip to teach them lessons about love, pursuing their dreams and acceptance of each other and themselves. I loved him so much.

Going back through my kindle highlights to write this review reminded me of all the witty banter and one liners ⬇️

“You girls want some Tuesdays with Morrie advice?” Joe says when they’re all back in the car. “Here it is. Take more nudes while you’re young.”

“Is this hell?” he eventually asks. “No, this is Connecticut.”

But also this:
“Watching the two of you grow up was the coolest shit I witnessed in this life.” 😭🥹

I’ve read and enjoyed all of Alison Cochrun’s books but this is by far my favorite. Here We Go Again is simultaneously heartwarming and heartbreaking, full of humor and loss, endings, and new beginnings. It made me cry but it also made me smile; a truly memorable book.

What to expect:
✍️Beautiful writing
🌈second chance, Sapphic romance
🧲Opposites attract
🚌An emotional road trip
🧠ADHD rep X2
❤️lessons on love & loss

Thank you so much for Atria Books for allowing me to read this book ahead of its release.

Here We Go Again is an emotional road trip novel as well as a layered friends-to-lovers/second chance romance. I would argue that it's more of a novel of grief, learning to be an adult, and other heavy elements than a romance. Although it is tinged with hilarity throughout, Here We Go Again didn't read as a "rom-com" to me.

I found this book very difficult to read because I was prepared for a romantic comedy with emotional elements, not the other way around. Alison Cochrun's writing is full of sharp insights into the humanity of her characters and the style is highly readable. The characters read as real people, not cardboard cut outs or cliches, and are imperfect as all real people are. I appreciated the ADHD representation and how Maletis's ADHD is at first blush the thing that makes her a mess, but is in fact the thing that makes her interesting, sensitive, and creative.

I think this book would appeal to many, but I was unable to pull myself out of the sadness of the heart-wrenching moments to enjoy the sweeter romantic scenes.

I wanted to like this book SO much but it just didn't hit. I've read some of Cochrun's previous works and though haven't shouted from the roof about them, have enjoyed my time reading them. That was not the case with this one sadly. I felt that neither of the main characters were mature enough to feature in a plot embroiled with so much death and grief (please Heed trigger warnings!). The whole "enemies" arc was also not handled well enough imo. It felt like they were enemies for the sake of it than anything else. Overall, not the best romance out there but also not the worst, so some wins there.

Loved this book so much! The characters were so well developed and the story felt original. No notes, just enjoyed the entire read!

This book was overwhelmingly sad and that was really hard to get past. I found a lot of the characters to be very selfish and immature and no one really liked each other. I felt little chemistry between Rosemary and Logan.

Thank you @simon.audio for my gifted ALC.

Alison Cochrun has done it again! Here We Go Again did not disappoint. This is a love story, but also a story about grief and healing. The characters embark on a road trip with their beloved high school English teacher as his dying wish, so be prepared to shed a few tears along the way. It has great ADHD representation, just a dash of spice, and a lot of heart.