Member Reviews
I received this book in exchange for an honest review.
Men Have Called Her Crazy is not the gossipy, tell-all book that I think some people are expecting. Mentions of Anna's ex-husband basically are - she was married, she got divorced, addiction was a factor, it devastated her. Nothing you don't already know if you're familiar with either of them. But I think this makes for a stronger, better work. I found this book compulsively readable - Anna's way with words is really phenomenal, and does a great job of diving into the complexities around mental health, the patriarchy, and mental health treatment under the patriarchy. Highly recommend it for any fans of "I'm Glad My Mom Died," "What My Bones Know," or "Wild."
Unfortunately I think readers will be disappointed to learn that this is not a juicy tell-all. A certain famous ex-husband is not mentioned by name, nor any details of their marriage or divorce is divulged. However, this memoir is profound, riveting, and still an interesting peek into an artist who is dealing with anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation. Tendler's first foray into publishing is commendable. Her prose is inviting and gorgeous, and I really enjoyed the way the book was laid out. The journey the reader goes on with her checking into a mental hospital in early 2021, and looking back at various relationships with men that she is re-evaluating, is nothing shocking or groundbreaking, but it is quietly beautiful.