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๐ซ๐ฒ, ๐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฒ-๐๐ข๐ฏ๐-๐ฒ๐๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฐ๐ง๐ญ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง ๐๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ญ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐. ๐๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ฒ-๐ญ๐จ-๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ, ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐ซ, ๐๐ง๐ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐โ๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐จ๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ.
๐๐๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฅ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ ๐๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ง ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ค ๐๐ง๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฅ โ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ.โ ๐๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ญ๐๐๐ก๐ง๐ข๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ -๐จ๐-๐๐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ -๐จ๐-๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ซ๐๐๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฆ๐๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ง-๐. ๐๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐จ๐๐๐ซ๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฏ๐๐ง๐ญ, ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ข๐ญ ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ. ๐ ๐๐ง๐ฃ๐จ๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐๐ก๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐-๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฏ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง; ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฆ ๐๐ญ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฅ๐, ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐ฌ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฐ๐ค๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐.
๐ฏ๐ฝ๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐๐๐, ๐๐๐๐ถ๐น๐๐ ๐ต๐๐๐๐, ๐๐ถ๐ธ๐๐พ๐๐๐ถ๐ ๐๐๐น๐พ๐, & ๐ฉ๐๐๐ข๐ถ๐๐๐๐ ๐ป๐๐ ๐๐ฝ๐ ๐๐
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๐พ๐๐พ๐๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐.
Humor Me is a fun, fast paced and character driven romp through New York City. The book follows relationship-averse Presley, a late night show production assistant, who unexpectedly befriends Susan, an old friend of her deceased mother, who is dealing with the fallout from her husbands affair in the midst of the MeToo movement.
Despite her flaws, I really enjoyed Presleyโs character and her emotional growth throughout the book. Her struggle to deal with her grief over her motherโs death felt poignant and was surprisingly emotional. Thereโs also a great cast of supporting characters. I wasnโt sure about Susan at first, but I came to really like her friendship with Presley. Izzy and Clark were also loveable and I think the perfect match to Presleyโs tough exterior.
I will say, for a book that talks about comedy a lot I didnโt find it very funny but that might just be personal taste. The reason this is only a 3.5 star read for me is the ending. After all the build up, the ending felt rushed and fell a bit flat. I really wanted better for Susan wish she had made a different choice or at least that it was discussed in more depth.
I kind of fell in love with Cat Shookโs latest novel, โHumor Me.โ I really wasnโt expecting that - I donโt mean that in a negative way - I thoroughly expected to enjoy this book from the beginning, but by the end, I was completely hooked on all of the characters, New York, the comedy scene, and the found family that Presley surrounded herself with.
A coming of age story about Presley Fry, a 20-something assistant at The Late Night Show who scouts comedians in New York; Presley navigates work, friendships, grief, and even relationships as she begins to come into her own. I loved the emphasis this storyline had for female friendships and all the subtleties within. Presleyโs relationship with Isabelle is an authentic female friendship with all the love, angst, and support that you hope for from your besties. I thought the pacing was realistic allowing each of the novelโs relationships (platonic and romantic) to develop at a natural pace that lent itself to becoming truly connected to the characters. Susan is delightfully awkward as she tries to befriend Presley and set her up with Susanโs son even as she navigates family changes and unwanted media attention in the midst of the me too movement.
A heartfelt story that even made me a little teary, โHumor Meโ is a must read that I cannot recommend enough! I loved audiobook narrator Ferdelle Capistrano who expertly brought each of the characters and storyline to life, particularly Presley. Iโll definitely be watching for other books she narrates. I switched back and forth between the audiobook and ebook; thanks Macmillan Audio Celadon Books and NetGalley for the opportunity to read #humorme by @catshook_ I am a fan!
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Thank you so much to netgalley and the publisher for the arc of this one in exchange for an honest review!
I thought I would like this book but it was not for me. I am not a huge fan of stand up comedy in books and this one had that. I just feel like I don't usually find it super funny to read and I would rather see a comedy show. I also just didn't connect with the characters or the plot.
This is not a bad book, it was just not my taste. I hope others love it!
Humor Me was my first book by Cat Shook and I ended up enjoying this womenโs fiction read, which touched on so many themes. I enjoyed following Presley on her journey, and her ups and downs, as she navigated her career, dating life, friendships and grief. She felt very realistic to me and I really enjoyed the friendships Presley made throughout this book, particularly with Isabelle, Susan and Clark. I loved the backdrop of the book of the comedy scene in New York City, which added some humor to the story as well. I did find this book to be a little slower paced than what I usually gravitate towards but I was happy with the ending and at times didnโt know where the book was going which made me want to keep reading.
Overall, I enjoyed this one and rated it 4 stars! If you are looking for a womenโs fiction read set in NYC that focuses on a 20-something trying to figure things out that centers around the comedy scene and scenes of relationships of all kinds and grief, check out Humor Me!
Thank you to NetGalley and Celadon Books for the advanced copy, out now!
First time reading this author, and I am very impressed with how witty and fun this book is. The story is about friendships, awkward relationships, second chances and living in the best city in the world New York. Presley has some very interesting adventures with her best friend who is her ride or die and a newfound friend who happens to be her motherโs friend from when they were younger, and she develops a relationship with a person who she never thought she would have feelings around. This book is filled with wit, great banter and lots of emotions. Itโs a cute summer read.
๐ญ MY THOUGHTS: I really just couldnโt get past the fact that I did not like Presley, the bookโs female lead. She was not intentionally unlikable. I get she was dealing with the loss of her mother and hang ups from her past, but she really could not get out of her own way. She would often contradict herself in her own inner monologues and I could not find it in me to root for her. I felt she was too good for Lawrence. His patience for her was impressive a he deserves a medal for putting up with her hot then cold attitude. She also was really judgmental of people while condemning others for doing the same. End rant.
I did like the supporting characters though. They were dynamic and interesting and although I donโt understand why, really supported Presley and were great friends to her.
๐ง The audiobook narrator did a fantastic job bringing through all the different emotions Presley grapples with. Scenes of the comedians doing their acts were great to listen to as well.
Read for:
๐ Loss of a Parent
๐ Unlikely Friendships
๐บ #MeToo References
๐คฃ Stand Up Comedy World
๐ Single POV
๐ New York
โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ / 5
Spice Level: ๐ถ๏ธ / 5
Presley is a 25-year-old intern at a late-night show, nursing a crush on her co-worker Adam, and still grieving her mother's sudden death 18 months earlier. Lawrence (Clark) is an assistant at an entertainment agency, son of Presley's late mother's friend Susan, and dealing with the fallout of his father's recent #MeToo scandal. Presley had a difficult relationship with her alcoholic mother, and she seems to hold herself apart in her other relationships. Clark is still struggling with a past breakup. There's a lot of dense relationship stuff to unravel throughout the book, especially as filtered through Presley's experiences with her mother, her close friendship with Isabelle, her feelings for Adam and her growing friendship with Clark and Susan. This is a 1st-person singular POV (Presley), which fits because this is more a story of Presley navigating her relationships, her work life, and her grief over her mother rather that it being a full-on romance. It's also very definitely a love letter to New York City, it's clear that Presley (and the author) have a deep and profound affection of the city. It was well-written but maybe a bit slow-paced for me. On a final note, I don't know how to feel that 25-year-old Presley had no idea who Michael J. Fox was, but of course the mother figure does. Why, just...why?? That's it, I'm officially too old to relate to books with twenty-something main characters. Thank you to NetGalley for providing an Ebook ARC of this story in exchange for my honest review. I give it 3.5 stars rounded up to 4 stars.
In 2023 I enjoyed If We're Being Honest so I was excited to see Shook had a new installment! She definitely has a way of writing characters - even though the writing can be dry, it feels poignant and I am left feeling like everyone will be okay in the end. This book does not really have a "happily ever after," it is more of a "happy for now."
Humor Me kind of deals with two different types of grief, told through the POV of Presley. The first would be of Presley grieving the death of her mom, an alcoholic with which she had a complicated relationship with. Presley did have some good memories of her mother, but also grappled with how many bad memories she had too, and had a tough time talking about this with anyone. Her grief really reflected in her relationships with others, and she had a lot of internal conflict that influenced her feelings and how she saw others. She is not "healed" by the end of this book, but I would like to think her grief feels a little lighter now.
The second round of grief comes from Susan, the childhood best friend of Presley's mother. They reconnect after being estranged for many years (Susan did not even go to the funeral), and the two of them are such an unlikely pair. Susan is dealing with grief of her marriage, which was jilted due to her husband cheating on her and having the allegations being public knowledge due to his very public career. She is also dealing with the grief of losing her childhood friend, no matter how estranged, and I think she finds a kinship in Presley. Susan struggled to figure out where to go from that event, but through Presley and her kids she is able to find a way to move forward.
There are so many unlikely friendships in this story, but all together they become a sort of Found Family for Presley. She goes through a ton of character development through this story, mainly in how she interacts with her friends. With one person she finds he has been stringing her along as a "backup plan" and she feels like she loses her best friend. Another friend finds love when they weren't looking, so Presley feels herself being moved to "second place" even though she isn't ,loved any less. Another is catching feelings for Presley and is incredibly patient with her, and allows her to take time to figure things out. Then there is Susan, of course, who kind of whittled her way into Presley's life until she is there to stay!
Overall, I really enjoyed the nuance of all the characters and how they all helped Presley out in one way or another. There are a ton of depressing parts throughout this story (you know, between death and infidelity), but there are also comedic moments through Presley's job, and heartfelt moments sprinkled in as well. This is a different type of story than I normally read, and I am grateful to have had a chance to read it. Shook goes out to show that even in your deepest grief you are not alone, and that you never know when you'll find friends that can help you through it. Worth the read!
Content warnings: grief, infidelity, loss of a loved one, cursing, misogyny, sexual content, alcoholism/alcohol addition, sexual assault, drug use
Presley Fry is getting by in New York Cityโworking hard to get promoted and ignoring her feelings for a colleague. A chance encounter with her momโs childhood best friend, Susan Clark, from Eulalia, Georgia will have significant consequences.
Presley hasnโt really dealt with the emotional consequences of her motherโs death. Patty was an alcoholic, leaving her parents to help raise Presley. Dealing with her own life crisis, Susan reaches out to Presley, asking her to be her friend. Susan not only introduces Presley to a world where money is not a concern, but also gives Presley glimpses of who Patty was before vodka became her crutch. Presley also becomes reacquainted with Lawrence Clark, who she first met as a child. He is most definitely not her type, but he is so open and easygoing, she canโt help enjoying his company. Especially as her roommate and bff finally seems to have found true love. Presley is happy for her, but lonely without her companionship.
The constant undercurrent of humor keeps this story humming. The main characters are all so genuine and likableโthere arenโt villains, just ordinary people negotiating lifeโs challenges and trying to do so with decency. #HumorMe #NetGalley
โBut God didnโt make Manhattan. People did. And they arenโt finished , never will be; itโs built upon every day. And while sunsets and mountains are beautiful, that fact is what takes my breath away. That this city is a living monument to what people can accomplish, what they can overcome.โ
ARC PROVIDED BY NETGALLEY IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW
this book was a delightful surprise for me and a rollercoaster while reading it.
Presley thinks her life is going someway according to her plans and mind and just living as best as possible. But life makes what it looks like a little change, and suddenly that little change brings a lot of new things and experiences and makes her look at life and herself differently and also the people alongside her, who are also going through their own stuff.
And it's amazing to see her grow from this sweethearted person that pretends to be bigger than that to embrace her vulnerability while also being a knowledgeable city girl.
This book is also such a love letter to New York city and how it's that wonderful puzzle full of different people that fit and discover themselves and people that become their small found family. It's shown through the stand up comedy light but also with the different side characters in Presley's life.
It has love, it has laughter, it has statement. It was wonderful.
โAll these people trying. The city pulses with the energy of their efforts.โ
Thank you to @netgalley for the ARC.
Presley is an intern working on a late night television show in NYC. Her mom, Patty passed a year ago and Presley is navigating life without her in it.
A chance moment on the street brings her momโs childhood friend into her life. Susan is dealing with her husband being me tooed and could use a friend.
Presley is hesitant to become friends with Susan, but canโt help it in spite of herself.
She learns to let people in and that she can be a good friend.
I really enjoyed this book. I love the NYC setting and she was a likable person.
I enjoyed reading Humor Me by Cat Shook. You will fall in love with all the characters. I received an ARC of this book courtesy of NetGalley and the publisher. All opinions expressed in this review are my own and given freely. Happy Reading!
3.75โญ๏ธ
Twenty-five-year-old Presley Fry has a lot on her plate! An assistant at a late-night talk show she is long due for a promotion and is on the hunt for a talented new stand-up comic to be featured on the show which has her exploring the stand-up comedy scene in NYC. Itโs been a little over a year since her mother, with whom she shared a complicated relationship, passed away, and Presley is yet to come to terms with her loss. Her social life is mostly guided by her friend and roommate Isabelle, "Izzy," which is fine by Presley since she isnโt too confident in herself. She is also trying to navigate her feelings for a colleague, not quite sure whether the person thinks of her in the same light. When her motherโs childhood friend, the charismatic Susan Clark, who is also navigating a particularly disturbing life situation takes her under her wing, Susanโs friendship, advice and worldview not only nudge Presley out of her comfort zone but also help her to navigate her grief, open up to new experiences and embark on a journey of healing, self-discovery and personal growth.
The narrative is presented from Presleyโs first-person POV. A lot is going on with the characters, but the narrative is fluid and the plot never gets convoluted or difficult to follow. The character-driven elements were stronger than the plot-driven aspect of this novel, which made this an interesting and enjoyable read.
The pacing is on the slower side, which suits the nature of the story. Cat Shook writes with wit, humor and much emotional depth and addresses sensitive themes such as complex mother-daughter relationships, alcoholism, the #MeToo movement, grief and infidelity with maturity and compassion. Her characters are real and relatable. We might not agree with all of their choices, but you can understand them. Presley is an endearing character and I was invested in her journey as she navigated her personal and professional struggles, her grief and much more. Susan is an interesting character and I enjoyed her dynamic with Presley. The romance angle was well-developed and deftly woven into the narrative. I enjoyed the insight into the NYC comedy scene, though I would have liked this aspect to have been featured in more depth. The ending is a bit too neatly tied up and convenient, but stories such as these are mostly predictable, so thatโs not surprising.
Overall, I enjoyed Humor Me by Cat Shook and thought it was a well-written novel.
I paired my reading with the audiobook narrated by Ferdelle Capistrano, which made for a delightful immersion reading experience.
Many thanks to Celadon for the digital review copy and Macmillan Audio for ALC via NetGalley. All opinions expressed in this review are my own.
Humor Me offered me everything I wanted from another literary fiction/romantic comedy that takes place in the comedy television space and didnโt get. In my opinion, this book is so much more than a day in the life of a struggling NYC young professional. Is there romance? Yes. Is it rom-com material? At times. Akin to contemporary romance authors like Emily Henry and Abby Jiminez, Cat Shook provides a very real, and raw, reflection of trauma and grief that I think many who have suffered can understand and empathize with.
Our main character, a survivor of child neglect, a byproduct of addiction, shows so many signs of unhealed trauma. Through her various relationships, she begins to work through said trauma after years of just existing aside it. She finds an unexpected friendship with an older family friend, and her son. Both women are suffering through grief and loss and really help support each other through their journey. I loved seeing the dynamic of our younger main character and her motherโs old hometown friend. Through this friendship, she is able to connect with parts of her mother she never saw as a child and begin the process of healing from the neglect she remembers. Iโd argue the friendships in this book are equally as important as the romance in seeing our main character begin her healing journey and I loved it.
I personally found myself relating very strongly with the main character and saw glimpses of a younger me struggling to build healthy relationships while remaining closed off and hyper independent. I absolutely adored the character development in this book and found myself wanting to read an epilogue set further into the timeline to see all of our main characterโs hard self work pay off.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who loves stories of self love as much as those of contemporary romance.
Thank you to Celadon and NetGalley for the opportunity to review this book; all opinions are my own.
Presley Fry has escaped small town Georgia to New York City where in her mid-20โs sheโs slowly making her way up the assistant chain at a late-night comedy show. Presley helps book talent for the show and has recently been tasked with discovering the newest rising comedian to showcase on air. Besides hanging out with her best friend and roommate Isabelle in the East Village, she spends her nights in underground stand-up comedy venues and open mics on the hunt for whoโs ready to be showcased on national TV.
Underlying the fun 20-somethings who intensely love New York City vibe are serious elements: Presleyโs still reeling from the death of her alcoholic mother, having been brought up by her grandparents, and also sheโs been recently befriended by an old childhood friend of her Momโs, Susan Clark โ whose powerful husband has just been denounced for sexual bad behavior at work.
Thereโs also a Gen Z romance burbling along: between Presley and Adam, a fellow assistant at the late night show, whose boyish sensitivity have them both struggling to break out of best friendsโ mode to a relationship.
A fun summer read, blending humor with a feminist twist.
Thanks to Celadon Books and NetGalley for an advanced readerโs copy.
Humor Me is a marvel. Billed as a love letter to the NYC stand-up comedy scene, its protagonist is Presley Fry, who works as an assistant on a beloved late night show. Presley is dealing with a lot. Sheโs anxious that she hasnโt yet been promoted, and sheโs mortified that she seems to have caught feelings for her work BFF, Adam. But mostly, Presley is dealing with grief over her motherโs death the previous year, trying to grapple with the fact that so much about their complicated relationship was left unresolved. When she runs into her motherโs childhood best friend, Susan, the two strike up an unexpected friendship, leading Presley to relationships and realizations she never could have anticipated.
Humor Me is one of those novels that celebrates the messy magic of life: what itโs like to be young in a big city, trying to figure out who you are and what you want, both personally and professionally; how it feels to fall in love โ with someone else, with your city, with yourself; what itโs like to navigate the fraught waters of grief. Presley is the best kind of character; sheโs vulnerable but guarded, longs for connection even though she sabotages opportunities for it at every turn, self-aware even though she stubbornly refuses to face some hard truths about her life. Her closest relationships โ with her best friend Isabelle and especially with Susan โ are conveyed with so much authenticity. I adored the relationship between Presley and Susan, with its subtle mother-daughter vibes and the genuine warmth and affection at its heart.
Humor Me is funny and sexy and charming, but also surprisingly emotionally resonant, dealing with deep themes like complex family dynamics, alcoholism, and #MeToo in a well-balanced narrative. Itโs a โslice of lifeโ sort of book, not majorly plot-forward โ itโs more just the story of Presleyโs growth and becoming, and Cat Shook kept me invested in her whole journey. Thank you to Celadon Books for the early reading opportunity.
Humor Me follows Presley Fry, a talent recruit/assistant for a network late night show, as she guides us through New York City, from a NYC lovers eyes, and with a somewhat jaded approach to dating/finding love: isn't having a best friend roomie to come home to enough?
Presley also grapples with the loss of her mother while navigating a new friendship with one of her mother's old friends, who happens to be married to the head of the network at which Presley works, and was recently involved in his own scandal.
There are many threads of this story, but I found that they worked to give us a look at city life, boundaries, what different kinds of love look like, and flashes of standup comedy sets.
3.5 stars rounded up
I loooved If We're Being Honest, Shook's debut last year. So I was really excited to see she was releasing another!
Presley, a 20-something transplant in NYC and lover of the stand up comedy scene, she's an assistant at a Late Night Show, and reluctant dater. She's close with her roommate, and has a giant crush on her co-worker, but otherwise keeps everyone at arms length.
Presley has some grief and trauma from her late mother that she's mostly ignoring, when she meets her mother's childhood friend Susan, who is dealing with her own set of issues.
Susan becomes like a pseudo mom and a source of comfort for Presley, as they share that familiar tie to Presley's late mother.
I definitely felt for Presley, she's just trying to live her best life but she has some pretty heavy stuff weighing her down. Trying to outrun her grief just isn't working for her.
As with If We're Being Honest, I loved the characterization and their growth throughout the story. Though, there were parts that seemed to drag on and others that didn't seem to add anything to the story, I didn't feel the connections between characters like I'd hoped.
I know others struggled with the switching perspectives in her last book (especially on audio), so I was glad to see the single POV with this one. I was rooting for Presley and also just wanted to shake her ๐.
๐ง I enjoyed this on audio and flew through it. I struggled with some of the narrator's inflections, that I feel would've read completely differently on the page, but it ultimately didn't detract from the story.
When I first "met" Presley Fry, I wasn't anticipating becoming so connected to her, so intertwined with her fictional life, but Presley became a living, breathing person that leapt from the pages and allowed me to grow close to her. I found myself thinking about this book while I wasn't reading and couldn't wait to get back to New York with Presley.
This novel brought out all the emotions in me. The female friendships are ones I would love to have in my life and I so enjoyed the loyalty and fierce protection each woman had for her friend.
The dating scene in New York was sometimes difficult for me to watch as Presley held back from commitment to relationships due to past issues of feeling unloved, unworthy of being loved that she still had to deal with. I loved watching Presley grow and realize with the help of others that she was indeed worthy of being cared for and loved.
The novel tackles the issue of men dominating the workplace and keeping women from advancing and often I felt the anger right along with Presley. It also deals with men cheating on their wives and the effects it has on the wife and children.
I want more time with these characters and know this book will stick with me for a long time. I will be recommending it to everyone.