This was delightful! I didn’t love it as much as the first book, partly because the storyline with the parents in the first book really added something to it for me, but it was an absolutely satisfying follow up. I picked it up the day I finished season three of Bridgerton and it was exactly what I wanted after that.

I will say, when we got to the third act conflict, Bobby kind of annoyed me, like he should understand why James is so worried about his stepfather/other people finding out about them. And yes after his knee jerk reaction he does acknowledge that of course James has reasons for not wanting to be open about the relationship, but the fact that he takes it as being there something wrong with himself, like..I get it, but this is a character trait that I always find very frustrating. And the way he just assumes that this means James doesn’t care about him, like how about you at least ASK him first. (Obviously this is a romance novel, and even if it wasn't, talking about those kinds of things is always agonizing, but still.)

I like that the main conflict is external at the end though; that they face it together rather than letting it tear them apart and that the conflict is actually pretty mild and easily resolved. And the confession scene had me 😭🥹.

Thank you to Avon and NetGalley for the digital ARC, I’m SO glad I didn’t have to wait until August to read it!!!

I read Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend and I was so excited to learn that the story would be continued! I had such high expectations for the sequel and it checked every box. It's just as good if not better than the first. I loved the characters, the new and the old. I loved the story, the world building and the plot. I felt completely immersed in the story and couldn't stop reading it.

A delightful queer Victorian romance! The first half of the story develops Bobby and James' fraught tension but undeniable attraction, picking up momentum in the second half as they both face a common enemy and come to terms with their feelings for each other and what a happily ever after can even look like for them. While the romance is fun, my favorite part of this book is the found family element and James' arc in realizing there is space for him in the world and people who will embrace him for who he is. There is never enough queer, uplifting historical romance, and I had a wonderful time with this book.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Thank you to Netgalley, Avon and Harper Voyager, and Emma R. Alban for the chance to read this book in exchange for my honest opinion.

I LOVED the first book in this duology, Don't Want You Like A Best Friend and was sooo looking forward to reading You're The Problem, It's You- I was NOT let down.

Book two has higher stakes than book one, so that does evolve the vibe of the series a bit. But that's a good thing. No two experiences are alike and both couples have different layers of history and support.

This book has the perfect balance of angst and banter PLUS understandable miscommunication. It was a lovely continuation of Don't Want You Like A Best Friend with the coziest HEA for all.

Bobby and James had me giggling and kicking my feet. Lord & Lady Havenfort brought me to emotional tears. Lord Raverson made my skin crawl- but that was the point.

Thanks to Avon & Netgalley for this eARC (my first -- thanks for making this a Read Now)! I absolutely adored the author's first outing, Don't Want You Like a Best Friend, and was very excited to get to read the second!

Ultimately, this was a 3.5-ish. A lot of the book was pretty cute, but after the absolute delight of the first book I was underwhelmed.

I want to note that this book is less enemies-to-lovers (which might be the most watered-down trope in existence right now) and more... I don't know, vague dislike because of miscommunication to lovers? Whether the miscommunication is annoying is going to very much depend on your stomach for that kind of thing. Personally, I didn't mind it so much -- the miscommunication makes sense for the characters (particularly James; his perspective, fears, anxiety, and trauma was portrayed very strongly and it makes perfect sense for his character) and just misunderstanding each others' complicated situations, as opposed to the thing I hate, which is 'if this one tiny thing could be cleared up...' So that worked for me.

The main 'antagonist' of the book is almost a non-presence. The characters think about him, but he vanishes for large portions of the book and it made me wonder if the author had just sort of forgotten about it. Honestly, I'm not entirely sure the book really needed that part -- it sort of exists and then fizzles out and doesn't have much impact on anything. I was also disappointed with the relative lack of Beth and Gwen. The promise of their 'meddling' also barely comes to anything, which was disappointing.

Final thoughts: A cute, queer romance, that could have been amazing but was bogged down by some clumsy plotting and extraneous subplots.

While I absolutely loved the first one, this one took the reins. I’m still very new to regency type stuff but this was fabulous. I was crying, laughing and cheering the entire time. This is really precious.

This was one of my most anticipated books of the year, and it did not disappoint! I was absolutely thrilled to be back in the Mischief and Matchmaking universe! While Beth and Gwen will always have a special place in my heart, it was impossible not to love James and Bobby just as much. For starters, I loved the alternating points of view. Both James and Bobby had so much inner turmoil, and it was so important to see what was going on in their heads in order to fully understand them. And it was so fun to see what they were saying to each other versus what they were thinking about each other. James and Bobby truly had such amazing chemistry. However, the switch from hate to love felt a little abrupt to me. But overall I absolutely loved the two of them together. Of course, I also loved James and Bobby as individuals. They each had their own character development as they learn to make their own paths in life, and they both became the better for it. Overall this book meet all my expectations and more, and I highly recommend it!

This was such a lovely extension of Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend, which I simply adore. I loved getting to know James and Bobby more and seeing their love story blossom. Alban does a beautiful job of building tension and chemistry and you can’t help but fall head over heels for these characters from the very beginning. I was positively giddy getting to reunite with Beth and Gwen and continue witnessing their matchmaking endeavors, and their scheming brought lightness to more serious moments.

James and Bobby’s story was so lovely and tender, and their moments of intimacy were so open and vulnerable that it left me teary and quite moved. I loved watching the trust build and communication strengthen between them and seeing their growth as individuals as they found their voices and used their positions in society to build a more loving world where they could help others and live as their true selves.

For anyone chasing the Bridgerton high or who is looking historical romance filled with queer joy, you need to pick up these books. The Mischief & Matchmaking series has been such a delight to read and I cannot wait to dive into what Alban dreams up next!

You're the Problem, It's You by Emma R. Alban was such an enjoyable read. There is such good angst and banter in this book, I couldn't put it down. I definitely think this book was just as good as Alban's first book and I cannot wait to read more from her.

Thank you author, publisher, and NetGalley for providing me with an eARC of this book!!

I was super hyped to read this after I read Don't Want You Like a Best Friend... maybe even a little too hyped. I did feel like it dragged at the beginning but THE ANGST! THE BANTER! Absolutely yes.

I’m thinking I just preferred the lesbians lol who could’ve seen that one coming.

‘You’re The Problem, It’s You’ was such an enjoyable read. It was great to return to the world of Mischief & Matchmaking. I loved watching the growth of the two MCs. It was great to see a story set in Victorian England capture the sweetness of queer joy while also keeping in perspective the differing societal expectations for the time period. I loved this book as a follow up to ‘Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend’ and seeing the happy ending for all four of the characters we have closely followed.

My distaste for historical fiction with modern-reference titles notwithstanding (it's a romance titling trend I would love to see go away), this is an enjoyable book. Alban does a very good job of showing us <i>exactly</i> why James and Bobby are the way they are, and the finale carries over the romance from the first book in the series, <i>Don't Want You Like a Best Friend</i>, in a satisfying manner, resolving everything in one very nice swoop. My two chief issues are the occasional use of anachronistic language ("hot" meaning "sexually attractive" didn't enter the vernacular until the 1880s and the book is set in 1858, for example) and the very slow pace. Although it is arguably important to establishing James and Bobby as characters, it really drags, to the detriment of the plot; it probably could have been half the length and still been a very good book. But on the whole this is a decent read, and I'll certainly check out more of Alban's books when she writes them.

I really enjoyed this enemies-to-lovers story. I’m not always a fan of the slow burn, but this was well done.

I loved that James and Bobby had the support of their friends and loved ones immediately, no question, and the found family/blended family/extended family home they were able to create as a safe haven for themselves was a perfect ending.

Thank you to Avon and Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book early in exchange for an honest review.

You're the Problem, It's You follows a season on from where Don't Want You Like A Best Friend left off, but with James and Bobby, cousins of Gwen and Beth, who seem to hate each other.

I really enjoyed the dynamics between James as Bobby as well as with all the other characters, and how accepting their families and friends were. I'm a sucker for a found family dynamic and this fully delivered. I'm not sure I entirely bought that and why James and Bobby disliked each other so much at the start, but I had a great time reading it nonetheless.

Overall, this was an enjoyable read and I can't wait to read it again when it officially comes out.

I’m not going to lie, I didn’t like James for the first 50%. I just didn’t understand his actions. The backstory we were given didn’t feel like enough to explain his decisions. As he grew into his own I liked him better.

The antagonist was done really well. I absolutely hated him.

I’m generally nervous to read regency queer romance because based on the time period you know it’s going to be difficult for the MCs to have a HEA. It gives me that 3rd act break up nervousness. Despite the characters not being able to be their true selves in the eyes of the ton, they did get their HEA.

‘You’re the Problem, It’s You’ is a dual POV, slow burn enemies to lovers romance set in the recency era, similar of that to ‘Bridgerton’.
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I really enjoyed the chemistry not only between Bobby and James, but between the entire cast do characters. They all intermingle so well and really support and uplift each other in a unique way. The queer experiences displayed in both this book and its predecessor feel so authentic to real life, while still maintaining the stakes of being queer during this time period. I love how supportive all of their family members have been throughout both novels. They have no judgements towards Bobby, James, Beth or Gwen, but still convey the imperative actions that they all must take to remain safe. The epilogue gave me everything I could have asked for from this adorable duology!

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for this ARC - here is my honest review:

This was a very cute story! This is the second in the Mischief and Matchmaking series - queer romantic comedies based in the Victorian era with Taylor Swift lyrics as book titles. The first is called "Don't Want You Like a Best Friend" and follows the love story of Gwen and Beth. "You're the Problem, It's You" follows their cousins, Bobby and James, through their misadventures and love.

Bobby is the charismatic second son of a wealthy and important family rehabbing their image after their drunken and hurtful father passed. He wishes he could do more than just escort his cousins and attend parties to help his older brother, but he is limited by his birth order. On the other hand, anxiety-riddled James has just inherited the title, lands, and money of a viscount from his uncle and has had parliament, the running of a household, and the prospect of finding a wife and heir thrust upon him. However, James doesn't want a wife - he's had an unrequited crush on Bobby since they were in school at Oxford together, when Bobby didn't even notice him. Plus, James is bullied and berated by his stepfather into letting him run the finances and decisions for the family while making James believe he will never be good enough at anything. These two are thrust together during the social season in London, and Bobby is asked by his cousins to try and show James the ropes and introduce him to folks. Unfortunately, what could be a great friendship is quickly turned to sniping and rivalry by misunderstandings and miscommunications. Over time, Bobby and James see who the other truly are and feelings bloom, that is until the two of them get blackmailed by a former lover of them both. Will they be able to help their families, get out of trouble, and fall in love in the process? Is that even possible in Victorian England where they can both be sent to jail if anyone finds out that they are gay? Read on!

I really enjoyed both Bobby and James' characters and the growth you see them have over the course of the book. Their good traits became great and their flaws became things that they could help each other with. The real beauty of this book, and, apparently, this series, is the family the two have and create. That is one of the best parts of being a member of the LGBTQ+ community - we get to build our families and communities and take care of each other. This is very evident in this story, and it is very heartwarming. The joy of these two characters when they align is really a lovely thing to behold, and the ending was one I was shouting at them about from about chapter five. I also appreciated the differences and complications pointed out between the partnership of the ladies and the gentlemen. Gwen and Beth have some protection of their love - Bobby and James do not. Of course, if the ladies' relationship is found out, there will be a scandal, but if the gentlemen's is, they are both going to be in jail along with a scandal. While the men have more freedom in Victorian society, they also can't hide their love as much with the expectations of marriage and heirs, particularly for James. I appreciated the author pointing this out and raising the stakes of the history at the time.

I will say that my one critique was with Beth and Gwen. I haven't read the first book yet, and I intend to while hoping to maybe see if my critique in this one changes post-debut. I like the fact that we get to see them figure out what their happily ever after will look like after their novel, and their relationships with others, including Bobby and James, were really lovely. However, in order to create drama between the two through the book, they were fighting, sniping, and having a lot of miscommunication throughout. It was a little obnoxious, and I don't know that I'll enjoy a whole a book of it. Also, since James and Bobby had a little bit of a "enemies" (using that loosely) to lovers trope, it felt unnecessary and created moments where everybody was grumpy (characters and me). I'm hoping that reading the first book will change my opinion here, but, even if it doesn't, Bobby and James' story is lovely, and you don't need to read the first one to understand and enjoy theirs.

Overall, this was a great little love story to read to kick off Pride Month, and I hope you check out "You're the Problem, It's You" when it comes out in August of this year!

(Goodreads and Storygraph review posted & Instagram story teaser. Full blog and Instagram post coming closer to publication)

Such a treat from NetGalley and Harper Collins to have this book available as read now for pride month!! As with “Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend”, I was kicking my feet and giggling the whole time and quite literally slapping my hand over my mouth with the drama! I absolutely adored this book and this duology! I loved seeing the lives of the characters in both books entangle together and seeing all the queer joy! Truly cannot recommend these books enough!

going into this, the cutesy cover combined with the playfulness i remember loving from don't want you like a best friend had me anticipating more lighthearted fun. thus, it took me a bit off guard that nearly the entire first half felt so overwhelmed with distress, the stakes so much higher. it could be that i am simply misremembering alban’s debut, and it's not necessarily a knock on this one either that it took me a little while to get into. that is to say — it wasn't the book; it was me. i only put such emphasis on my difficulty in the beginning to overstate how much i deeply enjoyed the second half. it had everything i'd been looking for — the fluffy romance, the found family, the pure joy, the scheming! it was golden.

"You're the Problem, It's You" was exactly what I was looking for in a regency romance novel. I was craving something after watching Brigerton and this fit the bill perfectly. I loved the first book in the series "Don't Want You Like a Best Friend" and its sequel did not disappoint.
 
I loved that this story threw you and as the reader you immediately get to see James and Bobby thrown together (by scheming from their cousins and also just due to peer social trajectory). We get to meet Bobby who is trying his best to just be there for his family, while also feeling the keen pressure of his brother being the 1st born son, and James sliding into a title and having to learn how to manage all that comes with it. 

Watching these two but heads and gripe at each other was super entertaining and made them coming together so much sweeter. The character development and self-acceptance we get it *chef's kiss.*

I highly recommend you pick up this book if you love bridgerton and wanted it to celebrate queer love. This book is full of character supporting each other and celebrates us making our own families where acceptance is the norm. Thank you to the publisher for providing an advance copy via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

4.5/5 stars rounded up :)