While I still did like this book, I didn’t rate it as high as some of the other Ali Hazelwood books I’ve read. I think that after reading Bride and being SO surprised by it, anything in her academic/science range will be hard to live up to it. I will say that I loved the way Eli talked about his feelings for Rue. Him saying that he “forgets to look at other things” when Rue is around was so heartwarming and I love those littler tender moments between book couples. The backstory and plot twists that we find out towards the end of the book make the book so messy and drama filled but not really in a way I enjoyed. Overall I gave it a 3/5 because I enjoyed the love story but I felt like the drama was almost too messy to tie up nicely in the end.

Rue is smart, and her academic skills far outweigh her social ones. She has exactly two friends; Tisha and her boss, Florence. She doesn’t do romantic relationships, only hook ups that she meets online. All that seems to change when she meets Eli. He “saves” her and they don’t even hook up and then she thinks she will never see him again. Not only does she see him again, but he shows up with the group that is trying to take over the company she works for. While things get complicated fast, Rue has to explore her own feelings and figure out that not everyone is trustworthy.

I love Hazelwood’s books. I enjoy the smart, quirky female leads. This one was different in that it was far more sexual than any of her previous books. She does give you a heads up in the pages before you start it. It’s is definitely 🌶️!

Rue thought she had her life figured out. She was making progress on an important patent at work, she had supportive friendships at work, her sex life was adequate. But when her latest planned hook up turns out to be the very same person involved in a financial takeover of the lab she works for, things get complicated. As her blind faith in her friends is tested and her relationship with Eli starts to mean more, Rue realizes she’s not in love: not in love with being kept in the dark, not in love with everyone keeping secrets, and not in love with the path she once thought was right for her.

Right off the bat, it’s clear that Rue and Eli’s romance was not going to be your typical enemies-to-lovers story. For one, Rue is far from the main female characters I’m used to reading, especially from the big publishers. While Hazelwood doesn’t put a label on Rue in any way in terms of her sexuality, Rue could easily identify as a demiromantic, making her quite different from Hazelwood’s usual female main characters. This sort of sex-positive, romance-averse character type is definitely more common among male characters, so it was wholly refreshing to see Rue be unapologetically herself - no matter how hard Eli tried throughout the book.

I thought Hazelwood gave this story a good balance between what was happening between Rue and Eli as well as what was happening in the larger plot. A lot of changes happened to Rue during the course of this story, most of them the uncomfortable kind of change. But Hazelwood crafted a character who needed more than a page or two to rebound, giving us one of her most realistic FMCs yet. Eli, likewise, couldn’t just cruise in the background to his happily ever after. I loved that Hazelwood gave both main characters dilemmas involving both romantic and platonic love; while, fundamentally, both Eli and Rue had to make some similar decisions, each character was affected in entirely different ways.

The overall plot wasn’t anything super unique: office rivals-to-lovers, with Hazelwood’s typical women-in-STEM spin. But where Not in Love shines is Rue’s diverse sexual and romantic preferences and Eli’s beautiful ability to meet every single one of Rue’s needs. Not in Love gave us a wonderful FMC with diverse romantic and sexual preferences, and a MMC who was more than capable of meeting her needs.

Not In Love is my favorite book by Ali Hazelwood! I love how she was absolutely fearless in exploring the sexual relationship between two hurt people Rue and Eli. Their connection to each other grows through sexual intimacy but it blooms through trust and loyalty.

This book was so sexy yet intimate. I loved seeing the relationship between Eli and Rue evolve into love as they grow closer. Rue opens up to Eli in a way that she doesn't with anyone else and it changes something inside of her incrementally.

Trust and betrayal are big themes in this book, and Rue struggles with these. Eli becomes both hero and victim to her struggle, and I loved how he restored her faith.

Overall, Not In Love is a wonderful, intense, emotional and sexy read and I hope that Ali Hazelwood writes more of her books with such bravery and sexiness.

Personal compatibility: 4.5 ⭐️
for it's written purpose: 5 ⭐️

Overall: 4.75 ⭐️

okayyyyy Ali, I see you with the angst and the sexual tension 😮‍💨

This was definitely the most "adult" book so far from Ali & aside from Check and Mate, the one with the most character depth

When I say I devoured this, you don't understand— I picked this book up and didn't set it back down unless it was for a necessary bodily function (sleep is NOT necessary!!)

Eli and Rue were an entirely new take on Hazelwood's usual smarty-pants love interests. I loved that Rue was a taller girl, a bigger girl, a girl who is awkward and intense and intimidating— because girls like that rarely get their story told and I'm so happy that she did

Not In Love does speak to a lot of more intense topics (please read the CWs 🫶🏻) but it added to the realism and the dynamic

I remain faithful in my covenant to read anything Ali writes 🫡

Ali Hazelwood has done it again! While not her typical books, Not in Love, is still true to everything Ali Hazelwood. Humor, steam, gut wrenching truths. I loved Rue. She knows what matters and is willing to take a risk.. maybe two. When she and Eli do the no-strings-attached romance, you know it is going to be good.

If you like steam and laughing then crying, pick this up

This was a spicy enemies-to-lovers book. The plot was intriguing and the characters were complex, but I felt the emotional connection between Rue and Eli was lacking. I feel like the banter and chemistry that I love in romances was missing in this one, and I really didn't care if the MC's got together. Also, I don't mind a little bit of spice, but I felt like there was way too many sex scenes. I did love that the Eli fell in love first.

Read if you enjoy:
Enemies to Lovers
He Falls First
Insta- lust

Peak Hazelwood! Truly this woman writes men that I want to cry because they aren't real. The plot, the characters, the TENSION!! Seriously, read this book. Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an e-arc in exchange for an honest review.

I’m actually kind of shocked how much I loved this one. It’s almost as if Ali Hazelwood took soooo many unrelated topics and found a way to link them all together flawlessly??

The romance was so unique and was a breath of fresh air compared to all of the other run of the mill romance books. I definitely plan to read more from this author and would recommend this read.

Quite different that Ali’s other stem romances, but just as good! If you are looking for the light hearted, rom com vibes, this ain’t it, but it’s so emotional and real and raw! I loved this book!

I’m in constant awe of Ali’s ability to write such wide variety of romance novels. I loved her YA novel, I loved her paranormal romance (Bride) and I loved this spiiiiicy beauty (Not In Love). I don’t care what she writes I will consume every word every time.
In Not In Love we see the characters we have come to love, a woman in STEM and all the witty banter you can think of but this one the spice is spicing.

I usually don’t listen to this type of romance book and usually choose to eyeball read but Callie Dalton & Jason Clarke managed to help me get in both characters head more.

This is not like any of the romance we’ve gotten from Ali in the past. The romance is very much the center of the story and there’s a bit of plot in the background. It is insta lovey and there’s not a whole lot of build up in the romance, it’s just kind of happening from moment one. If that’s not your jam then maybe you skip this one. If that doesn’t bother you then it’s definitely worth the read or listen.

Read if:
Stem Setting
Office Romance
Dual POV
Insta lust

A forbidden romance between a scientist and the man on the team trying to take over her company. Rue doesn't want relationships, she's just looking for a one night/good time. After meeting Eli, she finds out the man she was meant to hook up with is one of the people trying to take over her company. What ensues is a forbidden romance they must keep secret.

It pains me to write this, but this book was not good. In that I mean there is way to much science talk of things I don't understand, a lackluster romance between the main characters, and I hate to say it but the worst of all: this book was boring. And I am really sad about this because I loved Hazelwood's last few books! Bride and Love Theoretically were so good and this book was pretty bad; it took me several days to read and I had to force myself to finish it.

The authors note at the beginning said this book was more like erotica than her usual and imo she did not lean in hard enough to the erotica aspects of the book. It might have been better! But what we got to me read like a jumbled mess and while I always saw the attraction between Rue and Eli, I never really felt the love between them.

ARC provided by the publisher via Netgalley. This did not affect my opinion when reading this book or writing my review

❤️‍🔥Rue and Eli are meant to be casual thing, but circumstances coupled with an intense attraction makes that difficult.❤️‍🔥

Wow. Where to begin. I’m a big fan of everything Ali’s written (aren’t we all?) but THIS ONE... I think it’s my new favorite.

Rue’s a bit more reserved than Ali’s other main characters. A bit socially awkward, though I wouldn’t describe her as quirky.

There’s an 📝author’s note at the start with an intro to the book plus some trigger warnings. Rue has a complicated history with food (and the scarcity of it) and Eli’s past has been far from easy.

So many aspects of this book hooked up. The slow reveal of what happened in Rue and Eli’s pasts. The suspicious past connection between Eli’s company and Rue’s boss. The tension and relationship building between Rue and Eli.

Truly the book got better and better. The end blew me away. I was highlighting like a mad woman.

The Hunger Games references (We were already thinking about it with a FMC named Rue, right?) made my millennial heart soar.

The spice🔥... it’s probably the spiciest we’ve seen from Ali yet. (My only critique of the book is that there is maybe too much spice so do with that what you will.)

I think you will all really, really love this one.

P.S. There’s another not-a-couple-but-there-is-potential in this book. I’d love a book on them. Just putting that out there.

While I enjoyed the depth and hard fought journey for both Rue and Eli, I could get over the change in tense between the two POVs. It immediately took me out of the story every time.

This is probably my favorite Ali Hazelwood book of all time??? And I think I say the same thing after every single new book of hers.

The dynamic between Rue and Eli is immaculate and I was rooting for them from the very first chapter. They came together in such a unique way and how their attraction unfolded kept me so invested.

Rue is my favorite Ali heroine. I love how different she is and that she doesn’t really know how to deal with people and emotions. It made her falling for Eli that much sweeter.

The added workplace issues, as well as both of these characters childhood trauma also added more depth to the story.

As usual this was perfection.

Author Ali Hazelwood continues the trend of making STEM sexy. I'm not sure I enjoyed Eli and Rue as a couple as much as some of the other pairing in the author's other titles. This was a quick, engaging read.

Ali Hazelwood knows how to craft a romance! I can feel the tension between Rue and Eli as they pulled on each other's threads. The side characters were engaging and interesting. This book was heavier on the romance than typical for Hazelwood's previous novels and while I wanted to fight for the main plotline with the Harkness takeover, I felt that the romance was distracting me from that rather than enhancing it.

✨ Review ✨ Not in Love by Ali Hazelwood

Thanks to Berkley and #netgalley for the gifted advanced copy/ies of this book!

Finally an Ali Hazelwood romance where the man is not gigantically tall! 😂

This one was sort of a middle of the road AH book for me. I liked the main characters most of the time, but wasn't super engaged by the plot overall. The sort of "mystery" providing tension to the story felt a little predictable and didn't sweep me in.

I did love the friend group in this book and the ways they supported each other! And the theft of work in academia theme resonated as something that's not unfamiliar. But overall, I hoped for a little more from this.

⭐️⭐️⭐️
Genre: f/m contemporary romance
Setting: Austin, TX
Pub Date: June 11, 2024

Read this if you like:
⭕️ main characters in STEM
⭕️ awkward academic characters (A++ on this lol)
⭕️ Ali Hazelwood romance writing
⭕️ big hands

Things definitely went a different direction in Not in Love and it wasn't like Ali's previous books. And I was absolutely okay with that, however, I went into this expecting what we normally get from Ali. I genuinely love reading erotica and erotic romance. And Not in Love is definitely stepping into the erotic romance genre. And I kind of wish I knew that from the beginning, it would have set up my expectations a little bit differently. I love that some kinks are lightly mentioned or well, not really said on page (not sure if that's the norm or not), but I wish it was explored it a bit more.

The romance was okay and wanted so much more from that. Eli realllly set the bar high for book boyfriends, I really loved his character. Head over heels in love with Rue, an absolute putty mess at her feet. I loved it. At times it was tough to feel the connection between them and it took Rue a long time to accept what was happening between them. And it's very much something that carries through further into their relationship (I did actually like seeing that side of her). Trust is extremely hard for her and it was nice to see a MC constantly managing that and letting it develop on their own time once they're in a committed relationship.

Overall, I did like it. I think Ali could do wonders writing more erotic romance with some fine tuning. Definitely looking forward to more reads like this!

3.5/5

Eli Killgore is obsessed, devoted and down bad. He’s a stage five clinger and a level ten munch. I need him terribly.

I didn’t love the beginning but it won me over eventually. This book is a bit different from Ali’s typical work, being an erotica rather than a romcom was an interesting leap and initially I wasn’t feeling it. On a personal level I think her sex scene writing skills left too much to be desired for a story fueled by sexual chemistry and encounters to fully work for me. She eventually found her stride and I got invested into the dynamic around 50% in. Not my favorite by Hazelwood but very fun nonetheless.

3.5 stars