A Missed Opportunity

I really wanted to like this book. The premise of the book as indicated by the blurb description was an “enemies to lovers” romance. The context was of two native American/first peoples writers who had a serious falling out, but who were now brought together in a writers' retreat. The setting was a haunted Scottish castle.

The book begins with a heated argument between Pen Skinner and Neil Storm that ended with Pen throwing a book and hitting Neil in the head. What follows is a seemingly endless description of the inner angst the two main characters have. Ultimately both parties are lured into the writers' retreat by mutual friends: Laszlo and Daniela.

The problem with the book is that I never liked any of the characters. There was no real rationale given for why Laszlo and Daniela surreptitiously lured both parties to the retreat without disclosing who all was coming. On top of that there was no real banter between Pen and Neil that shaped a slow and meaningful journey toward reconciliation. Instead there was an immediate jump toward the desire for more intimacy between the two main characters without giving the reader any understanding of why they would so quickly jump from enemies to potential lovers.

On top of that the 'ghost story' really plays no significant factor until the second half of the book. When things shift to solving the mystery of the ghosts, the story works better. Unfortunately by that time, I really did not care much for the fate of any of the four workshop attendees. As a result, I really cannot recommend this book.

I thank NetGalley and the publisher for allowing me to read this book with my promise for a free and fair review.

I can not, in good faith review or promote this book, due to the information that has come to light about the author, as well as the questionable content in the book that directly ties back to this. I truly hope that authors will not follow Wilken’s example of exploiting and misrepresenting marginalized groups.

Update Nov 12 2024 It seems the author was actually not actually Native American, and had been pretending so I don't feel comfortable keeping my previous rating.

Four months ago Penelope Skinner threw a book at her fellow author Neil Storm's head during a panel at a book festival. She was totally justified in her actions as he is a bestselling horror author who is a sell out when it comes to writing authentic Indigenous Fiction. Her actions left her place vulnerable in publishing and she hasn't been able to write since.

Lucky for her, her friend invites her on a writing retreat at a castle in picturesque Scotland. Of course it is too good to be true, she is now forced to interact with Neil. Neil has also been struggling with his writing since Penelope filled his with self doubt but calling his writing soulless.

The writing retreat quickly turns into their worst nightmares, not only are they stuck with each other they end up dealing with real ghosts who seem to only be haunting them. They even find themselves in a situation where they almost kiss and it leaves them both rethinking everything they knew about each other and their feelings.

I love that were are finally starting to get more indigenous authors and stories in the romance genre. This has a nice balance of romance and paranormal elements. I also loved seeing so much discussion about indigenous identity and representation. It was a fun story and the chemistry was there but some of the ghost storyline didn't fully sell me. Overall it was a great debut from the author.

I just want to.
Start off by saying that I was so looking forward to this book.The cover, the name, the synopsis... Everything drew me in and I really thought I was going to love it.
However, that was not the case! I hate to say it, but this was a snooze fest. I can't tell you how many times I fell asleep while trying to read this book. It honestly took me so long to just finish it because I didn't want to dnf it, and at the end of it I wish I just would have because it felt like a waste of my time.

The idea to mix horror with a rom-com in my opinion was a great idea. However, this was just not executed well. The romance was boring and toxic to be quite
frank (the fmc literally assaults the mmc at the beginning of the book and then when she's canceled she gaslights him and tries to make him out to be the problem when she's really just awful). Also, the horror elements just were not exciting and had a very unsatisfying ending to it all. At about 70% through I was actually pretty interested, but then the ending just kind of ruined it for me and it just felt like it took forever to read that last twenty percent of the book.

On top of all of this, it recently came out that the author colby wilkins has been lying about being a bipoc author. She's been claiming to have Native American heritage, and all of this has been debunked. So she's been lying this whole time to help promote herself and her book. I found this out after I finished the book, but with that being said, I will not continue to support this author.

Thank you to NETGALLEY and the publisher for an E-ARC in exchange for my honest review!

An enemies to lovers romance with a spooky twist where two feuding writers Penelope Skinner and a Neil Storm end up on a writers retreat together at a haunted castle in Scotland. I enjoyed seeing the twists and turns they went through. This is a new Author to me and seems to be their debut book. I received a copy of this book and am voluntarily leaving a review.

I will not be reviewing this book due to the author's recent controversy and the fact that the FMC assaults the MMC.

Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the E-ARC.

Thank you to NetGalley and the Publisher for the ARC of If I Stopped Haunting You, in exchange for an honest review.

"In 'If I Ever Stopped Haunting You', Colby Wilkens brings together two Indigenous writers at a haunted Scottish castle for a writers' retreat. The enemies-to-lovers dynamic between Pen our FMC and Neil our MMC adds tension to the story, although the romantic moments felt somewhat forced. The spooky atmosphere and gradual buildup of haunting in the castle were genuinely eerie and captivating. While the execution fell slightly short of expectations, the book offers valuable insights into the challenges faced by Indigenous authors in the writing world.
Additionally, the secondary characters, Laszlo and Daniela, added depth to the narrative.

Overall, 'If I Ever Stopped Haunting You' is a promising read that combines elements of romance, horror, and social commentary."
This was a 3.75 Stars read for me!

This was quite simply not the romance book that it promised. I was super uncomfortable reading this one and then a ton came out about the author PRETENDING to be native. What on earth?

But the romance was so weird. Like I was immediately put off when one of them threw something at the other unprovoked during a work event. A work event. The dialogue is also so juvenile and weird which made me so uncomfortable in a romance book. Just no.

I had really high hopes for this book based on the blurb. While I thought the story was fine, it just didn't live up to the expectations I had for it.

This book was an interesting premise but the author's conduct makes it hard to separate the art from the artist

This book was just okay for me. I didn’t hate it, but I didn’t love it either. There was just too much going on. Was it a mystery? Was it a romance? Was it both? I feel like it had a bit of an identity crisis. The main characters were okay. They started out as enemies, and that usually leads to the spicier romances, which it did, but I wasn’t convinced that they one hundred percent were into each other. And the supporting characters were just there - they didn’t impress me much.

To be honest, I never really got over the fact that the heroine physically assaulted the hero to the point of drawing blood within the first chapter. It was a tough sell after that, and it was difficult to get into the romance.

This was okay, not my favorite. I love a steamy romance with a mystery included, but I felt like the plot was choppy and there was a lot of depth lacking as to why the ghosts were haunting the place? I think I just had a hard time fully committing to the plot of the story, although I did love the characters!

I will not be reviewing this book due to the recent information that has come to light about Colby's Indigenous background.

I started this title and was disappointed to see the heroine throw a book at the hero's head in the first scene. I don't think a book would ever have been published where the hero did this to heroine. I took a break and was going to come back to see if the incident was addressed well but other reviews have addressed the issue and said it was not so I don't believe this book will be for me. I have also been disappointed by how the author reacted to the recent allegations against her.

On the one hand, I enjoyed IF I STOPPED HAUNTING YOU. The banter was fun, it was sexy as hell, and I loved the spooky castle setting. On the other hand, I can't support a book written by someone who claims to be an Indigenous author when they're not an Indigenous author, especially given that related issues are heavily discussed in the novel between the two Indigenous main characters. I've read through the report Tribal Alliance Against Frauds put out and it seems like Wilkens genuinely didn't know she wasn't of Cherokee and Choctaw descent, at least based on what was written there. However, I feel like you should do your homework if you're going to make such a lineage claim. In this day and age, there's no excuse for ignorance on either Wilkens' or St. Martin's Press' part. Wilkens and St. Martin's should take a note from the novel and re-release IF I STOPPED HAUNTING YOU without the Indigenous elements.

So I ended up DNFing this in chapter 4. The characters are too whiney and blame everything on their ethnicity instead of taking responsibility for their actions.

I'm of two minds about this one--on the one hand, I enjoyed IF I STOPPED HAUNTING YOU. The banter was fun, it was sexy as hell, and I loved the spooky castle setting. On the other hand, I can't support a book written by someone who claims to be an Indigenous author when they're not an Indigenous author, especially given that related issues are heavily discussed in the novel between the two main characters who are Indigenous. I've read through the report Tribal Alliance Against Frauds put out and it seems like Wilkens genuinely didn't know she wasn't of Cherokee and Choctaw descent, at least based on what was written there. However, I feel like you should do your homework if you're going to make such a lineage claim. In this day and age, there's no excuse for ignorance on either Wilkens' or St. Martin's Press' part. Wilkens and St. Martin's should take a note from the novel and re-release IF I STOPPED HAUNTING YOU without the Indigenous elements. F*ck the colonizers.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

This is the first time I’ve found the FMC so terrible I haven’t made it past the Prologue. Combined with the controversy surrounding the author at this time it’s a dnf from me.

An author who identifies as Native American has been called out by a research group who claim she has “no genealogical connection” to any indigenous tribe.

I can't support this author with a review.