I love angry boy kissing!!!!!!! While I preferred the first book in the series, this one was still very good. I was invested immediately and couldn’t put it down. We need more queer historical romances.

Thank you to Avon Books for the eARC.

I have to admit, I didn’t adore this one as much as I did its predecessor Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend. So much of the story was basically a long miscommunication that could have easily been prevented had any of the characters just talked?? But of course, it’s Victorian England—we don’t discuss our problems!

I did love Bobby though. Supportive and loving of his family, he even gives James too many second chances (IMO). I enjoyed their relationship, watching it evolve, but I did really want a little more grovel and apologies than I received.

What I really appreciate about this series is the realism. Not the dialogue or banter, because a lot of that feels modernized, but the societal pressures they all have to deal with. The fact that multiple characters feel like they have to hide their true selves just to survive (literally at times in Bobby’s and James’ cases). I adored the ending and their workaround.

Overall, this was a fun and cute story but I didn’t feel hooked like I did with the first.

REVIEW: You're the Problem, It's You

You're the Problem, It's You by Emma R. Alban is a delightful and heartwarming follow-up to Don't Want You Like a Best Friend. This enemies-to-lovers romance continues the story of Bobby Mason and James Demeroven, two men drawn together by their mutual dislike and a shared mission.

Alban's writing is witty and engaging, and the characters are incredibly well-developed. Bobby and James's banter is hilarious and endearing, and their growing attraction is palpable. The author expertly balances the tension between their hatred and undeniable chemistry, creating a captivating and emotionally resonant story.

In addition to the romantic elements, the novel explores friendship, family, and social change themes. The Victorian England setting adds a layer of historical richness and intrigue. The author's portrayal of queer love in a time of prejudice and discrimination is both poignant and hopeful.

Overall, You're the Problem, It's You is a fantastic addition to the Mischief & Matchmaking series. It's a heartwarming, funny, and thought-provoking read that will leave you wanting more.

Thank you, Netgalley, Avon, and Harper Voyager | Avon, for the free advanced copy for my honest review!

You're the Problem, It's You by Emma R. Alban is a sharp and insightful exploration of self-discovery, personal growth, and the complexities of relationships. From my perspective, Alban’s writing is both candid and engaging, drawing readers into the protagonist's journey as she confronts her own shortcomings and learns to navigate the challenges of love and life. The character development is particularly strong, making the protagonist’s evolution feel authentic and relatable.

I appreciated how the narrative tackles themes of accountability and the importance of self-reflection in relationships. Alban’s humor adds a delightful layer to the story, balancing the more serious moments with wit and charm. The pacing is well-executed, with a nice rhythm that keeps the story moving while allowing for meaningful insights.

Overall, You're the Problem, It's You is a thought-provoking and entertaining read that resonated with me on multiple levels. It’s a fantastic choice for readers who enjoy contemporary romance with a focus on personal growth and the complexities of modern relationships. Alban's ability to blend humor with genuine emotional depth makes this book a compelling and enjoyable experience.

This book was fun, even if it really does not feel like the historical setting and language are accurate. If you can look past this (or if you do not really care about these things), then this book is a lighthearted romance. Personally, I really enjoy Victorian-era books and do not mind looking past the specific details so I can just enjoy the vibes. 

While I really did not feel the chemistry between James and Bobby, it was still an enjoyable read. I found the “found family” trope to be much more appealing. I also stayed reading for the character growth, which was well done. Ultimately, if you enjoyed the first book in the series then you’ll probably enjoy this one too. I actually enjoyed You're the Problem, It's You a bit more than the first book.

3.5 stars

This was a sweet queer romance set during the Victorian era. Overall, I did enjoy it, though it got off to a bit of a slow start, partially due to some miscommunication between the two main characters. Bobby and James aren't exactly the biggest fans of each other at the moment, but the more they find themselves in each other's presence, the more they realize that they have more in common than not. The tension was high between them, and I loved it whenever their control would snap.

About halfway through, things began to pick up, and despite the fact that they came to a conclusion in the end that I figured out very early on, it still made for a perfect ending. I enjoyed the found/chosen family within the larger family that developed to support and protect each other.

I really did love Gwen and Beth as side characters. They were actually probably my favorite characters in the book. Even though I read this book without reading book 1, there weren't any issues keeping up with the story. If anything, it has me curious to go back and read the first book with Gwen and Beth's journey.

Thank you so much to Netgalley and Avon for the advance reader copy!

I wish I would have read book one before this, but it ended up being fine. The book gave Bridgerton and I read it when I so badly wanted to have new episodes of said show to entertain me. I plan on going back and reading the first book so that is a good sign. It wasn't my favorite read as of late, but it was a solid read. Historical fiction is one of those things you have to look at lightly. Was it 100% accurate, probably not, but it's fiction. Go into it with an open mind and you will be fine.

I read this second book without reading the first in the series and had no problem following along even though the characters from the first book are heavily involved in the plot. It has a lot of subplots, and while they help show character growth they also pull my interest away from the main characters and their love story at times. The actions of an ex-lover are tiresome, and the solutions to this and other conflicts are predictable.

Don't Want You Like a Best Friend was one of my favorite romance reads of the year so I was excited when I saw another book was coming so soon. Sadly I would not say I liked this one as much. I wish it had just been a direct sequel so we could have spent more time with Beth/Gwen and their parents. James and Bobby just were never as interesting as the girls. I felt mostly bored throughout this. The miscommunication was just too overused and for two people getting blackmailed they really couldn't stop getting caught.

I wanted more of the lavender marriage aspect, I kept waiting and waiting for it to come into play. It just felt so slow.

I was truly excited for this book, especially after completing Don't Want You Like a Best Friend. But unfortunately, it fell a bit short for me. It felt as though part of the main plot was miscommunication, and that is something that was bothering me while reading. While the ending did redeem it and make it worth the time it took to read, there were moments where I almost DNF'd it. All of this to say that I would still recommend this book, and am very much looking forward to more books by Alban! This author just has such a way with words and an ability to make lovable characters that I had to finish reading.

A deliciously tense enemies-to-lovers tale between a lord and a viscount that leaves readers craving more of the meddling cousins and witty banter.

For fans of "Bridgerton" who've always wished it were gayer, this book is the perfect read to tide you over until the next season.

Emma R. Alban delivers a captivating sequel for romance and historical fiction enthusiasts, striking the perfect balance between wit and passion.

RATING: ⭐️⭐️⭐️

I wanted to love this one so much! I adored the first book in this series, but I felt like in this one I spent equal time both rooting for and wanting to yell at the main characters.

Bobby and James had my attention from the start, because James is a whole mess and Bobby is the sweetest cinnamon roll ever. These two were enemies from the word go and could not stop fighting with each other until they realized they wanted each other.

I can forgive a certain amount of miscommunication in a Victorian Era book, but this one was stressing me out.

I did enjoy the writing g style which I loved from book one, I loved seeing the found family vibes, and this book scratched my Bridgerton itch, but I didn’t love it in the way that I hoped I would.

A truly delightful romance novel that made me, at times, laugh out loud and also tear up.

I feel like the author struck such a wonderful balance between the fear and anxiety of being exposed that queer people of the era would have felt combined with a fictional happy ever after that was gorgeous to see.

Don’t read this if you’re after fastidiously accurate historical fiction. Do read this if you want lovely characters, caring relationships, and a delicious enemies to lovers storyline.

Huge thanks to Avon for this ARC!

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this series!! I loved the first one and I read it twice in a row and I fear I’ll be doing the same with this one. Bobby and Hames are my babies and I will do anything to protect them <3

This is the second book in a series (maybe?) by Emma R. Alban. I did not realize that when I started reading it. I have not read the first book (Don't Want You Like A Best Friend) yet - though oddly enough, it is on my TBR. I guess that's moving up on my list now!
I really liked the setting and the premise. I'm honestly not usually a HUGE fan of historical romances, but this one caught my eye as it was a MM romance, and there just aren't a lot of those out. I thought the intimacy and relationship growth was decent and the spicy stuff was suitably spicy.

4.5 ★
"You're the Problem, It's You" is a super cute queer historical romance with a incredible found family.

The plot follows Bobby Mason and James Demeroven. Two messy and flawed characters, with a lot of heart and good intentions. Their relationship begins as rivalry, but a common enemy makes them realize they have more in common than they imagined.

The characters are the stronger point of this book. Everyone has a distict personality, and motivations. Gwen and Beth are incredible as side characters. All the family dynamics are fun and compelling.
I loved how the story emphasize the importance to have an accepting family to support you (even if you are not your blood family).

That being said, the idea that there was something at stake was more due to the social context and the time period than to the villain, who ends up being quite forgettable and boring.

Overall, a very enjoyable read with wonderful characters. The ending is really rewarding which makes up for the slow start and the overuse of misscommunication trope of the first half.
It might not be for everyone, but if you love found family, historical romance and low stakes, this book is perfcet for you.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for providing a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest revie

I absolutely loved the first book in this series so I couldn’t wait to read this one (and hoped my prediction coming true!).
Hate to love is a fan favourite and this one delivered!
James is so awkward and stressed, I fell for him immediately because he was so relatable. Constantly saying the worst things with the best intentions, trying to fix their whole families problems on his own while being completely overwhelmed. I loved him.
I also loved Bobby, such a sweetheart who just wants to be loved and have a happy life with the people he loves most.
I was so glad when it finally clicked between those two and everything that came after was so sweet (and frankly also very steamy!!)!
It was the most perfect ending and I loved how super queer this book was. I was kicking my feet, giggling!
The only thing I really minded and is just a pet peeve of my own: I don’t like reading about the MCs in a romance book being with other people. Please just don’t tell me? It took so long for these two to get it together anyway and at this point I really wanted to scream. But it all went well right after so I was soothed.

I wanted to love this one so bad! But at least the cover is stunning.

A few thoughts I had while reading this book:
- boring
- wayyyyy too slow
- is there actually going to be a romance or...?
- am i supposed to like both of these men? because I don't
- are you sure this is a romance? did you pick up the wrong book?


Needless to say, this book wasn't for me. It appears I may be in the minority here, but that's okay. I'll take the L on this one.

I loved Bobby and James! I did find myself lost at times with the characters since I hadn't read the first in the duology, but I enjoyed it anyways!

I love the found family trope, so I loved seeing James be accepted and getting away from his stepfather. I haven't read a lot of queer historical romances before, so the idea of clubs and lavender marriages was very new to me. The only thing I didn't enjoy was the constant miscommunication, other than that I loved this!

I had so much fun reading the first book in this duology and this companion novel did not disappoint! Emma R. Alban did a wonderful job incorporating the time period and being realistic in terms of how the standards of that time impacted the relationship but also the individual. The joyous ending was so wonderful and I wanted to revel in it forever!