A DARING HANDBOOK FOR MINISTRY! What a powerful reminder that EVERY PERSON is worth seeing and NO ONE is beyond the grasp of grace. I'm so grateful to have read this book.

Amy Williams wildly rebels against the country-club style church to follow her passion in ministering to teens involved in gangs, youth on probation/parole, and those lost in the criminal justice system - at the core of which life-on-life mentoring is her key strategy. Amy is a certified gang-intervention specialist and this book shows her journey of youth ministry as she moves into a Latino gang neighborhood in Chicago's Humboldt Park community to walk life with the young people on her block. Through her stories and experience, we learn how to walk alongside the marginalized, the broken, and the hopeless. Some do's and don'ts include:
1) DO accept the humanity in them
2) DO see through the crime into the person. "We're used to being watched. We're not used to being seen"
3) DO expose them to new people, environments, and opportunities
4) DO surround them with a new community of mentors who can speak life into them
5) DON'T treat them like a project. "You cannot minister effectively to those you think less of". KNOW YOUR ROLE.
6) DO have consistency. They are used to abandonment. "When churches and organizations do 'outreach' events that truly connect with the community, its about consistency and presence."
7) DO affirm dignity within them. "You don't give dignity. You affirm it". "When my goal is to change you, I subtly communicate there's something wrong with you".
8) DO give them the space to tell their stories
9) DO wait for change and then keep waiting.
10)DO practice awareness in what is impacting your perception and how limited your lens is.
11)DO bring Christ to them. DON'T approach them to bring them to Christ. Let the Holy Spirit work.
12) DO change how you perceive an unbelieving teen. DON'T focus on behavior.
13) DON'T use church language. "People don't care about how much you know until they know how much you care"
14) DON'T do outreach. BE IT. "We are not in in the business of behavior modification but introducing young people to the God of transformation".
15) DO look through their pain, not at it.

This is a scratch on the surface of the life-giving advice Amy gives . I especially loved the way she crushed myths and stereotypes that we have had for decades regarding gang life. In addition, she has learned to ignore those voices in the church telling her that God would never call a woman to minister to gangs. She felt so called into their lives, she MOVED into their community. The life stories of the people she encounters are intensely inspiring and full of hope. She refers to herself as a "hope dealer". What I love most about this entire read is her challenge to the church. We have to stop the "us and them" mentality. It is diametrically opposed to the mission of Jesus. Amy is willing to risk it all for her people. She feels protected by them and they love her as she is. She's broken just like them and recognizes she's only there to show them Jesus.

Thank you so much Amy Williams, NetGalley, and Intervarsity Press for this ARC in exchange for an honest review

Our society often elevates the externals over the internals, the visible instead of the invisible. In many developed economies, people rush headlong toward attaining the 5Cs: Cars, Cash, Condominiums, Credit Cards, and Country Clubs. With that, people tend to gravitate toward those who are famous, rich, and powerful. Fact is, not everyone can be world famous, materially rich, and powerful. What happens to the rest of us? What about the marginalized and those despised by society? Can we learn to see all people for who they are, regardless of their reputations or ill-repute, poverty or riches, seen and unseen? More importantly, how do we learn to see our fellow human beings the way that God has intended for us to see? Beginning with the story of how Sarai mistreated Hagar in Genesis 16, author Amy Williams shows us that amid Hagar's depressing situation, God sees her and encourages her. God assures her that even when the world do not, God sees her for what she is worth. As one who ministers frequently to gang members, high-risk youths, and people who fell into a life of crime, she calls herself a "Hope Dealer." She also works as a "female gang-intervention specialist and juvenile justice advocate." The key is to learn to see people from God's point of view as best as we can. Williams shows us the four fundamental ways of seeing:

1) Seeing Myself
2) Seeing Others
3) Seeing Yourself
4) Seeing Hope

The first part of the book is Williams's personal journey. Since she is both Irish and Black, she calls herself a bi-racial, one who literally has the best of both worlds. Her journey toward becoming a juvenile advocate begins with her own brother's troubles with drugs and gangs. After writing about her own heartbreaks, she embarks upon the challenge to become a "Hope Dealer," one who is willing to be a light to all, especially those experiencing periods of darkness. Being able to bring light to the world requires a deep reliance and dependence on God.

The second part is to train our minds to see others the way God sees them. Williams points out with several references toward the need for infusing hope. The biggest problem is not fear but hopelessness. She shows us several ways on how to inculcate hope through knowing, accepting, waiting, and gaining new perspectives of life. One important note is to distinguish perception from reality. Getting noticed is different from being seen. The former is superficial while the latter goes much deeper. She shares her burden for outreach toward unbelieving teens. One important tip is to reach out without been distracted by behaviours. Williams reminds us that changing a person is God's responsibility, not ours. We are called to offer hope, not change people. Mentoring is important, which is why the author dedicates a chapter to do that. She reminds us an important truth about mentoring, that it is about playing a supporting role instead of lead. The mentor's pledge sums up the role well. She teaches us how to see gang members as human beings. The chapter on incarceration should be an eye-opener for many.

The third part of the book deals with changing ourselves and our mindset about reaching out to the unlovable and the undesirable. Knowing our role is especially important. We cannot fix people. We can only walk with them. Williams also warns us that ministry to this group of people is a calling to be embraced. The chapter on "The Gift of Brokenness" is one of the most touching chapters that offers comfort from the point of weakness. Pointing out that God can use our pain, we are encouraged to minister in spite of our weaknesses.

Finally, the author points all of us toward hope. We all need to have hope in us so that we can shine hope for others. Hope lessons come through teachable moments. There are risks involved in sharing such moments. Williams shares with us five things NOT to say for people who are grieving. Instead of trying to say things, the more important thing will be to create safe spaces for them and to encourage them with the presence of community.

My Thoughts
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Let me share three thoughts. First, this is an eye-opening book about a specialized ministry to the incarcerated, and the outcasts of society. It shows us the ministry for the unreached and often despised group of people. More importantly, it is about becoming learning what it takes to be a "hope-dealer." If any reader feels the calling, this book will be a good resource for equipping. Generally, most parents would tell their children not to get involved with any gang-related activities. While that is common wisdom, this book reminds us that Jesus died for all people, including prisoners and gang members. This is what the author has taken up the mantle to minister to this group of people. As she shares her own stories of pain, and her many challenges of ministry, we learn that knowing the world has many suffering places is only part of the picture. The other picture is about the overcoming of these difficulties. As far as Jesus is concerned, he himself ministered to groups that are labelled outcasts and despised.

Second, we all need new eyes to see what we commonly do not see. Williams entitles her book "Worth Seeing" as a stern reminder that we all need to open our eyes to see all people as those who need love and care. Prison ministries is not for the fainthearted. I remember once a volunteer at the Prison Fellowship saying to me: "Those who want to participate in the Prison Ministry must be emotionally ready." The first step toward any ministry, including anything like Williams's work is to change our mindsets. We need to have the biblical eyes that see and ears to hear the innermost cries of the marginalized. Not everyone has the calling to minister directly but we all have a duty to pray for the workers, support the various help ministries, and to encourage anyone we know we have direct contact with these communities.

Finally, the author says it well that such ministries are more lifestyle rather than events. Outreach in general do not bear fruit simply because churches tend to define outreach in terms of programs and short-term activities. Perhaps, one of the reasons why people shun away from such ministries is because they themselves feel ill-equipped or emotionally reluctant to get involved. The most powerful testimonies will probably come from past members who had been redeemed or rescued. It takes one to know one. Just like having a former homeless person ministering to another homeless guy, it takes a fellow struggler to help another struggler. Williams herself had experienced her own struggles within her family. Her brother got involved in drugs and criminal activities. Thankfully, he survived, recovered, settled down with his family, and now runs his own business.

Above all, we all need hope. Those in despair do not just need hope, they need "hope-dealers" to reach out to them. Who knows, we might know a friend, a relative, or a loved on who might unwittingly get trapped in criminal activities but want to find a way to get back on a more peaceful track of life. When that happens, this book might shine a path on how we can help.
Youth ministry veteran Amy Williams ministers to teens involved in gangs and those lost in the criminal justice system with a key strategy of life-on-life mentoring. As a certified gang intervention specialist, she heard God's call to move into a Latino gang neighborhood in Chicago's Humboldt Park community to be a "Hope Dealer" doing street outreach and walking life with young people on her block. Amy is project coordinator bringing in restorative justice programming to youth at juvenile prisons. Amy has been a youth pastor, a reentry coordinator, and a youth mentor and advocate. She is a graduate of both University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and National Louis University. She resides in Chicago and loves salsa dancing and is a true beach baby.

Rating: 4 stars out of 5.

conrade This book has been provided courtesy of InterVarsity Press via NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.

“Worth Seeing” by Amy L. Williams is “Worth Reading”. And “Worth Studying”. Ms. Willams ministers to inner city Chicago youth. For over 30 years she has shared God’s love and hope to teens who face major challenges (drugs, gangs, crimes.)

So, what exactly does she do? She doesn’t seem to have a big office or lots of grants. But she does have energy, love and a passion to see her young friends as Christ sees them. She organizes basketball games, picnics, and youth events. Most importantly, she lives in their neighborhood, she befriends them, she listens to them, has fun with them, and truly does “see” them and their families. Her joy shines through her book, which is well-written, friendly and encouraging, told in the first person.

God bless you Ms. Williams. You truly are a “Hope Dealer”. I admire you. You “are the light in a kid’s darkness.” I will pray for you and your Chicago friends. Thanks to NetGalley for an advance digital review copy. This is my honest review.

In this book, the author Amy Williams shares about her decades of living in inner-city Chicago, working with youth in gangs and youth involved in the criminal justice system (incarcerated or formerly incarcerated). The author shares openly and vulnerably about the struggles, the heartbreaks, and also the joys involved in such work. As we read this book, we have the privilege of being introduced to some of the beautiful people Amy gets to minister to. And she would be the first to say that she has learned and continues to learn so much from the precious youth she works with.

Although most of us who read this book will not find ourselves ministering to youth involved in gangs, Amy invites all of her readers to learn to see others with Christ’s eyes. She believes we must first learn to see ourselves as Christ sees us, then we can view others also as beloved people of worth. And, while the stories she shares are full of death and pain, she manages to cling to the hope that is found in Jesus— for herself and for the youth that she works with.

This is an important book for Americans to read. Be introduced to a different view of America’s cities than you may have seen before. Read this, and let your heart break with what breaks God’s heart. Read this and learn to become an agent of hope, wherever God might call you to serve.

This was a very encouraging and motivating book telling about the author’s experiences with at-risk youth and youth that have been involved in terrible things. Instead of approaching people with fear and judgement, looking at them as people God finds value in has helped in showing the God’s love.