Member Reviews
Under One Roof explores the current state of the American family, including fast-rising life expectancies, the growing costs of elder care, the increasing need for childcare, the frustrating lack of affordable housing, and the new familial disconnectedness. In response, this timely book also examines
• designing communities and homes to accommodate a fast-graying America,
• the positives of elders providing childcare,
• handling relationships with aging parents,
• privacy, space, and communication issues within multigenerational living situations,
• the evolution of the American healthcare system, hiring home caregivers, increasing the ability to comfort in hospice, and
• dealing with the death of a loved one.
Under One Roof will bring you inspiration and exciting opportunities for invention as you and your modern American family tackle the challenges of the twenty-first century.
This book tackles the complexities of modern family life by advocating for multigenerational living. The authors' diverse backgrounds allow them to offer solutions and guidance on navigating the social, financial, and logistical challenges of housing multiple generations under one roof. While this timely guide may oversimplify certain intricacies, it sparks thought-provoking discussions and offers valuable insights for families considering alternative living arrangements.
Naturally, there are pros and cons to any living situation for older family members... but especially in light of the exorbitant cost of CCRCs and assisted living, which are simply not affordable for most people and very often a waste for those who actually can afford them (the value simply isn't there - lining the CEOs pockets while barely paying the caregivers a liveable wage) this book offers a refreshing alternative to consider. I do want to acknowledge a big benefit I've seen over aging in place is the community aspect, but that also has pros and cons.
Being middle-aged and seeing both situations play out with our parents, a multigenerational home does take a lot of patience and faith from everyone involved. Living with your adult children and grandchildren isn't for everyone, for sure. But, sometimes it's exponentially better than contributing to a healthcare machine that more often than not couldn't care less about you.