First of all thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for sending me an advance copy in exchange for a fair and honest review.

You Should be So Lucky by Cat Sebastian might be my favorite read of this year. I can't describe how long it has been since a book made me laugh and cry and left me feeling comfortable and happy and loved.

Eddie the baseball player who goofed it big on television finding out he's been traded to a mess of a team. Mark Bailey who is lost in grief for past lover, find comfort and meaning in one another. The book reminded me that life is short and love is what makes it feel full no matter how short.

Cat Sebastian has an incredible way of telling historical queer stories that do not flinch away from the reality of the era they are set, while being increadibly hopeful. In the world we live in I will always look for these stories. Like Mark and Eddie with The Haunting of Hill House, I look at these people on a page and know I'm not alone.

5 stars

No one writes queer pining like Cat Sebastian. I absolutely loved We Could Be So Good so was excited to read this one and it did not disappoint!! The characters are so lovable and complex and just feel like real people. The historic aspect adds depth and conflict without crossing over into Sad Gay Love Story. I liked that it showed that even in a time when being queer was a crime people still found love and got their happy ending.
I’m not the biggest baseball fan but I did really enjoy the sports aspect of this book. I loved Eddies comeback story and the complex relationship he had with his team.
I also enjoyed Marks struggle with grief and learning to let someone else into his life.
These characters and this story are so special and I absolutely adored this book

Read if you like:
-grumpy/sunshine
-sports
-queer and/or historical romance
-found family
-pining
-no third act breakup (life is hard enough for these characters they deserve to be happy)
-slow burn
-did I mention the pining???

Thank you to NetGalley and Avon for the ARC!!

'You Should Be So Lucky' is a story of grief, love, and letting yourself be loved against all odds. I devoured this book in under a day, as I do most Cat Sebastian books, and each one only makes me hunger for more. It's a delight to be able to delve more into the world of 'We Could Be So Good,' and I hope we get more out of this little family. I'm not quite ready to be done with this story.

I have read a lot of Cat Sebastian’s books and having We Could Be So Good as one of my top reads for last year I was really excited about this book and absolutely devoured it in one day. This book included delightful characters and a real lived in feeling historical setting. I was again impressed with how Sebastian managed to walk the fine line of not giving in to the homophobic angst of the period while not feeling like full historical fantasy. I also found myself giggling and highlighting passages in this book which is not common for me.

Personally I would recommend reading We Could Be So Good first as it provides context for this second entry in the series but mostly cause I love them both not cause it’s necessary to understand this book.

Overall an excellent historical MM grumpy sunshine romance.

A wonderful book about grief, love, and having to face life after bad things happen. Mark Bailey is grieving his partner and a life they had to hide; Eddiie O'Leary is grieving his trade to a new team and slump in his playing. Together they learn that even after the worst thing that happens, you still have to get up in the morning and face tomorrow.
I loved both Mark and Eddie, and somehow I even ended up loving baseball. I'd recommend this to anyone looking for a warm hug in book form!

Thank you NetGalley for the ARC!

Cat Sebastian i will follow you to the ends of the earth.
This book has heart and growth and communication and every single character is lovely. It shows people with problems and how those they keep around them can help.

I was only slightly thrown by the call with the accountant i know it was to comeback to a comment made earlier but i spent the rest of the book worried he was going to lose his money and his home. he does not. nothing comes from the accountant call.

This book was multiple things I love, wrapped up in one. I love a good queer book, I love a good period piece, I love a good baseball book, and I love the topic of grief. And boy can Cat Sebastian write all those things, and write them well. You really truly can feel the time period, can feel the all encompassing grief that wraps around mark like a cord of too tight rope. It's incredibly detailed and you feel. you feel for him. you feel that grief squeezing tight like a snake catching it's prey, and then you feel the snake release, and you feel the love he has for eddie seep in slowly, carefully.

you can see marks walls come down not only with eddie, but with others too. the more he lets people in, the more he realizes he and eddie aren't the only ones hiding things. tony is hiding something, george is hiding something. and it's not because they're hiding bad secrets. they're hiding things because of preconceived notions others have already made about them, that make them go, "well this is already known about me, why would anyone believe any different? why should I show them different when their minds aren't going to change about who i am?", and it's really beautiful to see mark interact with these people, and knowing them for themselves, looking past the secrets and still being interested in them for their true selves, not the preconceived notions, because he knows he'd want someone to see him as more than just the queer reporter, too.

and eddie, sweet eddie, mamas boy who has a soft spot about being called dumb, who thinks low of himself but isn't afraid to risk everything in his career because he knows mark hated hiding his relationship with william, I was worried maybe he was interested in mark for all the wrong reasons. mark was one of the only people to speak to him when the rest of his teammates iced him out. he had no friends, he was far away from his family and old friends and teammates, but mark talked to him. I thought maybe for sure his interest would be misguided, I mean, so did mark, but as things progressed, I fell in love with their relationship dynamic, how well they complemented each other, how they were home for one another.

this book also clearly juxtaposes the inherent struggle of being queer in a time where it's not really seen as okay to be queer, and just the inner struggle that mark has with himself and not wanting to ruin eddies life despite eddie being all for indiscretion, even at the risk of his job, really seals the deal on their relationship for me. the tired of living life a lie, the wanting to be out and proud, it's a really good connector to modern queer lives these days.

Wow, just wow. I love baseball and I loved this book.

The story is set in 1960s New York. Eddie, a baseball player in his second season is traded unexpectedly and it goes terribly. He's told by reporters, doesn't realize he's being broadcast on television and says horrible things about his new team. Mark, a reporter who normally does not write about sports, is brought into write a series of columns about Eddie. The romance is a slow burn, developing through late night phone calls and a queer book club. Getting to watch them fall in love and learn how to live their lives while needing to keep their relationship a secret was excellent.

So much was covered and it all felt so authentic to both the sport and the history of baseball. I have often felt baseball is extremely overlooked in the sports romance genre. I mean, there's a very famous quote, very common among baseball fans, that comes from the movie Moneyball. "How can you not be romantic about baseball?". I am also particular about baseball novels because of my love for the sport. Cat Sebastian captured the feel of baseball, the feel of the sport so well in this lovely historical romance novel that rarely talks about an actual baseball game but know so much of its ins and outs.

"it can be a beautiful game... when the sun is shining and the stadium smells like freshly cut grass, when every play seems like a coalescence of talent and luck. The thing about baseball is that it's slow and that each game is essentially meaningless. That's enough to make plenty of people stay away from it. But the glacial pace and the low stakes give you time to look at each individual component of the game and properly appreciate it."

I mean, how can you not be romantic about baseball?

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC!

Cat Sebastian does it again, to no one’s surprise!
Loved this book, and I don’t even care about sports in the slightest so I was a tad worried the setting would throw me off. But nope. Still the same quality characters and emotions and writing I expect from the author. An excellent read.

You Should Be So Lucky is another home run (pun intended) from Cat Sebastian. In the same universe as the wonderful We Could Be So Good, we catch up with Mark Bailey, a writer for the Chronicle, as he's tasked to write about the infamous shortstop Eddie O'Leary. Mark Bailey's backstory unfolds before us as we discover he is in the throws of grief over his longtime partner William, whom we got only a glimpse of in WCBSG. Despite that, Mark following Eddie around brings him out of hiding and back into the world. Between long distance calls and in depth book discussions, their bond grows as they traverse what it means to hide/live freely as queer people in 1960. The world Sebastian has built is full of love, and her strength lies in building characters, and You Should Be So Lucky is a testament to that. The layers of loss and hope run deep throughout this story, and I loved every page, especially the glimpses of Nick and Andy from We Could Be So Good. I look forward to what Sebastian has up her sleeve next! Thanks to NetGalley, Avon and Harper Voyager for the eGalley in trade for my honest review.

Anything Cat Sebastian writes, I will read and I will absolutely love. Her writing style conveys such a sense of emotion and weight in a unique voice that makes each reader relate to the characters. This book is no different.

You Should Be So Lucky is a story filled with grief, love, loss, and companionship. Both Mark and Eddie have their own personal journeys through the emotions. Mark's grief makes him disconnect from others, while Eddie's grief causes him to lash out in anger alienating himself from his new team. The book is a story about finding one another and healing. I absolutely loved it.

While it took me longer than I would have liked to finish this book due to life happening, I highly recommend it to anyone who wants an emotional but lighthearted novel.

if you ask me, 2024 is the year of the baseball romances, and "you should be so lucky" is one of my top contenders for the category. this is a queer mid-century romance with a happy ever after, which i would say is cat sebastian's specialty, and let me tell you, she never misses. mark bailey is the furthest thing from a sports reporter that he could be, but when he's assigned to write about eddie o'leary, the new shortstop who's struggling to hit the ball, an unexpected connection forms between them. i absolutely loved mark and eddie's dynamic (grumpy/sunshine!!!) and the way their relationship develops. it's not easy to pull off queer historical romances, but sebastian always manages to do so in a way that feels realistic but still satisfying. i would recommend this book for anyone who loves sports romances (whether you know baseball or not, because god knows i do not) and queer historicals with a happy ever after.

Wow, this is a must read for any fan of MM sports romance. This was such a heartfelt and touching story that made me a little teary, full of swoony feelings, and laugh at all the sweet moments with Lula the dog. You Should Be So Lucky by Cat Sebastian takes place in the same universe as We Could Be So Good, and the storyline and character development in YSBSL is very similar to that in WCBSG but is still different enough that it doesn't feel repetitive.

Writer Mark Bailey had been secretly dating his former boyfriend for seven years and has spent the last year silently morning his passing. Because of this, he's determined to lis his life as out as possible in 1960's NYC and does not want to be anyone's secret ever again. His writing in the art's section of the Chronicle has also fallen off following his boyfriends death, so he agrees to write a recurring diary entries and a magazine article about the Robin's most recent trade and least liked player Eddie O'Leary. Eddie is dealing with a batting slump, teammates who won't talk to him, and having to hide a critical aspect of himself when he gets traded to the New York Robin's baseball team. He never imagined to be making a friend in the reporter writing journal entries about him. But as the two spend more time together they realize they have more in common than one would expect and chemistry that they can't ignore.

This is such a beautiful story of two lonely people finding love together. It was really sweet the way Eddie validated Mark's desire to not be a secret again, and how he comforted and protected him from his internalized fears of being left. Eddie is able to bring out a softer side of Mark that he didn't even realize he had. Eddie reminded me of Andy with his sunny disposition on the outside all while battling internal feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. I loved the bar conversation between Mark and Nick because it also stuck out how similar they are: Mark has let himself become closed off due to his fears until he falls for someone who is able to coax himself out of his shell and be soft towards. I feel like Sebastian does such a good job in writing slow burn romances because you can read the tension building but she fully delivers before it reaches a point of "can they get on with it already". She also does such a good job in creating intimacy between the characters that the hotter moments make me blush even though what is on the page is not particularly graphic.

Thank you Harper Voyager, Avon, and NetGalley for an ARC of You Should Be So Lucky. I see myself building an emotional attachment and relationship to this book the same way Mark had with Hill House.

✨ Review ✨ You Should Be So Lucky by Cat Sebastian

Thanks to Avon and #netgalley for the gifted advanced copy/ies of this book!

First: this isn't listed as a series but it's in the same world as We Could Be So Good, and both Nick and Andy play an important role here.

We Could Be So Good was one of my favorite books last year and so I was thrilled to pick this one up. It's hard to beat We Could in my mind but this comes in a very close second!

Mark Bailey, a cultural/arts reporter on leave while grieving, gets assigned to write a series of stories from the perspective of Eddie O'Leary, a New York Robins baseball player in the middle of a HUGE slump (he hasn't hit a ball for all of June). Mark's not only a bit of a (lovable) grump, but he's a grieving grump after the loss of his partner the year before. Eddie's a ball of sunshine, but one who's lonely and frustrated at his game, being ignored by his teammates, and being far away from his mom. The two build a quick rapport and friendship and I was just living for their connection.

This also brings in another aging sports reporter at the end of his career, and he sees Mark and his loss for what it was. The relationship between George and Mark is also really lovely.

The book is tender and soft, but also gruff and sad in places as Eddie and Mark work through challenges in their heads and in their lives.

Like We Could, these characters grapple with the challenges of keeping their relationship and sexuality private while finding places they can be known for who they are. It's a story of found family in queer spaces and in super masculine spaces like a baseball team.

I'm living for these mid-century romances Cat is writing and want more more more!

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💫 (4.5 stars)
Genre: M/M historical romance, grumpy-sunshine, sports
Setting: 1960s NYC
Reminds me of: We Could Be So Good
Pub Date: 07 May 2024

Read this if you like:
⭕️ tender, deep queer romances
⭕️ mid-century NYC
⭕️ journalism + sports
⭕️ found family

(4.75/5 rounded up to a 5 star)

Solid book, to me it was even better than Cat Sebastian's other title that is set in the same universe (We Could Be So Good). The grief that is written in done in a way that you will tear up or get that frog in your throat at times throughout the story. The difficulty of the loss of a partner especially in that era, it tugs at your heart strings.

The complexity and ease in which the characters of Mark and Eddie come across helps to allow both their stories of grief and change to be illuminated without one overshadowing the other.

The only reason there is a .25 of a star taken is that I was hoping for Maureen and Lillian to be more involved in the story- If a third story takes place in this universe I hope for either it to revolve around them or another wlw couple with their guidance. ( I can wish.)

Definitely in my top 5 books so far this year.

The thing about Cat Sebastian books is that the actual relationship of the couple is always the least angst worthy thing to happen. Mark is working through grief after the shockingly young death of his partner. He’s phoning it in and his boss asks him to take on a project following a baseball player who talks too much and is tanking his career since a team trade.

I felt that Mark’s grief was palpable and it was so painful to see him moving forward in a world where he’s not even allowed to tell people who he’s grieving for an why it was so important. He wasn’t even invited to the funeral by his partner’s family. He’s not ever going to have a day where he’s fine with it so I liked how patient and loving everyone was with him in their own ways.

There’s such an undercurrent of fear in both of the books set in this universe of Cat’s. It’s 1960s New York City and they’re afraid to be found out all the time and their friendship and then relationship basically has a giant elephant in every room. Mark and Eddie are lovely but can’t ever really relax until they’re away from other people and shut up in their apartments or hotel rooms. They finally had a trusted circle of people by the end of the book so they could find a bit of breathing room. I loved getting to see cameos from Nick and Andy in this one where they look like they’re thriving too.

Thank you to Netgalley for a copy in exchange for an honest review.

Like, I'm honestly trying to be chill about how much I loved this book, this universe, and Cat's books in general, but I'm honestly the COMPLETE opposite of chill.

Cat Sebastian books are masterclass -- absolutely beautiful stories of angst and pining and tension between rich, complex characters set in an immersive world. They're so well crafted and utterly captivating, emotionally resonant and utterly readable. They're meaningful and important.

Set in the WCBSG universe, YOU SHOULD BE SO LUCKY is a queer mid-century romance between grieving reporter Mark Bailey and disgraced shortstop Eddie O'Leary. Reluctantly assigned to cover Eddie's poor-performing season, Mark uncovers truths about Eddie and himself as he navigates his grief and new relationships. The two lonely men grow together and in their unfolding union is a stunning story of love and meaning. (And simply the best of the slow-burn, grumpy/sunshine, and found family tropes.)

An absolutely magnetic and beautiful (dare I say it?) home run of a book.

A massive thank you to Avon and Netgalley for the ARC in exchange for my honest, unbiased review. YOU SHOULD BE SO LUCKY is out May 7, 2024.

Cat Sebastian, the president and CEO of writing the most real and loveable characters of all time, has returned to the universe of We Could Be So Good to tell us the story of Mark Bailey and Eddie O’Leary. Mark sort of works at The Chronicle; he’s had a rough year and a half grieving a partner privately and is tasked with writing a diary of sorts in the paper for baseball player Eddie O’Leary. Eddie has just been traded and is also having a rough go at it both with the new team and in his new city.

This story is so much more than a romance. It is about grieving, and living through and with loss. It is about learning to let yourself be loved, it is about finding your place even if it takes some risks. This is a story about, literally and figuratively, stepping up to bat every day of this life and just doing the best you can, and isn’t that what we are all doing?

I loved these characters so much I am already scheming a reread and the book hasn’t even hit the shelves yet, and that is the power of Cat Sebastian.

Thank you so much to Netgalley and Avon Books for this eARC in exchange for an honest review.

RATING: 4/5 STARS

This was a really lovely queer midcentury novel. I really enjoyed its precursor WE COULD BE SO GOOD, so I was happy that YOU SHOULD BE SO LUCKY also delivered on the cozy, gentle romance vibes. I liked both characters and their grumpy-sunshine dynamic. I hope there are more books to come in this series!

Cat Sebastian is the master of cozy hug romances, I just know she loves all her characters so deeply. Mark and Eddie were phenomenal together, I loved how whenever something came up between them, usually in the form of the outside world pressing in on them, they were very us vs the problem. I did prefer We Could Be So Good, and Andy/Nick, but I think that comes down more to my personal tastes, because these two were perfect as well.