Member Reviews

This is a must read book for honestly all early teens and is also a great guide for parents on knowing how to approach sensitive topics such as sex and sexual safety and the wider connotations of consent with their kids.
This includes everything from:
-consent (not just sexually but say for doctors, basic physical content and touching disabled peoples aids)
-difference between consent and agency
-setting boundaries
-trusted networks
-how to recognise grooming
-impacts of power dynamics, porn and unsafe situations
-how isms and phobias can impact consent
-affirmative consent
-code words
-boundaries about when and where is appropriate to talk about bodies

Filled with resources for all diverse individuals and diverse rep throughout including gender (including intersex), disability (including neurodivergent), race and more this was a truly inclusive book and a vital modern resource that more people should have access to.

Was this review helpful?

I really wanted to rate this book higher, but despite how important the topic is and how much I appreciate the care in showcasing diversity and intersectionality, there were aspects of the execution that threw me. It felt like it was trying to appeal to young kids through the illustrations as they're mostly of elementary school children, not pre-teens or teenagers. But even when it was defining words, the definitions used a higher level of vocabulary than I think would make much sense to an eight year old. I know many people may have concerns about the content itself being too mature, but I definitely err on the knowledge is power and safety side, so I appreciated that it tried to break those concepts down. I unfortunately think the writing itself was at a higher level than the age group it appears to be marketed for.

I also found some assertions to be a bit one-sided and limiting. One example was the concept of "negative" in asserting no one has the right to speak negatively about another person. There was no description as to what negative entails, or acknowledgement of the nuance between actively saying hurtful things to/about someone in a way that harms them or other's opinions of them, versus possibly holding someone accountable for their own behaviors or simply being allowed to not like someone else.

There was a ton of necessary and impactful information shared in this book, the illustrations conveyed their messages clearly and were well done.

Was this review helpful?

This is the kind of book probably everyone should read. It discusses consent in kid friendly ways, but is short and interesting enough that even an adult can get something out of it. I especially like the discussion of how consent is an everyday occurrence, and applies to everyone. This includes kids who might not want a hug or a person who might not like a joke.

Overall very good and important book.

Was this review helpful?

This book is INCREDIBLE! I have nieces, nephews, cousins, and a little sister that are all in this age range and I am ecstatic that this book exists. So many good points! So many good topics! I even cried during parts of it thinking about impact this book could have if every young child and preteen had an adult who was willing to have these conversations with them.

Pros:
- Age appropriate
- Impactful content
- Well written and engaging
- Good illustrations / impactful illustrations
- Important and relatable topics
- Real and usable tips for kids / preteens

Suggestions for improvement:
- It would be nice to have a discussion guide / FAQ section for parents. Maybe a section with tips on how to approach these topics for the first time.

Overall, it's an absolute A+ and I've already pre-ordered it.

Was this review helpful?

"The Every Body Book of Consent" is an exceptional resource for children, skillfully navigating the complex topic of consent with clarity and sensitivity. Through its inclusive and descriptive language, this book provides valuable insights into boundaries and respect, making it particularly beneficial for neurodiverse children, including those who are autistic.

With its engaging narrative and vibrant illustrations, "The Every Body Book of Consent" captures the attention of young readers while effectively conveying the importance of understanding and honoring personal boundaries. By utilizing concrete examples and relatable scenarios, the book empowers children to recognize and communicate their own boundaries while also fostering empathy and respect for the boundaries of others.

What sets this book apart is its thoughtful approach to inclusivity, ensuring that all children, regardless of their neurodiversity or background, feel seen and understood. By acknowledging and addressing the unique challenges that autistic children may face in understanding consent, the book creates a supportive and inclusive learning environment where every child can thrive.

Overall, "The Every Body Book of Consent" is a valuable resource that not only educates children about the principles of consent but also promotes empathy, understanding, and respect. It is a testament to the power of inclusive storytelling in fostering a culture of consent and mutual respect from an early age.

Was this review helpful?

This was a great primer on introducing the concept of consent to kids! It would be appropriate for late elementary (probably with an adult) and middle school ages. It gives some great practical examples and suggests some practice activities. The illustrations were great as well!

Was this review helpful?

Really useful for a child I’m working with who struggles to understand personal space and consent.
The language is very helpful and, while it will need some adaptation for our specific situation and the age of my pupils, this will be an invaluable resource for us to help explain consent to them.
Thank you!

Was this review helpful?

This book covers several aspects of consent, is inclusive, up-to-date and relevant.
It is a great guide for adults and has practical information to guide conversations about consent and bodies with your family.
The illustrations are informative and have a non-offensive look, which can be used to talk about consent with children.
The information and tips offer guidance for all ages, though some parts of the book mention sex, hence the caution with younger children while reading this book. Yet, the language about sex is entirely appropriate and to-the-point. For older kids, this is a wonderful book. With younger ones, it is best to discuss the age-suitable parts of the book with them.
I am glad this book exists. It helps you start, facilitate and improve discussions about consent.

Was this review helpful?

A really important book that I will be using with the children I teach. I think that this book will be good with children across primary school because it could be adapted to teach children of different ages.

Was this review helpful?

An unwanted hug, a forced kiss at the end of a date, and a secret shared by a close friend are all examples of nonconsensual acts that a person might experience in their life. Rachel E. Simon writes for adolescents learning about body autonomy and the power of their 'yes' and their 'no' in this powerful book.

Intended to be read alongside a trusted adult, this book covers a variety of situations where an individual gives consent and what that can look like. This book includes a range of body types and abilities, diverse gender and sexuality representation, and definitions of topics including 'neurodivergent' and 'transphobia'. This book includes examples of what to say in situations where boundaries have been crossed, these examples can be particularly valuable to those on the spectrum and others who 'script' what they say in different situations.

This book explains how consent does not only apply in sexual situations, though it can. The author writes about the different ways consent can be given, that it can be revoked at any time, and that a 'maybe' doesn't always mean yes. This book encourages readers to understand that 'no' is a complete sentence and that their words have power. It touches on topics such as grooming and pornography in a tasteful way that encourages readers to talk to a trusted adult if they or a friend are in an unsafe situation.

This book has beautiful, diverse illustrations that show an array of individuals in situations where consent can be given. The illustrations are appropriate and show a variety of ages. The illustrations fit in well to break up the text and show examples.

This is a lovely book and I will be recommending it to parents who are asking for books about consent, body autonomy, and adolescence. 5/5 stars!

Was this review helpful?

As both a parent and a therapist, I love this book! I think it will be a valuable resource for families and professionals to help open communication with children and young teens about these important and often unaddressed topics.

Parents ideally should review this book prior to giving it to the child so they know what their child is reading and/or read the book with the child to discuss questions and concerns the child might have.

The book is well written for the target audience, the images and layout is easy to navigate and catchy.

Was this review helpful?

This is a really great way to open up and have ongoing conversations with 8-12 year olds regarding bodily consent and different bodies. It can be a difficult topic, especially if someone is unused to it and parents/guardians of middle age children might find this very helpful.

Was this review helpful?

I think this is such an important book and I wish this had been around when I was a pre teen. I liked that it discussed consent in ways that aren't just sexual and that it encouraged conversation between children and their parents as well as amongst their friends as well. I liked how open this book was whilst discussing puberty and sexuality and how it didn't make them seem like shameful subjects.

My only minor complaint is that I felt some of the illustrations felt slightly too young for the target demographic and this contrasted with the mature subject matter being discussed.

Overall I think this is a very important book and definitely something all schools should have available in their libraries.

Was this review helpful?

super cute children's themed book with lots of representation for different types of people and how important all kinds of consent are

Was this review helpful?

Really well written.
The topics covered are amazing. A super inclusive and informative book.

I especially liked that it covered keeping secrets as it is something k feel strongly about.

The pictures are lovely and it’s definitely a book I will buy to keep at home for future!

Was this review helpful?

What an amazing book. This book should be a staple in every household. It is respectful of gender, sexuality, religion and disability. The language and illustrations used are very inclusive.

The message of this book is SO important. And very well done. Broken off into smaller categories and building onto each other this book gives the right kind of information about what consent is and how it looks. That it's more, way more than saying yes to sexual activity!

There is a special few pages with a focus on consent & disability. And some important lessons are taught:
- A mobility aid like a wheelchair is an extention of ones body and should not be touched without consent
- You should not 'help' a disabled person without being asked to do so

Beyond that it talked about clear communication. Especially clear verbal communication when interacting with a neurodivergent person who may not be good at reading non-verbal cues. Also be mindful of people with a learning disability. They may not always understand. So be as clear and precise as possible and give them the time to process!

I love this book. And hope it will be translated into many languages so even more people can teach (their) children all about consent!

Was this review helpful?

This should be required reading for everybody!!!
Consent can be such a hard concept for people to grasp. This book makes it easy for kids and parents to understand.
I’ve been very lucky to have a daughter who has taught her brothers about consent. So they understand now that you must always ask even if it’s just a hug. In today’s society this is a very important concept for our boys to understand!

Was this review helpful?

Very well written and informative! I recommend everyone to read this book! The title wasn’t lying when it said Every Body!! Thank you to netgalley for letting me read it early!

Was this review helpful?

It was a great read and I really wish I read something like this when I was younger and didn't know how to properly stand up for myself or say no in uncomfortable situations. I believe it is a very helpful book and should be read by everyone.

Was this review helpful?

#TheEveryBodyBookofConsent #NetGalley

This book was very well-written and amazingly inclusive, but a lot to take in.
This is definitely a comprehensive book about different forms of consent. It is well written but almost overwhelming with information. The drawings seem a bit juvenile (almost for little kids) but the language leans more towards teenagers. This issue could be solved by using less cartoon-style drawings, not using any images at all, or minimal images. However, I will say that I really appreciated how diverse the illustrations were, and that's a small but big detail that is good for readers to observe.

I think tweens (11-12 yr olds), and even some teens, would get overwhelmed with the vocab dump that this book unloads. Maybe reading it in sections and pausing to discuss would be the best plan for getting the most out of this book. Although, it was perfect that there was a glossary with definitions of more complex words/topics in the back of the book.

The talk about consent with jokes around certain people felt rigid. I think it could have been written with a more dialectical stance. The author mentions jokes that are not okay, nonconsensual, etc, but never mentions a way to joke in a better way, consensually, or respectfully. I think this could potentially make readers (especially younger readers) scared to joke with their friends for fear of crossing a line, but some things could be added to find a good middle ground for joking.

I appreciate the talk of consent in the most basic sense, rather than just being sexual in nature. This book should definitely be read with a trusted adult available for the questions it will inevitably conjure. Kudos on including LGBTQ+, pronouns, as well as physical and mental disabilities when it comes to consent as well.

Was this review helpful?