This book was such a real and raw look at situationships and how those “non-official” relationships can really affect you. Alissa really captures what it’s like to go through. It was a quick read that made me feel lots of feelings.

I was so excited to read this book after seeing it on Tik Tok; but unfortunately it didn't grab my attention and the story was just meh.

I spent most of the book wishing Sloane would find a therapist and Ethan would find a new apartment.

Call It What You Want explores the complexities of a situationship between Sloane and Ethan. While the premise is engaging, the plot can feel predictable and somewhat repetitive. It would have been more compelling to see a deeper exploration of their initial connection and understand why they keep returning to each other. The characters also feel a bit underdeveloped, leaving their motivations and backstories vague. As a result, the story feels like it’s missing some emotional depth and insight into who they truly are.

This is a good book. The two main characters are Sloane and Ethan. They meet their senior year of college. There is an instant attraction. They date. They go weeks and then meet up. Shane tries to explain why this is not working. Ethan breaks up with her. They graduated from college and break up once again after trying to do long distance. They each have issues but somehow don’t seem to make it.

I truly have zero idea what the point of this book was and have so many problems with it's execution... Do I love books set in NYC? YES, but it's painfully obvious that the author has never lived there herself or did research on the lifestyle or culture, because all of the descriptions and geography where wrong. Beyond these errors that I tried to resend a blind eye to, the characters were awful. I hated them. Zero redeemable qualities. Ethan and Sloane lacked any sliver of chemistry and the conversations were pretentious, whiny and repetitive. Their dynamic was extremely problematic. On top of the fact that I therefore didn't care about the characters, I'm pretty sure an editor was nowhere near this book before publication. Grammatical errors on every other page, typos, and the inconsistencies throughout made my head hurt. 250 pages too long... This read like a high schooler writing fanfiction about every other NYC romance ever written.

I know this booked was hyped up on tiktok a lot and other platforms and there are a lot of mixed reviews however I really enjoyed this one!

It felt very relatable and was an absolute rollercoaster of a book!

I was really hoping for a happy ending and that's not the author's fault. The characters were alright, and I found myself more annoyed at them throughout the book.

Hmmm...

I think I only finished this because it was a short read, but this lacked everything for me.

No. This book was not it. I had high hopes but it wasn’t as good as I thought it would be. There was no chemistry and the format did not suit me.

Based on the buzz surrounding this book, I was expecting an amazing read. Unfortunately, it didn’t live up to the hype.

i. The Plot:

The concept had potential, but the execution missed the mark. The plot was incredibly repetitive, making it feel like I was reading the same thing over and over. I understood the message the author was trying to convey, but it got lost in endless circles. There was also a noticeable lack of backstory, which left me feeling frustrated and disconnected. It felt like a case of "been there, done that."

ii. The Characters:

After 250 pages of the same repetitive content, I was hoping for some character growth—but it never really came...

Sloane: I can’t defend her actions. She made the same mistake three times and never learned from it. I understand she had an idealized version of Ethan in her mind, but that excuse only goes so far. Her behavior became contradictory, and she ended up feeling like a walking contradiction.

Ethan: I couldn’t stand him. If you’re aware that you have issues and can’t commit to a relationship, fine, at least you’re self-aware. But to repeatedly hurt people like he did? Unacceptable.

I could recommend this book to someone who has been through a similar situation and might connect with it more than I did. There were some good moments, but overall, it just wasn’t for me. This could just be because I haven't been through a similar situation.

It just wasn’t my cup of tea.

So first off this was an amazing book! I remember reading the indie version about two summers ago and just crying my eyes out at how emotional the story was and how it resonated with the situation I was going through at the time. If I could gives this book a million starts I would!

I wanted to like this book but it was just so hard to do so when the main character keeps going back to someone when they deserve better. I prefer to read about characters who value their self worth and learn from toxic relationships and grow from them rather than keep going back for more.

look, if you have been in a toxic, heartbreaking and disappointing situationship then this book will hit you right in all the bruises of your past. But sadly, overall this book did not hit the mark, the plot was lost and the characters didn’t feel like they had too much chemistry. I really had high hopes for this read, but ended up falling flat for me.

Pulled at my heartstrings and it was so relateable. I can’t wait for my friends to read this so I can talk to them about it.

This had so much potential but didn't deliver. I found the writing clunky and the characters lacked chemistry. Maybe I just hadn't been in a situation like Sloane's but the book fell flat for me.

3⭐️

Sloane, sweetie, I want to hold your hand when I tell you this… THAT MAN DOESN’T LIKE YOU!

Alissa perfectly captured college/postgrad life and situationships too well. The dialogue was so natural that I easily flew through this one (once I was in the mood to read through the characters immature decision making). I recommend this for young adults or someone wanting to relive those painful moments before their frontal lobe fully developed.

Thanks to the publishers for the e-arc!

very nice book, it took me a little to adapt to the pacing but i was very engajed with the story. nice overview of breakups and relathionships, the friends are a great part of why and how we love the main carachter
nice experience, thank you

vlw pela cópia, mas nesse momento era melhor nao ter me submetido a essa leitura pq

avaliar este livro com 1⭐não é suficiente, eu preciso entrar no livro e meter um socão na cara da sloane pra ela esquecer um homem que não quer nada contigo, sõ te comer e etc, depois pegar a autora pela mao e mandar ela pra terapia...

ah, e por favor, paremos de criar prota que tudo envolve a joça do mundo dela

esse livro foi a propria tortura!!

não recomendo e sinto muito pelo titulo ser uma musica da taylor swift, ela nao merecia estar ligada com essa farofada horrosa

Wow. Any girl going Through a heartbreak needs to read this. It’s amazing. I ended my 2 year relationship 6+ months ago. I’m healed 100% but reading this I related so much to this book and the girl I was 6 months ago.