So, I went in with an open mind, I wanted to like this, I was hoping this would be an awesome resource for women but alas, it is not. First page is about losing weight which... is not permission to self love... and the answer is "walk with correct purpose". Then it goes on to say that you might poop yourself so really think about whether you want your partner with you.... and respect his wishes if he doesn't want to be there. He might not see you as sexual anymore, "worst case scenario you become his mother"... sooooo I didn't get a ton further, I did some skimming and found really nothing of interest. I didn't care for the writing style or sentence structure. Friends, pick better partners, and don't listen to a word in this book. I'm not sure why this person thought they had enough expertise in any of the chapter topics to write a book but I am here to tell you they do not.