What I found interesting in this book is a detailed scientific explanation of the differences between boys and girls. We all know that they are fundamentally different. As a teacher, I can attest to a lot of the behaviors that naturally define the two. This book gets more into the hows and the whys of these differences. It also emphasizes that while these differences do exist, they are slight tendencies and can vary from person to person, so please do not think of it as being sexist. It also notes that these differences do not excuse any poor behavior of any kind.

It also cites several studies that have been done over the last several decades. Yes, you can find studies to back up just about anything that you want. Along with the research studies are several case studies and other examples of typical situations and how to handle them. It speaks to both dads and moms, whose approaches are going to naturally vary from each other. Lots of letters from readers of previous editions are sprinkled without, sharing how the information has helped them within their lives.

Topics cover the entire span of childhood, both in the home and in school. It does seem to cater to the more traditional family, with a father and a mother both present in the child's life. Many of the studies come from Australia or Great Britain. In theory, these should still apply to the US, but there may be some slight cultural differences. Still, an interesting read.

There are some good suggestions and ideas in this book. I enjoyed reading the information and found it to be insightful. I enjoy books like this because I believe parents can gain a lot by considering other's ideas and experiences when raising their children.